#4/22 When Religious Reassurance Becomes Harmful
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Episode Overview: In this deeply insightful episode, Jean explore how religious language impacts survivors of childhood sexual abuse. The conversation intricately examines the interfaces between trauma, faith, and the body—challenging common assumptions and inviting listeners to consider the nuanced ways reassurance can help or hinder real healing. ' A brief note for transparency, the structure of this interview was created with the support of AI. While the insights and answers you'll hear are Jean Dorff's own.' What’s Covered in This Episode: - The Body’s Response to Disclosure:...
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#4/21 Procrastination & Trauma Respons
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Episode Summary On this episode of The Empowering Story, Jean Dorff dives deep into the hidden roots of procrastination. Rather than seeing it as simple laziness or a lack of discipline, the conversation explores how procrastination can actually be a trauma response an intelligent adaptation from our nervous system that is trying to protect us, often based on past experiences. Using research from neuroscience and trauma studies, Jean Dorff presents compelling evidence that shows procrastination, especially in those with a history of childhood trauma, is not a character flaw but a signal...
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#4/20 When Insight Isn’t Enough: The Quiet Gap Between Understanding and Readiness
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Welcome to The Empowering Story podcast! In today's episode, "When Insight Isn’t Enough: The Quiet Gap Between Understanding and Readiness," Jean Dorff dives deep into the subtle, often unspoken space in healing where progress seems to stall—despite years of effort, clarity, and stability. Why does movement sometimes remain out of reach, even after understanding and regulation? Jean explores this "plateau," challenging common beliefs about resistance and readiness. This episode unpacks how true healing isn’t just about insight or effort, but about orientation, timing, and the gentle art...
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#4/19 The Insight Plateau
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Welcome to a new episode of The Empowering Story podcast—a space where healing unfolds at its own pace, free from timelines and expectations. This week, we invite you to explore a topic that’s familiar to anyone who’s done the hard work of self-discovery: the “insight plateau.” What You'll Hear in This Episode: Understanding the Insight Plateau: Jean introduces the concept, describing the stage in recovery when you intellectually understand your trauma, can name it, and have processed plenty yet, moving forward still feels elusive. Why isn’t insight alone enough to spark change? ...
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#4/18 Not Broken Just Unoriented
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In this eye-opening episode of The Empowering Story, Jean explores a radically new perspective on productivity, consistency, and self-judgment. Are you constantly checking off your to-do list but still feel restless or like you’re just not “yourself”? Ever start strong and then seem to disappear from your own plans? Jean explains why you’re *not* broken—and why beating yourself up for feeling this way only adds to the problem. Rather than blaming yourself for a lack of willpower or consistency, Jean introduces the powerful idea of "orientation —the art of knowing which part of you...
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#4/17 The Difference between Acceptance and Orientation.
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Episode Summary: In this insightful episode, Jean sits on the other side of the mic for a change, exploring what it truly means to feel lost, stuck, or pressured to “figure things out.” Through a thoughtful interview, Jean explains the critical difference between acceptance and orientation, and why this distinction matters more than ever for those navigating change, confusion, or uncertainty. Key Topics Discussed: Misunderstanding “Lostness”: Jean reframes feeling lost as a natural reorganization process rather than a personal failure, describing it as an “interruption, not a...
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#4/16 The Six Voice States
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In this episode of The Empowering Story, Jean invites listeners on a journey through the Six Voice States—a practical framework for deepening self-understanding and emotional clarity. Far beyond how we sound, these states illuminate why and how our expression adapts as we move through life’s changing inner seasons. What You’ll Learn The Six Voice States: Sean breaks down each state, from the gentle Whisperer to the confident Storyteller, explaining their purpose and the pivotal role they play in our growth. The Whisperer: Quiet, internal, and vital for self-preservation and...
