Holy Smokes: Cigars and Spirituality
Join us for a conversation amongst friends, led by Kristian A. Smith, as we deconstruct harmful theology and create beloved community one cigar at a time. In a nutshell, Kristian and The Cast smoke, drink, cuss and talk about life, faith and theology. We embrace nuance as the spice of life while striving to love our neighbors as we love ourselves. Holy Smokes is disrupting everything you thought you knew about church kids.
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The Theology of Gospel Music w/ Yolanda Adams
11/18/2025
The Theology of Gospel Music w/ Yolanda Adams
Join Holy Smokes as we sit down with the legendary Yolanda Adams for an unfiltered conversation about the theology of gospel music, harmful church doctrines, love, identity, and what God really expects from us. We dive into the tension between sound and theology, how sin has been misdefined, and why the people we hate reveal more about us than God. If you've ever wrestled with faith, tradition, or evolving spirituality, this episode will speak directly to your soul. Subscribe for more! Subscribe to the TFCVirtual Patreon Here: https://www.patreon.com/c/tfcvirtual Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: https://www.patreon.com/c/tfcvirtual Join the Wait List for Kristian's upcoming e-book, "How to Deconstruct," here: https://mailchi.mp/thefaithcommunity/e-book-waitlist Get Merch here: https://thefaithcommunity.org/merch-store Order Breaking All The Rules here: https://www.kristianasmith.com/breaking-all-the-rules Episode Chapters 00:00 – “I Can Tell How Your God Loves by the People You Hate” 01:49 – Honoring the Legacy: Yolanda Adams Joins the Conversation 03:48 – The One Rule: Kindness Is Key (And It’s Biblical) 06:50 – Our Personal Histories with Gospel Music 10:30 – Why Theology Made Us Step Back from Gospel (Then Return) 13:18 – Black Folks & Ginger Ale: A Sacred Relationship 15:45 – Belief, Authenticity, and Why We Trust Yolanda Adams 20:24 – Performance vs. Testimony in Gospel Music 27:00 – When Sound Moves You but Theology Fails You 33:42 – The Song That Grounds Yolanda Adams Before She Preaches 46:12 – Sound vs. Theology: What Gospel Music Really Teaches 47:22 – Yolanda Adams Explains Her Personal Theology 50:06 – “Your Hate Reveals Your God” — A Word from Yolanda 52:59 – Sin, Harm, Identity & the Church’s Biggest Theological Mistake
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From You Made a Way to MAGA: The Travis Greene Reckoning | BONUS EPISODE
11/04/2025
From You Made a Way to MAGA: The Travis Greene Reckoning | BONUS EPISODE
This bonus episode takes a deep dive into Travis Greene’s controversial sermon denouncing Black Greek organizations and explores how his message connects to a broader rise of Christian nationalism within the Black church. The crew unpacks spiritual bypassing, emotional manipulation, and how prosperity theology has been weaponized against Black institutions. Tune in for a sharp, unfiltered look at the intersections of faith, race, and politics in contemporary church culture. Subscribe to the TFCVirtual Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Join the Wait List for Kristian's upcoming e-book, "How to Deconstruct," here: Get Merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Episode Chapters 00:00 – “Travis Greene’s Sermon and the Backlash” Introducing the viral clip and the theological claims that sparked controversy. 05:20 – “The Problem with Spiritual Bypassing” How Pentecostal theology often replaces accountability with “the Holy Ghost told me.” 11:40 – “Accountability and the Myth of the Portal” A breakdown of personal responsibility, manipulation, and church language used to silence critique. 18:00 – “Emotionalism and Manipulation in the Church” How guilt, shame, and altar calls are used as tools of control. 26:50 – “When Survival Is Labeled Idolatry” Critiquing the idea that working to survive means worshiping false gods. 38:40 – “From Pentecostalism to MAGA Theology” Tracing how prosperity gospel and Christian nationalism merged in Black church spaces. 46:30 – “Black Institutions Under Attack” How denouncing Black fraternities, sororities, and churches serves a broader anti-Black agenda.
