What's A Good Guy?
What's A Good Guy Podcast Airing Every Monday. Where Don P & Lashawn discuss multiple topics from relationships to current events in hopes to figure out what exactly is a good guy. Two Guys, Two perspectives, One objective! To stay updated, follow us on social media Twitter: @whatsagoodguy Instagram: @whatsagoodguy Facebook Page: @whatsagoodguy Also follow us individually Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly LA Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/whats-a-good-guy/support
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Episode 272: Reciprocity
06/24/2024
Episode 272: Reciprocity
Welcome to our latest episode, where we dive deep into the heart of romantic relationships and the powerful concept of reciprocity. In this video, we explore how to identify if your partner is "the one," ways to show your partner that they are truly special, and understanding how you want to be loved. Topics Discussed: 1. Is Your Partner the One? - Signs and signals that indicate your partner might be your soulmate. - The importance of compatibility, shared values, and mutual respect. - Personal stories and experiences that highlight these signs. 2. Showing Your Partner They're the One: - Creative and heartfelt ways to express love and appreciation. - The role of actions and words in reinforcing your commitment. - Practical tips for nurturing and strengthening your relationship. 3. Understanding How You Want to Be Loved: - Self-awareness and communication in romantic relationships. - How to articulate your love language and needs to your partner. - The importance of mutual understanding and reciprocity in love. Join us as we share personal insights, practical advice, and engaging discussions on creating a balanced and fulfilling romantic relationship. Whether you’re in a new relationship or looking to deepen your connection with your long-term partner, this video is packed with valuable takeaways. Don't forget to: - Like this video if you found it helpful. - Subscribe to our channel for more relationship advice and personal growth content. - Comment below with your thoughts and experiences. How do you show your partner they're the one? Thank you for watching! Here's to creating loving and reciprocal relationships. --- This description aims to engage viewers, provide a clear overview of the topics discussed, and encourage interaction through likes, subscriptions, and comments. If you need any further adjustments or additional information, feel free to ask!
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Episode 271: Teach Me
06/17/2024
Episode 271: Teach Me
Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the transformative power of being taught by your partner. In this episode, we explore the essential elements of being coachable, the art of receiving constructive criticism, and the importance of putting our egos aside. We also touch on the humbling experience of getting a taste of our own medicine and how it can lead to personal and relational growth. Topics Discussed: 1. Being Coachable: - What it means to be coachable in a relationship. - The benefits of adopting a growth mindset with your partner. - Real-life examples of how being open to learning from each other can strengthen your bond. 2. Receiving Constructive Criticism: - How to receive feedback without feeling attacked. - Turning criticism into a tool for personal and relational improvement. - Techniques for communicating effectively and empathetically. 3. Putting Our Egos Aside: - The role of ego in relationship conflicts. - Strategies to manage and reduce ego-driven reactions. - How humility can lead to deeper understanding and connection. 4. Getting a Taste of Our Own Medicine: - The importance of self-reflection and accountability. - Learning from your partner's feedback and applying it to your own behavior. - The impact of experiencing what you often dish out and using it to foster mutual respect. Join us as we share personal stories, practical tips, and deep insights on how to navigate these aspects of a healthy, evolving relationship. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been with your partner for years, these discussions are designed to help you grow together. Don't forget to: - Like this video if you found it helpful. - Subscribe to our channel for more insightful content on relationships and personal growth. - Comment below with your thoughts and experiences. How do you handle constructive criticism in your relationship? Thank you for joining us on this journey of learning and growth. Here's to building stronger, more resilient relationships!
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Episode 270: Fragility Of Life
06/10/2024
Episode 270: Fragility Of Life
In this heartfelt video, we delve into the profound realization of life's fragility and how it impacts our faith and daily living. This week has been particularly challenging, as we grappled with multiple losses, deeply feeling the transient nature of existence. Topics Discussed: 1. The Fragility of Life: We share personal experiences and reflections on witnessing the impermanence of life, emphasizing how these moments bring a sharper focus on what truly matters. 2. Balancing Faith During Life's Storms: How do we maintain our faith when faced with overwhelming adversity? We explore strategies and spiritual practices to stay grounded and find solace in our beliefs. 3. Coping with Loss: Grieving multiple deaths in a short span can be incredibly tough. We discuss ways to process grief, find support, and honor the memories of those we've lost. 4. Acknowledging Our Struggles: It's common to downplay our problems by comparing them to others'. We talk about the importance of validating our own experiences and emotions, and why every struggle deserves acknowledgment and compassion. Join us as we navigate these deep and often difficult conversations, offering insights and support for anyone facing similar challenges. Life is fragile, but together, we can find strength and faith to carry on. Don't forget to: - Like if you found this video helpful. - Subscribe for more content on faith, life reflections, and personal growth. - Comment below with your thoughts and experiences. How do you stay balanced in your faith during tough times? Follow us on social media for more updates and discussions: Stay strong, stay faithful, and remember—every challenge is a step towards growth.
