472: The Real Reason You Keep Self-Sabotaging (and How to Stop)
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
Release Date: 08/21/2025
485: How to Listen to Your Heart
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
Today, I dive into one of my favorite topics and one of the most powerful tools we have for navigating life, parenting, relationships, and our inner world. I am talking about the wisdom of the heart. This conversation was inspired by a thoughtful listener who reached out with such a relatable question. Her message opened the door for a deeper look at intuition, sensitivity, and how we make choices that truly honor our souls. Whether you are a parent or someone who wants to strengthen your inner guidance, this episode will help you understand how to hear your heart more clearly and trust it...
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484: Conversations with God with Neale Donald Walsch
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
Listener Discretion: This conversation includes a brief mention of suicidal thoughts as part of one guest’s journey toward healing and awakening. In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Neale Donald Walsch, author of the Conversations with God series, for a deeply moving conversation about awakening, consciousness, and remembering who we truly are. Neale shares how a single moment of despair led to a life-changing dialogue with God - one that continues to inspire millions around the world. Our conversation dives into love, unity, and how to live from awareness instead of fear....
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483: How to Stop Seeking Approval from Others
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering, “Am I good enough? Lovable enough? Worthy enough?”... this episode is for you. Today, I’m diving into the powerful difference between external and internal validation, and how learning to validate yourself is the key to breaking free from codependency, people-pleasing, and enmeshment. When we rely on others to tell us who we are, we lose touch with our true selves. But when we start building that validation from within, everything changes: our confidence, our sense of worth, and the way we move through the world. In this episode, I share: How...
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482: Astrology: Your Guide to Purpose, Relationships, and Uncertainty with Monica Lorraine
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
Today, I sit down with my dear friend and astrologer Monica Lorraine to explore the deeper wisdom within your astrology chart. You’re so much more than your sun sign. Your birth chart is a map of your soul that reveals who you are and why you’re here. Monica shares how understanding your chart can help you grow emotionally and spiritually, navigate relationship patterns, and uncover your true purpose. She explains what a birth chart is, how planetary movements influence your life, and how to use astrology as a practical tool for self-awareness. In this episode, you’ll hear: What your...
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481: Alana Fairchild’s Mystical Journey with Oracle Cards and Inner Guidance
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
I’m joined today by the mystical and deeply inspiring Alana Fairchild, an internationally known spiritual teacher, author, and creator of more than 70 beloved Oracle decks. Together, we explore how to navigate seasons of transformation, embody the divine feminine, and trust the mysterious timing of our own blooming. Alana shares profound wisdom on eclipse energy as a spiritual reset, helping us understand why moments of uncertainty, exhaustion, or grief often arrive before major breakthroughs. We also dive into what it means to awaken the divine feminine within, how to listen to your...
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480: The Power of Journaling
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
Today, I’m diving into one of my favorite topics: journaling. As we head into the 30-Day Journaling Challenge, I’m sharing how this simple daily practice can help you release emotions, gain clarity, and connect more deeply with yourself. I’ll walk you through why journaling is such a powerful healing tool, how it helps calm your nervous system, and even how to use it for manifesting, inner child work, and self-discovery. You’ll see that journaling isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence, honesty, and giving your inner world a voice. In this episode, I share: How journaling...
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479: The Power of Energetic Cord Cutting
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
Today, I’m diving into the powerful practice of cord cutting - a simple but transformative way to release old ties and reclaim your own energy. We create energetic cords with everyone we interact with, from loved ones to strangers. These connections can weigh us down with resentment, heartbreak, and even other people’s emotions. Cord cutting isn’t about ending relationships. It’s about keeping your energy field clean, clear, and truly your own. In this episode, I share: What energetic cords are and how they affect us Why cutting cords doesn’t mean cutting people out of your life ...
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478: I Swallowed a Screwdriver
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
Yes, you read that right. In this episode, I share a very real and very unexpected story about what happened when I accidentally swallowed a dental tool, and how I used the Adult Chair model to navigate nine days of fear, anxiety, and uncertainty. What could have been a terrifying and overwhelming experience became a powerful opportunity for me to practice exactly what I teach: grounding, regulating my nervous system, and staying connected to myself no matter what was happening around me. In this episode, I open up about: How I calmed myself using fact and truth, grounding, and slow...
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477: The Power of Reflexology with Suzanne Chilton
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
In this episode, I sit down with Suzanne Chilton to dive deep into the world of reflexology. Suzanne shares her personal journey from a career in the arts to discovering the healing benefits of reflexology while caring for her husband through invasive cancer treatments. We discuss how reflexology can support self-care, wellness, and health by naturally reducing stress, anxiety, and inflammation. Suzanne explains the interconnectedness of the body's systems and demonstrates practical techniques to relieve tension and promote balance. Whether you're looking for natural ways to...
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476: How to Find Your Passion (Even If You Feel Completely Stuck)
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair
Have you ever asked yourself, “What am I really here to do?” If you feel stuck, unfulfilled, or unsure about your purpose, you are not alone. I hear this question all the time, and I’ve been there myself. In this episode, I’m sharing a fresh way to think about purpose. It’s not something you have to go out and chase, it already lives inside of you. The real work is learning how to align with it. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: How to recognize the clues in your own life story that point toward your purpose Why following the “breadcrumbs” of curiosity can open new...
info_outlineWhy do we do the very things that keep us stuck? Whether it's falling off a new routine, pulling away from a great relationship, or creating drama when things are finally going well, self-sabotage can show up in so many ways, and it’s incredibly frustrating.
In this episode, I’m breaking down what self-sabotage really is, why it happens, and how to shift out of it using the Adult Chair model. You’ll learn how to identify the unconscious parts driving the behavior and how to reparent those parts with compassion, so you can finally get out of your own way and start living the life you truly want.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
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What self-sabotage really looks like (and how to spot it)
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Common reasons we sabotage things we care about
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A simple way to uncover and heal the part behind the pattern
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