The Wedding Chaplain Podcast
Rev. Dr. David Anderson has walked over 1800 couples to their wedding day. And he wants to share that journey with you. This podcast is a boot camp or education for engaged couples preparing for their wedding day. Preparing for marriage and getting ready for a wedding are two separate things. We want you to have healthy marriages and perfect wedding ceremonies.
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Episode 67 - Communication: An Interview with Dr. Laura Sicola
06/30/2026
Episode 67 - Communication: An Interview with Dr. Laura Sicola
In this episode of The Wedding Chaplain Podcast, David Anderson talks with Dr. Laura Sicola about one of the most important foundations of a healthy marriage: communication. Dr. Sicola is a leadership communication and influence coach, author of Speaking to Influence: Mastering Your Leadership Voice, host of the podcast Speaking to Influence: Communication Secrets of the C-Suite, and a TEDx speaker whose talk is titled "Want to Sound Like a Leader?" Start by Saying Your Name Right has been viewed millions of times. In addition to her work with leaders, executives, and organizations, Dr. Sicola and her husband also lead communication workshops for engaged and married couples in churches throughout the Philadelphia region. This conversation helps engaged couples think carefully about the way they use words, tone, body language, and listening as they prepare for marriage. Wedding planning often brings major decisions, family expectations, financial conversations, and emotional pressure to the surface. Dr. Sicola explains how couples can communicate with more clarity, confidence, respect, and connection in the middle of those conversations. David and Laura also discuss the gap between what one person thinks they said and what the other person actually heard, how small communication habits can create closeness or tension, and why healthy communication before marriage can shape the daily rhythm of married life. Whether you are engaged, newly married, or simply wanting to communicate better with the person you love, this episode offers practical wisdom for building trust one conversation at a time. For Laura Sicola's social media accounts, please find them all linked below: Website: Facebook: Instagram: X: LinkedIn: YouTube: TikTok: Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 66 - Why So Many Relationships Fail Before They Begin: How to Build a Relationship That Lasts
06/16/2026
Episode 66 - Why So Many Relationships Fail Before They Begin: How to Build a Relationship That Lasts
In Part Two of David Anderson’s conversation with Dr. Freda, the focus shifts from finding love to sustaining it. David shares practical wisdom from years of marriage ministry and explains why healthy relationships require intentional communication, ongoing dating, shared purpose, and emotional honesty. The conversation explores second marriages, healing after divorce, relationship expectations, and the habits couples need to maintain a connection after the wedding day is over. David also explains his “Four Rules for Dating” and why many couples stop pursuing each other after marriage. In this episode, we discuss: Why couples must continue dating after marriage The emotional “crash” many couples experience after the wedding The importance of shared purpose and mission in a relationship How to avoid turning marriage into event management Why communication habits matter more than grand gestures The role of service, faith, and shared goals in lasting relationships How to know if you are truly ready to date again after divorce David’s practical rules for healthy dating and engagement Whether you are dating, engaged, remarried, or simply trying to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers practical insights for building a partnership that grows deeper over time. For Dr Freda's social media accounts, please find them all linked below: to watch this on YouTube: Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 65 - Why So Many Relationships Fail Before They Begin: Love, Timing, and the Truth About Relationships Before Marriage
06/09/2026
Episode 65 - Why So Many Relationships Fail Before They Begin: Love, Timing, and the Truth About Relationships Before Marriage
In this episode of The Wedding Chaplain Podcast, David Anderson joins Dr. Freda for a deep and honest conversation about dating, marriage, divorce, and emotional maturity. Together, they explore why so many people rush into relationships before truly understanding themselves and how culture, family history, and unresolved wounds shape the way we love. David shares his own personal story of marrying young, navigating divorce, and what he learned after years of working with more than 1,800 couples preparing for marriage. The discussion dives into why age, time, emotional clarity, and purpose matter more than chemistry alone. In this episode, we discuss: Why relationships formed too quickly often struggle in the long term The importance of emotional maturity before marriage How divorce and broken family systems affect future relationships Why college relationships sometimes collapse in “real life.” The danger of using relationships to heal unresolved pain How family patterns and generational habits repeat themselves Knowing your purpose matters before choosing a partner The difference between attraction and compatibility This conversation is honest, thoughtful, and deeply practical for singles, engaged couples, divorced individuals, and anyone trying to build healthier relationships moving forward. For Dr Freda's social media accounts, please find them all linked below: To watch this on YouTube: Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 64 - Five Questions Engaged Couples Need to Wrestle With: An Interview with Kyle Colavitti