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Episode 269: Is It Worth It?
06/03/2024
Episode 269: Is It Worth It?
In episode 269 of "What's a Good Guy," the conversation delves deep into the universal experience of feeling discouraged about life. The host candidly explores the profound question, "is it worth it?" as it pertains to the everyday grind of work, the responsibilities of bills, and the perpetual search for the meaning of life. The raw and honest discussion with the guys uncovers the existential pondering that many individuals encounter, shedding light on the emotional weight of these contemplations. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie
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Episode 268: Casualties of Love
05/27/2024
Episode 268: Casualties of Love
In this raw and unfiltered episode, we delve into the sacrifices that love often demands. We candidly explore the things we may lose or give up in pursuit of love, and the unexpected turns that love can take. Lashawn's touching personal story sheds light on the complexities of falling for someone unexpected, and we provide honest and heartfelt answers to an 'Ask a Good Guy' question from a listener. Join us for a deeply personal and introspective conversation on the casualties of love. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie
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Episode 267: Who Raised You?
05/20/2024
Episode 267: Who Raised You?
We challenged our listeners to consider how they would have raised their younger selves with the knowledge and wisdom they have now. Each of us reflected on the differences we would have made compared to our own upbringing and explored what nurtures our inner child. We shared valuable insights into self-discovery and understanding our individual needs. Plus, we dived into an 'Ask a Good Guy' question from an anonymous listener. Join us in this introspective journey of self-improvement and personal growth. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie
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Episode 266: Target Audience
05/13/2024
Episode 266: Target Audience
In episode, we delve into the complex dynamics of friendships, discussing the role of support and honesty. Kojo's questions prompt a candid exploration of whether friends should be the target audience for our endeavors, and the reciprocal support we owe to our friends. From ethical dilemmas to considerations of personal growth, we open up about the nuances of friendship dynamics and the delicate balance of support and constructive feedback. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie #FriendshipSupport, #HonestFriendships, #EthicalSupport
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Episode 265: Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind
05/06/2024
Episode 265: Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind
In this episode, we dive into the complex emotions and challenges surrounding the 'out of sight, out of mind' concept in the aftermath of a breakup. We candidly discuss the struggles of trying to keep someone out of your thoughts after a relationship ends, including navigating feelings when seeing an ex move on, the difficulties of dating while still processing a breakup, and other related experiences. Join us as we openly explore the intricate aspects of moving on after a relationship. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie
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Episode 264: White Woman
04/28/2024
Episode 264: White Woman
In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the complexities of interracial relationships, specifically focusing on the topic of black men dating white women. We explore various theories and perspectives on this trend, openly discussing our own views on the matter and asking candid questions about the role of race in romantic relationships. Join us as we consider the question: Is love truly color blind? Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie #InterracialRelationships #LoveBeyondColor #BlackMenDatingWhiteWomen
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Episode 263: Give Me A Baby
04/22/2024
Episode 263: Give Me A Baby
In this episode, we delve into the complex thought process of considering parenthood. We candidly discuss the myriad of considerations that arise when contemplating starting a family, from personal reasons and the support of the community to navigating relationships with women who have children and addressing health complications. We openly explore the range of emotions and practicalities that come with this life-altering decision, despite audio issues that occurred during the episode. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie #ParenthoodDecision #familyplanning #whatsagoodguy
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Episode 262: More To A Man
04/15/2024
Episode 262: More To A Man
Tune in to our latest episode as we unpack the societal pressure on men to equate their value solely with financial success. Lashawn recounts a profound conversation with a customer during a recent flight, sharing valuable life advice that transcends monetary wealth. We delve into the intangible qualities that define manhood, challenging the narrow definition often tied to financial status. Join us as we explore the lessons learned and the qualities that showcase the true measure of a man. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie Audio Mix: @PreachGold #RedefiningMasculinity #ManhoodBeyondMoney #TrueValueOfMen
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Episode 261: Mask Off
04/08/2024
Episode 261: Mask Off
Join us in this eye-opening episode as Lashawn notices something amiss with Don and initiates a conversation about the masks we wear in various aspects of our lives. We candidly explore the masks we choose to don in the workplace, around friends, certain social settings, and within our relationships. Delving into generational patterns, we reflect on the masks our parents may have worn, and the impact of these masks in our lives. Ultimately, we come to the realization that these masks have, in some instances, led to self-sabotage in our relationships. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie Audio Mix: @PreachGold #podcast #relationshipinsights #emotionalwellness
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Episode 260: Healthy Boundaries
04/01/2024
Episode 260: Healthy Boundaries
Join us in this introspective episode as we explore the complexities of healthy boundaries. We take a deep dive into a list of unhealthy boundaries while examining the healthier alternatives. Together, we candidly reflect on the unhealthy boundaries we've participated in, our initial perceptions of their healthiness, and our plans to incorporate healthier boundaries in our interactions with both ourselves and others. Get ready for an insightful and transformative conversation on nurturing healthier relationships through the power of boundaries. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie Audio Mix: @PreachGold #healthyboundaries #boundaries #whatsagoodguy
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Episode 259: We're In Recovery
03/25/2024
Episode 259: We're In Recovery
Lashawn and Don delve into the profound journey of codependency recovery. Lashawn bravely shares his realization of potential codependency patterns and his therapeutic journey using Coda.ORG's recovery patterns. Together, they explore and discuss the resonating recovery patterns, and in a moment of vulnerability, Lashawn asks Don to share the pattern he relates to the most. This thought-provoking conversation sheds light on the complexities of codependency, offering insights and reflections on where men can work on addressing codependent issues. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie Audio Mix: @PreachGold #CodependencyRecovery #CodaRecoveryPatterns #MenInTherapy
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Episode 258: Do You Know What You Want?
