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Becoming A Better Leader

Queen of the Trades

Release Date: 10/25/2024

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Please enjoy this replay of my very first episode!  I'm your host Alexis Aranda. Today, I'm sharing my story with all of you, listeners. I was born in a suburb outside of Chicago and had a fantastic childhood. My parents were supportive. We had a lot of love and a lot of great memories, but we didn't have a lot of money. At a very young age, I strongly desired to create wealth for my family.  I knew this was what I was called to do. I also had a passion for working. From babysitting to working at a local grocery store, I was always earning money. My best friend's dad was a tradesman....

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Leadership motivates team members, promotes growth, and ensures that businesses adapt to industry challenges while providing great service. It is one of the most critical components of any successful company. Today I'm going to talk about leadership in the trades. I want to encourage those of you in the trades to strive for the 2.0 version of yourself, and today I'll be sharing some techniques that have helped me become a more effective leader.

I’lll talk about getting the right people on the bus. I'll also discuss leadership development and how to gain new or improve abilities. I discuss focusing on progress by asking who I want to become. We'll talk about what it means to care for your team, how to accept full responsibility for your results, and how being open to feedback can help you and your business thrive. Whether you're managing or leading a team, this episode is about being the best version of yourself as a leader.

 

Episode Highlights: 

[02:07] Getting the right people on the bus. As a leader, it's important to get the right people on the team so you can execute on your task.

[03:01] When we first started our company, I knew I had to be someone who could read financial statements for home services businesses.

[04:03] I needed to be someone who understood the numbers and the financials in a home services business.

[04:33] 1. Care about the people on your team more than you care about your own career.

[06:02] The more you pour into these people, the more they will grow and elevate your career.

[06:50] 2. As a leader, you are always responsible for the outcome. If you're not hitting goals, it's your fault. It's important for the leader to own the outcome.

[08:05] The window and the mirror. If we're crushing goals, I'm a window as a leader. I'm giving credit back to the team. If we're not hitting goals, I'm taking ownership and saying, "what can I do as a leader to help my team," or a mirror. 

[09:03] It all comes back to us as a leader. It's powerful to be part of a team where the leader owns the outcome and accepts responsibility.

[10:44] Blaming and deflecting takes away from your power as a leader.

[11:17] 3. It's important to be open to feedback from your team.

[12:04] Opening ourselves up to feedback from your direct reports enables us to see our blind spots.

[13:04] Leaders need people who will honestly give them feedback and tell them when they're slacking.

[16:01] Be open to feedback, available to change, and receptive to new information on how you can work better.

[16:43] 1. Focus on your team and direct reports more than your career. 2. Everything is your responsibility. Own the outcome good or bad. 3. Be open to feedback!

 

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