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In this heartfelt in‑person conversation from Florida, Tina Paulus‑Krause and her daughter Courtney explore what happens after a transformational retreat or “reset.” They share the real integration work required once you return to everyday life—how to walk the walk, not just talk the talk.

Through their own mother–daughter healing journey, Tina and Courtney unpack key themes like accountability, nervous system regulation, spiritual growth, and the courage it takes to stop trying to “fix” everyone else and start doing your own inner work. They define what it truly means to hold space, why receiving is so hard (especially for leaders, moms, and high achievers), and how retreats, membership support, and spiritual development can create lasting change in relationships and life.

If you’ve ever left a retreat, program, or conference wondering “Now what?”, this episode will give you language, perspective, and hope for the next phase of your journey.

Timestamps / Chapters

  • [00:00] Welcome & setup
    In-person podcast in Florida, preparing for end-of-year retreats; today’s focus: what happens after the reset.

  • [01:36] The aftermath & integration
    Courtney on going back home, relationships, and work with new tools—and why integration is ongoing, not instant.

  • [04:27] Real mother–daughter work
    Tina shares how their relationship was rebuilt through dark nights of the soul, communication, and imperfect attempts to integrate new tools.

  • [07:05] Accountability & not feeling alone
    Feeling seen and heard at retreat, the “honeymoon phase,” and why accountability and community matter when life happens.

  • [10:27] Processes to clean, clear, and come back to self
    Modern distractions, getting stuck, and why we need repeatable practices to return to ourselves.

  • [11:09] What “holding space” really means
    Courtney defines holding space emotionally, mentally, and spiritually—without fixing, judging, or gossiping.

  • [13:04] From fixing to listening & self-space
    Tina’s shift from fixer to space-holder; listening to understand; holding space for yourself and creating the retreat center.

  • [15:04] Learning to receive
    Why receiving feels so uncomfortable, how ego resists it, and how it transformed their relationship.

  • [18:12] Energy exchange & love languages
    Balancing giving and receiving, honoring different love languages, and finding shared activities that create true connection.

  • [20:15] Generational patterns & mother–child retreats
    Why change often starts with the mom, generational healing, and inviting mothers and children into new ways of relating.

  • [22:17] Doing the work & why the Reset Retreat exists
    Daily relationship work, visioning individually and together, and stepping out of “fixing everyone but me.”

  • [23:22] Choice, suffering & turning the mirror
    Suffering as a choice, pausing, introspection, and having hard conversations as the way through.

  • [24:53] From darkness to development
    Victimhood vs. self-development, family resistance, mirror work, and how their inner work became a life mission.

  • [26:29] Nervous system regulation & why Tina does this work
    Hurt people vs. transformed people, tools Tina wishes she had when her kids were young, and learning to manage the nervous system.

  • [28:13] Why Courtney does this work
    Worthiness, consciousness, and supporting people to step through the “gates” into higher awareness and responsibility.

  • [32:03] Lone wolves & being truly held
    Coaching, being fully honest, not having to do it alone, and creating a structure that can hold even deep trauma.

  • [39:28] Crystal Clear Missions & the membership
    Courtney explains their organization, weekly check-ins/check-outs, consciousness classes, and channeled spiritual support.

  • [44:53] Different ways to step in
    From guides to membership to 3-day immersives—meeting people where they are on the journey.

  • [45:30] Going public & calling people in
    Stepping more into the public eye, co-creation, and an open invitation to those who feel called.

  • [46:29] Closing reflections
    Tina’s love for sharing Courtney with the world and a warm invitation to join them on this path.

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