The Cost Of Stress In Your Primary Relationships with Dr. Gabor Maté - 498
Release Date: 05/07/2024
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SHOWNOTES
- What happens when Gabor’s wife forgets to pick him up at the airport. [8:30]
- How our partners are perfectly suited to help us grow. [10:35]
- What happened in Gabor’s childhood that makes his wife a perfect match for him now. [13:00]
- The long-term cost of not dealing with stress. [15:00]
- How parents can be compromised by raising their children. [17:30]
- The link between our relationship health and our physical and mental health. [19:30]
- What’s the best way to deal with our own relational and attachment issues? [29:00]
- Why relational healing modalities are so effective. [30:00]
- What we can learn from pygmy cultures about parenting and relationships. [32:30]
- How relationship can most effectively be taught to children. [34:00]
- The effect of Facebook and Internet on kids. [38:00]
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