Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

In this insightful episode, Rhonda sits down with Georgia-based attorney and author Bree Sullivan-Howell to unpack the emotional and legal realities of navigating divorce. From keeping your strategy private to the power of preparation, this conversation offers clear, actionable guidance for women in the thick of the process. Bree shares hard-earned wisdom on: Why empowering clients with homework is key to long-term confidence How oversharing—even with friends—can hurt your case The emotional traps to avoid when communicating with your ex How to prepare for court with clarity, calm, and...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

This week’s episode is powerful, personal, and packed with resources. Rhonda sits down with Heather Kutz, a wireless industry expert with nearly two decades of experience, to explore how mobile phones can either empower or control—especially for women navigating domestic abuse. What You'll Learn: The red flags that your phone may be used to surveil or control you How shared phone plans can lead to financial and tech entanglement What the Safe Connections Act is—and how it helps survivors regain privacy Signs your phone may have spyware or tracking software installed Simple steps to...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

In this episode of Disrupting Divorce, Rhonda sits down with Dyna Vink, a Certified Integrated Health Practitioner and expert in perimenopause and menopause support. They dive into a critical but often overlooked topic: how hormonal shifts intersect with the emotional rollercoaster of divorce. If you’re navigating the end of a marriage while also feeling off—emotionally, physically, or mentally—this episode will give you clarity, validation, and practical next steps. What You'll Learn: Why so many women hit perimenopause right as marital stress peaks The 4 major symptoms that could be...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

What does it really take to “disrupt divorce”? In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Jordan Rosenberg, a family law attorney from the Chicago area who believes the attorney–client relationship should be a true partnership — built on open communication, trust, and collaboration. Together, they pull back the curtain on what most attorneys wish their clients knew and how women can take a more empowered role in the process. You’ll hear insights on: Why viewing your lawyer as a partner — not just a service provider — changes everything The power of organization (and how small clues,...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Prenups aren’t romantic, but they are powerful. In this episode, NY matrimonial attorney Evan Schein explains what a prenup can and cannot do, why early conversations matter, and how precise drafting prevents costly fights later. We talk disclosure, fairness, and how to keep agreements current as life changes. What you’ll learn What a prenup is, and isn’t: A financial agreement signed before marriage that can cover assets, debt, and spousal support. In New York, it cannot set child support, kid expenses, custody, or parenting terms. Disclosure that holds up: Why both partners should...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Divorce makes college planning more complex. In this episode, Vicki explains the 2024 FAFSA changes, student loan rules, and how to find scholarships that actually make a difference. She also shares client stories where strategic planning saved families thousands—even hundreds of thousands—on college costs. What you’ll learn Why the parent providing more financial support (not the custodial parent) now files the FAFSA  How CSS Profile schools may require financial info from both households Student loan basics: limits, subsidized vs. unsubsidized, and upcoming changes for...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Vocational assessments can shape spousal support and earning-capacity debates. Rhonda and Dan unpack what credible reports look like, how to prepare, and how to challenge numbers that don’t match reality. What you’ll learn in this episode: ✨ Purpose & scope: Employability, realistic job options, training needs, and reasonable earnings. ✨ Data that matters: Social Security earnings, medical narratives, education, work history, and daily commitments.  ✨ Prep moves: What to bring, how to show up, and how to keep the interview factual and respectful.  ✨ Quality standards:...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn’t just about running the numbers. It’s about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Divorce mediation doesn’t have to feel confusing. In this episode, Rhonda sits down with her friend Rebecca Stern, owner of Pearl Mediation, to break down the different types of mediation and how to know which one is the best fit for your divorce journey. Whether you’re in a high-conflict situation 😤 or navigating things more peacefully 🤝, Rebecca shares how mediators can balance power, guide tough conversations, and help you walk away with clarity and confidence. 👉 If you’ve ever felt lost in mediation or unsure what questions to ask, this conversation will give you the tools...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

In this solo episode, Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, unpacks the psychology behind the "Disney Dad" and why his extravagant gestures aren’t really about the kids. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, exhausted, or even questioned your worth as a parent while your ex showers the kids with trips, gifts, and treats—this episode is for you. Rhonda reveals how Disney Dad tactics often mask deeper issues like guilt, ego, or financial manipulation, and how those behaviors can quietly erode your financial future if left unchecked. She shares the tools and mindset shifts you need to reclaim your power,...