03/24/2026
Episode 64 - Five Questions Engaged Couples Need to Wrestle With: An Interview with Kyle Colavitti
Our guest today is Kyle Colavitti. Kyle started out as an actress/writer/director, but once she had kids, she wanted to be home with them and to use her own words and experiences to help people. She and her husband have been married for 22 years, and they have two teenage boys. She likes to say she is a world-class hopeful romantic and to talk to couples about marriage being a marathon… not a sprint. Through her talks and work with couples, she has developed five key questions you have to say yes to before you get married. 1. Do I want to have this man’s baby? OR Do I want my DNA implanted in this woman to create another human being that we are committing to taking care of and coparenting for the rest of our lives? 2. Will I still love and want this person, and will they love and want me when we are bald, wrinkled, sagging, deaf, having mobility issues, losing our memory, basically, OLD?! 3. Will I be there for this person, and will they be there for me when we are sick or dying? 4. Will this person be there for me when I bury my parents? And will I be there for them? 5. Am I willing to do whatever it takes to work through our problems and issues? Each of these questions gets you right to the heart of what it takes to be in a long-lasting relationship. It is a great conversation. For Kyle Colavitti's social media accounts, please find them all linked below: Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 63 - Creating a Blockbuster Love Story: The Purpose
03/17/2026
Episode 63 - Creating a Blockbuster Love Story: The Purpose
Every great movie follows a familiar arc: a beginning that draws us in, tension that tests the characters, and a purpose that gives the story meaning. Marriage works the same way. In this three-part series, David invites engaged and married couples to step back and view their relationships as love stories still being written. Drawing from a recent marriage retreat, these conversations explore the opening scenes of marriage and why intentional dating keeps the story alive, how conflict functions as a necessary turning point rather than a failure, and why the wedding is only the first scene of a much bigger purpose. Whether you are preparing for marriage or have been married for years, this series offers practical insight, thoughtful reflection, and a renewed vision for building a love story that lasts long after the credits roll. For many couples, the story's goal feels like getting together. The wedding feels like the ending. In this episode, David Anderson invites couples to consider a bigger question: why are we together, and what becomes possible because we are? Using familiar stories and movies, this conversation explores how great love stories always point beyond the couple and why marriage works best when it is about more than happiness alone. You will hear why shared purpose gives meaning to sacrifice, how serving together strengthens relationships, and why couples need something they are working toward together. This episode is a powerful closing conversation for engaged couples and a meaningful reset for married couples who want their relationship to be about more than just getting by. To download the Script Workbook that goes along with the sessions, click here: Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 62 - Creating a Blockbuster Love Story: Conflict and Crisis
03/10/2026
Episode 62 - Creating a Blockbuster Love Story: Conflict and Crisis
Every great movie follows a familiar arc: a beginning that draws us in, tension that tests the characters, and a purpose that gives the story meaning. Marriage works the same way. In this three-part series, David invites engaged and married couples to step back and view their relationships as love stories still being written. Drawing from a recent marriage retreat, these conversations explore the opening scenes of marriage and why intentional dating keeps the story alive, how conflict functions as a necessary turning point rather than a failure, and why the wedding is only the first scene of a much bigger purpose. Whether you are preparing for marriage or have been married for years, this series offers practical insight, thoughtful reflection, and a renewed vision for building a love story that lasts long after the credits roll. Every story worth watching includes tension. Marriage is no different. In this episode, David Anderson challenges the idea that healthy couples do not have conflict and explains why conflict is actually part of the story. The real issue is not whether couples have problems, but how they handle them. You will learn why surprise conversations often lead to defensiveness, how avoidance creates distance, and why preparation changes the posture of conflict. This episode also introduces the idea of a planned weekly meeting and a simple agenda that helps couples address real issues without letting conflict spill into every part of their relationship. This episode is especially helpful for couples who feel stuck in the same arguments or who struggle with avoidance, escalation, or miscommunication. To download the Script Workbook that goes along with the sessions, click here: Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 61 - Creating a Blockbuster Love Story: The Script and the Question
03/03/2026
Episode 61 - Creating a Blockbuster Love Story: The Script and the Question
Every great movie follows a familiar arc: a beginning that draws us in, tension that tests the characters, and a purpose that gives the story meaning. Marriage works the same way. In this three-part series, David invites engaged and married couples to step back and view their relationships as love stories still being written. Drawing from a recent marriage retreat, these conversations explore the opening scenes of marriage and why intentional dating keeps the story alive, how conflict functions as a necessary turning point rather than a failure, and why the wedding is only the first scene of a much bigger purpose. Whether you are preparing for marriage or have been married for years, this series offers practical insight, thoughtful reflection, and a renewed vision for building a love story that lasts long after the credits roll. Every great love story has a beginning. Before commitment, conflict, or purpose, there is attraction, pursuit, and a question that starts it all. In this episode, David explores why couples stop dating each other, how drift happens quietly over time, and why intentional dating remains foundational long after the wedding day. You will also hear about the importance of continuing to ask the question that started your relationship and why assumptions, while safe, are never romantic. This conversation is especially helpful for engaged couples, but it is just as relevant for married couples who want to reconnect, rediscover curiosity, and keep choosing each other on purpose. To download the Script Workbook that goes along with the sessions, click Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 60 - From Genesis to the Last Dance. A conversation with Daniel Krikorian.
02/26/2026
Episode 60 - From Genesis to the Last Dance. A conversation with Daniel Krikorian.
Today’s episode is a little different. Instead of me doing the interviewing, I am the one being interviewed. This conversation comes from an episode of another podcast hosted by Daniel Krikorian, the founder of BRemembered.io, and I am grateful he allowed me to share the interview with you here. In this wide-ranging conversation, we talk about the difference between simply officiating an event and serving as a real minister, and why that distinction matters more than most couples realize. I also introduce the idea of “the cave,” that season right after the wedding, when many couples instinctively pull back to process the transition into married life. We spend some time discussing the readings in wedding ceremonies and the gravity of what is actually being said in those moments. In particular, we break down what is created between Adam and Eve in Genesis 2 and why that still matters for couples today. And we close with a practical conversation about how to end the wedding evening well and how to prepare for that final moment. B.Remembered social media accounts, please find them all linked below: Facebook: Instagram: B.Remembered Website: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor: Podcast Cover Image: AI-generated (DALL·E)
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Episode 59 - The Habit of Dating- An Interview With Jay and Laura Laffoon
02/18/2026
Episode 59 - The Habit of Dating- An Interview With Jay and Laura Laffoon
Jay & Laura Laffoon are "marriage edu-tainers" – a mix of education and entertainment. They have been happily married for over 35 years, and their mission is to help busy couples stay happily married for life. In our discussion, Jay and Laura briefly introduce themselves and their work. They tell us the difference between a marriage coach and a marriage counselor. I have them tell me about their annual Mackinac Island event, Celebrate Your Marriage. We drill down into their book, The Ultimate Date Night, and discuss why dating is so important. Finally, they share their best advice for couples getting married in the next few months. All of Jay and Laura’s social media accounts are linked below: Their website is To get a copy of any of their books or resources, click here: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 58-Wedding DJs--An Interview with Mike Lazar
01/25/2026
Episode 58-Wedding DJs--An Interview with Mike Lazar
