What's A Good Guy?
What's A Good Guy Podcast Airing Every Monday. Where Don P & Lashawn discuss multiple topics from relationships to current events in hopes to figure out what exactly is a good guy. Two Guys, Two perspectives, One objective! To stay updated, follow us on social media Twitter: @whatsagoodguy Instagram: @whatsagoodguy Facebook Page: @whatsagoodguy Also follow us individually Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly LA Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/whats-a-good-guy/support
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My X Showed Me Episode 2: MMM (Mental, Money, Marriage)
08/11/2025
My X Showed Me Episode 2: MMM (Mental, Money, Marriage)
This week, we dive into four viral posts that had the internet talking — and we break down the deeper conversations behind them. From unconditional love during mental health battles, to hidden opportunities stolen by the people closest to us, to the hard truth about inflation and financial security, and even a wedding photo that sparked cultural conversations — we cover it all. We talk relationships, family dynamics, money, and the subtle ways social media reveals what’s really going on in our society. 🎧 Tune in for laughs, debates, and those “I never thought about it like that” moments. #MyXShowedMe #Podcast #Relationships #MoneyTalks #Culture
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Episode 340: Being Intentional
08/04/2025
Episode 340: Being Intentional
In this episode, the guys dive into what it truly means to move with intention. From dating to friendships to personal growth — being intentional brings clarity, but it also comes with its own set of challenges. We explore the beauty of being clear about what you want and consistent in your actions — but also the isolation, frustration, and high standards that come with it. Lashawn shares how dating with intention is making it harder to find someone who truly aligns, while Kojo challenges what it means to really know your intentions. Whether you’re building a brand, a relationship, or a better version of yourself — this episode is a reminder that being intentional isn’t easy, but it’s always worth it.
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Episode 339: You're Never Too Old
07/28/2025
Episode 339: You're Never Too Old
Episode 339 of What’s A Good Guy challenges the myth that your time has passed. In this honest and energizing conversation, we explore why society makes people feel like there’s an expiration date on their dreams. Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond — this episode is your reminder that it’s never too late to pivot, pursue, or start over. We dive into: 🎯 Where the “too old” narrative comes from 💡 Real-life stories of people who found success later in life 🧠 The mindset shift required to overcome age-based doubt 🚫 Breaking the fear of judgment 🔥 How to reignite your passion no matter your age If you’ve ever felt behind or questioned whether your dreams have an expiration date, this episode will speak directly to your soul. Subscribe | Comment | Share — someone out there needs to hear this today. #whatsagoodguy #ChaseYourDreams #NeverTooLate #PurposeOverPressure #Podcast Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 338: Can't Have The Cake And Eat It Too
07/21/2025
Episode 338: Can't Have The Cake And Eat It Too
Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 337: Hood Rich Executive Produced by T Smooth
07/14/2025
Episode 337: Hood Rich Executive Produced by T Smooth
we tap into a topic that hits close to home — the “hood rich” mentality. Inspired by a thought-provoking message from our Executive Producer T-Smooth, we explore why some people still live in the projects while pulling up in luxury cars and wearing designer head to toe. Is it really about status — or is it a deeper conversation around financial literacy, identity, and comfort zones? We ask: Is “hood rich” the ultimate cheat code or a financial trap? Do some people stay in the hood because it’s their comfort zone, not their only option? What does real wealth actually look like? And should wealth be seen… or stay silent? This episode isn’t about judgment — it’s about empathy, perspective, and understanding the narratives behind the flash. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 336: Be A Man Featuring Myles
07/07/2025
Episode 336: Be A Man Featuring Myles
After seven years, Myles returns to What’s A Good Guy, and the growth is undeniable. In this powerful episode, we reflect on who Myles was then versus who he is now—a father, a man of deeper principles, and someone who’s learned what it truly means to be a man. We dive into loyalty, morals, and navigating life’s noise, all while discussing the challenges of mental health, loss, and the importance of therapy and community. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about growth, fatherhood, and what it really takes to persevere.
