Play Therapy Podcast: A Master-Class in Child-Centered Play Therapy
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371 | OCD Behaviors in Children: What We’re Really Treating in CCPT
02/05/2026
371 | OCD Behaviors in Children: What We’re Really Treating in CCPT
In this episode, I address a topic I’ve been getting more and more questions about: children who present with obsessive or compulsive behaviors that mirror OCD. I explain why I feel OCD is often not an appropriate childhood diagnosis and why these behaviors are best understood as manifestations of unmanageable anxiety combined with perfectionism and an intense need for control. When parents come in focused on eliminating specific behaviors, I walk through why that approach misses the heart of the issue and risks placing an agenda on the child that undermines the therapeutic process. I outline how child-centered play therapy is uniquely suited to this presentation by addressing the underlying anxiety rather than the behaviors themselves. I discuss what these children often look like in the playroom, including rigid, imperative-driven thinking, and how elevating reflective responding—especially feelings—and gently contrasting wants versus reality helps children loosen their grip on control over time. The goal is never to “fix” the rituals, but to relieve the child of the burden of believing they must keep the world from falling apart. When anxiety decreases and emotional vocabulary grows, the behaviors no longer need to exist. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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370 | CCPT Gamechangers: How to Respond When Adults Say Kids Are Rational
01/29/2026
370 | CCPT Gamechangers: How to Respond When Adults Say Kids Are Rational
In this Game Changers episode, I tackle one of the most common objections we hear from adults: “If children aren’t rational or cognitive, how do they learn in school?” I explain why this question reflects an adulthood bias and how academic learning is often misunderstood as evidence of reasoning, logic, and abstract thinking. I break down the critical distinction between conditioned, repetitive learning and true cognitive processing, and why confusing the two leads adults to expect things from children that they simply are not developmentally capable of giving. I also offer a clear, practical way to respond when parents, teachers, or other professionals challenge the CCPT model on this point. By reframing school-based learning as memorization through repetition—rather than reasoning—we can help adults understand why children process their world emotionally and experientially, not verbally or logically. This episode gives you language, confidence, and a framework for engaging in these conversations in a way that protects the model, strengthens trust, and fundamentally changes how adults view children. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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369 | Understanding Time and Touch in Child-Centered Play Therapy
01/26/2026
369 | Understanding Time and Touch in Child-Centered Play Therapy
In this episode, I answer two questions that touch on both the clinical and relational demands of child-centered play therapy. First, I address why the average number of CCPT sessions has shifted over time from 20–30 to more commonly 30–40 sessions. I share my perspective on what has changed in children’s lives—screen exposure, loss of free play, increased anxiety, overdiagnosis, and broader cultural shifts—and how these factors affect children’s baseline regulation and their capacity to do therapeutic work. I also explain how to communicate timelines to parents in a way that is honest, grounded, and not overwhelming by focusing on five-session increments rather than long-term commitments. In the second half of the episode, I respond to a question about physical boundaries in the playroom, particularly with children who are highly relational, sensory-seeking, or physically expressive. I explain why children naturally use physical touch to communicate connection and why our work requires flexibility, self-awareness, and a willingness to shift personal comfort zones when appropriate. I also clarify when limits are truly needed and when discomfort belongs to the therapist rather than the child. Throughout the discussion, I return to one central principle: preserving the therapeutic relationship at all costs while maintaining safety, appropriateness, and unconditional acceptance. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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368 | CCPT Gamechangers: The Hidden Problem with Battery-Operated Toys
01/20/2026
368 | CCPT Gamechangers: The Hidden Problem with Battery-Operated Toys
In this episode of the CCPT Game Changers series, I take a close look at battery-operated toys in the playroom and why they require much more intentional consideration than we often give them. I explain how toys are selected—not collected—and why simplicity, creativity, and non-prescriptive design are essential for preserving true child-centeredness. Many battery-driven toys introduce noise, music, scripts, or actions that interrupt the child’s flow and subtly direct the play in ways that interfere with the therapeutic process. I walk through how to evaluate whether batteries actually serve a meaningful, real-world function or whether they distract from the child’s needs. Using concrete examples, I explain when batteries may be appropriate (such as emergency vehicles or walkie-talkies) and when they undermine the child’s autonomy and imaginative work. This episode is about refining discernment in the playroom—removing unnecessary distractions, protecting the child’s freedom, and ensuring every toy supports, rather than interrupts, the child’s therapeutic journey. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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367 | Night Terrors, Adoption, and Age-Appropriate Truth
01/15/2026
367 | Night Terrors, Adoption, and Age-Appropriate Truth
In this episode, I respond to a question about a six-year-old client with a history of early instability who has experienced recurring night terrors. I explain why night terrors are not always trauma-based and how frequency, intensity, and impact on daily functioning matter far more than the behavior itself. I also discuss why periods of regression—especially after significant gains—are developmentally normal and do not indicate a loss of progress or a return to earlier levels of anxiety. I walk through how CCPT supports long-term regulation across environments and why, in this case, returning to co-sleeping is not necessary even during transitional stressors like starting a new school. I introduce the concept of “reverse Pandora’s box,” emphasizing that once a child has achieved internal regulation, they don’t lose that capacity during temporary setbacks. Finally, I address questions about adoption disclosure and explain why age-appropriate truth, delivered with relational preservation as the priority, is the most ethical and developmentally sound approach as children grow and mature. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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366 | CCPT Gamechangers: Why ‘You Wanted Me to Know’ Isn’t Truly Child-Centered
