Fueling Healthy Thoughts: Overcoming Darkness and Transformative Resilience
The Audacious Life - Break Free
Release Date: 01/17/2024
The Audacious Life - Break Free
Was It Trauma...or a Brain Injury? In this raw, in-the-car episode, I open up about something I’ve never fully talked about — the invisible symptoms of post-concussion syndrome and how they’ve affected my life and recovery. After overdoing it on a bike ride, I fell into a physical and cognitive relapse that left me confused, exhausted, and deeply frustrated. I now know it was a resurgence of TBI symptoms, something that often gets overlooked in women, especially those with a history of domestic abuse. This isn’t medical advice — it’s my personal story. But if any of this...
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Stop Talking About Narcissists - Why Celebrating YOUR Wins Is The Path To Healing After 10 years of podcasting about narcissistic abuse, I've realized something critical: we've been giving narcissists exactly what they want - attention. It's time for a movement where we stop obsessing over abusers and start celebrating ourselves! In this powerful episode, I explain why focusing on "red flags" and manipulation tactics can actually keep us stuck in hypervigilance and fear. Instead, I'm inviting you to share your wins - big or small - as we shift the spotlight onto YOUR healing...
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How I broke Free From Fear and Overwhelm with Prayer 🙏 Breaking free from overwhelming fear through the power of prayer transformed my life. Hear my journey of finding peace and spiritual strength. In this heartfelt video and audio, I share my transformative journey over the past few months, recounting a powerful spiritual awakening that reconnected me with God ✝️. I discuss how this 'come to Jesus' moment amid personal struggles, including my daughters' health, financial instability, and career changes, gave me the strength to push through tough times. I also reflect on...
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Massachusetts Passes Coercive Control Bill! What this Means for Survivors In this episode, I discuss the recent passing of the Coercive Control Bill in Massachusetts, the celebration I attended with many incredible survivors and advocates. And what the passing of the bill means for survivors of domestic abuse. Key Points: Massachusetts unanimously passed the Coercive Control Bill, becoming the 7th state to classify coercive control as a form of domestic violence. The bill (H4744) expands protections against abuse and exploitation, including laws against revenge porn. Coercive...
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I'm excited to share this interview because this is a service that I wish I had years ago. Legal help without breaking the bank? Yes, it's possible! Ever wished you had a lawyer on speed dial, but thought it was way out of your budget? Think again! In this eye-opening combo episode of 'The Audacious Life and The Audacious Mama Show,' I sit down with Kamerane Gatlin to chat about a game-changing legal service that's shaking things up. Imagine having 24/7 access to top-notch law firms for less than your monthly coffee budget - just $29.95! Sounds too good to be true. But, Kamerane's...
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Healing is in the air! Ready to break free from narcissistic abuse? Discover these 5 essential books to help you heal, release the fear, and rebuild your life. Learn how to break free from toxic patterns, regain your self-esteem, and find inner peace. Steph discusses the need to focus on healing from narcissistic abuse through recommended resources, emphasizing the importance of moving beyond seeking validation through shared traumatic experiences. Book Recommendations: Focuses on healing from narcissistic abuse rather than discussing the abuser, providing...
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When we seek validation about narcissistic abuse, we think it's helping us heal. But be warned: The Truth About Narcissistic Abuse Validation is not what we think. We're drawn to memes and videos that validate our experience, comfort us, and maybe even help us feel seen...and sane. But is this the best thing for us to heal and grow beyond the abusive programming? In this episode, I'm sharing some thoughts about how we use content to validate our feelings and what can happen as as result. Here's the video with Lundy Bancroft that I mentioned at the beginning of this episode. Narists vs...
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Bethenny's Mom Passed - what happened to the divorce videos? Bethenny Frankel was on a role sharing about her messy 10-year divorce and my last podcast was all about this. But what happened to Bethenny's divorce videos?" When she decided to share about her divorce, I was ecstatic and shared why I think she'll be a solid, outspoken catalyst for awareness around emotional abuse, coercive control, and more. Then I saw that her mom died just a few days after I posted the podcast. Heartbreaking and awful timing given the roll she was on and how great she reports she was feeling. Stating...