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Episode 335: No Bad Blood
06/30/2025
Episode 335: No Bad Blood
In this episode, the guys dive into what it really means to leave situations—jobs, relationships, or friendships—without bitterness. Inspired by Don’s personal story of being let go from PBS only to be offered his position back later, this conversation unpacks the power of handling setbacks with grace. We explore: – The importance of not burning bridges – Why you won’t always get closure (and why that’s okay) – How “no bad blood” can be one-sided – The quiet strength in walking away without a scene – How life has a funny way of circling back This one is about maturity, growth, and how sometimes… silence speaks louder than revenge. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 333: Who Are You Really? Featuring Vic
06/23/2025
Episode 333: Who Are You Really? Featuring Vic
Who are you when no one’s watching? And more importantly — are you comfortable with the answer? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we’re joined by the multi-hyphenate himself — Vic: fashion designer, stylist, basketball referee, teacher of life, dean, devoted partner, and part of the powerhouse brand Tier NYC. But today, we’re not talking titles — we’re talking identity. We explore questions like: • When do you truly know who you are? • What shapes your style, character, and personality? • Can you be proud of your reflection without the resume? From growth and self-awareness to how support shows up (or doesn’t) in our relationships, this conversation challenges everything you thought you knew about becoming “you.” 🔥 Subtopics We Dive Into: • Growth vs. Optics: Are you actually evolving or just performing? • Real Support: Do you know how to give it, and are you ready to receive it? • Navigating Identity in a world full of roles, labels, and pressure This episode is honest, layered, and long overdue. Episode 333: Who Are You Really? — streaming now. Leave a comment and let us know: Do you really know who you are?
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Episode 332: Comfort Zone
06/16/2025
Episode 332: Comfort Zone
In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, the guys reflect on their latest Sunday adventure at Burgers & Bottles, where Lashawn surprised everyone by stepping out of his comfort zone and becoming the life of the party. As he navigated socializing and attracting plenty of attention, the crew dives into what it means to truly come out of your shell. Lashawn shares his firsthand experience of breaking out of his usual mold and how it felt to embrace a new social dynamic. From there, the conversation shifts to handling social criticism while chasing success, and the importance of taking risks to grow. This episode is all about pushing boundaries, embracing new experiences, and stepping confidently into the unknown. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 331: Slow Burn
06/09/2025
Episode 331: Slow Burn
Not every connection starts with sparks flying — some take time to heat up. In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we explore the concept of a slow burn in dating: What does it mean to be one? What adjustments does it take to date someone who moves at a different pace? And what happens when someone becomes a slow burn midway through the dating experience — after the fire already started? The guys share personal experiences, reflect on patience, expectations, and the challenge of maintaining emotional momentum when one person needs more time to open up. Is a slow burn worth the wait — or is it just an excuse for someone who’s not ready? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 330: Where Are You Meeting Them?
06/02/2025
Episode 330: Where Are You Meeting Them?
We kick off this episode answering Bri’s question: “Where are you meeting women these days?” That opens the door to a full conversation on how dating has changed — where men meet women, how we approach them, and whether real effort still matters in today’s world. Then Kojo takes it deeper — questioning if What’s A Good Guy? needs to be backed by a white man to reach its full potential, and whether Lashawn might be holding himself — and the brand — back by playing it safe. The first 37 minutes are packed with real talk, tough truths, and a lot of laughs. But trust us… it’s what happens next that takes this episode left. Let’s just say, Lashawn ran into someone who was very clear about what she wanted — and it wasn’t a relationship. 👀 To hear the rest, including that wild story, subscribe to our Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/posts/130469748?utm_campaign=postshare_creator Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations
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Episode 329: Know Your Privilege
05/26/2025
Episode 329: Know Your Privilege
