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Release Date: 10/02/2025

How Often Do Men Really Think About Sex?

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Many wives have heard that men think about sex nearly all the time. But do they? We tackle this important question, because it influences what we think about men, sexuality, and challenges in our marriage. Sponsor Through story-centered counseling and coaching for individuals and couples, helps you move beyond surface solutions into real healing and lasting change. Check them out! From the Bible Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. Romans 8:5...

Battling Bedroom Boredom (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about what to do when your bedroom is a little boring. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Related post:

Bible Verses That Helped Our Sexual Growth

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

We've often said that the Bible has a lot to say about sexuality. But which passages made a big difference in our lives? Bonny, J, and Chris start off the new year discussing Bible verses that helped our sexual growth. Sponsor has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out! From the Bible Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor...

Setting Goals for Your Sexuality (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's quickie is from J. Parker about setting goals for healthy, God-designed sexuality in 2026 and beyond. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Related post: *** We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker

Holiday PIES Christmas Gift Guide

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

As usual, we’re wrapping up the year with our annual Christmas gift guide. We're joined by friend and supporter Linda Thwing (pronounced twing) as we share ideas that can deepen your intimacy in four areas: physical, intellectual/creative, emotional, and spiritual. Sponsor is a Christian-friendly sex toy store, with a nudity-free, marriage-focused environment; discreet billing and shipping; and fast, free shipping on orders >$100. Save 13% during their Black Friday Sale with coupon code BF25! From the Bible Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7 The...

De-Stress the Holidays (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with tips on how to de-stress the holidays for your own sake and for your marriage. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! _____ We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker

Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Today, we’re tackling some tough listener questions. We're joined by Tara Buchanan, good friend and cohost of the Behind Our Smiles podcast. Sponsor It's here! Order the Sexual Desire Differences Masterclass and get the video, a resource list, and an invitation to participate in tonight's (Thursday, November 13, 2025) Live Q&A session with Bonny and J at 7:00pm eastern! . From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13 I am a wall, and my breasts...

Feel More Sensual (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

What a treat today! Gaye Christmus, our former cohost, shares five practical ways to feel more sensual. Be sure to check out her website and shop. ________ We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker

Sex Is For You Too, Two

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Today, we're highlighting one of our favorite episodes ever! Featuring the OG gang, we address that sex is for wives too and how to embrace it! Sponsor Mismatched desire in your marriage? Let’s talk about what it means, why it happens, and how to grow closer through it. Sign up for our new masterclass on today! From the Bible Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you— if you find my beloved, what will you tell him? Tell him I am faint with love. Song of Songs 5:18 Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us...

How to Kiss More ... and Better

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's quickie is from J. Parker about how to kiss more often in your marriage and improve the experience! Resources _____ We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker

More Episodes

Jess Seitz, occupational therapist and vaginismus recovery specialist, of Pain-Free Intimacy joins us to talk about how wives can address sexual pain they currently have or may have in the future.

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From the Bible

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3–4

I will praise You because I have been remarkably and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, and I know this very well. Psalm 139:14 (HCSB)

I remain confident of this:
I will see the goodness of the Lord
in the land of the living.
Psalm 27:13
(the verse J couldn't think of in the moment!)

“I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten—
  the great locust and the young locust,
  the other locusts and the locust swarm—
my great army that I sent among you.
You will have plenty to eat, until you are full,
  and you will praise the name of the Lord your God,
  who has worked wonders for you;
never again will my people be shamed."
Joel 2:25–26

“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32

Resources

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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

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