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The Theology of Perfectionism | Everything doesn't deserve 100%
10/29/2025
The Theology of Perfectionism | Everything doesn't deserve 100%
For generations, the church has told believers, “Be perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect.” But what if Jesus never called us to perfection — only to wholeness? In this powerful conversation, we sit down with Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes to unpack how toxic theology, respectability, and race have shaped our obsession with perfection — and how we can finally get free. This episode of Holy Smokes: Cigars and Spirituality is proudly sponsored by Eden Theological Seminary. Join Eden online or in-person for an unforgettable evening with Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes as she delivers her lecture, “When Identity Wounds: Whiteness, Shame, and the Search for Repair.” 📅 Date: November 11, 2025 🕡 Time: 6:30 p.m. CT 💻 Attend online or in-person — registration is free and open now! 👉 Reserve your virtual seat today: Eden Theological Seminary, a leading educational institution aligned with the progressive Christian movement. By combining theological rigor with community action, Eden offers a seminary education to meet the moment. Students can pursue Master’s, Doctorates, Certificates or other community learning opportunities designed for Nonprofit, Community, Social Justice, and Congregational Leaders at Eden. Their blended learning model allows students the flexibility to join them online or on campus, and ground their learning and action in their own communities. Learn more at . Subscribe to the TFCVirtual Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Join the Wait List for Kristian's upcoming e-book, "How to Deconstruct," here: Get Merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here:
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When Christianity becomes Anti-Black
10/15/2025
When Christianity becomes Anti-Black
Let's talk about the call for Black Christians to place their Christianity over the Blackness. Let us know what you think in the comments. And Subscribe for more! Subscribe to Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Join the Wait List for Kristian's upcoming e-book, "How to Deconstruct," here: Get Merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: 00:00 – “If You Think Your Blackness Has to Pass Away to Follow God…” A bold opening on how anti-Black theology distorts faith. 02:00 – Christian Before Black?! The crew unpacks the growing movement of Black Christians prioritizing religion over identity. 05:00 – The One Rule: Honor Lived Experience Over Theory Holy Smokes’ guiding principle and how it reframes faith. 06:30 – RuPaul, Drag Race, and the Gospel of Self-Love How RuPaul’s benediction mirrors the greatest commandment. 08:00 – Blackness vs. Christianity: Who Told You They’re in Competition? Personal stories about how upbringing shaped faith and race identity. 15:00 – When the Black Church Was “Too Black” for White Spaces How Black worship is silenced or sanitized in multiracial churches and seminaries. 20:00 – Redefining Faith Beyond Christianity Rich Auntie and Kristian share what it means to be spiritual, humanist, and still deeply rooted in the Black church. 27:00 – Why the Black Church Still Matters History, resistance, and why “a church full of Black people” isn’t the same as a Black church. 30:00 – “This Ain’t a Black Church” — The Plantation Pastor Returns The crew dissects Philip Anthony Mitchell’s rhetoric and its ties to Christian nationalism. 40:00 – Is Blackness an Idol or a Gift from God? Exposing the lie that loving your Blackness means rejecting Jesus. 47:00 – Obedience, Indoctrination, and Control How “be obedient” theology keeps Black people docile in the name of faith. 58:00 – Dear Black Christians: You Were Black Before You Were Christian A powerful closing reflection on identity, liberation, and sacred self-love.
