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Soul and Stories

Release Date: 12/25/2018

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Soul and Stories

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Koes Bong was born and raised in Indonesia until he moved to the US for college in 2000. He currently lives in Portland, Oregon, with his wife, Lindsay, and their two children.   In this episode, Koes shares what it was like being unemployed after years of working in the software industry. Being highly educated and highly skilled had given him a false sense of security when his pursuit to land another job left him empty-handed for many months.    Doorway after doorway failed to open and after more than 100 rejections from job interviews he began to reevaluate the meaning of...

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Koes Bong was born and raised in Indonesia until he moved to the US for college in 2000. He currently lives in Portland, Oregon, with his wife, Lindsay, and their two children.
 
In this episode, Koes shares what it was like being unemployed after years of working in the software industry. Being highly educated and highly skilled had given him a false sense of security when his pursuit to land another job left him empty-handed for many months. 
 
Doorway after doorway failed to open and after more than 100 rejections from job interviews he began to reevaluate the meaning of success for his own life.
 
Koes shared, "I was able to truly see who I am on the inside without all the labels."
 
Professionally, Koes had been working in the tech industry for over 12 years where the competition can get fierce and there is no room for failure. Progress is tracked based on the work you output, often at the risk of experiencing a burnout.

As Koes progressed through his career and became a manager, he slowly noticed how this kind of mindset is not sustainable. He has his wife, Lindsay, to thank for shining the light on the idea of using self-love and self-compassion in cultivating empathy and wonder in his own life and in the lives of the people he worked with.

For Koes, this journey has transformed his mindset in realizing that what he does or doesn't do does not change who he truly is.

With his new beliefs about success in life, Koes is now open to taking more risks and putting less attention toward the return on investment. Koes, along with his wife, Lindsay, and their close friend, Samantha Thomas partnered on creating a podcast called You are Infinitely Loved. They are 3 friends who have separately practiced self-love and self-compassion and have experienced what it feels like to live out this belief that we are infinitely loved. The more conversations they have around this topic, the more they see how it lights them up. They put this project out in the world because this is the mindset they want to keep growing in and they want share it with everyone they encounter.
 
To learn more, visit www.youareinfinitelyloved.com