Ep. 131 - Marine Cmdr. Jake Harriman Shares Unifying Wisdom
Release Date: 08/21/2025
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More About Our Wise Guest - Jake Harriman
Jake Harriman graduated with distinction from the United States Naval Academy and served seven and a half years in the US Marine Corps as a platoon commander in both the infantry and force recon. Following his service in the military, Jake enrolled at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. Following his service in the military, Jake enrolled at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. While at Stanford, he founded Nuru International to eradicate extreme poverty in the world's most unstable, vulnerable regions, to help end violent extremism. Jake also played a vital role in drafting, introducing and passing groundbreaking new legislation called the Global Fragility Act of 2019 that equips America with new authorities and resources to prevent conflict and stabilize some of the most fragile regions around the world.
Today, Jake is the founder and president of More Perfect Union, a veteran-led civic organization that works to unite the country and strengthen our communities through social connection, service and civic engagement.
Resources
More Perfect Union website
Nuru International website
Jake Harriman on LinkedIn
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Episode Chapters
[0:03:55] - Wisdom gleaned in West Virginia
[0:05:25] - Transformed by combat
[0:06:30] - Jake has an epiphany in Southern Iraq
[0:11:23] - Lasting meaningful choices; a life focused on mitigating poverty
[0:13:40] - Jake’s move to Kenya; challenges, establishing roots, making impact
[0:15:55] - A pivotal conversation with Philip
[0:17:38] - Jake returns to America; a heartbreaking realization
[0:25:38] - Jake shares his Main Thing
[0:30:19] - An all-hand-on-deck time for America and its citizens
Episode Keywords
Wisdom, Servant, Leadership, Marines, Naval Academy, Commander, Poverty, Conflict, Military, More Perfect Union, Community Engagement, West Virginia, Resilience, Integrity, Combat, Iraq, Force Recon, Kenya, Service, Civics, Dehumanization