66. The #1 Skill: How to Win Friends and Gain Influence (Dale Carnegie) - Part 2
The Unlimited Potential Show I Relatable Self Development
Release Date: 04/27/2022
The Unlimited Potential Show I Relatable Self Development
Let’s face it, we all have little quirks or do things we maybe shouldn’t do throughout the day. For example, have you ever found yourself gazing through the fridge without even being hungry? Perhaps you incessantly check your email just to see if there's anything new. Or maybe you have engaged in the act of gossiping behind someone's back. Moments like these (and countless others) in our daily lives all have something in common. Can you guess what it is? The answer may surprise you. When you take a deeper look into psychology and learn more about why humans do what they do, you’ll...
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Time isn't the main thing, it's the only thing. - Miles Davis A few weeks ago we did an episode on motivation and we covered some of the major points from a keynote speech Dr. Ram heard from Daniel Pink. He was so fascinated by some of the concepts that he talked about during the event, he had to dig deeper specifically into one of his books called “When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing.” Today we are going to cover the main takeaways you need to know to unlock your Unlimited Potential! If you haven’t already read When here is some context about the book. It was published in...
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Today on the show we have (in our opinion) one of the best guests to date! Hit play to meet Alan Stein Jr. He's a successful basketball performance coach who's worked alongside and with superstars like Steph Curry, Kevin Durant, and Kobe Bryant for over 15 years. Since then he transitioned his career to one of a keynote speaker for major companies like Pepsi and Amex, and more. He has customized programs that are designed to transfer his unique expertise to maximize both individual and organizational performance. This insanely valuable conversation was too good we had to...
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At the end of the day, we all want to go to bed at night knowing we performed at our best…and every morning we should be motivated to perform at an even higher level than the day before. But what actually gives us this type of motivation? In this two-part series, we hope to answer that question and more. If you haven’t listened to part one of this conversation, go back and do so before jumping in! We cover a few powerful concepts we think all leaders should know. If you have already heard episode 78, hit play to hear the conclusion to our deep dive conversation on the topic of all...
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At the end of the day, we all want to go to bed at night knowing we performed at our best…and every morning we should be motivated to perform at an even higher level than the day before. But what actually gives us this type of motivation? In this two-part series, we hope to answer that question and more. Hit play to hear our deep dive conversation on the topic of all things “motivation!” Today's episode is actually inspired by a keynote speech Dr. Ram heard recently at a conference. The speech was called “5 ways of increasing performance amongst yourself or, and those you work...
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info_outlineWelcome back to the Unlimited Potential Show! Today is part two of our six-part series on the trailblazing book “How To Win Friends And Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. This book has been mentioned as one of the most influential books by some of the highest performers around the world. That’s pretty amazing for a book written in 1936!
While 2022 may seem like a world away, this book is stuffed with insight and wisdom that has withstood the test of time. If you want to create deep connections with others and positively influence the future of our world, then don’t miss this series! Hit play to join the conversation and gain foundational principles that will serve you (and others) for years to come.
In today’s episode, we talk about the six ways to make people like you. Have you ever left a conversation that just made you feel good inside? Maybe they left a good impression or took an interest in your life, whatever it was, it just made you feel valued. This isn’t just the work of a charismatic person, it’s a life skill you can learn.
Join us as we talk about the best ways to connect with others on a deeper level while also enriching your own life. It may sound backwards, but you’ll discover how the best way to get people to like you is to make it about them. That’s why today we give you the practical tips for conversations you need to make sure whoever you talk to feels heard, understood, and most of all, important.
While the subject may be other people, there’s no denying the benefits that a good conversation can have on you. Listen in as we talk about the importance of deep friendships and how they are the key to living a more fulfilled life. You’ll hear real-life examples of how these principles can change the way people see you, as well as other tips to take your communication to the next level.
We believe that tapping into your Unlimited Potential is more than just self-improvement; it’s about making the world a better place. This episode is fundamental to understanding the best way to connect with others and start that world-changing journey today.
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More Of What’s Inside:
- Why you need quality relationships in your life
- The science behind social interaction
- How to always make a good impression
- Why your smile can be your greatest weapon
- How you can remember more people’s names
- What will take your friendship to the next level
- Practical ways to become a good listener
- Real-life examples of how these principles work!
- How to cultivate interest in things you wouldn’t usually be interested in
- What really makes people feel valued
- How superficial relationships affect society
- And much more!
Episode Related Links:
- Book: How To Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie
- Website: https://www.dalecarnegie.com/en
- Episode 12: The Art Of Learning: Train Your Brain To Learn Faster
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Episode Minute By Minute:
- 0:02 - A peek into the episode
- 1:23 - What we cover today!
- 2:16 - Conversation starts
- 7:31 - 6 ways to make people like you
- 11:35 - Practical ways to make others feel important
- 15:46 - How to be more interesting in one simple step
- 19:38 - The power of your smile
- 24:02 - Why its important to know other’s names
- 31:00 - Social media and superficial relationships
- 33:05 - Principle 4: ask, listen and help others express themselves
- 38:09 - How to never have a lull in your conversations
- 42:48 - The importance of engaging in people’s emotions
- 45:35 - Be sincere, and others will feel valued
- 51:22 - Closing thoughts; We need this more than ever!