Keep Your Voice In Your Writing
The Edit with Holly Totten Writing, Editing, Publishing
Release Date: 05/12/2026
You Don't Have To Remember Everything To Write Your Story
The Edit with Holly Totten Writing, Editing, Publishing
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Book Publishing, Editing, and Protecting Your Voice
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The Edit with Holly Totten Writing, Editing, Publishing
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Writing From The Heart: Faith, Family, And Finding Your Voice
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info_outlineEpisode 2: Keep Your Voice in Your Writing
The quote at the beginning of the podcast is, "Finding your voice is mostly having the courage to speak and letting it be enough." This came from an article by Dan Cumberland on the website https://themeaningmovement.com/finding-your-voice/ , which is an interesting read. If you are interested, you should check it out.
In this episode of The Edit: Writing Your Book Without Losing Your Voice, Holly talks about one of the most important parts of nonfiction writing: keeping your authentic voice intact through the editing process.
Too often, writers polish and edit their work until it no longer sounds like them. In this conversation, Holly shares why readers connect more deeply with honest, human writing than perfectly polished sentences, and how overediting can quietly erase the very thing that makes your story powerful.
Through personal insight, practical examples, and real editing experiences, Holly walks listeners through three simple but powerful ways to protect their voice while still creating clear, meaningful writing.
In This Episode:
Why readers remember emotion more than perfect wording
The difference between natural writing and sloppy writing
How reading your work out loud helps you hear your true voice
Why writers tend to overexplain—and how it weakens impact
A real-life editing example involving a wellness coach’s website copy
Why simple, honest writing creates stronger connection
The importance of protecting the most human parts of your writing
How vulnerability and authenticity help readers trust you
Key Takeaways:
Write like you speak first
Stop explaining everything three different ways
Protect the parts of your writing that feel most like you
Memorable Quote:
“Your voice is not the problem. Your voice is the reason people connect to your story in the first place.”
Mentioned in This Episode:
Authentic storytelling in nonfiction writing
Editing without losing your voice
Writing for connection instead of performance
The role of vulnerability in meaningful writing
Why clarity matters more than sounding impressive
Connect with Holly:
Holly Totten is a nonfiction editor and writing coach who helps writers, entrepreneurs, and business owners tell meaningful stories without editing themselves out of the process.
Learn more at https://writelynotable.com
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