A Primer for Forgetting - But Is It a Primer for Repairing?
Release Date: 10/11/2025
Drink Your Way Sober - Blocked (Receptors) and Reported (Sobriety)
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Replay - Groundhog Day in Novel Form, Sadly Without Any Groundhogs
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Replay By: Ken Grimwood Published: 1998 320 Pages Briefly, what is this book about? A man dies and is sent back to his 18 year old self to relive his life over, and over, and over. Every time he dies he’s sent back. He dies in 1988, and awakens in 1963, so there’s a lot of discussion of those years (Kennedy Assassination, Moon landing, Iran Hostage crisis, etc.) Who should read this book? I came across a recommendation for this book on a Youtube channel that was doing a survey of all the movies that had functionally the same premise as Groundhog Day. And he included the book as sort...
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What Fresh Hell Awaits Us When SEO Is Replaced With AIO?
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It took 20 years from Bell inventing the telegraph before someone sent an ad with it. It took ~7 years for the first piece of email spam to be sent. Any bets on what it will look like for AI? Experimental AI Summary: I open with my own costly, underwhelming SEO experiment and the fact that I’ve mostly abandoned Google for LLMs, arguing that if AI chat replaces search then AIO (AI optimization) will replace SEO. I frame influence as “numerous / high-reputation / mentions,” recall the web’s shift from Yahoo’s directory to Google’s PageRank—where “reputation” changed...
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Modern Physics and Ancient Faith - Don’t Mess With the Strong Nuclear Force!
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If you had been placing bets 150 years ago around what physics would have to say about the existence of God, you would have lost a lot of money. Modern Physics and Ancient Faith By: Stephen M. Barr Published: 2003 312 Pages Briefly, what is this book about? Barr takes all the discoveries of 20th-century physics, stuff like the Big Bang, quantum mechanics, the various forces, and argues that all of these things are more compatible with belief in God, specifically a traditional Judeo-Christian God, than with a belief in pure materialism. This is illustrated most succinctly in the...
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Age of Diagnosis - Words Have Power! (said the podcaster)
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You’ve heard about placebo’s? Well what about nocebos? The Age of Diagnosis: How Our Obsession with Medical Labels Is Making Us Sicker By: Suzanne O'Sullivan Published: 2025 320 Pages Briefly, what is this book about? The idea that putting labels on something is not a free lunch—like everything else there are tradeoffs. Rather than framing numerous illnesses as being psychosomatic, O'Sullivan seems more to be suggesting that humans are very suggestible. (I get the meta-ness of the statement.) As such, once you generate a label it has a tendency to warp identities, and make people seek...
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Inner Excellence - The Fine Line Between Cliche and Coaching
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It’s another self help book. Is this the one that will finally put you over the top, or another in a long line of endeavors that look like progress, but are really procrastination? Inner Excellence: Train Your Mind for Extraordinary Performance and the Best Possible Life By: Jim Murphy Published: 2020 360 Pages Briefly, what is this book about? As you have already gathered, this is a self-help book. One of thousands (millions?) so the point is what sets this one apart from all those other books? I’m sure it hasn’t avoided all overlap, but the book does have a focus on character, and...
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Damnable Tales - Spooky Stories for Long Nights
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Thomas Hardy wrote horror? Damnable Tales: A Folk Horror Anthology By: Various, Edited by Richard Wells Published: 2021 479 Pages Briefly, what is this book about? A collection of 22 older scary stories, presented in chronological order. The oldest story is from 1875, while the newest was written in 1965. But the majority are clustered in the late-victorian period 1880-1910. It includes stories from a few authors you might not expect like Thomas Hardy and Robert Louis Stevenson. Who should read this book? Anyone who has enjoyed an HP Lovecraft story will probably enjoy this book. Though...
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Game Wizards - Epic Rap Battles of History Gygax v. Arneson
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Gary Gygax (Grognard 13/Writer 10/Businessman 2) vs. Dave Arneson (Plaintiff 14/Storyteller 9/Writer 1) Game Wizards: The Epic Battle for Dungeons & Dragons By: Jon Peterson Published: 2021 400 Pages Briefly, what is this book about? The history of Dungeons and Dragons, TSR’s meteoric rise, the fights that inevitably happen when something becomes enormously successful, and the catastrophes that follow when people are in way over their head. What's the author's angle? Peterson is the man when it comes to the history of RPGs and D&D in particular. He’s basically a historian, and he...
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Progressive Myths - Some of the Things You’ve Been Told Are Wrong
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It’s possible that in our pursuit of justice and equity that a few things might have been exaggerated. Progressive Myths By: Michael Huemer Published: 2024 277 Pages Briefly, what is this book about? A wide-ranging debunking of most of the myths that flourished during the recent peak of social justice activism. Some myths concern specific incidents like those around Michael Brown and Kyle Rittenhouse. Others are ideological myths like the gender pay gap, or the efficiency of masks at preventing the spread of COVID. In total he covers twenty different myths. What's the author's angle?...
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The Bushido of Bitcoin - How Chivalry and Sound Money Will Save Us
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I expected to see a katana plunged into the heart of crypto. Instead I got a piece of wall art, where the two ideas were placed in near proximity, but without any contact. The Bushido of Bitcoin By: Aleksandar Svetski Published: 2024 529 Pages Briefly, what is this book about? Bitcoin will be the thing that saves the world from the fiat money created, debt fueled dystopia we’re already descending into. As part of this salvation it will require people to adopt ancient (though also somewhat apocryphal) warrior virtues. Specifically: righteousness, courage, compassion, honor, honesty,...
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A Primer for Forgetting: Getting Past the Past
By: Lewis Hyde
Published: 2019
384 Pages
Briefly, what is this book about?
The necessity of forgetting, as conveyed through a broad collection of stories, essays, quotes, reflections, etc. It’s more atmospheric than prescriptive.
What's the author's angle?
This is an important writer, doing important writing, lauded as important by other writers, teaching at an important university (for a time Harvard). None of this is necessarily bad, and it can be quite good, but you should know what you’re in for.
Who should read this book?
David Foster Wallace (who I greatly admire) called Hyde “One of our true superstars of nonfiction” though he can’t have been talking about this book since it was published long after he was dead. If his statement or anything in the last section piques your interest, then perhaps you will enjoy this book. I’m sorry I can’t be more specific. It’s that kind of book.
Specific thoughts: An attempt to eat his cake and have it.