a big sister love note for tired, sensitive, badass young adults
Release Date: 12/07/2021
Be Real with Eliza Reynolds: Conversations About Mental Health, Friendship, Body Image & More for Big-Hearted Preteen & Teen Girls
The first tampon I wore chaffed me terribly. I really was not open to anybodyâs input on how to wear it âproperlyâ... so I just walked stiff-legged around, horrified (yes, I figured it out eventually). These are the kind of heart-felt giggles and stories that todayâs episode is FULL OF⌠with a big side heaping of âdown with the patriarchyâ. If youâre someone who cycles, this episode is likely for you. Weâre talking about how to not get pregnant, what a cervix is, being shamed for desire, why systems of power are so obsessed with fertility = pregnancy, why you donât need to...
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Dating real talk time. Know that you want healthy love? Ever worry that you (or your friends) are like rushing towards toxic AF relationship dynamics? Want to make sure youâre not?? Todayâs episode with Christine Guttierez goes all the places: self-love, first crushes, chasing/chaser dynamics, how to know red flags, why you canât save a friend (but what you can do) and so much else. Christine is a Latina licensed psychotherapist, life coach and expert in love addiction, trauma, and self esteem. Sheâs also the author of the amazing book (for folks 18+) I Am Diosa: A Journey to Healing...
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đ˘ đ˘ UNIQUE EPISODE FOR BADASS YOUNG ADULTS đ˘ đ˘ Hi loves -- ever feel like youâre âfailingâ at adulthood? And youâre supposed to be sunny and perfect AF and have it âall figured outâ now? (But you like⌠totally donât and something itâs SO BAD IN YOUR OWN HEAD and you donât even want to tell anyone⌠cause they might get scared). Anyone else ever feel like youâre desperate for people to get how independent you are and treat you like the ADULT YOU ARE ⌠but also secretly feel like youâre bad at so many things⌠and you need SO MUCH HELP (because life...
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Hello loves! Iâve struggled with terrible period cramps, acne breakouts, and menstrual mood swings for as long as I can remember. It felt pretty gosh darn hard (AKA impossible) to âembrace my beautiful periodâ when it felt like the 2.5 weeks from hell (yes, Iâm talking premenstrual and menstrual phases). SO -- I got curious about why these symptoms were happening to me as a teen (and not other people!!)⌠and how they could get better⌠and REAL TALK: it got so much better. Natalie K. Martin is a period and menstrual cycle coach who helps people like me to figure out their cycles and...
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This is one of my favorite episodes on the pod ever, yâall. Lily is an abortion nurse and today weâre getting into the practical, loving details of what actually medically happens during an abortion. If youâve ever wondered, or youâre curious about your options (even in these times), or youâre supporting a friend whoâs preparing for an abortion (please share far and wide!!)... this is what you can expect during the different types of medical abortion. Itâs time to demistify abortion care! We also talk about options, access in states that donât have legal access, how to support...
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Hey loves! Iâve been waiting for this conversation to drop for months⌠Ann is my shero and the human I wish Iâd had around when I was a preteen and teen and just like trying to figure out other peopleâs assumptions about my body...! Youâll hear us talk about how to authentically like your self if thatâs feeling hard right now, how self-confidence and feeling good are actually super connected, how to have an orgasm (but not the Cosmo mag version⌠the real, kind, nuanced version), and SO MUCH MORE. If self-pleasure is feeling weird or wonderful or youâre not even sure what it is...
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Hey loves! This special episode is for teens 15+ and Iâm talking all things worthiness, shame, big feelings and getting support with the excellent human Thais Sky. Thais is a coach who specializes in what she calls âthe worthiness woundâ and has a Masters in Clinical Psychology. In this episode youâll hear us talking about messy feelings, the first step in healing our feelings of inadequacy, transitions towards being an âadultâ, worthiness feelings, imperfect stories from us humaning this week (including my fave adulting paperwork failure of mine lately), and so much more. Content...