This week on What’s A Good Guy?, Quanny’s still not letting Justin off the hook. After watching Forever on Netflix, he makes the case that Justin needs to recognize the privilege he was operating from — even if it wasn’t loud, it was still real. That sparks a deeper conversation: Do people actually know when they’re privileged? And at what age do they start to realize it? Quanny throws out a bold question — “Do you think white kids know their privilege by 17?” — and from there, the debate gets real. We also open up about the different forms of privilege we hold, from family support to emotional freedom, and even talk about what it means to hide your privilege to better relate to others. This episode is layered — honest, uncomfortable, and necessary. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 328: You're A Bum Forever {Patreon Preview}
05/22/2025
Episode 328: You're A Bum Forever {Patreon Preview}
We watched Netflix’s Forever… and let’s just say, things got heated. Justin & Keisha’s relationship? Justin’s decision to skip school? His mom vs. dad’s parenting styles? Quanny calling Justin a bum? Yeah… that turned into a full-blown debate on how we’d handle things if Justin was our son. The first 34 minutes are on YouTube & DSPs. The rest? You already know — Patreon exclusive. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #whatsagoodguy #forevernetflix #patreonexclusive #blackpodcasters #relationshipdebate #fatherhooddialogue
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Episode 327: Applying Pressure
05/19/2025
Episode 327: Applying Pressure
This week on What’s A Good Guy?, we’re talking about the art — and the risk — of applying pressure when you’re pursuing someone. Is there a fine line between showing genuine interest and begging for attention? Can consistency still look desperate in the wrong context? The guys open up about how they each “applied pressure” to win over their significant other, what worked, what backfired, and where they draw the line between confidence and chasing. We’re diving into real stories, real lessons, and real questions: • When is it okay to go the extra mile? • Is “begging” always a bad thing? • And most importantly — are you applying pressure… or just pressing your luck? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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In The Real World Episode 5: Nobody Is Going To Save You
05/12/2025
In The Real World Episode 5: Nobody Is Going To Save You
This week on What’s A Good Guy?, we’re switching things up. While the guys weren’t able to record, we’re publicly releasing a Patreon-exclusive episode from our bonus series: The Real World, hosted by Quanny. If you’re new here, The Real World is where Quanny challenges social norms and calls it like he sees it — no sugarcoating, just real talk. In Episode 5, Quanny covers: • Why new drivers are a danger to society • The contradictions in doing things we know aren’t okay • What it really takes to maintain your identity in a chaotic world • And the cold reality that sometimes… nobody’s coming to save you If you enjoy this episode and want access to Episodes 1 through 4, you can unlock them right now on our Patreon. This is The Real World. Welcome to it. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 326: Standing On Business
05/05/2025
Episode 326: Standing On Business
This week on What’s A Good Guy?, Lashawn opens up about a week full of standing on business — whether it was handling professional moves, responding to 3 a.m. text messages, or dealing with someone who ghosted him suddenly spinning the block. The conversation takes a deeper turn when Kojo shares why, for some people, it’s easier to process things alone rather than talk it out — and how emotional independence can feel like both strength and survival. From awkward reappearances to emotional boundaries, this episode is a blend of real talk, vulnerability, and a few laughs in between. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 325: My Muse
05/02/2025
Episode 325: My Muse
In this preview of Episode 325: My Muse, Kojo, Lashawn, and Don go back and forth over one of the most complicated creative inspirations we’ve seen: love. Dane opens up to Lashawn about how a new romantic connection pushed his creativity to new heights — but there’s a twist. The muse? She’s the sister of one of his closest friends. Is she the reason for his artistic growth, or is Dane romanticizing the chaos? Kojo thinks it wasn’t real if it ended in secrecy. Don questions if art and love should ever mix. Lashawn just wants to make sense of the mess. Watch the full episode exclusively on Patreon now. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 324: Negotiating With Grief
04/28/2025
Episode 324: Negotiating With Grief
