Rebel Therapist
Pivoting to work beyond private practice usually means getting more visible. And getting more visible can bring up a lot of vulnerability for people, especially people who are therapists. Today’s guest is putting himself out there in new ways, and finding that while he grows his audience, he also finds there’s a way it is contributing to his own healing. Jose Aleman is a therapist-turned-coach with over 20 years of experience. As the creator of Loving Your Awkward Self, Jose offers confidence-boosting content tailored to queer, first-generation, and BIPOC individuals, while welcoming all....
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Here’s a really cool idea: create a program that helps your write your book. When you create a program you get to take your best ideas, turn them into a clear process, AND help a group of people in real time. You get feedback and make adjustments along the way so that your process gets even better. Then you write your book knowing that you’re writing something that really helps people. Both your program and your book allow you to help more people and get known for your work. That’s what today’s guest, Dr. Christen Mullane has been up to. She’s a clinical psychologist and certified...
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We’re out of balance with how much of our brain energy we give to certain numbers. Like when this happens in my brain: “How many likes did I get for that post?” A few minutes later…”How about now?” Not useful. I want the numbers I track and encourage my clients and listeners to track to be highly meaningful and helpful in making real business decisions. I never want those numbers to make us feel bad or to help us assess our worthiness. Fuck that. Useful numbers help us make decisions and pay attention to what we care about. Less useful numbers stress us out and distract us from...
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Today’s guest is a grad of CYP. If you want this to be the year you finally launch your course or make a pivot to coaching, do what she did. Get my support in a step-by-step process to create and launch it. Head over to . Don’t know what your topic will be? No idea where to start? You’ll be in good company. You do have a program in you. As this is going live, you can still get into the cohort that’s about to start. You’ll be launching your course by a few months from now. If you’re too late, get on the notification list for next time. That’s Now to today’s conversation: Dr....
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I met recently with a group of therapsits and healers who are getting ready to create high quality and life changing courses, workshops and programs. Each of them has a beautiful and unique glimmer of what they will create and they’ve got so much love for the people they’re creating for. Each creator has great personal reasons for creating their offerings: preventing their own burnout, making money without more sessions, having an outlet for their creativity, and creating a body of work that can be shared beyond the privacy of therapy sessions. I talked to them about how to get ready for...
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Join me for my annual free planning workshop: Plan Your Aligned Year. December 10th 11 am to 12:30 pm PT I take therapists and healers through a process to create their own courses and programs. That’s my whole job. When I recently got inspired to create a program that’s totally about healing and personal growth I took myself through my own process. I want to share that experience with you as a case study. In this episode, I share my process with you, both what steps I took and also what came up for me emotionally in that process. I’m sharing this to make it easier for you to create and...
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Wednesday, November 20th is the last day to sign up for early access to create your program. Do you have a sense of what having your own course or program could do for your career? If you’ve been sitting on an idea for a while, I want to invite you to create your program with me. This is the process where you take your incredible strengths as a therapist or healer and you create a signature program so that you can serve more people, make more money, and get your best ideas out of your head and into a unique container you’ll be able to offer over and over. We go through an 11 week process...
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Today I’m talking about how to run engaging and effective group calls in your signature program, rather than calls that leave people bored or frustrated or just not showing up. When I say PROGRAM, I’m talking about a niched, outcome oriented, structured container. Your program might be a workshop, retreat, group coaching program, course, or some hybrid of different formats. These are the kinds of programs that are always in demand because they actually help people make significant transformations. I’m not talking about flimsy self-led courses here. I’m talking about programs where your...
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The fact that you are providing a real and nuanced process rather than a quick fix is actually not a problem. It’s how you’re going to attract the right folks to your work. Therapists and healers work with me to create high quality, niched programs beyond private practice. The people I work with have a ton of integrity. What I mean by that is that the people I work with really give a shit about the work they do and the programs they create. They care deeply about the people they help. As they’re getting clear on their niches, I hear something like this from many of them: “I like to...
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If you want to work in a different way, but you feel like maybe it’s too late to start your own signature program or you regret not starting sooner, this episode is for you. In the last couple of years I have done a LOT of things that I had thought maybe it was too late to do. So I feel you. One of those has been returning to roller skating. You know the proverb. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time is now. For me, the best time to return to roller skate would have been 30 years ago. The next best time just happened. I went to roller discos as a kid in the early...
info_outlineI’ve had a hard time figuring out how to talk to you about this.
I never want to be a dream killer. Or a bummer.
If you’re thinking of creating and launching a signature program, I want you to do it. AND I’m gonna talk about one of the hardest parts of that today.