We are talking about DJs for your Wedding and Reception. What is the best advice for couples getting ready for their wedding and their reception? How should couples approach their conversations with the DJ? What makes good song choices or playlists? We talk about first dances, father-daughter dances, mother-son dances, anniversary dances, cutting-the-cake songs, and slow songs vs. fast songs. And what are the things that couples don’t think about? My guest on today’s episode is Mike Lazar, a professional DJ, MC, and music director whose journey in music began at the age of twelve, playing drums in church. From there, Mike expanded into guitar, singing, and eventually DJing, launching his own company, Lazar Productions, at just twenty years old. Over time, his work led him into the world of live performance and music production, including opportunities to collaborate with top artists and Grammy- and Emmy-award-winning producers across the country. Today, Mike serves as the Music Director at First Baptist Church of Massillon, works with Rock the House Entertainment, and continues to run his own promotion work part-time. In this conversation, we discuss creativity, calling, and stewarding talent well in both sacred and professional spaces. Whether you are a creative, a leader, or someone navigating multiple vocational lanes, Mike brings thoughtful insight and real-world experience to the table. You can find links to Mike’s work and the organizations we discuss below. To learn more about Mike, please find them all linked below: Facebook: For more information on First Baptist Church of Massillon, please visit: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: . Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 57- An interview with Judith Kaluzny
11/28/2025
Episode 57- An interview with Judith Kaluzny
Judith Kaluzny Show Notes A Divorce lawyer may be a strange guest for the Wedding Chaplain Podcast. However, my guest today has some valuable insights. She knows how the divorce “industry” works. And yes, it is a business. The legal system thrives when a couple goes through a lengthy divorce. Judith helps people avoid that. But she also wants people to know the legal ramifications of divorce. Divorce is not just a break-up; you need to understand the legal side of marriage. Do you, as an engaged couple, know what it means to get married according to the laws in your state? Judith is a mother of seven children who practiced family law for 43 years. After 10 years of litigated divorces, she learned about mediation. She soon gave up going to court and started helping couples with family problems and guiding them mostly through the dissolution of marriage, which they call divorce in California. Just before the COVID pandemic hit, she devoted herself to writing. For Judith’s social media accounts, please find them all linked below: Facebook: Instagram: LinkedIn: To get a copy of Judith’s book, click here: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 56- What is Love? A Conversation With Kenny Vaughan
10/01/2025
Episode 56- What is Love? A Conversation With Kenny Vaughan
Shields of Strength Show Notes For as long as I have hosted the Wedding Chaplain podcast, we have not had an episode dedicated solely to love. As someone who works with couples and gets them ready for their wedding, I probably should have made this our first episode. Today’s guest is Kenny Vaughan. Kenny is the Founder of Shields of Strength, a Christian jewelry line that began in 1997 after a long battle with fear and anxiety. Kenny is the Author of The Right Fight, a book on how to live a loving life. So, it might be said that Kenny wrote the book on love. Kenny has been married to Tammie Vaughan for 28 years, and they have three children...Faith, Grace, and Kennedy. Kenny has spent the last twenty years studying the concept of love. For Shields of Strength social media accounts, please find them all linked below: : Personal IG @johnkennedyvaughan Shields of Strength @shieldsofstrength To get a copy of Kenny’s Book, The Right Fight, click here: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: . Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 55 Before God and These Witnesses-A Message at FBC Massillon
06/13/2025
Episode 55 Before God and These Witnesses-A Message at FBC Massillon
This Episode is a recording of a message delivered at First Baptist Church of Massillon on Sunday, May 4th, 2025. Notes No guest today. In addition to my work at WeddingChaplain.com, I am also a local church pastor. In May 2025, our church went through a series called "No Ordinary Family." For the first part of the series, I discussed my passion for wedding ministry and my book, Before God and These Witnesses: How to Start a Marriage Ministry to Save Your Church, Reach Your Community, and Change the Culture While You're at It. I share some of my favorite stories from my wedding ministry over the past twenty-five years: the good, the bad, and the crazy. I also call for our church and others to re-engage the wedding world. Churches should be the central place couples turn to when they get engaged. The church should own the wedding industry, not watch from the sidelines. The link on Amazon to purchase a copy of the book is here: To visit the First Baptist Church of Massillon Website: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 54- Generation Tux- An Interview With Jessica Garrabrant
