Episode 334: No Bad Blood
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In this episode, the guys dive into what it really means to leave situations—jobs, relationships, or friendships—without bitterness. Inspired by Don’s personal story of being let go from PBS only to be offered his position back later, this conversation unpacks the power of handling setbacks with grace. We explore: – The importance of not burning bridges – Why you won’t always get closure (and why that’s okay) – How “no bad blood” can be one-sided – The quiet strength in walking away without a scene – How life has a funny way of circling back This one is about maturity,...
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Episode 333: Who Are You Really? Featuring Vic
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Who are you when no one’s watching? And more importantly — are you comfortable with the answer? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we’re joined by the multi-hyphenate himself — Vic: fashion designer, stylist, basketball referee, teacher of life, dean, devoted partner, and part of the powerhouse brand Tier NYC. But today, we’re not talking titles — we’re talking identity. We explore questions like: • When do you truly know who you are? • What shapes your style, character, and personality? • Can you be proud of your reflection without the resume? From growth and...
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Episode 332: Comfort Zone
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In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, the guys reflect on their latest Sunday adventure at Burgers & Bottles, where Lashawn surprised everyone by stepping out of his comfort zone and becoming the life of the party. As he navigated socializing and attracting plenty of attention, the crew dives into what it means to truly come out of your shell. Lashawn shares his firsthand experience of breaking out of his usual mold and how it felt to embrace a new social dynamic. From there, the conversation shifts to handling social criticism while chasing success, and the importance of taking risks...
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Episode 331: Slow Burn
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Not every connection starts with sparks flying — some take time to heat up. In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we explore the concept of a slow burn in dating: What does it mean to be one? What adjustments does it take to date someone who moves at a different pace? And what happens when someone becomes a slow burn midway through the dating experience — after the fire already started? The guys share personal experiences, reflect on patience, expectations, and the challenge of maintaining emotional momentum when one person needs more time to open up. Is a slow burn worth the wait —...
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Episode 330: Where Are You Meeting Them?
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We kick off this episode answering Bri’s question: “Where are you meeting women these days?” That opens the door to a full conversation on how dating has changed — where men meet women, how we approach them, and whether real effort still matters in today’s world. Then Kojo takes it deeper — questioning if What’s A Good Guy? needs to be backed by a white man to reach its full potential, and whether Lashawn might be holding himself — and the brand — back by playing it safe. The first 37 minutes are packed with real talk, tough truths, and a lot of laughs. But trust us… it’s...
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Episode 329: Know Your Privilege
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This week on What’s A Good Guy?, Quanny’s still not letting Justin off the hook. After watching Forever on Netflix, he makes the case that Justin needs to recognize the privilege he was operating from — even if it wasn’t loud, it was still real. That sparks a deeper conversation: Do people actually know when they’re privileged? And at what age do they start to realize it? Quanny throws out a bold question — “Do you think white kids know their privilege by 17?” — and from there, the debate gets real. We also open up about the different forms of privilege we hold, from family...
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Episode 328: You're A Bum Forever {Patreon Preview}
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We watched Netflix’s Forever… and let’s just say, things got heated. Justin & Keisha’s relationship? Justin’s decision to skip school? His mom vs. dad’s parenting styles? Quanny calling Justin a bum? Yeah… that turned into a full-blown debate on how we’d handle things if Justin was our son. The first 34 minutes are on YouTube & DSPs. The rest? You already know — Patreon exclusive. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn:...
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Episode 327: Applying Pressure
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This week on What’s A Good Guy?, we’re talking about the art — and the risk — of applying pressure when you’re pursuing someone. Is there a fine line between showing genuine interest and begging for attention? Can consistency still look desperate in the wrong context? The guys open up about how they each “applied pressure” to win over their significant other, what worked, what backfired, and where they draw the line between confidence and chasing. We’re diving into real stories, real lessons, and real questions: • When is it okay to go the extra mile? • Is...
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In The Real World Episode 5: Nobody Is Going To Save You
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This week on What’s A Good Guy?, we’re switching things up. While the guys weren’t able to record, we’re publicly releasing a Patreon-exclusive episode from our bonus series: The Real World, hosted by Quanny. If you’re new here, The Real World is where Quanny challenges social norms and calls it like he sees it — no sugarcoating, just real talk. In Episode 5, Quanny covers: • Why new drivers are a danger to society • The contradictions in doing things we know aren’t okay • What it really takes to maintain your identity in a chaotic world • And the cold reality that...
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Episode 326: Standing On Business
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This week on What’s A Good Guy?, Lashawn opens up about a week full of standing on business — whether it was handling professional moves, responding to 3 a.m. text messages, or dealing with someone who ghosted him suddenly spinning the block. The conversation takes a deeper turn when Kojo shares why, for some people, it’s easier to process things alone rather than talk it out — and how emotional independence can feel like both strength and survival. From awkward reappearances to emotional boundaries, this episode is a blend of real talk, vulnerability, and a few laughs in...
info_outlineNot every connection starts with sparks flying — some take time to heat up. In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we explore the concept of a slow burn in dating: What does it mean to be one? What adjustments does it take to date someone who moves at a different pace? And what happens when someone becomes a slow burn midway through the dating experience — after the fire already started? The guys share personal experiences, reflect on patience, expectations, and the challenge of maintaining emotional momentum when one person needs more time to open up. Is a slow burn worth the wait — or is it just an excuse for someone who’s not ready? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!