Then I’ll talk about how to handle this hard part. I promise.
In Create Your Program, I help a small group of therapists create their high quality, high touch, niched programs. And then I help them launch those programs so that they can actually start making money.
Those programs bring these entrepreneurs significant ongoing incomes.
Some folks choose to shrink or close their therapy practices or leave their agency jobs once their programs are established.
AND…one really hard part of that whole process is launching the program, especially for the first time.
Launching basically means sharing your program with people.
Launching involves two really hard things: being more visible and asking for help.
You have to be visible when you launch because you need to share your program with people so that they can sign up to work with you.
You have to ask for help because you need other people to help you spread the word.
Launching isn’t the hardest part of the process at all in terms of skills and it’s not the most time consuming part either. But emotionally it can be really hard, especially for sensitive souls.
We feel vulnerable and exposed when we launch, and we might even worry that we’re bugging people.
On top of that, most of the people in Create Your Program haven’t launched this kind of program before, so these are new muscles they’re using.
Launching can even give them queasy feelings.
And when something is emotionally hard, and makes one feel queasy, one finds a way to avoid it.
In Create Your Program, up until now I always walked people all the way up to that launching finish line. Participants got training and structure from me to create their launch plan. I encouraged them to take the brave final steps and even asked people to take some of that action on the final day of our program.
And some people did that! I ask participants to share their announcement emails with me, which are the emails they send out to their colleagues and communities.
I always received some on the final day of the program, and a bunch more in the following couple of weeks.
Lots of people would use the momentum of the program to follow through and continue implementing.
But some others would put it off.
They’d say they weren’t quite ready.
They’d say they started reconsidering their niche.
They’d say life started getting in the way so they didn’t get around to it yet.
Or many other valid things.
Side note:
As a very direct coach, I’ll tell you that these are people who really wanted to launch!
They were ready enough, and they had already done enough work on their niches. They had indeed done everything they needed to do in order to launch their pilot programs.
When I was describing this issue to my former business coach Claire Pelletreau, she said: “You have to walk them all the way over the finish line.”
And I knew she was right.
Immediately I made a change to Create Your Program.
And I’ll describe that in a minute.
Let’s talk about HOW we get ourselves over the finish line to accomplishing hard things in our businesses and lives in general.
Well, there’s accountability and support. Those help.
But you know what else helps?
A Hard Ass Deadline.
Accountability buddies usually don’t cut it for the really hard stuff. They’re helpful for getting focused, but not necessarily for getting over the finish line with the very hardest things.
Now I’ve got 2 short examples for you: Taxes and Art.
This just came up for me around my taxes.
I get intimidated by the process of my taxes every single year.
I’ve been trying to get my documents toghether to give my accountant for a while now. My accountant has a policy that once you turn in all your documents to her, THEN you can schedule an appointment. I called the office and begged them to please give me an appointment first and promised I’d get the docs turned in 2 weeks before that appointment. And they agreed. Phew. Now I have a Hard Ass Deadline.
As you’re listening to or reading this on or after March 19th, I promise you I’ve already handed in my documents to my accountant.
My partner is a neon artist. They’re also a neon sign maker. Most days they make and repair neon signs for people and businesses, or they create the neon aspects of art pieces for other artists.
But they make incredible art themself. AND almost all of the art they create happens when they’ve got a show coming up. Because being part of a show means having a deadline.
They sometimes say: “I SHOULD make more art. I WANT to make more art.”
They talk to their artist friends about making art. They get inspired thinking about what they’d like to make.
But it’s the deadline that gets them past all the hard parts and forces them to create wonderful pieces, some of which I won’t let them sell because I need to see them in our house every day.
Back to how we changed Create Your Program:
We’ve added an 11th week.
After meeting weekly for 10 weeks, we amp it up in the final week with more meetings and more support.
Here’s the Hard Ass Deadline: You have to submit the registration page for your pilot program in order to attend week 11.
During week 11, you take steps to launch your program while we are together.
You walk over the finish line with me and your cohort in real time.
It’s called Nausea Week.
That’s because getting visible and asking for help are really hard to do. And during nausea week, you’ll be doing both of those things.
It’s worth it.
When you actually launch your program, you’re WAY closer to creating the business you want.
And you get to start serving the people you made your program for.
I would LOVE to have you join me for Create Your Program.
We’re enrolling right now and the last day to sign up is March 26th. We’re already half full, so please register now.
I can’t wait to help you walk over the finish line and launch your signature program!
Register at https://rebeltherapist.me/create
Show notes at https://rebeltherapist.me/podcast/221