WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

A one woman show about self-realization from Danielle LaPorte, a member of Oprah’s Super Soul 100 and creator of The Desire Map. How do you create a spirituality that’s more rock n’ roll than oppressive, turn your anxiety into power, and live more deeply but lighten up? Danielle keeps it practical while riffing on the divine—from compassion and self-help fatigue, to sex, joy, and serving the world. She is, as Eve Ensler describes, “a force field of energy, wonder, humor, and love”, and her authenticity will have you feeling a little less crazy, full of possibility, and clearly part of the solution.

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How To Stop Pain from Turning Into Suffering 04/24/2024

How To Stop Pain from Turning Into Suffering A question we all want the answer to: If we can’t rush the healing, how do we handle the pain? Learning to not push away my pain—the physical and emotional, has been one of my greatest-hardest-most luminous learnings. It’s walking toward Acceptance––capital “A” Acceptance, the Soul Quality, And it really has upleveled my LIFE. Here’s a highlight from our HOW TO HEAL FOR REAL WORKSHOP. V.S., our metaphysical practitioner and I built out a teaching about resistance and dis-ease. This was my most highly attended and embraced class to date. I’ll walk you through a powerful metaphor for how the mind spins pain into full blown suffering. And how we can keep our emotional waters cleaner, more stable and able to handle emotional and health storms. Attachment plays a big role in our pain…and healing. WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 110) is ready for you… to heal. What people are saying about HOW TO HEAL, FOR REAL Workshop: "Thank YOU for this powerful heart to heart. I feel really nourished and touched by the wisdom." — Nailia "I am reminded that I AM so powerful." — Nancy "Reminder I'm taking with me: that I have the healing within me already if I acknowledge my ego and resistance." — Jacinda MENTIONED IN EPISODE 110 is a holistic approach to regulating your nervous system and steadying your relationships. You’re not the wound, you’re the healer. Get instant access to the workshop + audiobook to shift your relationship to pain and dis-ease. NEW! Are you a fighter, flighter or freezer? Take the to find out the default survival strategy that throws you off centre… and counter-moves to get back you center. is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. is my (always free) newsletter for devotion + lifestyl’ish. 220k subscribers are digging it! 2 Fridays a month. /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30958608

Are You Getting “More Spiritual”? 8 Beautiful Indications. 04/17/2024

10 Ways That Being Softer Makes You More Powerful 04/10/2024

Why you should NOT trust your gut 04/03/2024
Why you should NOT trust your gut
I’m never contrarian for the sake of it. I’m good to go with the conventional flow. But not today, friends, not today! We have higher realms of consciousness to traverse. And those higher states are not in our guts. or lower chakras, or low vibe stories from our past.

Old adage: "Trust your gut.”

New way: Nah.

Pay attention to your gut, but don’t let it make your plans.

There’s both spiritual and scientific sense to this.

In /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935943

Do Overs + What’s in My Bag? It’s Q+Awesome! 03/27/2024
Do Overs + What’s in My Bag? It’s Q+Awesome!
Friends…

After 4 weeks of the Healing With Anxiety series, maybe we need a palate cleanser, yes?

Like so:

If you could do a “do over” what would it be?
Talk about starting over after divorce.
What’s in your bag?
What’s in your fridge?
Why do you think our peers aren't’ talking about… certain world issues? And how to shift?

Lite, deep, lite, lite, and way deep.

I’m so glad /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935948

Signs That You’re High Functioning... But Anxious 03/20/2024
Signs That You’re High Functioning... But Anxious
Oh hi, high achiever!

I know you can do ALL OF IT. You ALWAYS pull it OFF.

But… at what cost? Crappy sleep, anxiety meds, cortisol levels whacked, extra pounds, skimmed savings, minimal alone time… too much alone time?

Let’s heart to heart this out. Because this is a collective story and we need to rewrite the script.

