When Is Divorce An Option And How To Actually Thrive In Marriage After Pain
Release Date: 08/21/2024
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To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by . To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, . EPISODE SUMMARY Navigating the intricacies of relationships has been a journey of growth and understanding for us. Initially, the contrast between Spencer's love for stability and my craving for spontaneity seemed insurmountable. Yet, it was through embracing these differences that we discovered a deeper connection. Join us as...
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To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by . To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, to learn more. EPISODE DESCRIPTION: Discover the art of turning life's unpredictable challenges into opportunities for growth and resilience. Join us as we explore how emotional regulation can be a powerful tool for fostering healthy relationships and enhancing decision-making skills. Through intimate stories and counseling...
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To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, to go to our training video to learn more. EPISODE DESCRIPTION Feel called to lead? Have you met with people or discipled people and wondered how you could have more influence in their lives? Ever wondered if you were actually safe enough to be told people's darkest secrets? In this episode Sammi and Spencer...
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Alive and Free Family! We have good news, we are offering a free training exclusively for our Alive and Free community! This training will be done by Jim Baker in partnership with Alive and Free. This training will offer financial advice, breakthrough, and practical guidance to create the life financially that God has for you. On recent calls I've had with Jim, I've been amazed. I've never heard someone that I trust more to share about finances than Jim, we hope you will join us on this journey. Also, we plan to have a replay if you aren't able to make it to the live event....
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How do you keep the spark alive in your marriage when you're completely exhausted by the demands of parenting, careers, and life itself? Join us as we share our personal journey of navigating emotional depletion and maintaining a thriving marriage. Drawing from years of counseling, coaching, and continuous learning, we discuss the importance of having a vision for your marriage and intentionally investing in your relationship amidst the chaos. With heartfelt reflections and real-life examples, we explore how to keep your connection strong, even when overwhelmed by responsibilities.
Do you ever feel like your partner is to blame for your unhappiness? We delve deep into the concept of contempt in relationships and how it often stems from a desire to avoid feeling powerless. Learn how true love and vulnerability can break this destructive cycle and transform behavior. We'll share insights on how unconditional love can endure even when one partner feels disconnected, and the difference between true vulnerability and manipulation. By communicating without expectations, you can foster a more honest and loving relationship.
Feeling stuck, sad, or disconnected in your marriage? Discover the importance of intentional daily acts of love and mutual effort in rebuilding connection. We'll highlight the necessity of addressing feelings of inadequacy and seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling. Explore the power of relentless prayer, creating boundaries, and maintaining faith even when one spouse isn't willing to grow. Through our personal experiences and the tools that have helped us maintain intimacy, we hope to bless and support your journey towards a loving and fulfilling marriage. Don't forget to check out our Alive and Free Collective for comprehensive courses and community support.
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(0:00:05) - Navigating Depletion in Marriage
(0:09:22) - The Deception in Marriage
(0:17:35) - Building Connection and Love in Marriage
(0:24:09) - Rebuilding Connection and Love in Marriage
(0:37:16) - Restoring Marriage Through Prayer and Boundaries
(0:44:50) - Nurturing Connection in Marriage
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(0:00:05) - Navigating Depletion in Marriage
Navigating complexities of marriage while parenting and working, investing in connection and having a vision for a strong relationship.
(0:09:22) - The Deception in Marriage
Contempt in relationships stems from blaming others to avoid feeling powerless, but true love and vulnerability can break this cycle.
(0:17:35) - Building Connection and Love in Marriage
Proactive steps for emotional and spiritual health, mentorship, avoiding unrealistic expectations in relationships, and nurturing a connection with God.
(0:24:09) - Rebuilding Connection and Love in Marriage
Intentional daily acts of love, mutual effort, addressing inadequacy, seeking professional help, and prioritizing connection in marriage.
(0:37:16) - Restoring Marriage Through Prayer and Boundaries
Relentless prayer, boundaries, finding identity in Christ, addressing triggers, and seeking support for struggling marriages.
(0:44:50) - Nurturing Connection in Marriage
Nature's beauty in marriage, finding balance, staying connected through highs and lows, sharing personal journey and tools, expressing gratitude, and supporting our community.