From Anxiety to Attendance: Rethinking SEMH Support with Helen Bray
Release Date: 10/02/2025
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As we approach the end of 2025, we want to take a moment to express our heartfelt thanks to you - our wonderful listeners! It has been another remarkable year with 52 episodes recorded, 35 new guest speakers and 100,000 downloads. Thank you for being part of this journey! I’m excited to share our latest episode of the SENDcast, where we explore the concept of "sticky learning" with the legendary Dr. Susie Nyman! A recently retired curriculum manager with 29 years of experience, Susie shares her insights on how to make learning truly resonate with students, especially those with special...
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Breaking the Cycle: How Informed Parents Can Change the SEND System with Samantha Ryan
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info_outlineAttendance is a national priority, yet many interventions focus on behaviour management rather than addressing underlying SEMH needs.
Helen Bray, the Director of SEND for the East Midlands Education Trust, joins Dale today to discuss the impact of SEMH challenges, post-pandemic trauma, and the rise of emotionally based school avoidance on attendance rates. With over 20 years of experience across early years, primary, and secondary education, Helen is incredibly passionate about supporting all pupils to succeed.
“It's so isolating and so hard for these children and parents where they just physically cannot walk through those gates”.
Helen Bray
Listen to hear the underlying reasons for low attendance and how they connect to students’ emotional readiness. Helen highlights strategies schools can implement to create a supportive environment for students facing these challenges. She emphasises the importance of building strong relationships with students and their families to foster trust and engagement.
Helen also shares insights on how we can better understand our children’s needs and the importance of being flexible in our approaches to support.
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About Helen Bray
Director of SEND for the East Midlands Education Trust, with 20 years of experience in teaching and leadership across early years, primary, and secondary education. A passionate advocate for adaptive practice, I work with schools to embed it as the golden thread through all teaching and learning.
I champion relational practice, ensuring high-quality SEMH support is a core part of every school’s universal offer. Committed to breaking down the silos, I believe in a holistic approach to supporting children and young people. I also collaborate closely with local authorities to improve inclusion services for children and families.
Contact Helen
www.linkedin.com/in/helen-bray-b8130826a
Useful Links
Positive Social : Helping young people survive + thrive on social media
Mental health issues affecting a pupil's attendance: guidance for schools - GOV.UK
When the adults change, everything changes by Paul Dix
Survival Psychology – Tony Brooks
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