374: Stop Putting Out Fires and Be Calmer and Happier with Special Guest Kara Brinster
Be a Better Lawyer with Dina Cataldo
Release Date: 07/03/2025
Be a Better Lawyer with Dina Cataldo
Feeling buried under work or like youâll never catch up? Listen up! I'm sharing why overwhelm isnât the enemy â it can actually be one of your greatest teachers. Youâll learn: â 4 reasons overwhelm is a gift â how lawyers like you are transforming overwhelm into growth â mindset shifts that will help you create confidence and clarity Want to apply what you're learning on the podcast? Imagine implementing what you learn here in an organized and consistent way. What kind of an impact will that have on your law practice and your life? Decide that today is the day you make the...
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Today we're talking about a topic most people avoid because it's uncomfortable for them to talk about. The benefit of facing this uncomfortable topic directly? When you do, it becomes your greatest advisor; your clearest guide for how to live your life. In this episode of Be a Better Lawyer Podcast, Youâll discover: â the perspective shift that immediately puts your priorities into focus â how to move from fear of what others think to living a path with heart â the practice that helps you follow through on commitments to yourself â wisdom from those who've come face-to-face...
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Ever feel like youâre behind in your law practice? Maybe youâve told yourself you just need more discipline, or that if you could work harder and do more, youâd finally get ahead. This mindset is what I call the Myth of More. Itâs one of the biggest traps for overwhelmed lawyers. The Myth of More runs deep in the legal profession, keeping attorneys stuck in long hours, constant stress, and feeling like they can never catch up. In this episode of Be a Better Lawyer Podcast, youâll learn: â How the Myth of More sabotages lawyer productivity and fuels burnout â Why âdoing moreâ...
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Want to apply what you're learning on the podcast? Imagine implementing what you learn here in an organized and consistent way. What kind of an impact will that have on your law practice and your life? Decide that today is the day you make the changes you want to see in your practice and book a complimentary Strategy Session with Dina. đ WORK WITH DINA Dina helps lawyers like you take control of your practice, find fulfillment and create a life you love. Work with her to start implementing what you're learning in this podcast. There are two ways to work with her: 1) In her...
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How often do you pay attention to the words you speak? Your words reveal where you're holding yourself back, and they will reveal your next level if you listen carefully. In this episode of Be a Better Lawyer, I share how one lawyer's words revealed his thoughts about his rates and why he was having a difficult time raising them. If you notice yourself holding yourself back from taking actions towards your goals, pay attention to how you talk about your goal and the actions you need to take to achieve it. Your words will reveal what you need to take yourself to the next level. Want to apply...
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đ Register for my new workshop here: __________ If your law practice feels like a whirlwind -- emails, court deadlines, interruptions -- listen in to today's episode. In this episode, youâll learn: â How to consciously choose peace over the storm How to tell the difference between peace and comfort (and why it matters) â Why lawyers often stay stuck in frustration and overwhelm, even when they want more calm â How to access the part of you that already knows the right decision to make for yourself This episode is about reconnecting with yourself and knowing how to make choices for...
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Closing consults may seem like a gift some lawyers have and some donât, but today youâll learn 6 keys to closing more consults. These 6 keys wonât leave you feeling salesy and slimy. Youâll feel in integrity at all times and serve your potential client better than ever. These skills are learnable â and they will transform your consults. After this episode, youâll â Feel more confident in consults â Know exactly how to answer tough questions â Learn how to stop undercharging out of fear Listen in to begin closing more consults today. Want to apply what you're...
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In this episode, Iâm unpacking a pattern I see so many lawyers fall into: chasing success. For most of us, success is defined by the message we receive from our culture. Those success markers are usually money, status and possessions. External markers of success wonât give you what youâre really looking for. Success isnât something you achieve. It's who you are. It's your birthright. In this episode of Be a Better Lawyer, you'll learn: â The emotional cost of chasing success â Why you'll never have enough if you believe you need to prove you're successful â Why feeling...
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Do you feel like your hair is on fire daily in your law practice? đ„ Youâre not alone. Kara Brinster felt the same way. Between her family law practice, her role as a stateâs attorney, parenting, and managing a household -- Karaâs plate was full. Fast forward 10 months, Karaâs practice feels calmer, and sheâs so much happier. Not because she has less workâbut because she learned the skills to support the life she actually wants. In this episode of Be a Better Lawyer, my special guest Kara Brinster shares: đWhy she no longer holds every task and deadline in her head...
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You may be friendly, responsive, and great in consults. But that doesnât mean youâre creating a seamless client experience that builds trust and encourages referrals. In this episode of Be a Better Lawyer, Iâm walking you through common glitches in a clientâs experience and how to solve for them. Iâm also breaking down the costly mistakes lawyers make that unintentionally erode client trust, and how you can upgrade your internal systems to counteract these issues in your firm. Giving clients what they really want â a seamless experience â isnât about doing more, but about...
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Youâre not alone.
Kara Brinster felt the same way.
Between her family law practice, her role as a stateâs attorney, parenting, and managing a household -- Karaâs plate was full.
Fast forward 10 months, Karaâs practice feels calmer, and sheâs so much happier.
Not because she has less workâbut because she learned the skills to support the life she actually wants.
In this episode of Be a Better Lawyer, my special guest Kara Brinster shares:
đWhy she no longer holds every task and deadline in her head
đHow she stopped working until 10 p.m. and started making time to do things she loved doing
đ” The strategies she used to increase the profitability of her law practice
âĄïž What calmed her frustrations at the office (and at home!)
This episode is jam-packed with practical takeaways that helped Karaâand will help youâbe happier, even when your plate feels full.
â Want more time for what matters most?
â Wish you could make your practice more profitable?
â Ready to stop running on adrenaline?
Karaâs story is proof that itâs possibleâwith support, systems, and the willingness to believe something better is yours for the asking.
đ§ Listen to this weekâs episode of Be a Better Lawyer and let's get to work imagining whatâs possible for you.
WORK WITH DINA
Dina helps lawyers like you take control of your practice, find fulfillment and create a life you love.
Work with her to start implementing what you're learning in this podcast.
There are two ways to work with her:
1) In her signature program Time Peace for Lawyersâą where you'll focus on taking control of your time, and
2) In private one-on-one coaching where you'll focus on growing your practice with ease.
Learn more about both at https://dinacataldo.com
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