03/18/2024
Episode 258: Do You Know What You Want?
Join us in a deep dive into the desires of men. In this enlightening episode, we leave behind generic descriptions and explore in depth what we, as men, truly want for ourselves and in a partner. From aspirations for personal growth to the qualities sought in a significant other, we candidly unravel the layers of our desires and what we hope to offer in return. Get ready for an honest and introspective conversation that aims to shed light on the multifaceted wants and needs of men in today's world. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie Audio Mix: @PreachGold #MenSpeakOut #MaleDesires #AuthenticMasculinity
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Episode 257: Bright Side
03/11/2024
Episode 257: Bright Side
Join us in this thought-provoking episode as we delve into the power of finding the bright side, even in the face of adversity. We explore the transformative journey of showing up for ourselves, the significance of seeking positivity in difficult times, and the challenges of embracing optimism. Discover the profound impact of finding the silver linings as we share personal insights and reflections on resilience and hope. Tune in as we share a captivating dream interpretation and the unique joys of being a flight attendant. This is a testament to the resilience and strength that lies within each of us. #brightside #resilience #personalgrowthjourney Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: @KojoDadzie Audio Mix: @PreachGold
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Episode 256: The Approval
03/04/2024
Episode 256: The Approval
Don and Lashawn dive deep into the dynamics of seeking approval within relationships. They explore the complexities of external validations, the significance of supporting our friends' relationships, and the delicate balance between sharing the good and the challenging aspects of our partners with others. Join the conversation as they unpack the nuances of determining our best man, and candidly share personal insights and reflections on the journey to find approval and understanding within our social circles. #RelationshipApproval #FriendshipDynamics #PersonalPodcastInsights
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Episode 255: Tough Conversations
02/26/2024
Episode 255: Tough Conversations
Join Don P and Lashawn as they fearlessly tackle the challenges of having tough conversations. In this candid episode, they explore the intricacies of navigating difficult dialogues – from the struggle of initiating these conversations to the delicate balance of being assertive yet empathetic. The duo engages in insightful discussions about the significance of these tough talks, shedding light on how they can potentially salvage or shape various scenarios. Tune in as they share personal experiences and valuable insights on how tough conversations can make a difference and even save a situation. #podcastlife #podcasters #podcastcommunity Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: Audio Mix:
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Episode 254: 1% Better
02/19/2024
Episode 254: 1% Better
Join Don and Lashawn in a candid and introspective dialogue as they explore the profound journey of self-improvement and personal growth. In this thought-provoking episode, the duo draws from their experiences with therapy, delving into the lessons learned and the ongoing pursuit of becoming better men. From discussing aspects they wish to change within themselves to the commitment of putting in the work, Don and Lashawn offer genuine insights and reflections on the path to self-betterment. Tune in to gain valuable perspectives and embark on a journey towards continual self-improvement. #podcastlife #podcasters #podcastcommunity Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: Audio Mix:
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Episode 253: Spin The Block
02/12/2024
Episode 253: Spin The Block
oin Don and Lashawn in a raw and insightful conversation as they revisit the roots of their podcasting journey. In this debut episode since 2021, the duo candidly explores the intricacies of revisiting old relationships and delves into the uncharted territory of the pros and cons of dating one's ex. As they open up about the challenges one may face, their authentic and thought-provoking exchange sheds light on the complexities of rekindling past romance. Tune in to 'Spin The Block' for an intimate exploration of human connections, love, and the intricacies of second chances. #podcastlife #podcasters #podcastcommunity Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Art Direction: Audio Mix:
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Episode 252: All Things Possible
12/27/2021
Episode 252: All Things Possible
Since February 13, 2017, we’ve dropped an episode highlighting the life, the highs, the lows. We laughed, we cried, we debated, and we asked an important question “WhatsAGoodGuy?” That question turned into a 252-week podcast that some of you listened to every week, and for that, we say thank you! Episode 252 will be our last episode of 2021, and for some time as we both embark on new chapters of our lives. We’ll be back one day but until then, Thank You for everything. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean
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Episode 251: The Fall Off
12/20/2021
Episode 251: The Fall Off
