E123 – Daryl Tolmich: Empowering Communities through Vulnerability, Growth, and Redefining Masculinity
Release Date: 11/18/2024
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info_outlineDaryl Tolmich's journey from operations-driven businesses to transformational leadership coaching is as inspiring as it is compelling. The personal upheaval of his divorce served as a catalyst for deep, introspective change –– reshaping not just his career but also his personal life, particularly his relationships with his sons.
Join Tina Paulus-Krause in conversation with Daryl as he shares how this period of self-reflection prompted a commitment to personal growth and responsibility, elements he now brings to his work with men's groups and in creative endeavors with his partner, Shelly. His story is a powerful testament to the significance of self-awareness and accountability in becoming a true leader and role model, both at home and in the workplace.
This discussion takes an enriching turn as Daryl and Tina explore the transformative power of vulnerability, community, and redefining masculinity. Discover how shifting perspectives on failure—from a source of shame to a gateway for growth—can lead to profound personal development. Daryl's insights into balancing masculine and feminine energies offer a nuanced approach to leadership and relationships, emphasizing the importance of modeling love and authenticity in male friendships.
Together, Tina Paulus-Krause and Daryl envision creating inclusive and empowering communities where embracing strengths and vulnerabilities can foster global leadership initiatives, in collaboration with the Global Leadership Academy. This episode promises to illuminate the paths to personal and professional transformation through community and self-discovery.
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Timecodes
0:00 – Intro
1:49 – Daryl’s Journey into Being an Entrepreneur & Owning Multiple Businesses
3:13 – Transformational Leadership: Who Am I & Who Do I Get To Be?
4:47 – The Impact of Our Inner Work Reflected Within Our Children
8:26 – Daryl’s Vision: Space, Permission, and Empowerment to Be a Man Who’s Healing
11:33 – Shifting Failure into Achievement & Learning
12:43 – Masculine & Feminine Energy: Connected to Our Essence & Being Loving
14:15 – How Global Leadership Academy Aligns with Daryl’s Mission & Vision
15:57 – Creating Community with Intersectionality & Authenticity
19:53 – Start with Your Senses & Remember from There
21:24 – Conclusion
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Daryl B. Tolmich is a poet, sage, and Intentional Communication Coach, who has spent the last several years surrendering to the concept of surrendering.
As an author and coach he takes the individual on a journey that “re-collects” language that has been “hijacked” through unconscious emotional charges and sometimes conscious mis-direction. Daryl supports people to reframe the stories that stop them from achieving the Vision for their own lives.
His practice is grounded in the pursuit of curiosity. Through evoking questions, he practices, teaches and models listening deeply, and speaking clearly.
He is committed to creating and holding space for clients to break old paradigms; and claim ownership of our sovereign self within the community we surround ourselves with.
Daryl’s Vision is for each of us to remember and invoke who we came here to BE.
Website: https://bonfireriver.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/daryl.tolmich/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dbtalmichi/
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