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Finding Hope Again: The Charity Giving Women a Voice during DV, Coercive Control & Divorce

The Divorce Course Podcast

Release Date: 01/21/2026

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🎧 Listen to this episode if…

  • You’re going through DV, coercive control, divorce or separation

  • You’ve survived DV and want to help other women going through it

  • You feel alone, isolated, or unsure where to turn

  • You want to hear about real support available for women in crisis

  • You’ve lost hope and need to know good people still exist

  • You want to understand what homelessness really looks like for women

  • You want to connect with a service that listens without judgment

  • You’ve wondered where to get help if you don’t know where to start

 

đź“ť Episode Summary

If you’ve ever felt invisible, silenced, or completely alone while living through domestic violence, coercive control, separation, or divorce this episode is for you.

Today, Laura sits down with Jo West, the founder of 4 Voices, a remarkable charity supporting women experiencing domestic violence, financial abuse, homelessness, social isolation, and coercive control. This episode is different from our usual legal conversations it’s a conversation about hope, humanity, and the power of connection when someone is going through hell and doesn’t know where to turn.

Jo shares the reality of what women face when they’re living in fear, why so many are afraid to reach out, and how simple acts of kindness like someone showing up, listening, and seeing you can genuinely change the course of a woman’s life.

If you’re struggling right now, this episode will remind you of something important:
There are helpers. You are not alone. And there is support waiting for you.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains general discussion about domestic violence and support, not legal information.

Finding Hope Again: The Charity Giving Women a Voice during DV, Coercive Control & Divorce

⏱️ Episode Timeline

[00:00] Meet Four Voices: A Support Service for Women Facing DV & Crisis
[01:00] Why Women Experiencing Coercive Control Often Feel Too Afraid to Reach Out
[02:06] Hidden Homelessness: The Reality for Women Leaving Unsafe Homes
[03:41] How Four Voices Uses Human Connection to Support Isolated Women
[07:00] What Happens on a Four Voices Support Van Shift
[09:04] A Story of Strength: One Woman Starting Over After 25 Years of Abuse
[12:33] Financial Abuse, Survival Mode & Why Leaving Is So Hard
[14:00] Why Some Women Get Turned Away From Services
[16:57] A Phone-Based Support System Designed for Women Who Are Scared to Talk
[18:55] Check-Ins, Consistency & Why They Matter for Recovery
[20:40] How You Can Help: Volunteering, Corporate Support & Raising Awareness
[23:50] Understanding the Hidden Crisis of Female Homelessness
[27:23] Misconceptions About DV, Leaving, and Life After Abuse
[30:41] Hope Stories: Courage, Connection & What Keeps Jo Going
[33:30] Final Message for Anyone Feeling Alone or Hopeless

 

đź”— Links & Resources

  • Four Voices Charity: https://www.4voices.org.au

  • Instagram: @4voicesau

  • 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732

  • Lifeline – 13 11 14

  • If in danger, call 000 immediately in Australia

 

🚨 Support Services (Australia)

  • 1800 RESPECT – 1800 737 732

  • Lifeline – 13 11 14

  • Safe Beds for Pets (RSPCA)

 

đź’› Closing Reminder

If this conversation brought you comfort or hope, please follow, rate, and review the podcast. Sharing this episode could help another woman find the support she desperately needs.