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Why Distancing from Family is Part of Spiritual Awakening

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Release Date: 02/04/2025

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Episode Summary:
In this episode of ShelbyRADIO, we’re tackling a topic that hits close to home for many on the spiritual awakening journey: family. As the world shifts into 5D consciousness, many are feeling called to distance themselves from family or redefine what family truly means. But why is this happening? What lessons did family bring us in the past, and how do these dynamics change in the new energetic matrix of 5D?

Shelby dives deep into the soul contracts that govern family relationships, how they mirror karmic lessons, and why moving away from certain family members is often part of spiritual growth. Whether you're struggling with guilt over setting boundaries or seeking clarity on why your relationships feel misaligned, this episode will provide clarity, comfort, and actionable insights.


What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The role of family in 3D (the past energetic matrix) and why it often created cycles of control, guilt, and trauma.
  • How 5D consciousness is shifting the definition of family from obligation to alignment.
  • Why distancing yourself from family doesn’t mean abandonment but is part of soul growth.
  • How to know whether you should stay in family dynamics for growth or step away.
  • Tools and tips for navigating family transitions in the 5D journey.

Timestamps:

  • [00:00] - Intro: Welcome and why family dynamics are shifting in the awakening path.
  • [05:00] - Defining family in the 3D past matrix: Understanding family’s role in karmic lessons.
  • [15:00] - Moving into 5D consciousness: How family dynamics change in the new energetic paradigm.
  • [25:00] - When to stay or leave family dynamics: Signs you’ve learned the lesson or need distance.
  • [35:00] - Closing: Tools for navigating shifts and honoring your path.

Key Quotes:

  • “Family is where we first encounter soul lessons—but that doesn’t mean they’re meant to stay forever.”
  • “The 5D shift isn’t about cutting off family in anger—it’s about choosing relationships that align with your highest frequency.”
  • “Sometimes distance is the healing we need. We can love from afar and grow in peace.”

Resources Mentioned:

  • The Art of Process: 7 Secrets to Overcoming Adversity and Cultivating New Age Prosperity (Shelby’s book)
  • Expanding Consciousness Fundamentals course
  • Listen to related episodes on soul contracts and 5D growth on ShelbyRADIO.

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