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE Eps 105 is for the polished, solid, achieving, doing, driven, types who are also actually the worrying, perp /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935953

How These Spiritual Teachers Deal With Anxiety 03/13/2024
How These Spiritual Teachers Deal With Anxiety
Hello Friends on the path…

I’ve known about the struggles of some of my favorite philosophers…Krishnamurti suffered from terrible migraines. Ram Dass had a massive stroke. Yogananda had crippling pain from apparently taking on the karma of his devotees.

Anyone in a physical body suffers. Facts.

But the accounts I found most helpful were those of teachers who struggled with anxiety and panic. Teachers of mind mastery who had to face these /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935958

6 Ways to Show Your Anxiety Love 03/06/2024
6 Ways to Show Your Anxiety Love
Charlie Brown's famous words "My anxieties have anxieties!" is a reality for people with anxiety “disorders.” Anticipating, forecasting and predicting …worry, unease and nervousness. All of which create symptoms that create a fear that the symptoms will last forever.

This is part 2 in my 4 part series on Healing With Anxiety and I embed an anxiety quiz for you in this episode (#103). We’ll see which lifestyle areas have some anxiety chatter for you.

The What /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935968

7 Types of Anxiety and Ways to Heal 02/28/2024
7 Types of Anxiety and Ways to Heal
Our 4 part series on How To Heal with Anxiety starts here, with Love.

With some help from conventional sources, the metaphysical practitioner on our team, V.S., and my own experiences with anxiety and healing, I’m setting the stage for us to look at basic anxiety “disorders” and to move toward healing measures.

You will see yourself, and/or your loved ones and the world at large in this list of anxieties types.

NAMING struggles is an important part of healing, /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935973

4 things to know BEFORE you say affirmations 02/21/2024
4 things to know BEFORE you say affirmations
What part of you is saying your affirmations? Your fearful part, or your faithful self?
Who's doing the affirming?

I’ve been going off about the down-side of self help affirmations for yuh-earrs. But complaining is a kind of affirmation, inn’t? So… I’m shifting into solutions. But in order to get to that higher consciousness, we’ve got to unpack the unconscious stuff.

There’s a sequencing for creating healthier affirmations. I unpack each of these tenets/directives:< /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935978

Is Your Inner Child Choosing Your Relationships? 02/14/2024
Is Your Inner Child Choosing Your Relationships?
Welcome to Episode 100 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE! Thanks for rollin’ deep with me times 100! I don’t take a single listen, click, share, or comment for granted.
So…

Is your inner child choosing your relationships? Short answer: Ya. Totally.

Consciously or unconsciously. It’s not bleak, babe, it’s a good thing. Because your Inner Child is choosing the relationships that lead you to your power.

We know a lot /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935983

15 Reasons People Don’t Speak Out During Challenging Times 02/07/2024
15 Reasons People Don’t Speak Out During Challenging Times
Hello Loves,

I know there’s a lot of disappointment in spiritual teachers and public figures who are silent during these times. I hear it daily in my DMs. “Thank you for speaking up, I’m so disappointed in other people in this space.”

I understand. I relate. And… it makes me wince. I’m grateful for the resonance but I’m not cheering on the criticism of others.

We don’t need to find additional reasons to battle each other about raging world battles /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935988

How to Turn Rejection into a Power Move 01/31/2024
How to Turn Rejection into a Power Move
You know… I’ve felt like an outsider most of my life. Lil’ bit on the outside. And of course I’ve had my share of hard No’s and reeejection.

And… but… each rebuff and snub is taking us closer to our shadow territory, to the beautiful, unhealed stuff that’s waiting to be healed.

I recently taught a class on rejection in our Heart Centered Membership and it was a tender one. We’ve strung the diamonds for you:

In Eps 98 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE I’m tea /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935993

Why We Get Sick… possibly maybe 01/24/2024
Why We Get Sick… possibly maybe
Hello Loves,

Why do we get sick? Like really?

My man and I decided to spend a month in Nicaragua to keep my lungs in prime conditions. Paradise on the cheap plus in-person time with my Team D wing woman Dana, who’s built a beautiful life there with her family. Perfection!

Within 48 hours of arriving… I got sicker than I’ve been in years. Have I not been meditating enough? Ingesting enough frankincense? Is this my way of burning karma? Am I a New /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30935998

How to rest AND be productive 01/17/2024
How to rest AND be productive
Hello Loves,

You’re bigger than your to-do list, and I knowwww, your to-do list is BIG.

Does just the thought of slowing down make your palms sweat? It is possible to prioritize deeper rest without sacrificing momentum. And I’ve got just the woman (she’s an actual empress of rest) to teach about it. I asked my beloved friend, Tracee Stanley to guest in our Heart Cente /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/30936008

8 Signs That You're Balanced in Relationships 12/20/2023
8 Signs That You're Balanced in Relationships
Today is a good one. I’ve been waiting to deliver this for a while and because I think there’s a missing piece in the current cultural conversation around the nervous system which is… the connection between our dysregulation and the quality of our relationships.

A nervous system that’s nourished, regulated and healthy can roll with ALL KINDS OF EXPERIENCES. We can be flexible, spacious, and tolerant. Way less… triggerable and much more… Loving.

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19 Questions for Nourishing Yourself 12/13/2023
19 Questions for Nourishing Yourself
I’d bet that you’ve never been asked this question before: What’s your relationship to what nourishes you? Because even though we KNOW what’s good for us, we don’t always go there.

Here’s the thing: everything is energy. And we’re always exchanging energy. So we’re actually relating to different healing ideas and modalities.

And! the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives (Kind of a big /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/29048493

10 Reasons We Isolate 12/06/2023
10 Reasons We Isolate
Let’s talk about all the shades of isolation. Chosen aloneness. Solitude. Go it on your own. Hangin’ out the ‘do not disturb’ sign. Pressin’ the HARD PAUSE BUTTON.

Isolation, like everything else in life, has shadows and light. I think this conversation is important because, unexamined, it can turn into nervous system dysregulation. Darkness, disassociation, sadness.

So let’s hold it up into the light. In Episode #93 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28949473

Who Am I To Teach What I Teach? Just Me. 11/29/2023
Who Am I To Teach What I Teach? Just Me.
There’s been a lot of newness in my business and life lately, so I want to anchor in with those of you who've been with me for a while (some of you, a decade!) and to add some BTS to all of you coming into this little corner of the universe.

First up: THANK YOU. I don’t take one click or sign up or listen for granted. Honestly I’m always amazed when people show up to things. Gigs, classes, I just feel really honored and useful. And having 4 planets in Virgo, UTILITY is a /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28833898

It’s Not Your Relationship. It’s You. 11/22/2023
It’s Not Your Relationship. It’s You.
Catch that subject line?

It’s not your relationship. It’s you.

Slightly provocative? Yes. Likely true on the deepest level? Also yes.

Almost everything that I’ve had to apologize for in a relationship––or that I’ve wanted an apology for, had to do with my nervous system being too jacked or too drained.

The current human reality (you, me, the planet…)

We’r /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28748168

9 Ways We Add Stress to Our Lives 11/15/2023
9 Ways We Add Stress to Our Lives
Let’s talk about stress, baby. Let’s talk about nerves and mind loops and … relaxation.

As always when we go into the shadowy stuff, I’ve got some light-backed solutions. In this episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE:

9 ways we create unnecessary stress –– the stuff that drains, dysregulates, grinds on our nervous systems.

Holistic suggestions for interrupting stress cycles like thought loo /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28643788

4 Types of Stress Responses. What’s Yours? 11/08/2023
4 Types of Stress Responses. What’s Yours?
Here’s where I think we’re at:

The past few years on the planet Earth have done a number on our nervous systems. A lot of us are experiencing adrenal fatigue, waves of anxiety, and difficulty sleeping. A general malaise of despair. And it turns out that all of this was a precursor to these last few weeks and months of warful insanity.