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Are you an astro-nerd (my own term, lol)? Do you live for doing your friends horoscopes? Or do you judge astrology as kind of âwooâ but secretly want to know more about itâŚ? Like what is it actually? Today Iâm diving in with my beloved friend and astrologer, Jennifer Racioppi, author of Cosmic Health and weâre talking: why astrology is super scientific actually, her own journey to astrology which includes a teen cancer diagnosis, how to live more aligned with the moon phases, and so much more!!! Come listen ;) xoxo Eliza [originally aired 1/12/21] Are things feeling really...
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Hey loves! Preteens have you been waiting for your OWN episodeâŚ??! Today I got you (and yes, anyone else who wants to be a writer!!). Iâm sharing this conversation I had last spring with the amazing Tina Wells whoâs a best-selling author, entrepreneur and business strategist. Sheâs the author of the best-selling series Mackenzie Blue, The Zee Files, and a new series coming to Target this fall. Her writing is for girls ages 7-13 and explores themes of friendship, being real, and dreaming big dreams. Youâll hear us talking about Tinaâs creative process, how she created characters...
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[originally aired 1/19/21] Hey brilliant one! Yeah you ;) Ever notice how our dominant culture has a very narrow and dumb story about what being âsmartâ means? How certain classes are âbetterâ? And neurodiverse folks often have to bear the burden alone of our dumb systems and limited understanding of âintelligenceâ? Today, me and my guest are unpacking that. Nicole Connell is a learning fairy godmother (best term ever) and weâre talking about: why neurodiversity is what the world needs, how diagnoses like âadhdâ and âdyslexiaâ focus on learning challenges and completely...
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Hi loves -- ever feel like youâre âfailingâ at adulthood? And youâre supposed to be sunny and perfect AF and have it âall figured outâ now? (But you like⌠totally donât and something itâs SO BAD IN YOUR OWN HEAD and you donât even want to tell anyone⌠cause they might get scared). Anyone else ever feel like youâre desperate for people to get how independent you are and treat you like the ADULT YOU ARE ⌠but also secretly feel like youâre bad at so many things⌠and you need SO MUCH HELP (because life is overwhelming, like all the time)?? And umm⌠now itâs winter⌠badum. WELCOME TO THE DUMB MYTH OF âADULTHOODâ. This episode is a love letter to you -- a tired, sensitive, badass young adult⌠who wants to reclaim your time, energy and LIFE. Itâs time to demystify what I call âthe lie of adulthoodâ (Iâll break it down). In this episode of realness, youâll hear me talking about: why itâs not your fault things suck, why goals are tricky (and my own sad story of the biggest baddest goal ever achieved), drinking + anxiety, sensitivity as a superpower, how if you want to âsave the worldâ youâve got to include yourself, and so much else! I love you! Be fierce, be soft -- and trust yourself -- youâve got this, dear one. XO, from a fellow sensitive, messed up, complex, wonderful feeler (+ big sister) -- Eliza
Find show notes and links from the episode at badassgirls.me/podcast/80!
P.S. want more support to get through this dumb âadulthoodâ thing as a feeling, sensitive, magical AF human? Click here to explore COVEN, Elizaâs new mentorship program for badass young adults -- starting in January 2022.
P.P.S. Season 1 of the Be Real Podcast is coming to a close at the end of 2021 -- and weâre going on a break (for⌠until Iâm ready to record more episodes!)!! If you want stay in the loop and ready my wordy erratic ramblings straight from my messy big sister heart to yours here are some places to make sure you donât miss me:
For badass preteens + teens: Iâve got a CONFIDENT AF playlist me + the mentors made for ya⌠and as a side benefit â get all the rambling email riffs from my heart to you this winter. Click here!
For supportive adults: I made yâall a free 20 minute video lesson on Why Your Teen Girl is a Gift + How to Make Sure She Knows It. Itâs straight magic for busy parents/guardians who want to get the good stuff to their kid, but so often feel like theyâre meeting straight up resistance ;) Click here to get it!