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185 Validating Yourself

Smooth Stones-Find Yourself after Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Babyloss

Release Date: 03/20/2025

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Smooth Stones-Find Yourself after Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Babyloss

Today's Episode is a fiery one where I hold nothing back. A grief hot take if you will.  We explore the deeply personal journey through grief and the belief that healing is possible. I share my personal story of baby loss, including the hurdles faced during the mourning period, and offer a passionate counterview to the notion that grief remains static. By using relatable analogies and real-life examples, I emphasize the importance of holding onto hope and the idea that while grief never fully disappears, it becomes more manageable over time. This episode is a heartfelt message to anyone...

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In today's episode, I delve into three powerful strategies to help you stop overreacting, especially during times of grief. We'll explore understanding defensiveness, getting to know your grief, and recognizing that it's often not about you. These insights aim to provide practical steps to manage emotional responses, particularly for those dealing with the loss of a baby and the raw emotions that come with it. I'll also share personal analogies related to allergies and defensiveness, drawing a parallel to how our bodies sometimes overreact to harmless triggers, just like our emotions. Tune in...

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Smooth Stones-Find Yourself after Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Babyloss

In today's episode, I dive into how you can give back in honor of your baby and discuss the upcoming Embracing Mother's Day Challenge. I provide tips on how to give back and honor your baby, focusing on keeping it simple, listening to your heart, networking, and being unique. Whether you want to start a support group, organize a fundraiser, or create care packages, these tips will help you move forward and make a difference. I share personal stories and examples to inspire you to take action and bring your ideas to life. Listen in for practical advice and heartfelt encouragement on giving back...

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Smooth Stones-Find Yourself after Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Babyloss

In today's episode we"re going to dive deep into the topic of self-validation, offering practical tips on how to better understand and accept your emotions. From increasing your emotional vocabulary to letting yourself be human, I discuss the importance of not judging your feelings and learning to talk to yourself kindly. By becoming more confident in your grief and emotional state, you can improve your relationships and feel more connected. If you'd like personalized help navigating your emotions, please feel free to reach out and join my coaching sessions. Plus I have an exciting new program...

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In this episode I reflect on my journey of rebuilding self-trust following the loss of my daughter Lauren, who would have turned 12 today. I share personal stories about the grief milestones I've encountered and how embracing these experiences has helped me grow stronger. I talk about engaging in meaningful activities, such as service projects, that have provided solace and connection throughout my grieving process. I emphasize the importance of recognizing and celebrating the small wins, loving yourself where you are, and allowing moments of hardship to build character and resilience....

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Smooth Stones-Find Yourself after Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Babyloss

In this episode, I talk about how life has been really busy, but I'm excited to be back with new content. Today, I'm sharing 10 ways to keep going despite dealing with grief, particularly related to miscarriage, stillbirth, and other forms of loss. We discuss the importance of just getting through the day, and learning continuously. We'll explore how keeping a compelling reason in mind, such as living children, can help you push forward, and the joy found in serving others and building a community. I also touch upon the unexpected benefits of unhealthy coping mechanisms and the healing power...

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In this heartfelt episode, Amy sits down with her client, Summer, to discuss the profound journey they've shared through multiple miscarriages. Summer reflects on her experiences of loss, the lessons she learned from her three angel babies, and the impact of her recurrent miscarriages on her emotional and physical well-being. From navigating deep grief and depression to finding solace in coaching and the decision to seek help from a fertility clinic, Summer's story is a testament to resilience, self-discovery, and the importance of giving oneself grace and understanding during times of...

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Secondhand Anxiety: Navigating Others' Pregnancies After Loss In this heartfelt podcast episode, Amy delves into the complexities of caring deeply for someone who is pregnant, especially when one has experienced miscarriage, stillbirth or losses themselves. Through personal anecdotes about her daughter's pregnancy and professional insights, she explores the emotions of worry, fear, and hope, offering practical advice on how to manage these feelings. Listeners are encouraged to normalize their anxiety, practice self-care, and find ways to support their loved ones without being consumed by fear....

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It's easy to feel like you're fighting your way up from the bottom when you've been knocked down or you're feeling weak. That's when you need to tap into the grit that only an underdog can bring. Today's episode dives into how you can keep fighting when the odds are against you. You don't want to miss this pep talk. miscarriage, stillbirth, grief Stop Blaming Yourself in Six Weeks is now OPEN! We start soon so grab your spot now. Say goodbye to the blame and shame for good. Click  to join us. Get support from Amy! Click Follow me on Instagram! Visit my . Photo by Canva Music by ZingDog...

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After a miscarriage, stillbirth or the loss of a baby in any way, it's really easy to blame ourselves.  But you know you shouldn't. In comes blaming yourself for blaming yourself. You judge how you're doing. You critique your healing process. You feel stuck.  Don't worry, I've got you. Today we're going to shine a light on this extra layer of suffering so you can let it go. Click to Join the Stop Blaming Yourself in 6 weeks program! Get support from Amy! Click  Follow me on Instagram! Visit my . Photo by Canva Music by ZingDog on Pond5  

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In today's episode we"re going to dive deep into the topic of self-validation, offering practical tips on how to better understand and accept your emotions. From increasing your emotional vocabulary to letting yourself be human, I discuss the importance of not judging your feelings and learning to talk to yourself kindly. By becoming more confident in your grief and emotional state, you can improve your relationships and feel more connected. If you'd like personalized help navigating your emotions, please feel free to reach out and join my coaching sessions.
Plus I have an exciting new program for you: a 30-day Embracing Mother's Day challenge. This challenge is designed to help more people navigate the emotional complexities surrounding Mother's Day. Alongside self-care activities, emotional intelligence exercises, and practical planning tips, this challenge aims to support various forms of mourning, including bereavement. I explain how the challenge can serve as a solution for those with limited access to one-on-one coaching due to my packed schedule. Tune in to discover how you can make Mother's Day a less daunting experience for just $25. You won't want to miss the exclusive bonuses included!
00:00 Introduction and Exciting Announcement
03:21 Understanding Validation
04:33 Challenges in Self-Validation
09:38 Learning to Validate Yourself
11:41 Practical Steps for Self-Validation
15:02 Embracing Your Emotions
23:53 Communicating Your Needs
32:08 Final Thoughts and Resources
 

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