462 - The top 5 things co-parents argue about and how to manage them
Release Date: 07/08/2025
470 - Navigating Father’s Day as a Single Mum
Single Mother Survival Guide
For many single mums, Father’s Day can feel less like a celebration and more like an emotional hurdle. It can bring up feelings of sadness, frustration, or even resentment (whether your children’s dad is still in their lives or completely absent). In this episode, I share gentle, practical ways to navigate the day: supporting your children’s emotions, caring for your own wellbeing, and finding an approach that works for your unique family situation. This is about allowing yourself to feel what you feel, while showing up in a way that feels aligned for you and your kids. Links mentioned...
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469 - SMSG Turns 9!
Single Mother Survival Guide
This week, my podcast turns 9 years old – can you believe it?! When I started Single Mother Survival Guide, I hoped it might reach one or two single mums and help them feel less alone. Now, nearly a million downloads later, I’m pinching myself. This episode is extra special because it’s also my first time recording in 2025, after taking some time off to welcome my beautiful baby boy, Sebastian, in February (on my birhday). In this episode, I share big life updates – from moving back to Sydney and celebrating Christmas, to my baby shower, a trip to Tasmania, catching COVID,...
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468 - Disneyland dads and the fun parent trap - Why stability trumps spectacle
Single Mother Survival Guide
As single mums, life often feels like a balancing act. On one hand, you’re the loving, nurturing parent your children need. On the other, you might feel pressure to become the “fun parent” they want. Throw co-parenting into the mix - especially with an ex who takes on the role of the Disneyland Dad, prioritising fun over routine - and that balance can feel impossible to maintain. But here’s the truth: being the fun parent isn’t all it’s made out to be. In this episode, we dive into why competing to be the “fun parent” isn’t the answer, how the role of a Disneyland Dad impacts...
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467 - Seeking professional help when dealing with a high-conflict ex
Single Mother Survival Guide
Navigating life as a single mum can feel overwhelming, especially when dealing with the added complexities of a high-conflict relationship. Whether it’s managing co-parenting with a difficult ex or processing the emotional toll of separation, it’s easy to feel stuck. In this episode, we explore how therapy and coaching can empower single mums to reclaim control, build resilience, and create a more peaceful environment for themselves and their children. If you’re curious about whether professional guidance could help you, this episode breaks down the transformative benefits it can offer....
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466 - The myth of the perfect single mum
Single Mother Survival Guide
In a world dominated by social media and its endless stream of "perfect" parenting snapshots, the pressure on single mums to meet impossible standards can be overwhelming. Juggling work, parenting, and emotional well-being often leaves little room for anything else - and that’s okay. This episode breaks down why the idea of the "perfect mum" is a myth and explores how letting go of perfectionism can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life. Tune in for practical advice on embracing your imperfections and focusing on what truly matters: showing up for your kids and yourself with love and...
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465 - Why blaming your ex is holding you back
Single Mother Survival Guide
Divorce and separation can leave us grappling with overwhelming emotions - hurt, betrayal, and anger being just a few. In these difficult moments, blame might feel like a natural reaction, providing a sense of clarity or closure. However, staying stuck in a cycle of blame - whether directed at your ex, circumstances, or even yourself - can act as a barrier to your healing. This episode dives deep into why blame keeps you from moving forward, how to release it, and how to replace it with a mindset focused on growth and resilience. Tune in for practical tips on embracing personal responsibility...
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464 - Parallel parenting 101
Single Mother Survival Guide
Co-parenting can feel like an uphill battle, especially when communication with your ex is consistently tense or unproductive. Enter parallel parenting - a strategy designed to protect your peace, prioritise your children, and reduce direct conflict with the other parent. In this episode, we explore the core principles of parallel parenting, how it differs from traditional co-parenting, and practical steps to implement this method successfully. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed trying to co-parent, this episode is for you. Links mentioned in the episode: Learn more about parallel...
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463 - Beating the mid-year slump: Strategies for staying energised and focused
Single Mother Survival Guide
The middle of the year can feel overwhelming. The initial excitement of new goals has faded, and the reality of juggling work, parenting, and healing from divorce feels heavier. You may even find yourself questioning how you’ll get through the rest of the year. But here’s the truth: a mid-year slump is the perfect moment for reflection and recalibration. In this episode, I share actionable steps to pause, reassess, and recharge your energy, ensuring you approach the second half of the year with clarity and strength. Links mentioned in the episode: Don’t let the mid-year slump...
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462 - The top 5 things co-parents argue about and how to manage them
Single Mother Survival Guide
Co-parenting can be both rewarding and challenging, especially after separation or divorce. While the shared goal is to provide a stable, loving environment for your children, differences in parenting styles, schedules, or communication can lead to conflict. In this episode, I delve into the five most common areas where co-parents often disagree and provide practical tools to manage these issues effectively. By the end, you’ll feel more empowered to approach co-parenting with clarity, confidence, and a renewed focus on what’s best for your children. Links mentioned in the episode: ...
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461 - Mid-year reset - How to refocus and recharge your goals as a single mum
Single Mother Survival Guide
As the middle of the year approaches, it’s a natural time to pause and reflect. Maybe life hasn’t gone as planned, or perhaps the goals you set in January feel more like distant memories. As a single mum, it’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind and lose sight of the bigger picture. This episode is your invitation to embrace a mid-year reset. I’ll guide you through assessing your progress, recalibrating where needed, and reigniting the passion behind your goals. It’s never too late to make a fresh start, find clarity, and finish the year feeling accomplished and empowered. Links...
info_outlineCo-parenting can be both rewarding and challenging, especially after separation or divorce. While the shared goal is to provide a stable, loving environment for your children, differences in parenting styles, schedules, or communication can lead to conflict. In this episode, I delve into the five most common areas where co-parents often disagree and provide practical tools to manage these issues effectively. By the end, you’ll feel more empowered to approach co-parenting with clarity, confidence, and a renewed focus on what’s best for your children.
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