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#4/15 Your Voice Knows Before You Do: Tracking the Inner Weather of Trauma Recovery,
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This iepisode dives into how our voices often register changes in our internal world long before our minds catch up. We explore the subtle signals in tone, breath, and language that can reveal shifts in emotional state—sometimes even before we're consciously aware of them. The conversation centers on Story Signal, a free app developed by Jean and The Empowering Story, designed to help users track these voice states with clarity and kindness. Key Topics: - Voice as a Messenger: Jean shares a memorable story from over two decades working alongside trauma survivors, explaining how...
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#4/14 Your Voice Never Left You
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Welcome to a deeply insightful episode of The Empowering Story, where we explore the power of voice in trauma recovery. This week, the episode is both written and spoken by trauma recovery coach Shawn Dorff, founder of The Empowering Story. For over 20 years, Shawn has helped sexual abuse survivors reclaim agency and healing through an innovative, voice-centered methodology. Key Themes and Takeaways: Voice-Centered Healing: Shawn Dorff challenges traditional trauma recovery methods by emphasizing that healing starts with the voice—not emotional breakthroughs or cognitive processing. Micro...
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#4/13 Every Story Deserves a Beginning
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Episode Summary In this opening episode of The Empowering Story, trauma-informed narrative coach Jean Dorff explores one of the most powerful — and most overlooked — moments in a survivor’s healing journey: The moment before the first sentence. If you’ve ever opened a blank page… felt your chest tighten… and closed it again, this episode is for you. Jean guides you through the emotional, psychological, and embodied reasons why beginning your story feels so difficult — even if you’ve already done years of therapy, personal development, and deep reflection. You’ll learn why...
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In this compelling episode of "The Empowering Story," host Jean Dorff sits down with the courageous Annica Vidales, author of "Paper Thin," to delve deep into her harrowing yet inspiring journey of overcoming childhood sexual abuse. From the tender age of five, Annica faced unimaginable trauma at the hands of her father and uncle. Yet her story is not just one of victimhood but of resilience, strength, and ultimate empowerment.
Key Highlights:
- The Power of Listening: Jean emphasizes the critical role parents play in listening to their children and the devastating effects neglect can have, leading to feelings of shame and guilt.
- Brave Disclosure: At just five years old, Annica attempted to tell her father about her abuse. Explore how a different, supportive response could have shaped her childhood differently.
- Coping with Trauma: Discover how Annica repressed memories, both good and bad, as a survival mechanism and how flashbacks and physical triggers unexpectedly surfaced during her teenage years, particularly during a game of "truth or dare."
- Understanding Trauma Responses: Jean explains the fight, flight and freeze responses to trauma and how physical and sensory triggers can manifest unpredictably.
- Boundary Setting and Relationships: Annica's journey highlights the challenges survivors face in setting boundaries and maintaining healthy relationships as a result of their past experiences.
- A Path to Healing: Despite significant challenges, Annica began to cope by journaling, and later by writing her book "Paper Thin," a testament to her journey from trauma to empowerment.
- Cultural Insights: Jean and Annica discuss cultural norms around family sauna usage and the implications these norms had on Annica's understanding of her abuse.
- Community and Support: This podcast aims to create a platform where survivors can find solace, share their stories, and support each other in healing.
Tune In:
Join Jean and Annica for an emotionally powerful conversation that illuminates the complexities of surviving and thriving after abuse. Experience Annica's raw and unfiltered story and learn how she transformed her pain into strength, offering hope and guidance to others on a similar path.
Engage with Us:
- Book: "Paper Thin" by Annica Vidales https://library.theempoweringstory.com/paper-thin
- Podcast Platforms: Available on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, and more.
- Community: Join our Facebook group, "The Empowering Story," a safe space for women seeking healing through storytelling.
- Website: Visit jeandorf.com and thempoweringstory.com for more resources.
- Interact: Send us your questions and comments; your voice matters.
This is not just a podcast; it’s a movement. Join us on "The Empowering Story" as we learn, heal, and empower each other through the transformative power of storytelling. Click play to start your journey towards understanding and healing today.