Why We Get It Wrong: The Pain and Beauty of Discerning God’s Voice
The Alive & Free Podcast
What do you do when you’re convinced you’ve heard from God—and everything falls apart? In this episode, Spencer and Sammi Robbins share stories of confusing dreams, missed signals, and the longing for divine direction that so often leads us into pain or shame. They unpack the subtle ways our desires and fears can shape what we think God is saying, and why it’s so important to hold space for uncertainty, humility, and curiosity in our relationship with Him. Instead of formulas or guarantees, discover a grace-centered approach to hearing God’s voice—one that’s rooted in intimacy,...
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How to Regulate with No Margin (Baby #2, Toddler Tantrums, & Trusting a Good Father)
The Alive & Free Podcast
Out of margin? Whether you’re navigating a new baby, a demanding job, a strained relationship, grief, or a big transition, this conversation gives you practical ways to stay grounded when life won’t slow down. We share Romi’s birth story and the grief that unexpectedly opened the door to peace, unpack why people “borrow” each other’s nervous systems, and walk through simple, repeatable practices to regulate in real time—without perfection or spiritual jargon. Who This Is For (and Why It Helps) Parents and caregivers feeling stretched thin and reactive—learn how to co-regulate...
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Why We Seek Emotional and Spiritual Highs - Alive and Free Podcast - Episode 101
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To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by . To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, . EPISODE SUMMARY Navigating the intricacies of relationships has been a journey of growth and understanding for us. Initially, the contrast between Spencer's love for stability and my craving for spontaneity seemed insurmountable. Yet, it was through embracing these differences that we discovered a deeper connection. Join us as...
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When To Be Vulnerable and When Not To Be - Alive and Free Podcast - Episode 100
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To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by . To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, to learn more. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Growing up, I often struggled with the idea of sharing my true self with others. Vulnerability seemed intimidating, and knowing when to open up or hold back was a constant battle. Join us as we dissect the complex nature of vulnerability in relationships, exploring the delicate balance between...
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How to Pivot and Weather Storms in Life - Alive and Free Podcast - Episode 99
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To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by . To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, to learn more. EPISODE DESCRIPTION: Discover the art of turning life's unpredictable challenges into opportunities for growth and resilience. Join us as we explore how emotional regulation can be a powerful tool for fostering healthy relationships and enhancing decision-making skills. Through intimate stories and counseling...
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How to Create Safety as A Coach and Leader - Alive and Free Podcast - Episode 98
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To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, to go to our training video to learn more. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Feel called to lead? Have you met with people or discipled people and wondered how you could have more influence in their lives? Ever wondered if you were actually safe enough to be told people's darkest secrets? In this episode Sammi and Spencer...
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God Has Great Plans In Store for Your Finances with Jim Baker - Alive and Free Podcast - Episode 97
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In case you missed it, we hosted a live masterclass with Jim Baker teaching on finances and how to build generational wealth and build the Kingdom. You can watch the reply by Also, we are currently taking Jim's course right now to get out of debt, learn to invest, and also change our mindsets around money and the way God wants us to steward it. We partnered with Jim to offer this course to you for half off. You can . EPISODE DESCRIPTION Years ago, a bankruptcy in 2007 shook Jim's confidence and reshaped his understanding of financial stewardship. For me...
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Is Money Evil? God's Thoughts on Prosperity and Poverty - Alive and Free Podcast - Episode 96
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Alive and Free Family! We have good news, we are offering a free training exclusively for our Alive and Free community! This training will be done by Jim Baker in partnership with Alive and Free. This training will offer financial advice, breakthrough, and practical guidance to create the life financially that God has for you. On recent calls I've had with Jim, I've been amazed. I've never heard someone that I trust more to share about finances than Jim, we hope you will join us on this journey. Also, we plan to have a replay if you aren't able to make it to the live event....
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Our Journey of being both rich and poor with God
The Alive & Free Podcast
Alive and Free Family! We have good news, we are offering a free training exclusively for our Alive and Free community! This training will be done by Jim Baker in partnership with Alive and Free. This training will offer financial advice, breakthrough, and practical guidance to create the life financially that God has for you. On recent calls I've had with Jim, I've been amazed. I've never heard someone that I trust more to share about finances than Jim, we hope you will join us on this journey. Also, we plan to have a replay if you aren't able to make it to the live event....
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Uncertainty and Not Being Bound by Things or Outcomes - Episode 95 - Alive & Free Podcast
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If you're a man OR you have a husband or boyfriend looking for resources to heal a man and step into greater levels of freedom and healing in your/their mindsets and emotions, then check out Spencer's new men's program: To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by copying & pasting this link into your browser: To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more: EPISODE DESCRIPTION...
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To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.
Have you ever wondered if saving sex for marriage is worth the wait? This episode confronts the normalization of premarital sex and contrasts it with the values of purity and intimacy within marriage, particularly among 20-somethings and 30-somethings. Through interviews and societal debates, we explore the idea of "test driving" a relationship before committing and examine the emotional and spiritual impact of these choices. Hear personal stories that underscore the importance of valuing oneself and one's partner by embracing purity and unshared intimacy.
Maintaining purity in today's world is no small feat. Through a heartfelt anecdote about a friend's well-meaning offer to teach about sex, we navigate the pressures and challenges of upholding personal values.
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(0:00:20) - Sex Before Marriage
(0:13:21) - Navigating Boundaries and Purity in Relationships
(0:22:44) - Understanding Shame, Forgiveness, and Attachment
(0:30:26) - Boundaries and Sexuality in Relationships
(0:39:00) - Releasing Shame and Finding Forgiveness
(0:45:18) - Building Character Through Boundaries
(0:58:35) - Embracing Holiness in Marriage
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(0:00:20) - Sex Before Marriage
Examining the normalization of premarital sex, valuing purity and intimacy in marriage, and the importance of saving oneself for a future partner.
(0:13:21) - Navigating Boundaries and Purity in Relationships
Personal values and boundaries surrounding premarital sex, societal pressures, and emotional impact of not honoring one's values.
(0:22:44) - Understanding Shame, Forgiveness, and Attachment
Understanding unconditional love and forgiveness, valuing sexual purity, and the impact of spiritual connections on emotional well-being.
(0:30:26) - Boundaries and Sexuality in Relationships
Love, boundaries, and heart change are crucial for fulfilling relationships, while casual sex undermines trust and intimacy.
(0:39:00) - Releasing Shame and Finding Forgiveness
Intimacy's impact on relationships, getting to know someone beyond physical intimacy, risks of unintended pregnancies and STDs, and God's forgiveness and renewal.
(0:45:18) - Building Character Through Boundaries
Childhood trauma, unhealthy validation-seeking, self-control, integrity, building strong relationships, boundaries around sexuality, accountability to true identity in Christ.
(0:58:35) - Embracing Holiness in Marriage
Marriage and faith bring joy, intimacy, and freedom, leading to transformation and forgiveness, as seen in a former OnlyFans top earner's story.