In this episode of What’s A Good Guy?, we dive deep into the unspoken battle between logic and emotion — the true negotiation happening inside all of us. Inspired by Chris Voss’ book Never Split the Difference, we explore how tactical empathy — not logic — became the FBI’s greatest weapon against kidnappers and terrorists, and why that same shift is crucial when facing grief and loss. Men are often taught to “think” through pain, while women are encouraged to “feel” through it. But what if true healing — and true power — comes not from winning an argument with life, but from sitting at the table with your own emotions? This conversation challenges the way we bargain with grief, reveals why silence can be our greatest teacher, and asks the ultimate question: What part of you are you still trying to negotiate with — and what would it look like to finally let go? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 323: My Own Worst Enemy
04/21/2025
Episode 323: My Own Worst Enemy
In this episode of the podcast, Don opens up about the palpable tension he feels in his workplace, grappling with the uncertainty of whether it’s a product of his own overthinking or an actual issue at play. He reflects on the struggle of being his own worst enemy, caught in a cycle of self-doubt and hesitation. This leads to a heartfelt conversation between LA and Jo, where they explore strategies for Don to assert himself and communicate his needs effectively. Jo shares a pivotal email from his past that significantly altered the course of his career, illustrating the power of open dialogue. Meanwhile, Lashawn draws on his own experiences, providing insightful examples of how he conquered his inner critic and transformed his mindset. Tune in for an engaging discussion filled with personal stories and practical advice on overcoming self-imposed obstacles. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 322: Keep It To Yourself
04/14/2025
Episode 322: Keep It To Yourself
Episode 322: Keep It to Yourself In this episode, Don leads a conversation on the power of privacy and the moments when saying less might actually mean more. From what people confide in you, to what you choose to share with your partner—we dive into the boundaries of oversharing, emotional responsibility, and protecting your peace. We even learn a surprising truth about Kojo: he doesn’t like his praises being sung. Some things really are better left unsaid. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #whatsagoodguy #PrivacyMatters #KeepItToYourself #PodcastRealTalk #Boundaries #EmotionalGrowth #Oversharing #CommunicationStyles #RelationshipTalk #ProtectYourPeace
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Episode 320: Red and Green Theory
04/07/2025
Episode 320: Red and Green Theory
In this episode, Kojo introduces his “Red and Green Theory,” a concept that helps us reflect on how we categorize people in our lives—green meaning safe and aligned, red meaning harmful or misaligned. But what happens when someone you’ve placed in the green starts treating you like you’re in the red? How do we communicate those shifts in energy and maintain healthy relationships? We also unpack the phrase “feelings aren’t facts” and the challenges that come with navigating emotional truths in romantic and platonic relationships. This conversation is about accountability, boundaries, and emotional honesty. Tune in for a powerful conversation that will challenge how you view the people in your life—and how you show up for them. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 318: Bread Crumbing
03/31/2025
Episode 318: Bread Crumbing
In this episode, we kick things off with a wild conversation about cheating culture. Lashawn shares a story about a coworker casually bragging about how much he cheats on his partner—leading us into a deeper conversation about the toxic patterns people normalize in relationships. That opened the door to the main topic: bread crumbing. We break down what it is, how it shows up in relationships, and why so many of us settle for the bare minimum attention and effort. Are you really being loved, or just being strung along? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episoode 317: Enough Is Enough
03/24/2025
Episoode 317: Enough Is Enough
What happens when you reach your breaking point? In this episode, Don opens up about the moment he had to speak up for himself at work after feeling unsupported and unseen. He also reflects on the pressure of family expectations at his grandmother’s 91st birthday dinner—navigating the questions about marriage and children. Lashawn flips the conversation, asking: what if your partner feels the same way and the grace to figure it out starts to run out? We wrap up by exploring a difficult but honest question—when you see your friends caught in unhealthy cycles, when is enough truly enough for you as a friend? This episode is full of real moments, tough conversations, and the courage to choose yourself. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!