And whether YOU’RE conscious of what the stress is doing to you––your NERVOUS SYSTEM is very aware. I think that.. /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28549622

Why I Burned Down My Business Model 11/01/2023
Why I Burned Down My Business Model
Hello Loves,

Let me dial you back in time a bit… my birthday is May 25. I woke up this year and thought,

“I don’t want to live and work this way anymore.” Who’s got cake?!

I’d fallen into a pretty classic trap of working FOR my business instead of the business working for my LIFE. I needed to get out of the tasky tasks (read: draining) and back to my deep creativity. Because

If I’m not living from my full, /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28479941

4 ways to deepen your Faith 10/20/2023
4 ways to deepen your Faith
Hello Loves…

I can be having a conversation about a friend’s dating life, or what we’re having for dinner and in the back of my heart-mind, I’m thinking about Israeli and Palestinian families. Guilt can accompany some of my daily happinesses… I’m planning a wedding while there’s a war. I pray more fiercely. I’m more tired than I should be. Whatever “should be” means in dark times like these.

I think about FAITH––what do we put Faith in w /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28368206

New! New! This! Romantic check-ins, altars + my fave music! 10/13/2023
New! New! This! Romantic check-ins, altars + my fave music!
My Loves! Welcome to the inaugural podcast edition of SACRED WEEKENDS! I’m sooo excited about this. I’ve been wanting to do something like this for years.

Like…reco’s my friends and I text about. Conversations with my Higher Self. Think: chilling with your nervous system, cool music, Netflix that isn’t all about numbing out, and communing with the Infinite.

SACRED WEEKENDS will drop 2 Fridays a month––in BOTH podcast + email-form!

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Spiritual Bypassing, Glamour and Detachment. A breakdown. 10/05/2023
Spiritual Bypassing, Glamour and Detachment. A breakdown.
My Loves,

I was in NYC last week and the theme was EXPANSION! ANd more EXPANSION.

My Mr. proposed! Yes yes yes to life partnership. He is deep and beautiful and wise and I’ve been ALL IN since about month two of being with him. Knew it. We’re not sure if we’re going to get hitched at city hall in our jeans, or throw a festival. But we know it’s all ours to DEFINE.

I also joined a new literary agency family of philosophical go-getters (m /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28225961

How to heal your cognitive dissonance 09/28/2023
How to heal your cognitive dissonance
We all get out of alignment with our inner truth. It’s the human dance.

The thing is: The inconsistency has a ripple effect. When we are in cognitive dissonance– we don’t hear our Higher Self clearly. We’re unable to focus and move forward with glide.

Ideally…

What we believe is embodied in our thoughts, speech, action. We’re walking the talk.

Here’s Episode #85 WITH LOVE, DANIELLE:

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How focus improves your manifesting 09/21/2023
How focus improves your manifesting
The seeds of our desires get watered by… our focus!

But manifestation is a balancing act of intense focus and relaxed Faith.

We’re going a few layers deep about:

How to increase the INTENSITY of your focus––which directly correlates to your creative power and ability to make things happen.

The best use of free will––we get to choose the thoughts we believe, and the /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28094618

Please don’t ask if you’re worthy. 09/14/2023
Please don’t ask if you’re worthy.
We don’t actually need a pep talk about our worthiness.

Because…We’re all “worthy.” And the “worthiness” questioning is, actually, absurd.

No one needs to quantify, or qualify themselves for Love. Not one Soul, ever.

We don’t have to establish if we’re deserving of more ease, happiness, or Loving Kindness.

Here it is: when we spend energy questioning and bidding to see if we’re valued or worthy…it distra /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/28027005

8 Signs that YOU’RE HEALING 08/31/2023
8 Signs that YOU’RE HEALING
Hey hey!

I’m back with another juicy episode! Last week, we explored what spiritual season we find ourselves in.

With all the items on your daily spiritual checklist, you might be wondering, how do I know if this is really working?

In fact, it’s been a guiding question of mine: How do you know if all you are doing to be well is helping you be well?

Hint: It’s not about t /episode/index/show/withlovedaniellelaporte/id/27894249

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

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