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149. Secrets Of An Intimate Marriage: The Four-Step Process Of Dealing With Loneliness In A Relationship

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Release Date: 10/25/2023

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In this episode of Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the issue of loneliness within relationships, especially in marriages. She acknowledges that feeling lonely in a relationship is more common than one might think, even in seemingly successful and happy marriages. 

This episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and exploring loneliness and fostering curiosity and vulnerability within the relationship in order to bridge the gap between feeling unseen and disconnected, and cherished and respected. Alexandra provides a four-step process for transforming loneliness into connection, in order to enjoy a more fulfilling and intimate marriage.

 

Also in this episode:

  • Intimacy and relationships with a focus on feeling fully alive.

  • Relationship loneliness can stem from a lack of emotional connection and feeling unseen or unheard.

  • How to acknowledge and explore loneliness to transform it into a positive feeling.

  • Exploring loneliness through journaling and curious questions to a spouse.

  • The best way to invest time and resources for profound results in marriage.

 

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD