Episode 223: High-Conflict Co-Parenting: What Most Experts Miss with Al Huntoon
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
In this eye-opening conversation, Rhonda sits down with Al Huntoon â a former custody mediator and co-parenting coach â to uncover what most people (and professionals) miss when it comes to high-conflict custody battles. Al shares the blind spot he discovered after working with thousands of families: in many high-conflict custody cases, one parent is driving the conflict, while the other is simply responding to it. This dynamic is often misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or overlooked entirely â and itâs costing families time, money, and peace. Together, Rhonda and Al explore: How to...
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Episode 222: Unhitched and Unfiltered: How to Emotionally Heal After Divorce with Oona Metz
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Rhonda sits down with therapist and author Oona Metz to talk about the emotional journey of divorce â and how to move through it with clarity and compassion. Oona shares her five-phase model for navigating divorce grief, built from decades of work with women in group therapy settings. Whether you're newly separated or deep in the healing process, this conversation will help you name what youâre feeling, understand whatâs normal, and take the next right step with confidence. In This Episode, Youâll Learn: Why heartbreak is the starting point...
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Episode 221: How to Stay Calm, Credible, and Court-Ready with Bree Sullivan-Howell
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
In this insightful episode, Rhonda sits down with Georgia-based attorney and author Bree Sullivan-Howell to unpack the emotional and legal realities of navigating divorce. From keeping your strategy private to the power of preparation, this conversation offers clear, actionable guidance for women in the thick of the process. Bree shares hard-earned wisdom on: Why empowering clients with homework is key to long-term confidence How oversharingâeven with friendsâcan hurt your case The emotional traps to avoid when communicating with your ex How to prepare for court with clarity, calm, and...
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Episode 220: Red Flags, Surveillance & Power: The Hidden Side of Mobile Devices in Abusive Relationships with Heather Kutz
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
This weekâs episode is powerful, personal, and packed with resources. Rhonda sits down with Heather Kutz, a wireless industry expert with nearly two decades of experience, to explore how mobile phones can either empower or controlâespecially for women navigating domestic abuse. What You'll Learn: The red flags that your phone may be used to surveil or control you How shared phone plans can lead to financial and tech entanglement What the Safe Connections Act isâand how it helps survivors regain privacy Signs your phone may have spyware or tracking software installed Simple steps to...
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Episode 219: Divorce Meets Perimenopause: What Every Woman Needs to Know with Dyna Vink
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
In this episode of Disrupting Divorce, Rhonda sits down with Dyna Vink, a Certified Integrated Health Practitioner and expert in perimenopause and menopause support. They dive into a critical but often overlooked topic: how hormonal shifts intersect with the emotional rollercoaster of divorce. If youâre navigating the end of a marriage while also feeling offâemotionally, physically, or mentallyâthis episode will give you clarity, validation, and practical next steps. What You'll Learn: Why so many women hit perimenopause right as marital stress peaks The 4 major symptoms that could be...
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Episode 218: From Fear to Empowerment: Disrupting Divorce with Jordan Rosenberg
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
What does it really take to âdisrupt divorceâ? In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Jordan Rosenberg, a family law attorney from the Chicago area who believes the attorneyâclient relationship should be a true partnership â built on open communication, trust, and collaboration. Together, they pull back the curtain on what most attorneys wish their clients knew and how women can take a more empowered role in the process. Youâll hear insights on: Why viewing your lawyer as a partner â not just a service provider â changes everything The power of organization (and how small clues,...
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Episode 217: From Stigma to Strategy: How Prenups Create Clarity, Not Conflict with Evan Schein
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
Prenups arenât romantic, but they are powerful. In this episode, NY matrimonial attorney Evan Schein explains what a prenup can and cannot do, why early conversations matter, and how precise drafting prevents costly fights later. We talk disclosure, fairness, and how to keep agreements current as life changes. What youâll learn What a prenup is, and isnât: A financial agreement signed before marriage that can cover assets, debt, and spousal support. In New York, it cannot set child support, kid expenses, custody, or parenting terms. Disclosure that holds up: Why both partners should...
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Episode 216: FAFSA Changes, Student Loans, and Scholarships for Divorced Families with Vicki Vollweiler
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
Divorce makes college planning more complex. In this episode, Vicki explains the 2024 FAFSA changes, student loan rules, and how to find scholarships that actually make a difference. She also shares client stories where strategic planning saved families thousandsâeven hundreds of thousandsâon college costs. What youâll learn Why the parent providing more financial support (not the custodial parent) now files the FAFSA How CSS Profile schools may require financial info from both households Student loan basics: limits, subsidized vs. unsubsidized, and upcoming changes for...
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Episode 215: Vocational Assessments in Divorce: Getting to Real Numbers with Dan Wolstein
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
Vocational assessments can shape spousal support and earning-capacity debates. Rhonda and Dan unpack what credible reports look like, how to prepare, and how to challenge numbers that donât match reality. What youâll learn in this episode: ⨠Purpose & scope: Employability, realistic job options, training needs, and reasonable earnings. ⨠Data that matters: Social Security earnings, medical narratives, education, work history, and daily commitments. ⨠Prep moves: What to bring, how to show up, and how to keep the interview factual and respectful. ⨠Quality standards:...
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Episode 214: Reclaiming Faith, Rebuilding Self: Divorce and Spiritual Healing with Stacey Wynn
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
đď¸ Your Host: Rhonda Noordyk, CDFAÂŽ CEO of The Womenâs Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Womenâs Financial Wellness Center, helping women isnât just about running the numbers. Itâs about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases...
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