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172. Navigating Evolving Desires in Marriage: Communication, Intimacy, and Growth with The Intimacy Doctor

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Release Date: 04/03/2024

236. Why Long-Term Marriages Require Reinvention

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Is it possible for a long-term marriage to become more fulfilling over time, better than the early years of dating and the newlywed phase? (We’re talking all aspects of marriage, including sex!) In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Drs. Alexandra and Rodd Stockwell share their real-life journey through many phases of their marriage—from tending small children, to the early years of demanding careers, to a deeper, more connected relationship in midlife. Through honest communication and shared effort, they prove that lasting love is something you can cultivate and lean into, as...

235. The Joy of Being Different: Playful, Intentional Love with Ling and Lamb

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Intentional love isn’t just a goal—it’s a daily practice. Ling and Lamb, married content creators, beloved influencers, and authors, exemplify this through their blend of playful pranks and honest conversations. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell chats with Ling and Lamb about how they’ve mastered the art of blending humor, culture, extreme differences in upbringing, and deep connection. He grew up in Nigeria. She grew up in Connecticut. They have had to learn SO MUCH about one another in order to enjoy a vibrant intimate marriage. Now their...

234. Reclaiming Presence: Tips to Deepen Intimacy in our Distracted World

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Craving more presence, passion, and real connection in your relationship? This episode is your gentle nudge to slow down, truly show up, and deepen intimacy in a meaningful way. In today’s episode, Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the issue of modern technology and other common distractions that pull us away from meaningful moments—and shares simple but powerful tools like deep breathing and emotional honesty to bring you back. Learn how being fully present can transform your intimate experiences and help you shift from feeling distracted to deeply connected. In...

233. Communicate With Your Spouse The Way You Communicate With AI–It Works!

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

AI offers surprising insights on a whole range of topics, and in this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell describes how to use the principles of AI to improve communication and connection in your marriage. Dr. Alexandra suggests that talking to your partner the way you need to in order to get the best results from AI—with clarity, specificity, and enough details to make the response useful–leads to clear, kind, honest, and connecting communication with your spouse. This results in more emotional closeness and erotic fulfillment. This episode...

232. Understand Libido Mismatch, Reignite Your Sexual Intimacy, with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

What happens when a couple navigates libido mismatch—and how can they reconnect without feeling broken or disconnected? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell talks with somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor, MA about overcoming desire differences and reigniting sexual intimacy in marriage. Drawing from her own suffering in a sexless marriage, Susan shares how emotional awareness, communication, and tension release can unlock deeper pleasure and connection. Whether you're navigating mismatched sex drives or simply craving more closeness, this conversation offers real, practical tools...

231. The Secret to a Fulfilling Marriage

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Whose needs should you prioritize for a lasting marriage—yours or your spouse's? What if there’s a "third" that matters even more? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares personal reflections on the occasion of her daughter’s wedding, while detailing the powerful concept of “the third”—viewing the marriage itself as a living entity, distinct from each person in it. By prioritizing the relationship over individual needs, couples will deepen intimacy, prevent resentment, and build a lasting partnership. Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, this episode...

230. How Altered States & Sexual Energetics Drive Success, with Dave Asprey

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Is altering your state of mind the key to deeper connection and high performance? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell talks with the “Father of Biohacking” and Founder of Bulletproof Coffee, Dave Asprey, about how meditation, biohacking, and consciousness boost personal growth and improve relationships. Drawing from his new book Heavily Meditated, Dave shares tools like the “reset process” to clear emotional triggers, and explores how sexual energy deepens intimacy. He also explains how brief moments of discomfort can boost motivation. This conversation is full of practical tips...

229. Beyond Climax: How to Improve Sexual Fulfillment

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Are you experiencing true sexual fulfillment—or are you just rushing to the finish line? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell teaches you to slow down and savor each moment, in order to enjoy more pleasure and connection during intimacy. Using the analogy of enjoying delicious chocolate cake, she explores the power of anticipation, mindfulness, and prolonged arousal. Dr. Alexandra shares actionable tips to enhance intimacy, extend build-up, and shift your focus from quick gratification to a more fulfilling, connected sensual experience. Tips in this episode: Anticipate and...

228. Sex & Porn Addiction in High Performers with Roland Cochrun: What You Need to Know

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Porn addiction among high-performing men is more common—and more misunderstood—than most people realize. In this eye-opening episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell welcomes back expert Roland Cochrun to discuss his new book, 'The High Achiever’s Guide to Sex Addiction Recovery'. Known for his groundbreaking insights into sex and porn addiction, Roland breaks down the crucial difference between substance and process addiction—where individuals become hooked not on external substances but on internal thought patterns and behaviors. Together, Dr. Alexandra...

227. All About “Intimacy Dates” (Which Can Save Your Relationship)

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Are you and your partner drifting apart, despite loving each other deeply? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how planning and scheduling "intimacy dates" can save your relationship (and totally uplevel it!) by fostering deeper connection and closeness, especially for busy couples juggling work, family, and other responsibilities. Emphasizing that intimacy should be prioritized like any other essential activity, Dr. Alexandra shares practical strategies and insights. With decades of experience, personally and professionally, she’ll show you how...

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the intriguing subject of evolving desires within marriages. The conversation offers a deep dive into understanding, embracing, and communicating our desires, especially as they change over time.

Dr Alexandra touches upon the natural progression of tastes and preferences, illustrating how something as simple as a shift in food likes can symbolize the broader dynamic of changing desires. She then moves on to explore the more complex and sensitive evolution of sexual preferences within a committed relationship while emphasizing the importance of open communication and adaptability.

Also in this episode:

Rather than judging or ignoring shifting desires, it's important to acknowledge them and consciously choose how to respond.
Sexual preferences and needs can change as relationships mature, and discussing these changes enhances intimacy.
Approach conversations about changing desires with respect, connection, and collaboration.
Growth and change in preferences are normal, and sharing these developments leads to a more fulfilling relationship.

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

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