What's A Good Guy?
What's A Good Guy Podcast Airing Every Monday. Where Don P & Lashawn discuss multiple topics from relationships to current events in hopes to figure out what exactly is a good guy. Two Guys, Two perspectives, One objective! To stay updated, follow us on social media Twitter: @whatsagoodguy Instagram: @whatsagoodguy Facebook Page: @whatsagoodguy Also follow us individually Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly LA Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/whats-a-good-guy/support
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Episode 345: Stagnant Can't Be The Word
09/15/2025
Episode 345: Stagnant Can't Be The Word
YP's Journey to Success: From the Bronx to Global Stages | What's Good Podcast Join us on the What's Good Podcast as we sit down with Young Prince (YP), the dynamic host taking the world by storm! From his roots in the Bronx to hosting at Madison Square Garden and Afro Future in Ghana, YP shares his inspiring journey, the risks he took, and the faith that drives him. 🌍🎤 We dive into his rise in the entertainment industry, balancing fame, staying relevant, and the power of his team. Plus, hear about his unforgettable moments with Burna Boy, Spice, and more! 🚀 Don’t miss this raw, real, and motivating convo about chasing dreams and never settling. Like, comment, and subscribe for new episodes every Monday at 8 AM on whatsagoodguy.com! 🔔 Please visit our website to get more information: 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. ✅ Support Us Here! Patreon: 🔗 Stay Connected With Us. Facebook: Instagram: TikTok: Twitter (X): Website: 🔗 Connect with Don: Twitter: Instagram: 🔗 Connect with Lashawn: Twitter: Instagram: 📩 For business inquiries: [email protected]
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Episode 343: Mute, Block and Unfollow Executive Produced By SkipFromBK
09/08/2025
Episode 343: Mute, Block and Unfollow Executive Produced By SkipFromBK
In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, produced by SkipFromBk, Don and LA dive deep into the unspoken rules of social media boundaries. We ask the tough questions: What makes you mute, block, or unfollow someone? Do you take offense when it happens to you? Is it about jealousy, insecurity, healing, or just protecting your peace? Do you notice if someone has muted you? From friendships and dating to family and business relationships, we explore how these small clicks can carry big emotional weight. 💭 👉 Comment below: Have you ever muted, blocked, or unfollowed someone—and why? Please visit our website to get more information: 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. ✅ Support Us Here! Patreon: 🔗 Stay Connected With Us. Facebook: Instagram: TikTok: Twitter (X): Website: 🔗 Connect with Don: Twitter: Instagram: 🔗 Connect with Lashawn: Twitter: Instagram: 📩 For business inquiries: [email protected]
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Episode 342: The Art Or The Bread
09/01/2025
Episode 342: The Art Or The Bread
Passion vs Profit: Should Art Be for Love or Money? Should you create for the love of art or chase profit?:🎨💰In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, Don, Kojo, and LA dive into the passion vs profit debate—a conversation every creative, entrepreneur, and dreamer faces. The discussion kicks off when Don insists on refining his video edits to sharpen his skills, while Kojo argues, “If it’s not broken, don’t fix it.” This sparks a bigger question: does recognition come from your passion for the art or the compensation that validates it? We break it all down: • Joe Budden’s reported $20 million a year podcast career 🎙️ • Basketball players chasing money vs championship rings 🏀 • What “selling out” really means in music & business • Why LA believes choosing money over passion is sometimes survival, not greed • And how creatives can balance art, money, and authenticity This isn’t just about art—it’s about life, career, and what drives us forward. 👉 Comment below: Are you team Passion ❤️ or team Profit 💵? Please visit our website to get more information: 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. ✅ Support Us Here! Patreon: 🔗 Stay Connected With Us. Facebook: Instagram: TikTok: Twitter (X): Website: 🔗 Connect with Don: Twitter: Instagram: 🔗 Connect with Lashawn: Twitter: Instagram: 📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] ============================= 🎬Suggested videos for you: ▶️ ▶️ ▶️ ▶️ ▶️ ▶️ ▶️ ▶️ ▶️ ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0nTgGG61HpY ================================= ✅ About What's A Good Guy? Welcome to What’s A Good Guy? Every Monday, we, Don P and LA, sit down to unpack the real questions around life, love, and everything in between. From relationships and culture to current events and personal growth, we bring two perspectives with one objective – to figure out what truly makes a good guy. You'll get honest conversations, unfiltered opinions, and plenty of laughs as we break down the moments and topics that matter most. So join the discussion – because the answer to What’s A Good Guy? might be closer than you think. For Business inquiries, please use the contact information below: 📩 Email: [email protected] 🔔 If you’re looking for real conversations on life, love, and culture, hit subscribe! Stay tuned for unfiltered opinions, honest podcasts, and fresh perspectives. https://www.youtube.com/@WhatsAGoodGuy/?sub_confirmation=1 ================================= #PassionVsProfit #Creativity #PodcastDiscussion #WhatsAGoodGuy #PassionVsProfit #ArtVsMoney #PodcastDiscussion #SellingOut #JoeBudden #CreativeEntrepreneur Passion vs Profit: Should Art Be for Love or Money?
