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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

Release Date: 04/18/2025

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this episode... 😣 You’ve tried therapy, affirmations, exposure, and still feel stuck with social anxiety. What if the real problem isn’t you, but something hidden running in the background? I speak with Lindsay Kenny, one of the 29 EFT Founding Masters and a pioneer in emotional healing. She introduces the concept of subconscious resistance, a quiet but powerful block that prevents lasting change, even when you're doing all the right things. You’ll hear stories of transformation, discover how this hidden resistance works, and learn a simple tapping routine to start letting it...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this episode... Why does blushing feel so humiliating? It’s not just the redness. It’s what you believe that redness means about you. I share a powerful insight from a live coaching session inside my Social Confidence Club. You’ll discover: • Why blushing is often linked to deeper emotional wounds • How self-judgment and non-acceptance make it worse • How to break the shame cycle and feel more at ease • What to focus on first if you want real relief (and it’s not “stopping the blush”) If you’ve ever blushed and then felt ashamed, judged, or humiliated, especially...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this episode... Think your boss, that confident guy, or a certain social group is what triggers your anxiety? Think again. Seb shares a powerful shift that helped him stop blushing, feel confident around others, and finally feel safe in social situations. It’s not people that are the problem. It’s how you perceive them. And once you change your inner perception, your entire experience changes, fast. • Why others don’t actually make you anxious • How to uncover your hidden threat perception • How EFT tapping rewires your nervous system and creates real emotional freedom 🎁...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this episode... Ever felt ignored and instantly spun into overthinking, worry, or self-doubt? In this minisode, Seb shares 3 powerful self-inquiry questions that help stop that downward spiral, plus how EFT tapping helps you release the emotional charge underneath. It’s a relatable and practical tool for moments when your brain starts jumping to painful conclusions. These are the exact questions Seb teaches inside the Social Confidence Club to help clients find emotional freedom fast. 🎧 In this snippet:• How Seb used this in real life when someone didn’t reply to his message• Why...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

Do you panic at the thought of blushing in public? That rising heat in your chest… the burning in your ears… the shame of knowing people see it? I used to live in fear of that exact moment. In this episode... I share my personal story of dealing with chronic, uncontrollable blushing in social situations, where it started, how it became tied to my social anxiety, and what I tried (unsuccessfully) for years to stop it. Eventually, I discovered a way to release the shame, the fear, and the obsessive thoughts. It wasn’t willpower. It wasn’t exposure therapy. It was acceptance, combined...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this episode... Most people think they’ll accept themselves after they overcome social anxiety. But what if that mindset is exactly what’s keeping you stuck? In this episode, Sebastiaan and psychologist Steve Wells reveal why self-acceptance is the starting point for true social ease, and how tapping can help you get there gently and effectively. To start reducing your anxiety today and feel more at ease socially, get my free mini-course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence    Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this episode...If you grew up hearing “don’t be so sensitive” or “man up,” this might forever change how you see yourself. In this short minisode, Seb and ex-MMA fighter Tom Woodfin get real about what it’s like to grow up hiding your sensitivity—especially in a world that sees it as pathetic or weak. They share how years of inner work helped them shift that shame, own their sensitivity, and transform it into deep confidence and connection. 🎧 In this minisode: • Why sensitive people are more prone to shame and social anxiety—and how to heal it • How society trains...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this episode... "Can you be shy… and still feel confident in social situations?" In this live EFT tapping session, Sebastiaan helps a volunteer release shame and anxiety around being labeled “shy.” Together, they explore how childhood messages shaped her identity—and how tapping can shift self-perception fast. 🎧 You’ll discover: The difference between shyness and social anxiety Why you don’t have to choose between shy or confident How EFT tapping creates emotional freedom Tap along to feel more self-acceptance and ease in social situations. 🎁 Ready to feel...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this episode... If rejection terrifies you, you’re not alone, and you’re not broken.  In this episode, Social Confidence Coach, Sebastiaan van der Schrier, and EFT expert, Rick Wilkes, reveal what’s really behind your fear of rejection… and why it lingers, even after therapy or exposure. You’ll discover how to gently dissolve the emotional charge behind past rejections, and why tapping (EFT) helps you feel safe being yourself, without needing approval from everyone. Get the free “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” mini course here → ...

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Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

Carol Look has a distinguished background in traditional psychotherapy, was trained as a Clinical Social Worker and earned her Doctoral Degree in Clinical Hypnotherapy.  This was before she became one of the only 29 EFT Masters in the world. Carol is known for combining her background in traditional psychotherapy with “energy medicine” and she appears as a practitioner and energy therapy expert in the DVD documentary “The Tapping Solution” as well as in the documentary focusing on helping veterans suffering from PTSD, “Operation: Emotional Freedom.”  She has extensive...

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Always trying to be cool... but just end up feeling anxious? 😓 
If you've ever felt the pressure to impress or be seen as “cool,” this video is for you.

Discover why trying to be cool actually creates social anxiety, and how letting go of that need unlocks real confidence. 🙌

In this episode, you’ll:

✅ Learn how the pressure to be cool fuels anxiety
✅ See a real story of a client who broke free from it
✅ Do a short EFT tapping exercise to start releasing that inner pressure
✅ Discover how to feel calm, relaxed, and free to be yourself—even if others don’t think you’re “cool”

👋 Say goodbye to the exhausting try-hard act, and hello to effortless authenticity.

🔗 Get the free mini course, The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?

And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

You’re not alone.

I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.

But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...

... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.

And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.

Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

Here are your first steps:

1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

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All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. đŸ’Ş

Warm regards,
Seb