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Christianity's Obsession with Control | Deconstructing Dominion Theology
10/01/2025
Christianity's Obsession with Control | Deconstructing Dominion Theology
One thing we can't deny is Fundamentalist Christianity's need to control every aspect of your life. The shows or movies you watch. The kind of music you're allowed to listen to. The clothing you're allowed to wear. The people you're allowed to hang out with. The places you're allowed to go. The person you court and marry. And so on, and so on, and so on… This list fits perfectly into the what's known as dominion theology. It's the idea that the role of Christians to take over every avenue of society through government, media, education, religion, arts & entertainment, and family. This is often referred to as the Seven Mountain Mandate. The goal is for Fundamentalist Christianity to eventually take over the world. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Follow us on Instagram: @tfcvirtual and @holysmokesmovement Browse our Website: Like us on Facebook: The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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Deconstruction Warning: Get off the Battlefield | Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality
09/17/2025
Deconstruction Warning: Get off the Battlefield | Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality
Many of us grew up in churches where our love for God was determined by how much of yourself you sacrificed for the sake of eternal salvation. You attended every service and every event. You served on as many ministry teams as you could, stretching yourself thin. You even invited your friends and coworkers thinking, “if I could just get them to my church” they'd see the value of living for Jesus. Well, it's time to get off the battlefield for the Lord. It's possible to love God and stay connected to yourself. It's also possible to maintain a healthy relationship with your faith without having to be present and available for everything. It takes some deconstructing, decolonizing, reimagining, and rebuilding, but it's possible. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Follow us on Instagram: @tfcvirtual and @holysmokesmovement Browse our Website: Like us on Facebook: The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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Deconstructing Revelation w/ Dr. Angela Parker | Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality
09/03/2025
Deconstructing Revelation w/ Dr. Angela Parker | Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality
Growing up, the book of Revelation and the feeling of fear went hand on hand. It was the book of the Bible used to convince us to follow Christ. Books and movies have been made in efforts to bring Revelation to life. Well, not this time around. For the recording of “Deconstructing Revelation”, we had Dr. Angela Parker as a special guest. We have a profound amount of respect for Dr. Parker in these TFC streets. She's a Professor, New Testament Scholar, Womanist, and Justice Leader. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Follow us on Instagram: @tfcvirtual and @holysmokesmovement Browse our Website: Like us on Facebook: The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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The Truth About Fornication w/ Dr. Delman Coates
05/28/2025
The Truth About Fornication w/ Dr. Delman Coates
What if we told you fornication is not what we have been traditionally taught? What if we told you there are more responsible ways to do sexual ethics? What if we told you to release the shame and guilt of safe and consensual unmarried sex? As Dr. Delman Coates will share later, "Sex is not a problem to be solved. It is an appetite to be managed." Subscribe to Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Check out Dr. Coates' political advocacy movement here: Join the Wait List for Kristian's upcoming e-book, "How to Deconstruct," here: Register for DAI Fest in Atlanta Here: Get Merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Episode Chapters 00:00 - Intro & Highlights 05:01 - The Viral Clip about Fornication 08:49 - Sex & The Greatest Commandment 15:30 - Dr. Delman Coates joins us 23:00 - Black Scholarship Matters 30:39 - Dr. Coates' stance on LGBTQ 37:00 - What should I tell my kids? 48:43 - The interpretation of tongues 57:02 - Unpacking "Lean Not to your own understanding." 1:04:50 - Theologian vs Bible Scholar 1:09:15 - How are you navigating politics?
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Can Christians Be Humanists? w/ D. Danyelle Thomas (UnfitChristian)
05/19/2025
Can Christians Be Humanists? w/ D. Danyelle Thomas (UnfitChristian)
If you struggle with your identity as a Christian because of what it has come to represent, this episode is for you. Kristian and the crew are joined by D. Danyelle Thomas, the Unfit Christian, to discuss the relationship between spirituality and humanism. The meaning of Humanism varies depending on who you ask. For the sake of this conversation, humanism is a worldview that suggests humanity is equipped with everything it needs to resolve its own problems without supernatural intervention. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Order "The Day God Saw Me as Black" by D. Danyelle Thomas here: Join the Wait List for Kristian's upcoming e-book, "How to Deconstruct," here: Register for DAI Fest in Atlanta Here: Get Merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Episode Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 06:36 - Close the Doors - Marvin Sapp Recap 09:45 - The One Rule 15:45 - What is Humanism? - The Pastor's Study 21:34 - How were you exposed to Humanism? - Intros 44:40 - Paula White is a Scammer - Reaching for the Stars 56:55 - The ladies read Paula White for filth 1:19:03 - How does Humanism align with Jesus? 1:36:57 - Church Kid Sing Along
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Deconstructing The Sin of Empathy
04/30/2025
Deconstructing The Sin of Empathy
In recent years, Christian Nationalist have bee casting a negative light on the concept of empathy. They characterize it as a gateway to approve "sin." In this episode Kristian and the crew unpack how dangerous this teaching is. Watch this episode and subscribe to our YouTube channel here: Subscribe to Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Join the Wait List for Kristian's upcoming e-book, "How to Deconstruct," here: https://mailchi.mp/thefaithcommunity/... Register for DAI Fest in Atlanta Here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dai-fest... Get Merch here: https://thefaithcommunity.org/merch-s... Order Breaking All The Rules here: https://www.kristianasmith.com/breaki... Episode Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 02:30 - Rich Auntie’s Birthday Recap 05:47 - The First Lady of the Closet 10:10 - Pamela is the man of the house 13:10 - The One Rule 17:52 - What is Empathy - The Couch w/ Pamela 31:13 - Boundaries vs. Control 36:57 - How did you learn empathy? 47:15 - Anxiety vs Empathy 55:01 - What is toxic Empathy? Reaching for the Stars 1:20:15 - The Enticing Sin of Empathy 1:31:30 - You’re Invited!