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In The Real World Episode 8: Tone Police
08/25/2025
In The Real World Episode 8: Tone Police
Does tone matter more than words in communication? We’ve all heard it: “It’s not what you said, it’s how you said it.” But is that really true? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy? podcast, we explore how tone, delivery, and energy can completely change the meaning of your words. From heated arguments to heartfelt conversations, your tone of voice in communication might matter more than the actual words you use. We break down: • What is tone policing? • Should we focus more on what is said or how it’s said? • Can tone save a bad message—or ruin a good one? • How tone impacts conflict resolution, love, and respect. 👉 Drop a comment: What matters more to YOU in communication—tone or words? Please visit our website to get more information: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com/ 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. https://www.youtube.com/@WhatsAGoodGuy/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Support Us Here! Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy 🔗 Stay Connected With Us. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/whatsagoodguy Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy Twitter (X): https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com/ 🔗 Connect with Don: Twitter: https://x.com/donpeezly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donpeezly/ 🔗 Connect with Lashawn: Twitter: https://x.com/stayfocusla Instagram: http://instagram.com/stayfocusla/ 📩 For business inquiries: [email protected] ============================= 🎬Suggested videos for you: ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZnRsFSJDmo ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4NIq3FeA2_c ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyclzfdH5QY ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0wNleKNjlo ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPt2ugslbCA ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-dHymGR1Yu0 ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_Rxm6-XkEM ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hwj0yokf97k ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CdCCg8T7yu8 ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0nTgGG61HpY ================================= ✅ About What's A Good Guy? Welcome to What’s A Good Guy? Every Monday, we, Don P and LA, sit down to unpack the real questions around life, love, and everything in between. From relationships and culture to current events and personal growth, we bring two perspectives with one objective – to figure out what truly makes a good guy. You'll get honest conversations, unfiltered opinions, and plenty of laughs as we break down the moments and topics that matter most. So join the discussion – because the answer to What’s A Good Guy? might be closer than you think. For Business inquiries, please use the contact information below: 📩 Email: [email protected] 🔔 If you’re looking for real conversations on life, love, and culture, hit subscribe! Stay tuned for unfiltered opinions, honest podcasts, and fresh perspectives. https://www.youtube.com/@WhatsAGoodGuy/?sub_confirmation=1 ================================= Does Tone Matter More Than Words in Communication? 00:00:00 Intro & Setting Up The Conversation 00:01:21 What is “Tone Policing”? 00:03:25 Tone in Arguments 00:12:00 Timing & Mental State in Arguments 00:20:50 Are We Too Sensitive as a Society? 00:32:00 Should You Let Your Partner Go? 00:36:45 The “Fixer” Partner Dynamic 00:52:03 Loan Tweet & Paying Off Debt 01:02:00 Classism, Taste & Better Living 01:10:45 Proverbs 15:1 & Closing Thoughts #ToneMatters #CommunicationTips #PodcastDiscussion #RelationshipAdvice #EffectiveCommunication #ConflictResolution #ActiveListening #healthycommunication #TonePolice #PodcastClips #WhatsAGoodGuy #LifeConversations Why Your Tone Could Make or Break Any Conversation
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Episode 341: The Spark
08/18/2025
Episode 341: The Spark
Does a great relationship require that instant spark—or is true love built slowly over time? In this episode, we dive deep into the myths of attraction, chemistry, and how relationships really grow. From the excitement of butterflies to the security of a slow burn, we explore why so many people walk away from amazing potential partners simply because they didn’t feel fireworks right away. Psychology even has a name for this—the Mere Exposure Effect—showing how love often grows from familiarity, consistency, and trust, not just instant chemistry. We also unpack how the “spark” can sometimes be misleading. What feels like passion can actually be anxiety disguised as excitement—the constant wondering, “Do they like me? Do they not?” That rollercoaster can feel addictive, but it doesn’t always lead to lasting love. Whether you’ve chased sparks in the past, settled into a slow-burn love story, or are still figuring it out, this conversation challenges the dating myths we’ve been told and reveals what truly makes relationships meaningful. ⸻ What You’ll Learn in This Episode • Why the “spark” is often overrated (and misunderstood) • How slow-burn attraction leads to deeper, lasting love • The role of the Mere Exposure Effect in building connection • Why butterflies may actually be alarm bells of anxiety • How to recognize secure, healthy love over short-lived chemistry ⸻ ✨ If you’ve ever wondered whether you should wait for fireworks or lean into familiarity, this episode will give you the clarity you need. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest conversations on love, relationships, and everything in between. #whatsagoodguy Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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My X Showed Me Episode 2: MMM (Mental, Money, Marriage)
08/11/2025
My X Showed Me Episode 2: MMM (Mental, Money, Marriage)
This week, we dive into four viral posts that had the internet talking — and we break down the deeper conversations behind them. From unconditional love during mental health battles, to hidden opportunities stolen by the people closest to us, to the hard truth about inflation and financial security, and even a wedding photo that sparked cultural conversations — we cover it all. We talk relationships, family dynamics, money, and the subtle ways social media reveals what’s really going on in our society. 🎧 Tune in for laughs, debates, and those “I never thought about it like that” moments. #MyXShowedMe #Podcast #Relationships #MoneyTalks #Culture
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Episode 340: Being Intentional
08/04/2025
Episode 340: Being Intentional
In this episode, the guys dive into what it truly means to move with intention. From dating to friendships to personal growth — being intentional brings clarity, but it also comes with its own set of challenges. We explore the beauty of being clear about what you want and consistent in your actions — but also the isolation, frustration, and high standards that come with it. Lashawn shares how dating with intention is making it harder to find someone who truly aligns, while Kojo challenges what it means to really know your intentions. Whether you’re building a brand, a relationship, or a better version of yourself — this episode is a reminder that being intentional isn’t easy, but it’s always worth it.
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Episode 339: You're Never Too Old
07/28/2025
Episode 339: You're Never Too Old
Episode 339 of What’s A Good Guy challenges the myth that your time has passed. In this honest and energizing conversation, we explore why society makes people feel like there’s an expiration date on their dreams. Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond — this episode is your reminder that it’s never too late to pivot, pursue, or start over. We dive into: 🎯 Where the “too old” narrative comes from 💡 Real-life stories of people who found success later in life 🧠 The mindset shift required to overcome age-based doubt 🚫 Breaking the fear of judgment 🔥 How to reignite your passion no matter your age If you’ve ever felt behind or questioned whether your dreams have an expiration date, this episode will speak directly to your soul. Subscribe | Comment | Share — someone out there needs to hear this today. #whatsagoodguy #ChaseYourDreams #NeverTooLate #PurposeOverPressure #Podcast Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 338: Can't Have The Cake And Eat It Too
07/21/2025
Episode 338: Can't Have The Cake And Eat It Too
Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 337: Hood Rich Executive Produced by T Smooth
07/14/2025
Episode 337: Hood Rich Executive Produced by T Smooth
we tap into a topic that hits close to home — the “hood rich” mentality. Inspired by a thought-provoking message from our Executive Producer T-Smooth, we explore why some people still live in the projects while pulling up in luxury cars and wearing designer head to toe. Is it really about status — or is it a deeper conversation around financial literacy, identity, and comfort zones? We ask: Is “hood rich” the ultimate cheat code or a financial trap? Do some people stay in the hood because it’s their comfort zone, not their only option? What does real wealth actually look like? And should wealth be seen… or stay silent? This episode isn’t about judgment — it’s about empathy, perspective, and understanding the narratives behind the flash. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 336: Be A Man Featuring Myles
07/07/2025
Episode 336: Be A Man Featuring Myles
After seven years, Myles returns to What’s A Good Guy, and the growth is undeniable. In this powerful episode, we reflect on who Myles was then versus who he is now—a father, a man of deeper principles, and someone who’s learned what it truly means to be a man. We dive into loyalty, morals, and navigating life’s noise, all while discussing the challenges of mental health, loss, and the importance of therapy and community. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about growth, fatherhood, and what it really takes to persevere.