05/29/2025
Episode 54- Generation Tux- An Interview With Jessica Garrabrant
Generation Tux Show Notes Today’s guest is Jessica Garrabrant. She is a Showroom Manager for Generation Tux in Columbus, Ohio. Generation Tux is the leading online rental company for Tuxedos and Suits. Jessica will discuss her role in the company and how the tuxedo rental process has evolved over the years. She will share how Generation Tux strives to make the process easy. We will discuss renting versus buying, suits versus tuxedos, styles, and the best choices for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies. And as a bonus, Jessica will tell us about their new Dog Tuxedo line in partnership with the ASPCA. Generation Tux website: For Generation Tux social media accounts, please find them all linked below: · · · · · · To visit Jessica’s store in Columbus, Ohio, click here: Generation Tux is offering listeners of the Wedding Chaplain Podcast a special 20% discount. Email David at to get the promo code. For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: . Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 53- An Interview with Kayla Satava--Prestige Ballroom Dancing
05/01/2025
Episode 53- An Interview with Kayla Satava--Prestige Ballroom Dancing
Today’s guest is Kayla Satava. Kayla is a dance instructor at the family-owned Prestige Ballroom Dancing Studio in Northeast Ohio. While she teaches all kinds of dance classes and programs, today we are talking about engaged couples getting ready for their first dance. When the DJ announces at your wedding, "The bride and groom will begin their lives together with their first dance," what will you do? Kayla does not want you to leave one of the most important parts of your special day to chance. This will be the first time all of your loved ones see you together on the dance floor as husband and wife. Kayla talks about practicing and preparing for this big moment. Kayla and her dad also teach a Marriage Enrichment Dance Program. A healthy and happy marriage requires trust, patience, and great communication skills, which are also needed to be a good social dancer. Many couples use dance lessons to reconnect with each other, and these classes are set up to do just that. Prestige Ballroom Dancing Website: Facebook (Hudson Studio): Facebook (North Canton Studio): For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: . Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 52 Vows and Personal Statements
04/14/2025
Episode 52 Vows and Personal Statements
Today’s episode is super simple but very important. I take a few minutes to talk about vows and personal statements. This is the main place in the ceremony where the couple speaks, so you need to put a lot of thought into it. To read the blog article that goes along with today’s episode and to download our collection of vows, click here: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 51 An Interview with Timothy Young
03/31/2025
Episode 51 An Interview with Timothy Young
Today, our guest is Tim Young, who is one of our officiants at WeddingChaplain.com. In addition to being an excellent wedding minister, he is a financial coach at Financial Peace University. Money is one of the top stressors in marriage, but it does not have to be. Financial coaching helps couples get on the same page about money, set shared goals, and create a plan that leads to financial peace instead of financial tension. Tim is going to be talking about that today. To learn more about Tim, please visit our website: Our Blog Article on Tim and Financial Coaching Services can be found here: For more on David Anderson: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 50 An Interview with Ken Blackman
03/24/2025
Episode 50 An Interview with Ken Blackman
Today’s guest is Ken Blackman. Ken is a relationship coach, speaker, educator, and author of the upcoming book Powerful Woman, Confident Man: The New Art of Loving Passionately and Building a Resilient, Fulfilling Relationship. Ken’s calling is to guide couples through intimate human connection. Using truth, transparency, and compassion, He shows committed couples how to co-create a relationship that uniquely serves them. Ken and I discuss what engaged couples can do now to avoid problems years from now. We also discuss warning signs in engaged couples that will not disappear after marriage. I ask Ken to unpack his central theme, empowered Intimate Coupledom. Ken’s Website: Instagram: Facebook: LinkedIn: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses today: . Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 49 People on Dating
03/17/2025
Episode 49 People on Dating
I was a guest on another podcast called People on Dating, hosted by Will Morales. Will started his podcast because of the stories he had heard and the experiences he had while dating. He says he is no expert. Instead, he talks with experts on relationships and everyday people. However, the main idea of his show is to discuss the ups and downs of courtship. Whether you are 18 or 80, you have a story. The goal of our conversation was to talk about dating with a purpose. Does dating always have engagement as a goal? We also discuss the idea of dating as engaged and married couples. We will talk about the Date Challenge as well. Will Morales's Podcast, People on Dating, can be found at His Instagram handle is @peopleondating For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 48 Reset and Preview
