EP 3811 Not all advice is good advice
The Strong Life Project Podcast
Not all advice is good advice — and learning to recognise the difference is a critical part of becoming stronger, more resilient and more effective in life. Throughout your life, people will give you advice about your career, relationships, family, health, money, leadership and personal development. Some of it will be valuable. Some of it will be completely irrelevant to your circumstances. And some of it can actively make your life worse. The problem is that advice often comes from people who genuinely believe they are helping you. They may have good intentions, but good intentions don’t...
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EP 3810 They can't keep the mask on forever
The Strong Life Project Podcast
Narcissists can be incredibly difficult to deal with because they rarely show you who they really are at the beginning. They can be charming, confident, generous and highly engaging — until the mask starts to slip. Eventually, patterns of manipulation, control, blame-shifting, gaslighting, entitlement and emotional abuse can become impossible to ignore. In EP 3810 of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores what happens when you find yourself dealing with narcissistic behaviour and, more importantly, how you can protect yourself without getting dragged into their game. The key is...
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EP 3809 Why do entitled people think they are so important?
The Strong Life Project Podcast
Why do some people seem to believe they are more important than everyone else? Why do they expect special treatment, demand attention, become offended when they don’t get their way, and struggle to accept responsibility when things go wrong? In EP 3809 of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores the psychology and behaviour behind entitlement—and why an inflated sense of self-importance can damage relationships, careers, leadership and personal growth. Entitlement isn’t simply confidence. Healthy confidence allows you to know your value without needing to diminish anyone else....
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EP 3808 Don't always think of the worst case
The Strong Life Project Podcast
In EP 3808 of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores a simple but powerful habit that can quietly increase stress, anxiety and overwhelm: always expecting the worst-case scenario. Whether you work in a high-pressure profession, lead a team, raise a family or simply deal with the uncertainty of everyday life, your brain is designed to look for potential threats. That instinct can be useful when danger is real—but when it becomes your default way of thinking, it can make you live in problems that haven’t happened yet. Shaun explains why constantly preparing for the worst can...
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EP 3807 Putting your head in the sand isn't a strategy
The Strong Life Project Podcast
Avoiding difficult conversations, ignoring uncomfortable emotions, or pretending problems will disappear may feel easier in the moment, but it is one of the fastest ways to create unnecessary stress, frustration, and long term pain. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores why putting your head in the sand is never a strategy for building a successful life. Whether it is your health, relationships, career, finances, or mental wellbeing, the issues you avoid today almost always become bigger tomorrow. Fear, uncertainty, and discomfort often convince us that delaying...
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EP 3806 Lazy people do little and complain when they fail
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Success is rarely determined by talent alone. More often, it comes down to consistent effort, personal accountability, and the willingness to do the work that other people avoid. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores why many people remain stuck in lives they dislike while blaming circumstances, luck, other people, or the system for their lack of progress. Lazy behaviour is not simply about avoiding physical work. It often appears as procrastination, endless planning without execution, making excuses, seeking comfort over growth, and expecting extraordinary...
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EP 3805 Learn how to give less fucks
The Strong Life Project Podcast
Too many people spend their lives trapped by the opinions, expectations and judgments of others. They overthink every decision, avoid difficult conversations and sacrifice their own happiness in an attempt to keep everyone else comfortable. The result is stress, anxiety, resentment and a life that never truly feels like their own. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores what it really means to “give less fucks.” This isn’t about becoming selfish, arrogant or uncaring. It’s about learning to stop wasting your emotional energy on people and situations that...
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EP 3804 You're only looking at their highlight reel
The Strong Life Project Podcast
In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores one of the biggest traps undermining confidence, resilience and mental wellbeing: comparing your everyday reality to someone else’s carefully curated highlight reel. Social media has made it easier than ever to believe everyone else is happier, wealthier, fitter and more successful. What you rarely see are the setbacks, failures, sacrifices, loneliness, financial stress or self doubt that sit behind those polished moments. When you compare your behind the scenes reality to another person’s best moments, you create an...
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EP 3803 Would you rather be the bad guy or the fool?
The Strong Life Project Podcast
One of the hardest lessons in life is accepting that you cannot make everyone happy. Too many people sacrifice their own wellbeing because they are terrified of disappointing others. They stay in unhealthy relationships, tolerate poor behaviour at work, avoid difficult conversations, and carry burdens that were never theirs to carry. Eventually, the cost becomes overwhelming. In this episode, Shaun O’Gorman explores a confronting but liberating question. Would you rather be the bad guy in someone else’s story or the fool in your own? The reality is that setting boundaries often means...
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EP 3802 This too shall pass
The Strong Life Project Podcast
Life has a way of convincing us that whatever we are experiencing right now will last forever. Whether it is overwhelming stress, grief, failure, anxiety, success, or happiness, we often become trapped in the belief that our current circumstances define our future. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores the timeless reminder that this too shall pass and why embracing this mindset can dramatically reduce stress while building resilience. Drawing on decades of experience as a former Queensland Police Officer, leadership coach, and resilience specialist, Shaun...
info_outlineNot all advice is good advice — and learning to recognise the difference is a critical part of becoming stronger, more resilient and more effective in life.
Throughout your life, people will give you advice about your career, relationships, family, health, money, leadership and personal development. Some of it will be valuable. Some of it will be completely irrelevant to your circumstances. And some of it can actively make your life worse.
The problem is that advice often comes from people who genuinely believe they are helping you. They may have good intentions, but good intentions don’t automatically make their advice useful. Someone can care about you deeply and still give you advice based on their own fears, experiences, limitations and worldview rather than what is actually right for you.
In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores why you need to stop automatically accepting advice simply because it comes from someone you respect. Instead, you need to develop the ability to assess advice objectively, understand where it is coming from and determine whether it actually applies to your situation.
This is particularly important for men who want to become better leaders, fathers, partners, professionals and human beings. Strength isn’t about thinking you have all the answers. It’s about having the confidence and emotional intelligence to listen, question, evaluate and ultimately make your own decisions.
You’ll learn why blindly following other people’s advice can hold you back, how to distinguish useful guidance from projection, and why taking responsibility for your decisions is essential to building a strong life.
If you’re serious about personal growth, resilience, leadership and becoming a better man, this episode will challenge you to think more critically about whose advice you accept — and why.