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Submit to the Governing Authorities - Philip Anthony Mitchell Strikes Again!
04/21/2025
Submit to the Governing Authorities - Philip Anthony Mitchell Strikes Again!
Last Sunday, Fundamentalist Pastor Philip Anthony Mitchell (PAM) told Black people they need to stop blaming White cops for the killing of Black kids. He used Romans 13 in the Bible as the justification for his stance in the midst of a Christian Nationalist Regime that is abducting people off the street, erasing Black history, destabilizing the economy, etc... In this special edition of Holy Smokes: Cigars and Spirituality, Kristian does a solo episode to unpack the context of Romans 13. He provides another perspective on Romans 13 that is almost always overlooked in fundamentalist Christian spaces. This episode was recorded live for our free and paid tiers in Patreon. You can watch the full length episode by subscribing today! Subscribe to Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Join the Wait List for Kristian's upcoming e-book, "How to Deconstruct," here: Register for DAI Fest in Atlanta Here: Get Merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Video Chapters - Intro and Highlights - Origin Story for this video - Kristian's disdain for PAM's theology - How to spot Anti-Blackness in the Black community - Who taught theology to Christian Influencers? - Kristian agrees with PAM - Recap of PAM's story about police brutality - Romans 13 breakdown - Cultural context of Romans 13 - Emperor Nero - The Apostle Paul did not write scripture - West Africans were uninvolved in Roman Christianity - Romans 13:1-7 doesn't belong there? - The Greatest Commandment takes priority - Kristian's encounter with the Gen Z Christian Girlies - Rebranding Condemnation as Conviction - Issa Party!
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A Witness for White Jesus
04/02/2025
A Witness for White Jesus
In this episode, Kristian and the crew discuss how so much of Fundamentalist Christianity props up the image of white Jesus. This is the symbolism European nations have leveraged to violently colonize most of the known world. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Register for DAI Fest in Atlanta Here: Get Merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Video Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 02:16 - Kristian’s Devil Horns 04:45 - The One Rule 05:49 - A Review of our YouTube haters 14:34 - What are you doing to care for yourself? 27:06 - “Jesus was NOT a Black Man” - Phillip Anthony Mitchell 40:52 - Weaponizing Marxism 46:52 - Evidence of Jesus’ Skin Tone 55:34 - Afterlife Anxiety obstructs Pro-Blackness 58:53 - The problem with Christian Evangelism The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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Deconstructing Singles Ministry II
03/20/2025
Deconstructing Singles Ministry II
In this episode, Kristian and the crew discuss what it’s like to be single in the Black Church regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. We’ll uncover in this conversation that those factors make a difference. We’re joined by two of our community members, BJ Jackson and Paul Best. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Watch the Patrons-only recording of the first Deconstructing Singles Ministry episode: Get Merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Video Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 08:04 - Did not our hearts burn within us? - Part 1 Recap 12:30 - The One Rule 19:09 - Describe your experience as a single person in the Black Church 43:07 - Decentering Heterosexual Relationships 46:32 - Leave me out of your misery - Reaching for the Stars 1:02:10 - Jackie Hill Perry Levels of Repression 1:09:11 - The Masturbation Stigma 1:13:49 - How has Purity Culture impacted your relationships? 1:15:22 - Some single church mothers are closeted lesbians? The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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Deconstructing Christian Nationalism w/ April Ajoy
02/28/2025
Deconstructing Christian Nationalism w/ April Ajoy