03/10/2025
Episode 48 Reset and Preview
We are back! We took a brief hiatus and turned it into a year off. I took on a new ministry position and spent much of 2024 working on my second and third books, so the podcast took a backseat, unfortunately. However, we are excited to get things back on track. Today’s episode is just a catch-up and reset, preparing us for new episodes every week. For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 47 - A Sunday Morning Message from: David Anderson
11/06/2023
Episode 47 - A Sunday Morning Message from: David Anderson
No guest today. In addition to my work at WeddingChaplain.com, I am also a local church pastor. On October 1st, we had a launch day that included my Sunday morning message being centered around the release of my new book, Before God and These Witnesses: How to Start a Marriage Ministry to Save Your Church, Reach Your Community, and Change the Culture While You Are at It. I share stories from my twenty-two years of wedding ministry, including the good, the bad, and the crazy. I also call for churches to re-engage the wedding world. Churches should be the central place couples turn to when they get engaged. The church should own the wedding industry, not watch from the sidelines. The link on Amazon to purchase a copy of the book is here: To watch the video of this message: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 46 - An Interview with CP Heda
10/29/2023
Episode 46 - An Interview with CP Heda
My guest today is CP Heda. He leads an event company called Esstart. Esstart is an innovative engagement platform with the mission to use technology to make events more interactive, memorable, and inclusive. CP will discuss his background and highlight their flagship product, “Instant Spotlight.” It is an interactive photo wall event where guests can upload photos in real time—the first ever. Instant Spotlight features photo contests, leaderboards, social media sharing, and onsite photo printing to heighten participation and enjoyment. CP’s Social Handles/Website links Pick up a copy of David’s book, “Before God and These Witnesses.” The link on Amazon is here: An easy link to get to a lot of who I am and what I am about is here: For more information on the Wedding Chaplain, please visit: Instagram: Facebook: LinkedIn: YouTube: Sponsor:
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Episode 45 The Enneagram
10/17/2023
Episode 45 The Enneagram
Our guest is Myrna Scales. Myrna is a USAF pilot wife, mom to two young boys, blogger, TEDx Speaker, and Certified Enneagram Coach. She loves helping people build confidence with the Enneagram. Today’s show is about the Enneagram, A personality profile that helps couples better understand themselves and their partners. The Enneagram is a personality typing system that describes patterns in how people interpret the world and manage their emotions. There are nine Enneagram Personality Types, each with key motivations and fears that largely guide their actions and decisions. Understanding your primary type can be a powerful tool for self-knowledge and improvement in all areas of your life, workplace, and especially your relationships. Myrna, an Enneagram expert and coach, will discuss the Enneagram in relation to couples today. Samantha’s Social Media Handles: LinkedIn: An easy link to get to a lot of who I am and what I am about is here: For more information on the Wedding Chaplain, please visit: Instagram: Twitter: @weddingchaplain Facebook: LinkedIn: YouTube: Pick up a copy of David’s Book, Before God and These Witnesses, today: Sponsor: Cover Design: Michael Damron
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Episode 44 - An Interview With Burl Jernigan
10/10/2023
Episode 44 - An Interview With Burl Jernigan
My guest today is Burl Jernigan. Burl is a friend and a mentor. He is the pastor of First Baptist Church of Girard, Ohio. We have a wide-ranging conversation about his ministry and working with couples. To learn more about Burl and the whole team at WeddingChaplain.com, please visit: Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Twitter: @weddingchaplain
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Episode 43 - After the Climb
10/05/2023
Episode 43 - After the Climb
No guest today. I take some time to talk about the feelings and emotions of the wedding weekend. Weddings are mountain-top events, meaning a climb up and a coming off the mountain experience. The climb up is stressful and exciting. The descent is full of decompression relief and can sometimes be deflating. For those interested in ordering a copy of my new book, Before God and These Witnesses, the link on Amazon is here: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor: Cover Design Michael Damron
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Episode 42 - The Vow: An Interview with Author Michael Ruskin
09/08/2023
