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Release Date: 04/19/2023

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with young wives. Sponsor Thanks to , a Christian marital aid and sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It...

Dealing with Your Gag Reflex (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.

Fostering Sexual Attraction

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

When we talk about romantic attraction, we think of personal charm, visual appeal, and that spark of chemistry when a certain person is near. But for today's episode, consider this scientific one from Merriam-Webster, defining attraction as "a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation." We're not just particles, but we want to be drawn toward our husband and to resist separation from him (and vice versa). But attraction doesn't stay the same over the whole of our marriage. Today, we talk about how we can keep attraction...

Learn About His Body (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.

What's So Great About Sex?

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

You've probably heard that sex is good for your husband or good for your marriage, but what about you? We share our thoughts on what's so great about sex for WIVES. Listen in! Sponsor Thanks to , a Christian sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun. Ecclesiastes 8:15 (NKJV) So God created mankind in his own image, in the...

Undress for Your Husband (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

In this week's sex tip, Chris talks about undressing for your husband as a sort of foreplay that helps both of you.

Sex Drive & Genetics, Erectile Problems, and Missing Sleep for Sex (Listener Questions)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Today, we tackle listener questions about whether low sex drive might be genetic, as well as how to address lack of desire; dealing with a husband's erectile problems; and what to do about a husband who disrupts a wife's sleep for sex. Sponsor Sex Chat Special: Order , get Lip Balm for free! Enter code FCWSPRING at checkout (through March 31, 2024). From the Bible Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Song of Songs 2:7, 3:5, 8:4 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. Colossians 3:19 Resources Donate to Our Ministry . Thanks for joining us at the...

Quickie: Learn About Your Body

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's Sex Chat Quickie is about learning about your own body.

Prioritizing Sex

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

What does it mean to prioritize sex? What does that look like in a real-life marriage, especially in a real-life marriage and when there are obstacles to sexual intimacy? From the Bible Do not deprive one another—except when you agree for a time, to devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again; otherwise, Satan may tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:5 (CSB) Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom—...

Ask Your Spouse (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

We're launching a new feature of the Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast—Sex Chat Quickies! On the weeks between our full-length episodes, one of our hosts will bring you a quick sex tip. This week's tip is what to ask your husband.

More Episodes

In this episode, we tackle listener questions, including where Christian wives can find sex tips and techniques, fantasizing during lovemaking, when it's okay to refuse sex, and how to grab hold of an elusive orgasm.

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From the Bible

Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 (NASB)

Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But I say this as a concession, not as a commandment. 1 Corinthians 7:3-6 (NKJV) - but see the definition and examples for deprivation HERE

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus)
Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

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