Episode 358: Insane To You, Sane To Me
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Episode 357: Note To Self
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This episode is your “Note to Self” toolkit—the simple, repeatable mental reminders that keep you steady through the day, week, month, and year. We break down self-talk scripts, rest vs. laziness, journaling cues, priority setting, and how to ask for help—so you can move from overwhelm to momentum. If you’ve been juggling goals, relationships, and holiday pressure, these Note-to-Self pillars will help: Write it down. Move slower to move better. Rest counts. Speak up. Forgive yourself. Aim for consistency, not perfection. We also touch on exploring ADHD with a professional (not...
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Episode 356: Birth Order Executive Produced By T-Smooth
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Are you the firstborn “trial run,” the middle mediator, or the youngest free spirit? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, we unpack how birth order can shape your personality, habits, and relationships—from responsibility and independence to communication, boundaries, and even who parents “favor” for different things. We open with Rose–Bud–Thorn life updates (work wins, sleep/fitness struggles, debt payoff, holidays, health), then dive into a listener-prompted convo on firstborn vs middle vs youngest dynamics. Expect real stories, practical insights, and honest laughs about...
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Episode 355: Get That Knot Out
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In this episode of What's A Good Guy, the crew dives into the emotional “knots” we carry — unresolved beefs, old friendships, unspoken issues, pride, ego, and the way unhealed situations still control our reactions years later. Inspired by physical therapy and “getting the knots out,” this conversation draws a powerful parallel between tight muscles and tight emotions. We break down: Why some people still move with tension YEARS after the fallout Why you can be “over it” verbally but still triggered by their presence When pride keeps you knotted up and unable to heal Why avoiding...
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Episode 353: Feed My Ego
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Do men really just want their ego fed—or is it deeper? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, Don & La unpack what “feed my ego” really means for men, how appreciation fuels commitment, and where the line is between healthy encouragement and manipulation. Using our “Rose–Bud–Thorn” check-in, we cover life updates (work wins, family, travel), grief, social media breaks, and why words of affirmation, being direct, and showing up matter more than gifts. If you’ve ever asked, “How do I make my man feel seen without being a pick-me?” this is your playbook. We break down...
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Episode 352: Pain Tolerance
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We all say “I’m good” when we’re not. But what happens when you keep letting people stretch you past your breaking point? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, we explore how pain tolerance—both physical and emotional—affects relationships, communication, and mental health. From a hilarious story about getting stretched at a wellness lab to raw truths about emotional burnout, LaShawn and Don peel back layers on why men struggle to speak up before reaching a 10. They break down the importance of setting boundaries early, communicating discomfort, and unlearning the “suffer...
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Episode 350: Functional Freeze
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Are you stuck in a functional freeze? In this episode we explore what it really means to be in a freeze response to stress, how to spot the signs, and most importantly, how to overcome functional freeze. We talk about the nervous system, burnout, and why being “functional” doesn’t always mean you’re thriving. From trauma treatment and cognitive therapy to simple grounding practices, we break down strategies for managing the freeze response and finding a way forward. You’ll learn: • The difference between trauma treatment vs. trauma survival • How the nervous system gets “stuck...
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Episode 348: The Commute
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In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, we dive deep into the journey of self improvement—the commute of life. From reroutes and setbacks to discipline and delayed gratification, we explore how to balance faith, purpose, and perseverance while chasing growth. We share stories about life-altering moments, the importance of rerouting when plans fall apart, and why discipline often stands between us and the life we want. Expect raw honesty, humor, and hard truths about staying consistent, letting go of instant gratification, and learning to trust the process. If you’ve ever questioned your...
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Episode 347: The Woman I Need Featuring YP
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Dating while successful podcast episode! We dive into dating as a creative, the tension between standards vs settling, and why relationship advice for men is different when success changes the game. If you’re balancing career and relationships, this is for you. When your career takes off, your love life gets… complicated. In this episode, we unpack dating while successful—how to balance career and relationships, use discernment in dating, and avoid confusing standards with settling. YP joins us to talk intentional dating, transparency, relocation for love, money dynamics, vulnerability,...