Episode 42 - The Vow: An Interview with Author Michael Ruskin
Today’s guest is Michael Ruskin. Michael is the last surviving member of his immediate family. Mr. Ruskin writes for a living, publishing memoirs and family history books that help people preserve their stories as keepsakes for their families or a wider audience. The Vow, A Love Story and the Holocaust is Mr. Ruskin's latest book, but not his last. The Vow is the story of Michael’s parents. A true story based on the lives of two people whose love, faith, and will to survive transcended one of the darkest periods in human history...the Holocaust. Excerpt from the book: “As the last remaining captives were being herded towards the trains, David whispered in Dora’s ear. "No matter where they take us, we will meet back here in the Square when this is over. Stay strong, my Love, and know my thoughts and prayers are with you." Dora replied with tears in her eyes. “I love you, David, and I will pray every night that God keeps us safe and brings us home to each other." -The Vow: A Love Story & The Holocaust” The easiest way to connect with Michael is through his website: facebook For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 41 - Before God and These Witnesses
09/05/2023
Episode 41 - Before God and These Witnesses
No guest today. I am proud to announce my new book, which is the product of my years of wedding ministry. It is entitled Before God and These Witnesses: How to Start a Marriage Ministry to Save Your Church, Reach Your Community, and Change the Culture While You Are at It. I share stories from my wedding ministry over the past two years: the good, the bad, and the crazy. I also call for churches to re-engage the wedding world. Churches should be the central place couples turn to when they get engaged. The church should own the wedding industry, not watch from the sidelines. The book discusses practical ways for pastors and churches to connect with couples. Drawing from my doctoral work, I share the latest research on generational attitudes toward marriage and the church. In addition to sharing my stories and experiences at the end of the book, I offer pastors and church planters the opportunity to receive training in performing weddings and be listed on our Wedding Chaplain website. The link on Amazon is here: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 40 - The Wedding Buzz with Sydney Whidden
07/25/2023
Episode 40 - The Wedding Buzz with Sydney Whidden
No guest today. Well, I am the guest. Specifically, I was a guest on another podcast called The Wedding Buzz, hosted by Sydney Whidden. Are you planning your wedding and feeling overwhelmed? Sydney is a wedding planning coach and the founder/owner of Delightful Planning. She knows that planning a wedding can be so stressful, and she is on a mission to ensure that the only tears on a wedding day are happy tears. I am actually a guest on her podcast today. After we were done, it was such a good conversation that I made it an episode here. If you are a frequent listener, you may have heard some of this before, but it is a good reminder of what your purpose should be during the engagement season. Sydney Whidden’s Podcast, The Wedding Buzz, is available on all major platforms. Apple: Her Facebook is: Her Instagram handle is @delightful_planning Her website is For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 39 - Questions You Need to Ask Before Getting Engaged
07/04/2023
Episode 39 - Questions You Need to Ask Before Getting Engaged
Today’s Episode is about the Questions we need to ask ourselves or our partner before getting engaged or getting married. Show Notes No guest today. Today, I walk through some questions that everyone needs to ask themselves or their partners before getting engaged and certainly before getting married. To read the blog article that goes along with this episode to see all ten questions, please click here: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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Episode 38 - Stronger Because Life Coaching
06/27/2023
Episode 38 - Stronger Because Life Coaching
Our guest today is Jenn Andersen. She is a marriage and relationships coach. Specifically, she helps people break unhealthy cycles in their relationships. Through her blog, social media, and speaking, she shares the key elements of creating deeper, more connected relationships. She provides one-on-one coaching and instruction to build these essential skills. She has found that relationships and marriage, especially, make life feel amazing, make hard times more bearable, bolster us, cheer us, and provide the things that make life truly remarkable. When relationships are strained and struggling, life feels harder. Suffering feels deeper, and things that used to be easy feel heavier. Her passion stems from a desire to alleviate suffering in the world by breaking cycles of disconnection, and from her love for the people in her life who bring light to her burdens and joy to her life. Jenn Andersen can be found on these platforms: Website: Instagram: Facebook: For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: Sponsor:
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