Ep 146: How never questioning yourself undermines your ability to fully communicate well
Release Date: 04/07/2025
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Rethinking Communication
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Ep 147: How to communicate with people you disagree with
Rethinking Communication
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Ep 146: How never questioning yourself undermines your ability to fully communicate well
Rethinking Communication
I had the joy of joining Rick Barron on his “” podcast for a conversation about… well... conversation. More specifically, how we can communicate better with each other when conflict arises. Even though I was the guest, Rick told a story about him and his neighbor that is the perfect example of what I mean when I ask that you set aside your certainty and what you think you know about others and instead follow your curiosity.
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Ep 145: Following your curiosity beyond your comfort zone
Rethinking Communication
We've been taught that when faced with disagreement, once you get a chance to speak, go on the offensive and don't back down. However, one conversation I had recently revealed a far better and more productive approach — one that emphasizes asking questions beyond the point of your own comfort.
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Ep 144: Information overwhelm is crushing communication
Rethinking Communication
Humans were not designed to know all that we know, and it’s crushing our ability to communicate well with each other and affect positive change.
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Ep 143: Neil Gordon | Persuasion is about convincing people that change is possible
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Speaking coach Neil Gordon joins the podcast to recount how school "educated me out of an interest in reading and communication," and his journey back to a love of both. Neil specializes in persuasion and helping speakers create more compelling narratives in their stories. Out of that work, Neil says, a path to ward off pessimism and skepticism emerges. Check out A Prayer for Owen Meany, the book Neil references in this conversation, at To learn more about Neil's work, visit
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Rethinking Communication
I had the opportunity to join Steve Leskovec — a former guest on this podcast — on his radio show in Ohio to discuss effective communication. As you'll hear, Steve and I spent most of our conversation focused on conflict communication and how we can show up better in situations where we disagree with others.
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Rethinking Communication
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info_outlineI had the joy of joining Rick Barron on his “That’s Life, I Swear” podcast for a conversation about… well... conversation. More specifically, how we can communicate better with each other when conflict arises.
Even though I was the guest, Rick told a story about him and his neighbor that is the perfect example of what I mean when I ask that you set aside your certainty and what you think you know about others and instead follow your curiosity.