TLP442: Failures Are What Shape Us with Andy Hilger

Andy Hilger recently completed a 25-year career with Allegis Group, his last six years serving as the president of the global staffing and services company. He currently serves as a guest lecturer at Duke University and American University, and writes a regular LinkedIn blog on leadership.

Andy shares insights on finding fulfillment in the workplace, learning through failures, and the evolving role of leadership in a rapidly changing world. Andy discusses his early career struggles, from overcoming rejection to dealing with imposter syndrome. He reflects on the importance of embracing failure, recounting his experiences of being cut from school basketball teams and how it shaped his outlook on resilience and grit. Transitioning into business, Andy emphasizes how businesses can act as a force for good, outlining the potential for companies to balance purpose with profit.

Andy touches on critical themes such as accountability, agency, and creating a culture of trust in the workplace. Andy delves into how leaders can use empathy alongside clear expectations to foster engagement. 

Andy shares his approach to personal growth, highlighting the importance of cultivating purpose over chasing traditional markers of success. He advises young professionals to embrace learning, prioritize meaningful work, and navigate careers with agility and curiosity. 

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Key Takeaways

[01:25] Andy opens up about what’s not in his public bio. He shares how being cut from his 8th and 9th-grade basketball teams and facing repeated rejections in his career taught him resilience and the value of grit. “The failures are what shape us more than the accomplishments.”

[06:03] Andy discusses how businesses can be a force for good. He explains that while nonprofits do great work, they often lack scalability. Businesses, with their resources, have the ability to drive meaningful change by aligning profits with purpose. “Money is critical, but it should fund purpose and mission.”

[10:08] In his work with students, Andy encourages them not to wait for a position of power to start making an impact. He teaches them that they can begin shaping the organizations they join and the impact they have, starting today, by recognizing their own agency and acting with urgency.

[12:34] Andy shares a pivotal early career moment when he was encouraged to deliver feedback to a superior. This experience taught him the value of creating a culture where feedback is not just accepted but expected. “Giving feedback isn’t optional; it’s an obligation.”

[19:38] Andy spoke to 500 freshmen at West Virginia University and found them curious and eager to make a difference but uncertain how to do so. While some stereotypes about their generation hold, he found them engaged and motivated. They were stressed about internships, choosing majors, and managing financial pressures. Andy advised them to focus on learning and meaningful experiences rather than specific career outcomes, believing the true value of education lies in skills and relationships developed over time.

[25:24] Andy expresses concerns about AI’s impact on society. He warns against the industry’s focus on maximizing profit at the expense of ethical considerations. “We need to prioritize wisdom over intelligence to ensure technology serves humanity.”

[35:51] Reflecting on his journey, Andy explains how shifting from an imposter mindset to one of growth helped him navigate challenges. He encourages leaders to foster environments where others can make that same transition.

[43:51] Andy discussed how businesses need to adapt to meet new expectations. He believes companies should move away from traditional hierarchies and create flexible environments. Hiring for adaptability and continuous learning is crucial. Leaders should focus on providing meaningful work and ensuring that their companies deliver value to customers, as knowledge quickly becomes outdated.

[46:32] And remember, "It is not in the pursuit of happiness that we find fulfillment, it is in the happiness of pursuit." — Denis Waitley

 

Quotable Quotes

“The resume is a glossy view, but the failures are what shape us more than the accomplishments.”

“We are more a culmination of our failures than just the things that end up on the resume.”

“Money can’t be the end goal; it has to fund purpose and mission.”

“Profits are the oxygen that allows businesses to live their mission.”

“Leadership isn’t a prize; it’s an awesome responsibility.”

“Leadership isn’t about waiting for a title; it’s about starting where you are to make an impact.”

“Learning to love learning is the most important skill in today’s dynamic world.”

“No one will care what you majored in; learning to love learning is the key to success.”

“Wisdom must guide intelligence; without it, we risk serving the tools we create.”

"Focus on your learning potential, not your earning potential."

Resources Mentioned

• The Leadership Podcast | theleadershippodcast.com

• Sponsored by | www.darley.com

• Rafti Advisors. LLC | www.raftiadvisors.com

• Self-Reliant Leadership. LLC | selfreliantleadership.com

• Andy Hilger LinkedIn | Andrew Hilger

• Andy Hilger X | @ahilger1