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Episode 335: No Bad Blood
06/30/2025
Episode 335: No Bad Blood
In this episode, the guys dive into what it really means to leave situations—jobs, relationships, or friendships—without bitterness. Inspired by Don’s personal story of being let go from PBS only to be offered his position back later, this conversation unpacks the power of handling setbacks with grace. We explore: – The importance of not burning bridges – Why you won’t always get closure (and why that’s okay) – How “no bad blood” can be one-sided – The quiet strength in walking away without a scene – How life has a funny way of circling back This one is about maturity, growth, and how sometimes… silence speaks louder than revenge. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 333: Who Are You Really? Featuring Vic
06/23/2025
Episode 333: Who Are You Really? Featuring Vic
Who are you when no one’s watching? And more importantly — are you comfortable with the answer? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we’re joined by the multi-hyphenate himself — Vic: fashion designer, stylist, basketball referee, teacher of life, dean, devoted partner, and part of the powerhouse brand Tier NYC. But today, we’re not talking titles — we’re talking identity. We explore questions like: • When do you truly know who you are? • What shapes your style, character, and personality? • Can you be proud of your reflection without the resume? From growth and self-awareness to how support shows up (or doesn’t) in our relationships, this conversation challenges everything you thought you knew about becoming “you.” 🔥 Subtopics We Dive Into: • Growth vs. Optics: Are you actually evolving or just performing? • Real Support: Do you know how to give it, and are you ready to receive it? • Navigating Identity in a world full of roles, labels, and pressure This episode is honest, layered, and long overdue. Episode 333: Who Are You Really? — streaming now. Leave a comment and let us know: Do you really know who you are?
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Episode 332: Comfort Zone
06/16/2025
Episode 332: Comfort Zone
In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, the guys reflect on their latest Sunday adventure at Burgers & Bottles, where Lashawn surprised everyone by stepping out of his comfort zone and becoming the life of the party. As he navigated socializing and attracting plenty of attention, the crew dives into what it means to truly come out of your shell. Lashawn shares his firsthand experience of breaking out of his usual mold and how it felt to embrace a new social dynamic. From there, the conversation shifts to handling social criticism while chasing success, and the importance of taking risks to grow. This episode is all about pushing boundaries, embracing new experiences, and stepping confidently into the unknown. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 331: Slow Burn
06/09/2025
Episode 331: Slow Burn
Not every connection starts with sparks flying — some take time to heat up. In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we explore the concept of a slow burn in dating: What does it mean to be one? What adjustments does it take to date someone who moves at a different pace? And what happens when someone becomes a slow burn midway through the dating experience — after the fire already started? The guys share personal experiences, reflect on patience, expectations, and the challenge of maintaining emotional momentum when one person needs more time to open up. Is a slow burn worth the wait — or is it just an excuse for someone who’s not ready? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 330: Where Are You Meeting Them?
06/02/2025
Episode 330: Where Are You Meeting Them?
