129. Is Life Coaching Worth It? How Elle Broke Free from Overthinking and Took Her Power Back
Release Date: 07/08/2025
Life Coaching for Christians | Faith-Based Personal Growth, Goal Setting, Personal Development, Biblical Mindset
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Do you ever wonder why it feels so hard to actually step into your God-given calling—even though you want it so badly? It’s not because you lack discipline or willpower. The truth is, your brain is wired in ways that often hold you back from moving forward on your dreams. In this episode, I’m sharing 3 powerful reasons your brain is keeping you stuck—and how to finally break free so you can follow through on what God has called you to do. You’ll learn the neuroscience behind fear, overthinking, and the start/stop cycle, plus biblical truth that will help you walk in confidence and...
info_outlineHave you ever wondered if coaching actually works—or if it would work for you in your unique season of life? In this powerful and honest conversation, I sit down with my former coaching client Elle, a vibrant wife, mom of three, and hairstylist who once felt stuck in cycles of overthinking, inconsistency, and self-doubt.
In this episode, Elle shares how brain-based, faith-fueled coaching helped her rewire toxic thought patterns, finally follow through on her goals (like her health, finances, and business!), and step boldly into the identity God designed her for. We talk about ADHD, all-or-nothing thinking, goal setting, identity work, and what it really looks like to renew your mind and take action from a place of belief.
If you’ve read the books, taken the courses, and still feel like something’s missing—this conversation will help you see what’s possible when you stop doing it alone and start working with your brain and your faith.
✨ Ready to stop starting over and finally step into your purpose? This one’s for you.
🎧 Hit play to hear:
✔️ The mindset lies that kept Elle stuck
✔️ How she shifted her identity to become “fit, fed, and free”
✔️ Practical ways she built momentum with ADHD
✔️ Why coaching worked when nothing else did
✔️ Her advice if you’re on the fence about investing in yourself
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