The Power of Saying No: Protecting Your Family While Serving in Youth Ministry
Release Date: 12/24/2025
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info_outlineHow do you serve God faithfully in youth ministry without sacrificing your family in the process?
In this heartfelt Christmas-week episode of Youth Worker on Fire, Doug Edwards reflects on decades of student ministry and shares one of the most important lessons he’s learned the hard way: every yes comes with a cost—and sometimes the most spiritual word you can say is “no.”
Rooted in powerful Christmas Scriptures like Isaiah 9:6, Isaiah 7:14, Matthew 1:21, and John 3:16, Doug reminds youth pastors, volunteers, parents, and grandparents why this season is ultimately about Emmanuel—God with us—and the families He has entrusted to us.
Drawing wisdom from Martin Luther and leadership insights from John Maxwell, Doug opens up about the trips, retreats, and ministry opportunities he said yes to—some of which he wishes he had approached differently for the sake of his wife and children.
In this episode, you’ll hear about:
✅ Why “good ministry opportunities” can still cost you what matters most
✅ How saying yes to ministry often means saying no to family time
✅ Why prayer should increase—not decrease—when life gets busier
✅ The leadership truth: whatever you say yes to, you say no to everything else
✅ How to model healthy boundaries for students and volunteers
✅ Why Christmas is the perfect season to reassess priorities and pace
This episode is a must-listen for youth pastors, ministry volunteers, teachers, parents, and grandparents who want to finish ministry strong, not burned out—and who want their families to feel loved, valued, and prioritized along the way.
🎄 Sometimes the greatest gift you can give this Christmas isn’t another event—it’s your presence.
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PODCAST EPISODE TOPICS:
Youth Ministry
Student Ministry
Youth Pastor Life
Ministry Encouragement
Leadership Skills