We kick off this episode answering Bri’s question: “Where are you meeting women these days?” That opens the door to a full conversation on how dating has changed — where men meet women, how we approach them, and whether real effort still matters in today’s world. Then Kojo takes it deeper — questioning if What’s A Good Guy? needs to be backed by a white man to reach its full potential, and whether Lashawn might be holding himself — and the brand — back by playing it safe. The first 37 minutes are packed with real talk, tough truths, and a lot of laughs. But trust us… it’s what happens next that takes this episode left. Let’s just say, Lashawn ran into someone who was very clear about what she wanted — and it wasn’t a relationship. 👀 To hear the rest, including that wild story, subscribe to our Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/posts/130469748?utm_campaign=postshare_creator Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations
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Episode 329: Know Your Privilege
05/26/2025
Episode 329: Know Your Privilege
This week on What’s A Good Guy?, Quanny’s still not letting Justin off the hook. After watching Forever on Netflix, he makes the case that Justin needs to recognize the privilege he was operating from — even if it wasn’t loud, it was still real. That sparks a deeper conversation: Do people actually know when they’re privileged? And at what age do they start to realize it? Quanny throws out a bold question — “Do you think white kids know their privilege by 17?” — and from there, the debate gets real. We also open up about the different forms of privilege we hold, from family support to emotional freedom, and even talk about what it means to hide your privilege to better relate to others. This episode is layered — honest, uncomfortable, and necessary. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 328: You're A Bum Forever {Patreon Preview}
05/22/2025
Episode 328: You're A Bum Forever {Patreon Preview}
We watched Netflix’s Forever… and let’s just say, things got heated. Justin & Keisha’s relationship? Justin’s decision to skip school? His mom vs. dad’s parenting styles? Quanny calling Justin a bum? Yeah… that turned into a full-blown debate on how we’d handle things if Justin was our son. The first 34 minutes are on YouTube & DSPs. The rest? You already know — Patreon exclusive. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #whatsagoodguy #forevernetflix #patreonexclusive #blackpodcasters #relationshipdebate #fatherhooddialogue
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Episode 327: Applying Pressure
05/19/2025
Episode 327: Applying Pressure
This week on What’s A Good Guy?, we’re talking about the art — and the risk — of applying pressure when you’re pursuing someone. Is there a fine line between showing genuine interest and begging for attention? Can consistency still look desperate in the wrong context? The guys open up about how they each “applied pressure” to win over their significant other, what worked, what backfired, and where they draw the line between confidence and chasing. We’re diving into real stories, real lessons, and real questions: • When is it okay to go the extra mile? • Is “begging” always a bad thing? • And most importantly — are you applying pressure… or just pressing your luck? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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In The Real World Episode 5: Nobody Is Going To Save You
05/12/2025
In The Real World Episode 5: Nobody Is Going To Save You
This week on What’s A Good Guy?, we’re switching things up. While the guys weren’t able to record, we’re publicly releasing a Patreon-exclusive episode from our bonus series: The Real World, hosted by Quanny. If you’re new here, The Real World is where Quanny challenges social norms and calls it like he sees it — no sugarcoating, just real talk. In Episode 5, Quanny covers: • Why new drivers are a danger to society • The contradictions in doing things we know aren’t okay • What it really takes to maintain your identity in a chaotic world • And the cold reality that sometimes… nobody’s coming to save you If you enjoy this episode and want access to Episodes 1 through 4, you can unlock them right now on our Patreon. This is The Real World. Welcome to it. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 326: Standing On Business
05/05/2025
Episode 326: Standing On Business
This week on What’s A Good Guy?, Lashawn opens up about a week full of standing on business — whether it was handling professional moves, responding to 3 a.m. text messages, or dealing with someone who ghosted him suddenly spinning the block. The conversation takes a deeper turn when Kojo shares why, for some people, it’s easier to process things alone rather than talk it out — and how emotional independence can feel like both strength and survival. From awkward reappearances to emotional boundaries, this episode is a blend of real talk, vulnerability, and a few laughs in between. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 325: My Muse
05/02/2025
Episode 325: My Muse
In this preview of Episode 325: My Muse, Kojo, Lashawn, and Don go back and forth over one of the most complicated creative inspirations we’ve seen: love. Dane opens up to Lashawn about how a new romantic connection pushed his creativity to new heights — but there’s a twist. The muse? She’s the sister of one of his closest friends. Is she the reason for his artistic growth, or is Dane romanticizing the chaos? Kojo thinks it wasn’t real if it ended in secrecy. Don questions if art and love should ever mix. Lashawn just wants to make sense of the mess. Watch the full episode exclusively on Patreon now. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 324: Negotiating With Grief
04/28/2025
Episode 324: Negotiating With Grief
