S2E4: This Mindset Shift Will Completely Transform You or Your Child’s College Experience
The Trailblazer's Guide To College Admissions
Release Date: 07/30/2025
The Trailblazer's Guide To College Admissions
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If the idea of an Ivy League school has taken over your college admissions strategy, you’re not alone. The allure is real. But when the prestige of a name outweighs the actual experience and alignment, you (or your child) could end up in the wrong place, chasing someone else’s dream.
Too many students build their college list backwards—starting with a dream school instead of a dream experience. Counselors push, parents pressure, YouTube raves, and suddenly, you’re sinking time, energy, and thousands of dollars into a goal that may not even make sense for you. This episode will help you break free from that Ivy tunnel vision and build a strategy that actually fits your life.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:
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Why Ivy League prestige doesn’t guarantee career success (and the real stats behind the myth)
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How your school counselor’s advice might be driven by their priorities, not yours
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The surprising red flags that your “dream school” may not be the right fit
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A 3-step process to build a college list based on alignment, not assumption
Whether you're a student navigating this process or a parent supporting your child, this episode is your permission slip to ditch the default Ivy obsession—and choose with clarity, confidence, and intention.
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