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Episode 315: Equally Yoked
03/17/2025
Episode 315: Equally Yoked
What does it really mean to be equally yoked? In this episode, we dive deep into the meaning behind this concept and how it plays out in relationships. From values to lifestyle choices, we unpack the hard truths about compatibility and alignment. LA shares his experience dating a drug dealer, while Kojo reflects on his time with an active gang member—both shedding light on what happens when two people think they’re aligned but live in completely different worlds. Are we truly as compatible with people as we believe, or are we just forcing connections that were never meant to be? Tap in for a real, unfiltered conversation about relationships, self-awareness, and the lessons we learn when life humbles us. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #EquallyYoked #RelationshipTalk #Compatibility #LifeLessons #DatingStories #PersonalGrowth #WhatsAGoodGuy
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Episode 314: 4 Agreements
03/10/2025
Episode 314: 4 Agreements
In this episode, Lashawn introduces The Four Agreements, a powerful book that challenges us to reshape our mindset and approach to life. Along with the cast, we break down each agreement, discussing how they resonate with us and the ways we can apply them to our daily lives. Which agreement spoke to us the most? Tune in to find out as we reflect on personal growth, accountability, and the wisdom that can change the way we navigate the world. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #whatsagoodguy #TheFourAgreements #PersonalGrowth #SelfDevelopment #LifeLessons
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Episode 313: Sticky
03/03/2025
Episode 313: Sticky
Intimacy vs. Isolation – How 19-40 Shapes Success & Connection In this episode, we break down the stage of development between ages 19-40, focusing on intimacy vs. isolation—how this period defines our relationships, personal growth, and self-worth. We explore: 🔹 Success & Failure: Do we distance ourselves from things we see as failures? 🔹 Emotional Connection: How does our view of success impact our ability to be intimate with people and experiences? 🔹 Personal Growth: Are we truly embracing this stage of life, or are we isolating ourselves without realizing it? Let’s unpack what it means to navigate this crucial stage and how it shapes who we become. Drop a 💭 in the comments and let us know: Are you in a season of intimacy or isolation? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations! #IntimacyVsIsolation #PersonalGrowth #SuccessVsFailure #LifeStages #WhatsAGoodGuy
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Episode 312: Too Fast
02/24/2025
Episode 312: Too Fast
In this episode, we dive into the wild turbulence of life—literally and figuratively. We kick things off with a discussion about the recent Delta flight incident that went viral and how it’s got Lashawn feeling some type of way as a flight attendant. Then, we transition into the latest TikTok story that’s got everyone talking: a woman flying herself out to Atlanta to meet a man, only for things to go left. This story leads us to the main question: How fast is too fast when it comes to pursuing someone? We debate the fine line between moving with intention and moving too quickly. How soon is too soon to get intimate or share your best moves? And what are the hidden risks of rushing into romance? Join us for a real conversation about navigating love, lust, and the pace of modern dating. Tune in, and let us know: How fast is too fast for you? Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: This episode is raw, hilarious, and guaranteed to spark conversation. Let us know—do you forgive, or do you hold onto the grudge? 👀 🔔 Subscribe & join the conversation!
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Episode 309: The "With You" Is Silent
02/17/2025
Episode 309: The "With You" Is Silent
Episode 309: The “With You” Is Silent Eight years of What’s A Good Guy—what a journey! We’re celebrating in high fashion, giving flowers to the team for their new job roles, and reflecting on how far we’ve come. Then, we dive into the hot topics: Anthony Edwards openly tells a woman he doesn’t want to be a father—was he just being honest, or is there more to unpack? And is a 38-year-old woman pursuing a 23-year-old man a double standard or predatory behavior? Finally, Lashawn brings the real talk—is it ever fair to break a hard no? If you’ve told people in your past that something was off-limits, is it wrong to make an exception for someone new? We discuss boundaries, fairness, and whether past decisions should dictate present choices. Tap in for an anniversary episode full of reflection, debates, and big questions! 🎙️ #WhatsAGoodGuy Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram:
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Episode 308: Montoya!!!!!!
02/10/2025
Episode 308: Montoya!!!!!!
Episode 308: “Montoya!!!!” In this episode, we’re diving into revenge, forgiveness, and knowing when to let things go—or double down. We start with 50 Cent’s viral posts about Irv Gotti, Big Meech, and Lil Meech. Were his posts distasteful, or was he completely justified in his response? Is revenge ever warranted, or should we just let karma handle it? (12:33 - 18:10) Then, we get into one of the most insane moments in reality TV history—Montoya from Temptation Island watching his girl have sex with another man. 😳 This shocking moment leads us into a deep dive on forgiveness—when it’s necessary, when it’s forced, and whether we ever truly let things go. (21:59 - 31:55) We break down: 🔥 The four stages of forgiveness (33:48 - 1:16:42) 🔹 Are we truly forgiving, or just letting things slide? 🔹 Can we forgive people who aren’t directly connected to us? 🔹 What does real forgiveness look like, and is it always necessary? This episode is raw, hilarious, and guaranteed to spark conversation. Let us know—do you forgive, or do you hold onto the grudge? 👀 🔔 Subscribe & join the conversation! Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: 🎥 TikTok: 🤝 Patreon: Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla
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Episode 307: Make The Chilli
02/03/2025
Episode 307: Make The Chilli
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