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Episode 14 - Foundations of Nervous System Regulation – Building Capacity

Nervous System Alchemy: Unleash Your Magic and Flow

Release Date: 03/20/2025

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In this episode of Nervous System Alchemy, we’re diving into one of the most important yet sometimes overlooked aspects of nervous system regulation: building capacity.

What does that actually mean? Why is it foundational to real healing and regulation? And most importantly—how do we do it?

I’ll walk you through:
 ✔️ Why building capacity is essential for completing the stress response cycle
 ✔️ How stored stress and trauma accumulate when the cycle gets interrupted
 ✔️ What we can learn from animals about naturally discharging stress
 ✔️ Practical ways to start building capacity today—in small, do-able ways that won’t overwhelm your system
 ✔️ Why healing isn’t linear (and how to stay present even when it feels like a lot)

 

Resources & Next Steps

💬 Let’s Talk: I’d love to hear from you! What landed for you in this episode? What questions came up? What would you love to go deeper into in future episodes? Drop me a note: rachel@rachelhardy.com

 

🌿 Interested in working with your nervous system at a deeper level?

Start slow and steady with my Nervous System Sanctuary membership— a gentle, accessible way to build real capacity and ease into lasting change.

Or, if you're ready for deep, transformational 1:1 work, explore Heal Your Nervous System and Thrive — my program for soulful leaders and creatives who are ready to clear outdated survival patterns from their body and step into greater ease, freedom, and creative power.

 

"Grace" written and recorded by Paul Briggs and used by permission. paulbriggs.bandcamp.com/