In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we dive deep into the unspoken battle between logic and emotion — the true negotiation happening inside all of us. Inspired by Chris Voss’ book Never Split the Difference, we explore how tactical empathy — not logic — became the FBI’s greatest weapon against kidnappers and terrorists, and why that same shift is crucial when facing grief and loss. Men are often taught to “think” through pain, while women are encouraged to “feel” through it. But what if true healing — and true power — comes not from winning an argument with life, but from sitting at the table with your own emotions? This conversation challenges the way we bargain with grief, reveals why silence can be our greatest teacher, and asks the ultimate question: What part of you are you still trying to negotiate with — and what would it look like to finally let go? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 323: My Own Worst Enemy
04/21/2025
Episode 323: My Own Worst Enemy
In this episode of the podcast, Don opens up about the palpable tension he feels in his workplace, grappling with the uncertainty of whether it’s a product of his own overthinking or an actual issue at play. He reflects on the struggle of being his own worst enemy, caught in a cycle of self-doubt and hesitation. This leads to a heartfelt conversation between LA and Jo, where they explore strategies for Don to assert himself and communicate his needs effectively. Jo shares a pivotal email from his past that significantly altered the course of his career, illustrating the power of open dialogue. Meanwhile, Lashawn draws on his own experiences, providing insightful examples of how he conquered his inner critic and transformed his mindset. Tune in for an engaging discussion filled with personal stories and practical advice on overcoming self-imposed obstacles. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 322: Keep It To Yourself
04/14/2025
Episode 322: Keep It To Yourself
Episode 322: Keep It to Yourself In this episode, Don leads a conversation on the power of privacy and the moments when saying less might actually mean more. From what people confide in you, to what you choose to share with your partner—we dive into the boundaries of oversharing, emotional responsibility, and protecting your peace. We even learn a surprising truth about Kojo: he doesn’t like his praises being sung. Some things really are better left unsaid. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #whatsagoodguy #PrivacyMatters #KeepItToYourself #PodcastRealTalk #Boundaries #EmotionalGrowth #Oversharing #CommunicationStyles #RelationshipTalk #ProtectYourPeace
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Episode 320: Red and Green Theory
04/07/2025
Episode 320: Red and Green Theory
In this episode, Kojo introduces his “Red and Green Theory,” a concept that helps us reflect on how we categorize people in our lives—green meaning safe and aligned, red meaning harmful or misaligned. But what happens when someone you’ve placed in the green starts treating you like you’re in the red? How do we communicate those shifts in energy and maintain healthy relationships? We also unpack the phrase “feelings aren’t facts” and the challenges that come with navigating emotional truths in romantic and platonic relationships. This conversation is about accountability, boundaries, and emotional honesty. Tune in for a powerful conversation that will challenge how you view the people in your life—and how you show up for them. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 318: Bread Crumbing
03/31/2025
Episode 318: Bread Crumbing
In this episode, we kick things off with a wild conversation about cheating culture. Lashawn shares a story about a coworker casually bragging about how much he cheats on his partner—leading us into a deeper conversation about the toxic patterns people normalize in relationships. That opened the door to the main topic: bread crumbing. We break down what it is, how it shows up in relationships, and why so many of us settle for the bare minimum attention and effort. Are you really being loved, or just being strung along? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episoode 317: Enough Is Enough
03/24/2025
Episoode 317: Enough Is Enough
What happens when you reach your breaking point? In this episode, Don opens up about the moment he had to speak up for himself at work after feeling unsupported and unseen. He also reflects on the pressure of family expectations at his grandmother’s 91st birthday dinner—navigating the questions about marriage and children. Lashawn flips the conversation, asking: what if your partner feels the same way and the grace to figure it out starts to run out? We wrap up by exploring a difficult but honest question—when you see your friends caught in unhealthy cycles, when is enough truly enough for you as a friend? This episode is full of real moments, tough conversations, and the courage to choose yourself. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 315: Equally Yoked
03/17/2025
Episode 315: Equally Yoked
What does it really mean to be equally yoked? In this episode, we dive deep into the meaning behind this concept and how it plays out in relationships. From values to lifestyle choices, we unpack the hard truths about compatibility and alignment. LA shares his experience dating a drug dealer, while Kojo reflects on his time with an active gang member—both shedding light on what happens when two people think they’re aligned but live in completely different worlds. Are we truly as compatible with people as we believe, or are we just forcing connections that were never meant to be? Tap in for a real, unfiltered conversation about relationships, self-awareness, and the lessons we learn when life humbles us. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #EquallyYoked #RelationshipTalk #Compatibility #LifeLessons #DatingStories #PersonalGrowth #WhatsAGoodGuy
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Episode 314: 4 Agreements
03/10/2025
Episode 314: 4 Agreements
In this episode, Lashawn introduces The Four Agreements, a powerful book that challenges us to reshape our mindset and approach to life. Along with the cast, we break down each agreement, discussing how they resonate with us and the ways we can apply them to our daily lives. Which agreement spoke to us the most? Tune in to find out as we reflect on personal growth, accountability, and the wisdom that can change the way we navigate the world. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #whatsagoodguy #TheFourAgreements #PersonalGrowth #SelfDevelopment #LifeLessons
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