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Episode 345: Stagnant Can't Be The Word
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YP's Journey to Success: From the Bronx to Global Stages | What's Good Podcast Join us on the What's Good Podcast as we sit down with Young Prince (YP), the dynamic host taking the world by storm! From his roots in the Bronx to hosting at Madison Square Garden and Afro Future in Ghana, YP shares his inspiring journey, the risks he took, and the faith that drives him. 🌍🎤 We dive into his rise in the entertainment industry, balancing fame, staying relevant, and the power of his team. Plus, hear about his unforgettable moments with Burna Boy, Spice, and more! 🚀 Don’t miss this raw,...
info_outlineDoes tone matter more than words in communication? We’ve all heard it: “It’s not what you said, it’s how you said it.” But is that really true? In this episode of What’s A Good Guy? podcast, we explore how tone, delivery, and energy can completely change the meaning of your words. From heated arguments to heartfelt conversations, your tone of voice in communication might matter more than the actual words you use. We break down: • What is tone policing? • Should we focus more on what is said or how it’s said? • Can tone save a bad message—or ruin a good one? • How tone impacts conflict resolution, love, and respect. 👉 Drop a comment: What matters more to YOU in communication—tone or words? Please visit our website to get more information: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com/ 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. https://www.youtube.com/@WhatsAGoodGuy/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Support Us Here! Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy 🔗 Stay Connected With Us. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/whatsagoodguy Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy Twitter (X): https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com/ 🔗 Connect with Don: Twitter: https://x.com/donpeezly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donpeezly/ 🔗 Connect with Lashawn: Twitter: https://x.com/stayfocusla Instagram: http://instagram.com/stayfocusla/ 📩 For business inquiries: whatsagoodguy@hotmail.com ============================= 🎬Suggested videos for you: ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZnRsFSJDmo ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4NIq3FeA2_c ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyclzfdH5QY ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0wNleKNjlo ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPt2ugslbCA ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-dHymGR1Yu0 ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_Rxm6-XkEM ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hwj0yokf97k ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CdCCg8T7yu8 ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0nTgGG61HpY ================================= ✅ About What's A Good Guy? Welcome to What’s A Good Guy? Every Monday, we, Don P and LA, sit down to unpack the real questions around life, love, and everything in between. From relationships and culture to current events and personal growth, we bring two perspectives with one objective – to figure out what truly makes a good guy. You'll get honest conversations, unfiltered opinions, and plenty of laughs as we break down the moments and topics that matter most. So join the discussion – because the answer to What’s A Good Guy? might be closer than you think. For Business inquiries, please use the contact information below: 📩 Email: whatsagoodguy@hotmail.com 🔔 If you’re looking for real conversations on life, love, and culture, hit subscribe! Stay tuned for unfiltered opinions, honest podcasts, and fresh perspectives. https://www.youtube.com/@WhatsAGoodGuy/?sub_confirmation=1 ================================= Does Tone Matter More Than Words in Communication? 00:00:00 Intro & Setting Up The Conversation 00:01:21 What is “Tone Policing”? 00:03:25 Tone in Arguments 00:12:00 Timing & Mental State in Arguments 00:20:50 Are We Too Sensitive as a Society? 00:32:00 Should You Let Your Partner Go? 00:36:45 The “Fixer” Partner Dynamic 00:52:03 Loan Tweet & Paying Off Debt 01:02:00 Classism, Taste & Better Living 01:10:45 Proverbs 15:1 & Closing Thoughts #ToneMatters #CommunicationTips #PodcastDiscussion #RelationshipAdvice #EffectiveCommunication #ConflictResolution #ActiveListening #healthycommunication #TonePolice #PodcastClips #WhatsAGoodGuy #LifeConversations Why Your Tone Could Make or Break Any Conversation