This episode will give you a look inside the mind of a Christian Nationalist. Kristian and the crew are joined by viral comedic content creator and author of "Star Spangled Jesus", April Ajoy. April was raised in the Christian Nationalist world. Now she has committed her work to dismantling the tradition that raised her for the good of humanity. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Purchase full-length, uncensored episodes of the podcast here: Register for Holy Smokes Chicago here: Order "Star Spangled Jesus" here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Video Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 04:55 - Part 1 Recap 07:00 - Star Spangled Jesus 08:44 - The One Rule 10:45 - The definition of Christian Nationalism 13:45 - What aspect of Christian Nationalism is the most concerning? 25:30 - White Women, Welch's and Witchcraft 32:49 - Oscars Prayer Party 37:00 - Christian Nationalist U.S. History 45:55 - All good Christians are Republican 57:40 - White Evangelicals in Black Face 1:03:39 - Seven Mountain Mandate 1:17:07 - Blackness over Christianity 1:20:41 - How to counter Christian Nationalism The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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Deconstructing Respectability Politics - Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality
02/13/2025
Deconstructing Respectability Politics - Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality
In this Therapy N' Theology episode of the podcast, the preacher and the preacher's wife discuss the implications of respectability politics on Black people in general and Black Christians in particular. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Video Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 04:41 - The Therapy N Theology Origin Story 09:10 - The One Rule 10:58 - How is your mood? 17:53 - Doechii, Tyler the Creator, Kamasi Washington 21:32 - Jazz was bump & grind music 22:41 - Is Tripp Fontaine tripping? - Reaching for the Stars 36:36 - Leave Gender Wars in 2024 38:10 - Bonnets and Respectability Politics ft. Christina Brown 47:06 - The Origins of Respectability Politics 54:40 - Ethics vs Etiquette 1:07:02 - The connection between Sin & Respectability 1:18:13 - Count the Cost of your Rebellion The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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The Theology of Suffering with Auntie Mazda Miles
01/29/2025
The Theology of Suffering with Auntie Mazda Miles
Kristian is joined by Auntie Mazda Miles, Pastor Tim Careathers and Myron the Mystic to unpack the Christian obsession with suffering. Hopefully you don't feel so obligated to suffer after watching this. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Episode Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 02:52 - Welcome & Mazda Intro 10:32 - The One Rule by Tim Careathers 12:12 - What did your embedded theology teach you about suffering? 26:42 - "Make Dying Attractive" - Tim Ross 49:14 - Women & Suffering 58:08 - Intro to Theology of Suffering (Penal Substitutionary Atonement) 1:13:04 - Suffering is not redemptive - Myron the Mystic 1:22:02 - Abundant Life on this side - Mazda Miles The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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Grieving The Loss of Certainty ft. Ciarra Jones, The Gardening Theologian
01/15/2025
Grieving The Loss of Certainty ft. Ciarra Jones, The Gardening Theologian
Kristian and the crew are joined by Ciarra Jones to discuss the struggle of losing certainty as you deconstruct your faith. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Order The Sin of Certainty by Pete Enns here: Video Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 04:08 - Welcome 07:35 - The One Rule 09:22 - Name a belief you once held as certain, but you no longer do. 21:41 - John Gray's Election Reflection (Reaching for the Stars) 42:08 - How has your relationship with certainty changed as you have grown? 54:53 - Talk to your kids about spirituality 1:01:44 - How did you grieve the loss of certainty? 1:15:44 - Replace certainty with possibility. 1:21:15 - Ciarra's Closing Thoughts The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.
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2024 Year in Review - Black People Are Racist???
