Episode 368: The Final Episode Of What's A Good Guy?
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After 8 years, 360+ episodes, and countless personal sacrifices, this conversation asks one of the hardest questions any creator can face: when is it time to walk away? In this raw and emotional episode of What’s A Good Guy, the guys unpack the real cost of oversharing, creative burnout, unmet expectations, and the quiet resentment that can grow when passion turns into obligation. This isn’t about views, algorithms, or virality — it’s about fulfillment, peace, and purpose. The episode is sparked by a larger conversation about art imitating life, inspired by music, storytelling, and how...
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Episode 366: Multiple Hats
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What happens when passion turns into pressure? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, we break down the real cost of wearing multiple hats as a creator, entrepreneur, and business owner — the burnout, the identity struggle, and the quiet pressure no one talks about. This conversation starts with a simple question: How long can you keep building something before it starts asking more from you than you can give? From podcasting and production to entrepreneurship, creative control, and intellectual property, we unpack what it really means to do everything yourself. We talk about: • Wearing...
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Episode 365: Too Cool For School
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Being called “nonchalant” can feel like an insult — but what if it’s actually a symptom, not the problem? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, the guys unpack the real meaning behind being labeled too cool for school, emotionally unavailable, or “nonchalant” in modern relationships. They dive deep into emotional safety, communication breakdowns, compatibility, love languages, and why people shut down when their feelings are constantly taken as attacks. This isn’t surface-level dating talk. This conversation explores how people confuse calmness with disinterest,...
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Episode 364: No Contact
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How do you really heal after a breakup? What happens when “no contact” becomes the only option — not because you want it, but because it’s the only way to protect your sanity? In this raw and vulnerable episode, the guys break down the truth about no contact — the confusion, the emotional waves, the overthinking, the hope, the grief, and the realization that moving on isn’t as simple as cutting communication. From unexpected triggers, to discovering things you never wanted to know, to the battle between ego and heartbreak, this conversation dives deep into what actually happens...
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Episode 362: Back In My Day
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“Back in my day, we didn’t do that…” You’ve heard it. Maybe you say it. But what if your nostalgia is lying to you? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, the guys break down the dangerous comfort of living in the past — from “back in my day” speeches to people who secretly peaked in high school and never evolved. They talk about how technology changed human interaction, why some folks only feel important when they retell their glory days, and what it really means to pivot instead of “fall off.” They dive into parenting, gentle parenting vs old-school beatings, learning...
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Episode 359: You're Not Giving Me Enough
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When someone tells you, “You’re not giving me enough,” are they wilding… or are you actually coasting? In this raw, hilarious and honest episode of What’s A Good Guy, Don and LA break down what it really means to ask for more in relationships—more effort, more enthusiasm, more honesty, more of the real you. From intrusive thoughts (“Do I give my girl the ick?”) to partners who only reply with dry “word” and “that’s what’s up” when you talk about the future, this episode dives into bare minimum love, emotional effort, modern dating standards, resentment, and...
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Episode 358: Insane To You, Sane To Me
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Episode 357: Note To Self
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This episode is your “Note to Self” toolkit—the simple, repeatable mental reminders that keep you steady through the day, week, month, and year. We break down self-talk scripts, rest vs. laziness, journaling cues, priority setting, and how to ask for help—so you can move from overwhelm to momentum. If you’ve been juggling goals, relationships, and holiday pressure, these Note-to-Self pillars will help: Write it down. Move slower to move better. Rest counts. Speak up. Forgive yourself. Aim for consistency, not perfection. We also touch on exploring ADHD with a professional (not...
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Episode 356: Birth Order Executive Produced By T-Smooth
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Are you the firstborn “trial run,” the middle mediator, or the youngest free spirit? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, we unpack how birth order can shape your personality, habits, and relationships—from responsibility and independence to communication, boundaries, and even who parents “favor” for different things. We open with Rose–Bud–Thorn life updates (work wins, sleep/fitness struggles, debt payoff, holidays, health), then dive into a listener-prompted convo on firstborn vs middle vs youngest dynamics. Expect real stories, practical insights, and honest laughs about...
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Episode 355: Get That Knot Out
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In this episode of What's A Good Guy, the crew dives into the emotional “knots” we carry — unresolved beefs, old friendships, unspoken issues, pride, ego, and the way unhealed situations still control our reactions years later. Inspired by physical therapy and “getting the knots out,” this conversation draws a powerful parallel between tight muscles and tight emotions. We break down: Why some people still move with tension YEARS after the fallout Why you can be “over it” verbally but still triggered by their presence When pride keeps you knotted up and unable to heal Why avoiding...
info_outlineNot every connection starts with sparks flying — some take time to heat up. In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we explore the concept of a slow burn in dating: What does it mean to be one? What adjustments does it take to date someone who moves at a different pace? And what happens when someone becomes a slow burn midway through the dating experience — after the fire already started? The guys share personal experiences, reflect on patience, expectations, and the challenge of maintaining emotional momentum when one person needs more time to open up. Is a slow burn worth the wait — or is it just an excuse for someone who’s not ready? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!