We’ve seen the raise and fall of all our favorites. The thought of reaching your peak before your breakthrough birth this episode where we discuss the fall off of what’s a good guy. The guys ask each other a series of questions in regards to falling off. This episode was recorded on November 11th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean
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Episode 250: Resourceful
12/13/2021
Episode 250: Resourceful
This week’s episode we dive into how using our resources got us much further in life. “It’s not what you know it’s who you know.” True story. We discuss tapping into your resource, creating a resource, giving away your resources and being selfish with your resources. This episode was recorded November 10th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean
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Episode 249: A Burden
12/06/2021
Episode 249: A Burden
A burden is a heavy load that’s tough to carry around. So how come when someone asks you what’s wrong, you still choose to carry it? Today we talk about our burdens, the ones we used to carry, the ones we help carry and the reason why we don’t carry them anymore. This episode was recorded on October 20th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean
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Episode 248: I Was Wrong Featuring Creative Gold
11/29/2021
Episode 248: I Was Wrong Featuring Creative Gold
How often do you hear from a man, “I was wrong.” In today’s episode, we discussed with our guest Creative Gold our difficulties saying “we were wrong,” our pride and ego, harboring our emotions, dealing with trauma, and going to therapy. This episode was recorded on November 11th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean
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Episode 247: Redemption
11/22/2021
Episode 247: Redemption
In a world where cancel culture is so prominent, how can someone redeem themselves for their mistakes? Redemption seems harder than ever because they’re so many people seeing and hearing about your mistakes. Can you redeem yourself without someone’s forgiveness, can you go back to doing what you love? What’s life can redemption? This episode was recorded on November 9th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean
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Episode 246: Raise Your Sons
11/15/2021
Episode 246: Raise Your Sons
⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️ In today's episode, we discuss the mistreatment of men against women in all shapes and forms. Due to the seriousness and intensity of today's episode, we advise that this conversation may cause an emotional trigger. Today we have our in-house RIAA gold plaque graphic designer, brother, and friend of the show Kojo joining us to have an on mic and camera conversation on how we can "raise our sons." Though none of us currently have sons, we're sons. We discuss how the "raise your sons" comment may be too broad of the stroke when addressing the problems Of abusive men. We think of multiple solutions, different scenarios, challenge each other and Learn about hypersexuality. This episode was recorded on November 11th, 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean
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Episode 245: My Reaction
11/08/2021
Episode 245: My Reaction
“May your next move be your best move.” Just like a game a chess your decision making can lead to your victory or demise. Today we discuss our reactions and how they can alter our universe. We dive in to how we chose to do things when we were younger verses how we do things now. How we react when our buttons are pushed, choosing the high road and influencing the younger generation. This episode was recorded on October 20th, 2021. Website: WhatsAGoodGuy.Com Twitter: @whatsagoodguy Instagram: @whatsagoodguy Facebook Page: What's A Good Guy? Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean #reaction #podcast #WhatsAGoodGuy
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Episode 244: Play Your Role
11/01/2021
Episode 244: Play Your Role
“There’s no I in team but a ME in that motherfucker.” - Kobe Bryant. Today’s episode we discuss the role that you play on your team, in the people you love life and what role do people play for you. How do you handle a role that may not always get the recognition? What sacrifices are you making for the greater good? We get into it all. This episode was recorded September 24th 2021. Website: WhatsAGoodGuy.Com Twitter: @whatsagoodguy Instagram: @whatsagoodguy Facebook Page: What's A Good Guy? Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean #pointofview #podcast #WhatsAGoodGuy
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Episode 243: Point Of Entry
10/25/2021
Episode 243: Point Of Entry
The starting point doesn’t always determine how and when you get to the finish line but it can help. Today we talk about the advantages of where you start, feeling guilty for having a better start than others, jealously, envy and the judgement that comes with it and where you meet someone in their life. This episode was recorded on September 23rd 2021. Website: WhatsAGoodGuy.Com Twitter: @whatsagoodguy Instagram: @whatsagoodguy Facebook Page: What's A Good Guy? Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Direction: @Jo_GotGame Audio Mix: @Lamabean #pointofentry #podcast #WhatsAGoodGuy
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