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Bethenny Frankel's Messy 10-Year Divorce - She's Sharing So We Can Learn As a longtime fan of Bethenny Frankel, I've been waiting for her to share more about her relationship with her former husband and father of their daughter, Bryn. As outspoken as she is, she clearly had a gag order in place for many years. And she now considers herself an "expert on Divorce" as she researched and dug deep to help her case. I caught a YouTube Live with Bethenny sharing that she's decided to share the details of her divorce. And she aims to help other women! Imagine what...
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Fueling Healthy Thoughts: Overcoming Darkness and Transformative Resilience In this episode I have some raw and vulnerable moments about this year and reflect on what I believe I need to work on with my own stinkin' thinkin'. Being more intentional with what we feed our minds is essential in turning things around, creating hope in our lives, and being a light in the darkness. It was recorded on MLK Day and I was inspired by his memory and his ability to be the man outside the box pushing through oppressive norms and spurring on all people of color to dare to dream bigger, and believe...
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In this episode I have some raw and vulnerable moments about this year and reflect on what I believe I need to work on with my own stinkin' thinkin'. Being more intentional with what we feed our minds is essential in turning things around, creating hope in our lives, and being a light in the darkness.
It was recorded on MLK Day and I was inspired by his memory and his ability to be the man outside the box pushing through oppressive norms and spurring on all people of color to dare to dream bigger, and believe that more is possible.
Here's a run down of this episode
- Reflecting on the challenges of the past year and the struggle to maintain balance in life.
- Drawing inspiration from Martin Luther King Jr. and the power of intention.
Connecting with the Audience:
- Acknowledging the shared difficulties many face, emphasizing the feeling of being overwhelmed.
- Encouraging listeners not to feel alone in their struggles.
The Four Nutriments:
- Exploring Thich Nhat Hanh's concept of the four nutrients (Edible food, Sense impressions, Volition, and Consciousness).
- Emphasizing the importance of identifying sources of suffering and finding peace and joy.
Navigating Personal Struggles:
- Sharing personal struggles with podcasting, career decisions, and the challenges of parenting.
- Expressing empathy for those facing overwhelming situations and the difficulty of finding options.
MLK Day Reflection:
- Reflecting on personal connection to Martin Luther King Jr. and the power of intention in creating positive change.
- Mentioning the influence of spoken words, particularly MLK's "I Have a Dream" speech.
Coping Strategies and Tools:
- Introducing coping strategies, including mindful eating and being aware of sense impressions.
- Discussing the impact of volition on happiness and the importance of cultivating healthy desires.
- Addressing the role of consciousness in transforming painful events and finding enlightenment.
Focusing on Healing and Positivity:
- Highlighting the challenge of podcasting about abuse without inadvertently perpetuating negativity.
- Exploring the power of focus and intention in creating positive change.
- Expressing a desire to shift the podcast's focus towards healing, love, peace, and thriving.
Inviting Positive Stories:
- Sharing the intention to invite guests who have overcome darkness and transformed their lives.
- Expressing the need for positive role models and stories of turning life around.
- Acknowledging personal challenges and the importance of collective healing.
Closing Thoughts:
- Offering tools for managing anxiety and promoting well-being, including heart math techniques and grounding practices.
- Sending love, hope, and thoughts for a brighter future to the listeners.
- Encouraging subscriptions, reviews, and engagement to build a community focused on healing.
Mentioned in this episode:
Thich Nhat Hahn's "How to Focus" beautiful book.
Inner Balance Heart Math App for heart brain coherence and learning to ground and become less anxious. And help the collective energy of your family, home, town, the World.
Earthing, grounding mat for grounding while indoors. Just plug it into a grounded outlet. I use mine near my desk for my feet while working and under my sheets so I can ground while sleeping. Amazing!!
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Thanks for tuning in! Sending lots of Love and wishes for a healthy 2024!