01/01/2025
2024 Year in Review - Black People Are Racist???
Kristian and the crew run down the list of the top moments of 2024 with a collection of Reaching For the Stars segments. The segment featuring Christian Influencer, Tim Ross, is where we discuss the notion that Black People are Racist... Subscribe to Patreon Here: https://www.patreon.com/tfcvirtual Get merch here: https://thefaithcommunity.org/merch-store Order Breaking All The Rules here: https://www.holysmokesmovement.com/batr-book-order Video Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Highlights 05:46 - Welcome 08:28 - What was the most impactful cultural moment of the year? 21:44 - Bad Faith: The Rise of Christian Nationalism review 27:50 - Black People are Racist - Tim Ross (Reaching for the Stars) 47:02 - Deconstructing the Rapture review 49:20 - Jesus Wasn't a Revolutionary - Jordan Ifueko (Reaching for the Stars) 1:03:49 - Black Women & African Spirituality 7 review 1:07:47 - Astrology is Demonic - Brandon Jacobs (Reaching for the Stars) 1:18:59 - Closing Remarks of 2024 The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Deconstructing the Flesh "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
12/11/2024
Deconstructing the Flesh "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
Exploring the concept of soul ties, this episode critically examines their theological origins, cultural implications, and real-life impact. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Watch the Video Podcast here: 00:00 Podcast Introduction 05:02 Holy Smokes One Rule 08:13 Smoking, Drinking, and How was the flesh characterized in your faith tradition of origin? 23:39 Reaching for the Stars 30:26 Reactions - Philosophy vs. the Bible 33:52: Reactions - What did Frederick Douglass do? 38:17 Reactions - Christian want to own everything 48:49 The Pastor’s Study - An Introduction to the Flesh 1:13:49 Spiritual Bypassing Harm as Sacrifice 1:24:09 How do you all navigate your relationship with the flesh? 1:31:13 Final Word ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Deconstructing Soul Ties "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
11/27/2024
Deconstructing Soul Ties "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
Exploring the concept of soul ties, this episode critically examines their theological origins, cultural implications, and real-life impact. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Watch the Video Podcast here: 00:00 Podcast Introduction 06:44 Holy Smokes One Rule 10:01 The Couch w/ Pamela the Therapist 15:26 Smoking, Drinking, and What is your relationship to the concept of soul ties? 35:10 Reaching for the Stars 48:34 He Keeps Coming Back 51:40 Purity Culture is a Setup 56:25 We have an obsession with end states 01:01:23 What value do you find in the concept of soul ties? 01:06:32 Anxious attachment style 01:14:21 You start to lose yourself 1:25:14 Final Words ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Christianity & Capitalism: A Case Study on Idolatry "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
11/06/2024
Christianity & Capitalism: A Case Study on Idolatry "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
Exploring the complex relationship between Christianity and capitalism, this episode unpacks how faith intersects with wealth, ethics, and societal values. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Watch the Video Podcast here: https://youtu.be/uhkySa33iKc 00:00 Podcast Introduction 07:09 Holy Smokes One Rule 13:15 Smoking, Drinking, and When did you become Conscious of Capitalism 33:40 Reaching for the Stars 57:47 The Pastor’s Study 42:41 Reactions to the Overview of Late Stage Capitalism 1:25:56 Connections to Christianity and Capitalism 1:36:53 Final Words ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Deconstructing Halloween "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
10/23/2024
Deconstructing Halloween "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode, we dive into the origins, myths, and misconceptions surrounding Halloween, exploring its cultural and spiritual significance. Subscribe to Patreon Here: Get merch here: Order Breaking All The Rules here: Watch the Video Podcast here: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Deconstructing Deliverance "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
10/09/2024
Deconstructing Deliverance "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode, we explore the complexities of deconstructing deliverance, challenging traditional beliefs and practices in spiritual healing. Watch the Video Podcast: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to grab Breaking All The Rules as a physical copy, e-book or audiobook visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Purchase Breaking All The Rules" under "Shop" If you want to partner with us in our Patreon Community and get more content, access and community, visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Join Our Patreon Community". ----------------------------------------------------------------------- You can find everything you need at Order Breaking All The Rules: Listen on your favorite podcast platform. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Bad Faith: The Rise of Christian Nationalism "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
08/21/2024
Bad Faith: The Rise of Christian Nationalism "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode, we explore the rise of Christian nationalism and its impact on faith and politics in America. Watch the Video Podcast: **This will be our last episode release until October. Subscribe to the Ecosystem to join our digital community to get the unreleased episodes: Link to The Sin of Christian Nationalism: Link for DAI Fest Registration: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to grab Breaking All The Rules as a physical copy, e-book or audiobook visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Purchase Breaking All The Rules" under "Shop" If you want to partner with us in our Patreon Community and get more content, access and community, visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Join Our Patreon Community". ----------------------------------------------------------------------- You can find everything you need at Order Breaking All The Rules: Listen on your favorite podcast platform. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Black Women & African Spirituality VII "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
