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Best of With Love, Danielle: How to Turn Rejection into a Power Move

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

Release Date: 12/12/2025

Dreams, divorce and birthdays show art Dreams, divorce and birthdays

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

A peek into my journals Today I'm giving you a sneak peek into my  journal. I'm talking about some divorce. I'm talking about some manifesting. It's really a celebration of owning my shit. …I was sitting at my desk, crying as I googled how to overcome heroin addiction. Except I've never tried heroin. I don't even drink coffee. I was trying to let go of divorce pain. The rumination—the mind looping—felt addictive. So I did the most radical thing I could think of. I did a 21-day Centering Practice for my former husband. There were no skipping days. Prior to that, I had been going out...

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Where does your anger come from? show art Where does your anger come from?

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And what to do when it shows up Here's the sequence: Unmet needs lead to disappointment. Disappointment gives rise to grief. Unresolved grief turns into resentment. Holding onto resentment creates anger. Welcome to Earth. Welcome to being a human. There is a 100% likelihood that to varying degrees, we will all feel unseen, unheard, or not loved in ways that we want to be loved. When we're children, we aren't able to fully process not having our needs met. The implicit grief registers in our energy field and we haul it around until we're mature enough to process it on our own or until we can...

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How to have a healthy relationship with your fear. show art How to have a healthy relationship with your fear.

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What you push away pushes back Here's the physics principle: What you push away pushes back. And while it's pushing back, it's building its own muscle. What we push away grows stronger. We have to be in relationship with our fears, not in opposition to them. Most fear is based on past experience that we project into the future. The catch? Fighting our fear creates this inner battle. That inner battle is such an energy burn. So draining. So hard on the nervous system. The irony is that we created the fear. Every single one of our fears comes from the unconscious mind. Each one is a mind baby....

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You are not the wound, you're the healer. show art You are not the wound, you're the healer.

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This is physics. This is metaphysics. This is the power move. A sneak peek from my new book, … We need a new relationship with our emotions and ambitions. Because clearly, the current one is not working. Here's a radical idea: Instead of repressing, rejecting, or ignoring our suffering, we bring it even closer. Within. Gently. As if we were blessing it. As if we were alchemists and energy workers. Because we are. Listen in for the 21 principles of blessing and releasing. The philosophical ground everything is built upon.  This is physics. And this is metaphysics. And this is the...

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Want to Invest in my New Business? show art Want to Invest in my New Business?

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I'm announcing CENTERED—my new spiritual wellness app launching April 2026. This is 10 years in the making. And it feels like holding onto a rocket right now. Think Spotify for spiritual wellness. A place to design your day based on devotion. Wake up to the energetics of the day. Build playlists with prayers, mantras, meditations—all the things. The existing wellness apps are for coping and calming down. You press play. You stay passive. Spiritually neutral. But CENTERED is built for depth, not dopamine. I'm partnering with Aligned, a Silicon Valley software company led by an early Spotify...

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What We Push Away Pushes Back show art What We Push Away Pushes Back

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The physics of letting go… and wanting what's meant for you. For a decade, I thought letting go of my worldly desires would bring me peace. I was wrong. I used spiritual perfectionism to hurt myself. I guilt-tripped myself for having "unspiritual" feelings. I romanticized renunciation while still wanting to host dinner parties at the monastery. Then I figured it out… What we push away pushes back and gets stronger. What we embrace transforms and strengthens us. This is the introduction to my forthcoming book, . With love, Danielle     In this episode: Why people who let go...

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Best of With Love, Danielle: Those Are Not Your People show art Best of With Love, Danielle: Those Are Not Your People

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This episode originally aired as Episode 160 on February 7, 2025. Lean in, pay attention. This episode of With Love, Danielle is our favourite kind—raw girlfriend honesty with deep spiritual wisdom (hello Krishnamurti)! Danielle focuses on identifying the behaviours that signify someone is ‘not your person’ and encourages you to cultivate discernment. But what next? Distancing ourselves, Forgiving, Compassion, healing, setting boundaries. How do you do this with Love? Danielle shares a favourite nourishing thought to help us. I love myself so deeply, I have the courage to see things as...

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Best of With Love, Danielle: How to Turn Rejection into a Power Move show art Best of With Love, Danielle: How to Turn Rejection into a Power Move

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

This episode originally aired as Episode 152 on January 8, 2025. You know… I’ve felt like an outsider most of my life. Lil’ bit on the outside. And of course I’ve had my share of hard No’s and reeejection. And… but… each rebuff and snub is taking us closer to our shadow territory, to the beautiful, unhealed stuff that’s waiting to be healed. I recently taught a class on rejection in our CENTERED Collective, and it was a tender one. We’ve strung the diamonds for you: In this episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE I’m teaching on: The meta-function of rejection. Every spurn, every...

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Best of With Love, Danielle: Why You Should NOT Trust Your Gut show art Best of With Love, Danielle: Why You Should NOT Trust Your Gut

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This episode originally aired as Episode 107 on April 3, 2024. I’m never contrarian for the sake of it. I’m good to go with the conventional flow. But not today, friends, not today! We have higher realms of consciousness to traverse. And those higher states are not in our guts. or lower chakras, or low vibe stories from our past. Old adage: "Trust your gut.” New way: Nah.  Pay attention to your gut, but don’t let it make your plans. There’s both spiritual and scientific sense to this.  I’m talking about decisions, intuition, direction, and how to figure out your next best...

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Best of With Love, Danielle: 35 Things We Stopped Doing—From Mindset to Tech Stack show art Best of With Love, Danielle: 35 Things We Stopped Doing—From Mindset to Tech Stack

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A note from Danielle: My loves, for the month of November, we are featuring the best of my business episodes from 2025. Today’s run has some extra divine timing because, as you’re listening to this, if you’re listening to it on our drop week, we are in Mercury Retrograde. Mercury Retrograde is all about review, rewinding, cleaning things up with intention before they pile up, and you’ve got to set something on fire. Today’s conversation is about the things that, as a team, we decided to let go of this year—in terms of policies, behaviours, things we did to get the bottom line up,...

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This episode originally aired as Episode 152 on January 8, 2025.

You know… I’ve felt like an outsider most of my life. Lil’ bit on the outside. And of course I’ve had my share of hard No’s and reeejection.

And… but… each rebuff and snub is taking us closer to our shadow territory, to the beautiful, unhealed stuff that’s waiting to be healed.

I recently taught a class on rejection in our CENTERED Collective, and it was a tender one. We’ve strung the diamonds for you:

In this episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE I’m teaching on:

  • The meta-function of rejection. Every spurn, every rebuff points to our inability to accept all parts of ourselves
  • Exactly why rejection is an advanced class in self-acceptance
  • How we stand in our power to heal from rejection, without bypassing or bravado
  • How to choose responsiveness and consciousness over numbing out and running away.

This is the work. This is how we transform our repetitive pain into deep esteem.

With Love,
Danielle