Ep 227 When Marriage Feels Like a Mistake | Choosing Your Spouse Over Family (Question 1)
Spiced Wife: Marriage, Sex, Faith, Life, and Jesus
Release Date: 09/08/2025
Spiced Wife: Marriage, Sex, Faith, Life, and Jesus
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In this episode, we’re diving into the real struggles a wife faces when doubt creeps in and when family comes between the marriage covenant.
Together, we’ll explore God’s design for marriage, practical ways to know the voices in your mind, and how to encourage your spouse toward healthy change without nagging or resentment. This is a convictly raw yet truth and hope-filled conversation that will remind you that with God’s guidance, your marriage can grow stronger, even in the toughest seasons.
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