No Desire, Wedding Night Preparation, and Can't Reach Climax (Listener Questions)
Release Date: 07/25/2025
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From the Bible
That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. Genesis 2:24
Resources
- Episode 209: Pursuing Sexual Growth
- Intimacy Mentoring - Honeycomb & Spice
- Email Chris about Intimacy Mentoring
- Episode 191: What Is Sexual Betrayal and How Can You Address It?
- Build True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time by Dan Drake, Joanna Raabsmith, and Matthew Raabsmith
- The Intimacy Pyramid
- Sensate Focus Therapy | Cornell Health
- Everything You Need to Know About Sensate Focus Touch by Linda Weiner, LCSW | YouTube
- Sexual Clarity for Christian Women • Strong Wives
- Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slattery
- God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery
- Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships by Dr. Carol Tanksley
- Why Isn't Sex Like What You See in Movies? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Episode 146: The Spectrum of Sexual Desire - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay – ONLY $5!
- Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
- Episode 231: Choosing a Lube (Quickie)
- Virgin Bride Guidebook: Wedding Night Answers by Bonny Logsdon Burns
- Preparing for the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Wedding Night Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- What I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Sex for the Clueless Bride - The Marriage Bed
- Sex for the Clueless Groom - The Marriage Bed
- How Menopause Impacts Your Sex Life - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Mindfulness & Meditation During Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Bezwecken – DHEA Oval Suppositories
- Bezwecken OstaDerm-V Crème (Vaginal Dryness & Menopausal Atrophy Vaginitis Support)
- Help For Vaginal Dryness • Bonny's Oysterbed7 (with more about DHEA)
- Dealing with Vulvovaginal Atrophy without Hormones | The Forgiven Wife
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