Decisions of the Heart: Helen Bernie on Managing Finances, Family, and Blending Lives
Widow, Wisdom & Wealth™: Thriving in Career and Parenthood After Loss
Release Date: 06/24/2025
Widow, Wisdom & Wealth™: Thriving in Career and Parenthood After Loss
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In this episode of the Widow Wisdom and Wealth podcast, host Donna Dean Kendrick interviews Helen Bernie, a divorcee, small business owner, and health coach. Helen shares her journey of managing her business through a divorce, blending families, and navigating finances in a new relationship while raising four kids.
Listen to Helen talk about the importance of proportional income splits and decision-making in relationships, and learn how she expanded her career amidst personal changes and the COVID-19 pandemic. Helen's story is a valuable lesson in balancing personal and professional life and moving forward positively after a significant life change.
00:00 Introduction to Today's Episode
01:18 Meet Helen Bernie: A Journey Through Divorce and Business
02:27 Helen's First Marriage and Career Transition
08:13 Navigating Divorce and New Beginnings
14:46 Blending Families and Managing Finances
17:03 Rewinding the Story
17:29 Deciding to Move
17:58 Children's Reactions
18:40 Financial Dynamics
19:39 80/20 Split Challenges
20:46 Emotional and Financial Struggles
22:37 Decision-Making in Relationships
25:34 Transparency and Vulnerability
28:08 Future Plans and Reflections
30:21 Business and Health Coaching
Connect with our guest Helen!
Here are her social media links:
https://www.facebook.com/helen.birney.2025
https://www.linkedin.com/in/helen-birney-cultivatehealth
https://www.instagram.com/cultivatehealth_with_helen
https://www.cultivatehealthcoaching.com
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Donna Kendrick is a Certified Financial Planner and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and owner of Sephton Financial located at 8200 Flourtown Ave Suite 1B in Wyndmoor, Pennsylvania, 19038. If you'd like to contact Sephton Financial you can do so online at SephtonFinanical.com or by calling 215 948 3945 Registered Representative offering securities through Cetera Financial Specialists LLC, member FINRA/SIPC. Advisory services are offered through Cetera Investment Advisers LLC. Cetera is under separate ownership from any other named entity. Sephton Financial, LLC and Cetera are not affiliated. The views depicted in this material are for information purposes only and are not necessarily those of Sephton Financial. They should not be considered specific advice or recommendations for any individual. Neither Sephton Financial nor any of its representatives may give legal or tax advice.