The Gnarly Problem of Trying to do Too Much
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Confessions from over-eating at the buffet of life. Do you have a habit of taking on too much? Have you tried all the standard advice about priorities and saying no, but still find yourself rushed and overcommitted? There may be more going on in your complex and beautiful mind than you realize. In this episode, I explore why we (or maybe it's just me) repeatedly sabotage our efforts for a more spacious, creative, savor-worthy life with this compulsion to keep doing more. And the most powerful weapon you have for breaking this habit for good. Looking for more? Consider pairing this podcast with...
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How to Keep the Chaos from Messing with Your Head.
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The Inner Work of Greater Peace How can we protect our mental and emotional well-being in an environment that is becoming increasingly toxic? Are we all at the mercy of our circumstances and our environment? Or can we control our emotional state to reduce our suffering and the suffering in the world? I've learned in my coaching practice and in life that the truth is more nuanced and complex than either of those questions suggests. Join me for this episode as I explore, the inner work of greater peace.
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Has Your Fresh Start Fizzled?
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Did you launch another personal improvement project this year? I have to ask, now that we’re nearing the end of the month, how’s that working out for you? Is your motivation crumbling? Did your 30-day challenge not make it past day three? Or worse, are you reading this while sitting in a stupor, eating storm chips, and binging on Netflix? Don’t despair. You're not alone. It's not too late. There's a better way.
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Gearing Up for a Fresh Start in 2025? Not So Fast!
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The business case for starting with a strong finish. Studies show that a temporal landmark, like the beginning of a year, can have a strong motivational effect on people’s intentions to pursue their goals. Psychologists call this "the fresh start effect." But here’s the tricky part. The reason a fresh start is so motivating is it allows you to disassociate from your past actions and your past imperfect self. Blowing past the year you’ve just lived and what it has to teach you, may lead to another disappointing cycle of wash, rinse, and repeat. A powerful antidote to a weak...
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Try These 5 Simple Practices To Feel Grateful To Be Alive
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How to Enjoy the Ride, Part 3. So much of navigating life in a way that brings you joy and a feeling of being fully alive is a mental game. It is waking up to the experience of your life for brief moments and then slipping back into autopilot. In this third and final episode of this series, I share five of my favorite reflective practices for more fully experiencing this remarkable ride called life. Here are some links to resources I reference in this episode: Ali Victor Binazir's 2021 article entitled, , Season 2, episode 12, or read it on The Slow Sip Finally, here is a link to...
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5 Hard Truths That Might Actually Make You Happier
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How to Enjoy the Ride, Part 2. In Part 2 of my series, “How to Enjoy the Ride”, I explore some hard truths about our lives that actually make life more worth living. In this episode, I discuss: • The two kinds of happiness and how an over focus on one versus the other can make us miserable; • Cognitive time travel and how we can improve our enjoyment of life by learning to operate our inner time machine; • How we don’t really matter as much as we think we do and how that is a good thing; • And finally, how embracing...
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3 Mental Habits That Suck the Joy From Your Life
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How to Enjoy the Ride, Part 1. I’m excited to share the first of a three-part series called How to Enjoy the Ride. In this episode, I discuss three common mental habits that have a powerful upside for our performance. But when they become unconscious and ingrained, they can also make us miserable. Sometimes the path of learning to enjoy your success is to unlearn the very things that got you there in the first place.
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A Serious Case of Drift: The Dark Side of My Summer of Sloth.
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In my last episode, I shared a full-throated endorsement of the virtues of sloth as I ventured off on a glorious six week hiatus. But is there such a thing as too much sloth? Unfortunately, yes. An abundance of sloth can lead to the dreaded state of “drift.” Drift is that feeling of listlessness and lack of motivation that comes from drifting down the river of life without a paddle for too long. That slow realization that it’s September, there’s a tsunami of work headed toward you, and your canoe is lodged in the riverbank. Listen to the cautionary tale of my experience with...
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The Underappreciated Art of Taking Quality Breaks
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Finding your rhythm in a world out of sync, part 4. When we think of an arresting drum solo, we think of the beat. The sound. But what gives the sound depth and interest are the rests between the beats. A great rhythm is an intricate relationship between beat and break. It’s the dance between sound and silence, substance and space. Our days are consumed with thoughts of what's next and what we must do. We are focused on filling spaces versus welcoming or even creating them. And yet, so much of what makes life worth living unfolds during the breaks in the action, the liminal...
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The Superpower You Can Develop to Improve the Quality of Your Life
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Finding your rhythm in a world out of sync, part 3. This episode was originally recorded in 2022. I updated it to include it as part three of my series Finding Your Rhythm in a World Out of Sync. How many of us have tried to reduce our stress and improve our lives by becoming better managers of our time? What if we’re building the wrong skill? In this episode, I explore how developing your attention skills unlock your superpower. How building the wrong skill is making us miserable. How attention, not time, is the currency of greater value. How your devices may be eroding your...
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So much of navigating life in a way that brings you joy and a feeling of being fully alive is a mental game. It is waking up to the experience of your life for brief moments and then slipping back into autopilot.
In this third and final episode of this series, I share five of my favorite reflective practices for more fully experiencing this remarkable ride called life.
Here are some links to resources I reference in this episode:
Ali Victor Binazir's 2021 article entitled, You, the Miraculous: What Are The Chances of Being Born?
The Last Time, Season 2, episode 12, or read it on The Slow Sip here.
Finally, here is a link to my post, The Shut Down Sequence on The Slow Sip.