08/07/2024
Black Women & African Spirituality VII "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode of our audience favorite series, Black Women and African Spirituality, special guest Mazda Miles joins us to discuss Hoodoo. Watch the Video Podcast: Subscribe to the Ecosystem Here: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to grab Breaking All The Rules as a physical copy, e-book or audiobook visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Purchase Breaking All The Rules" under "Shop" If you want to partner with us in our Patreon Community and get more content, access and community, visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Join Our Patreon Community". ----------------------------------------------------------------------- You can find everything you need at Order Breaking All The Rules: Listen on your favorite podcast platform. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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The Black Gay Agenda "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
07/24/2024
The Black Gay Agenda "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode, special guest Alex Twiggs joins us to explore The Black Gay Agenda and its impact on the community. Watch the Video Podcast: Subscribe to the Ecosystem Here: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to grab Breaking All The Rules as a physical copy, e-book or audiobook visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Purchase Breaking All The Rules" under "Shop" If you want to partner with us in our Patreon Community and get more content, access and community, visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Join Our Patreon Community". ----------------------------------------------------------------------- You can find everything you need at Order Breaking All The Rules: Listen on your favorite podcast platform. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Diddy, Demons & The Divine 9 "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
07/10/2024
Diddy, Demons & The Divine 9 "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode, special guest Timothy Careathers joins us to discuss Diddy, Demons, & The Divine 9. Please be aware we discuss sexual violence and predatory behavior. Watch the Video Podcast: Subscribe to the Ecosystem Here: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to grab Breaking All The Rules as a physical copy, e-book or audiobook visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Purchase Breaking All The Rules" under "Shop" If you want to partner with us in our Patreon Community and get more content, access and community, visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Join Our Patreon Community". ----------------------------------------------------------------------- You can find everything you need at Order Breaking All The Rules: Listen on your favorite podcast platform. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Black Liturgies with Cole Arthur Riley "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
06/25/2024
Black Liturgies with Cole Arthur Riley "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode, Cole Arthur Riley joins us to explore Black Liturgies and their role in faith, culture, and spiritual practice. Watch the Video Podcast: Subscribe to the Ecosystem Here: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to grab Breaking All The Rules as a physical copy, e-book or audiobook visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Purchase Breaking All The Rules" under "Shop" If you want to partner with us in our Patreon Community and get more content, access and community, visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Join Our Patreon Community". ----------------------------------------------------------------------- You can find everything you need at Order Breaking All The Rules: Listen on your favorite podcast platform. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Deconstructing The Rapture - "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
06/11/2024
Deconstructing The Rapture - "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode, we delve into deconstructing the concept of the Rapture, examining its origins and implications. Watch the Video Podcast: Subscribe to the Ecosystem Here: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to grab Breaking All The Rules as a physical copy, e-book or audiobook visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Purchase Breaking All The Rules" under "Shop" If you want to partner with us in our Patreon Community and get more content, access and community, visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Join Our Patreon Community". ----------------------------------------------------------------------- You can find everything you need at Order Breaking All The Rules: Listen on your favorite podcast platform. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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Exhibiting Forgiveness w/ Titus Kaphar - "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
05/29/2024
Exhibiting Forgiveness w/ Titus Kaphar - "Holy Smokes: Cigars & Spirituality"
In this episode, special guest Titus Kaphar joins the cast to discuss his film Exhibiting Forgiveness, focusing on the intersections of faith and forgiveness. Watch the Video Podcast: Subscribe to the Ecosystem Here: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to grab Breaking All The Rules as a physical copy, e-book or audiobook visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Purchase Breaking All The Rules" under "Shop" If you want to partner with us in our Patreon Community and get more content, access and community, visit holysmokesmovement.com and click "Join Our Patreon Community". ----------------------------------------------------------------------- You can find everything you need at Order Breaking All The Rules: Listen on your favorite podcast platform. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- The Faith Community is a disruptive ministry built upon five keys: Greatest Commandment Theology, Anti-Racism, Women's Equity, LGBTQ+ Affirmation, and Bible Criticism. We are for the unchurched, the over-churched, and the under-churched; the weary and the wounded; the seeking and the cynical.
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