01/13/2026
366 | CCPT Gamechangers: Why ‘You Wanted Me to Know’ Isn’t Truly Child-Centered
In this episode of the CCPT Game Changers series, I take a close look at a group of phrases I hear frequently in play sessions, such as “You wanted me to know…”, “You wanted to tell me…”, or “You wanted to show me…”. While these statements may seem harmless, I explain how they subtly shift the focus away from the child and toward the therapist, which undermines true child-centeredness. Even small language choices matter when our goal is for the child to feel fully seen, heard, and understood. I break down why simply tracking behavior, reflecting content, and reflecting feelings—without inserting ourselves into the response—keeps the child at the center of the relationship. This episode is about refining awareness, not calling out mistakes. With a few intentional language adjustments, we can strengthen attunement, preserve the therapeutic relationship, and more clearly communicate the core CCPT message: the child is the focus, the child is in charge, and the process can be trusted. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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365 | Just Because They’re Older Doesn’t Mean We Change the Model
12/30/2025
365 | Just Because They’re Older Doesn’t Mean We Change the Model
In this episode, I answer a thoughtful question about working with tweens and teens—particularly neurodivergent clients—and whether it’s ever appropriate to “check in” verbally about things like school. I explain why, even with older children and adolescents, directly asking questions introduces an agenda, pulls the child into their head, and shifts us out of true child-centeredness. While play may look more activity-based and repetitive at this developmental stage, the core principles of CCPT remain exactly the same. I also discuss why repetitive, competence-based play is both developmentally appropriate and therapeutically meaningful for tweens, teens, and children on the spectrum. Even when children don’t verbalize their struggles, they are still working through confidence, emotional awareness, and relational skills in the playroom. When we trust the model, trust the child, and trust the process—without inserting topics or timelines—we preserve the outcomes we know CCPT produces. The moment we change the model, we no longer know the outcome. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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364 | CCPT Gamechangers: How to Handle Children Who Dart Out of the Playroom
12/23/2025
364 | CCPT Gamechangers: How to Handle Children Who Dart Out of the Playroom
In this Game Changers episode, I address one of the most stressful moments for play therapists: children who dart out of the playroom. I explain why “runners” are not a failure of the model and why a child leaving the room is sometimes developmentally, emotionally, or practically driven—not always resistance or defiance. Before jumping to limits, I emphasize the importance of understanding the why behind the behavior and responding thoughtfully rather than reactively. I also walk through concrete, practical strategies to increase safety and containment without trapping the child or violating child-centered principles. From using a spinny rolly chair and strategic positioning to recognizing when a child needs accommodation versus a limit, this episode focuses on creating barriers to unsafe behavior—not barriers to autonomy. Managing runners is about safety, attunement, and clinical judgment, and when those pieces come together, children gradually no longer need to escape the playroom. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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363 | Reducing Attrition by Preparing Parents for Resistance
12/18/2025
363 | Reducing Attrition by Preparing Parents for Resistance
In this episode, I respond to Elliott’s question about children who strongly resist play therapy from the very beginning and parents who eventually give up and terminate early. I explain why early resistance is not a red flag for CCPT failure, but often a clear indicator of high anxiety, a deep need for control, and a child who desperately needs the therapeutic process. The real issue isn’t the child’s resistance—it’s whether parents were fully prepared for it before therapy ever began. I walk through how to front-load expectations during the initial parent consultation by explaining the phases of therapy, normalizing resistance, and equipping parents with scripts for what to say and do when their child refuses to come, escalates, or tries to avoid sessions. When parents understand that giving in reinforces anxiety and avoidance, they’re far more likely to stay the course. High attrition is almost always a communication problem, and when parents are prepared, children are given the consistency they need to work through their anxiety and reach natural termination. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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362 | CCPT Gamechangers: Why Overanalyzing the Play Becomes a Therapist Trap (Symbolic Play & Themes)
12/16/2025
362 | CCPT Gamechangers: Why Overanalyzing the Play Becomes a Therapist Trap (Symbolic Play & Themes)
In this Game Changers episode, I address a pattern I’ve been seeing everywhere: therapists becoming overly focused on identifying, interpreting, and assigning meaning to themes and symbolic play. I explain why this pulls us out of attunement, distracts us from the child, and risks turning CCPT into an interpretive exercise rather than a relational, child-centered process. Themes can absolutely be useful—but only in the context of parent consultations. In the playroom, our job is presence, attunement, and skill execution, not analysis. I also offer a strong caution against “making leaps” or weaving narratives out of play behaviors. Children are experiential and emotional, not symbolic theorists sending coded messages. They work through what they need to work through whether we understand it or not. When our skills become automatic and our presence is grounded, we naturally begin to recognize patterns—but that awareness should never come at the cost of focusing on the child. The play is just the play; our priority is always the child, the relationship, and the process that leads to healing. CCPT: The Field of Dreams | Live Training Event at Steinbrenner Field More Info. & Registration go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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361 | Pricing Your Practice: The Real Math Behind Free Parent Consultations
12/11/2025
361 | Pricing Your Practice: The Real Math Behind Free Parent Consultations
In this episode, I respond to Sarah’s question about how to structure and charge for parent consultations in a child-centered private practice. I explain why free parent consults are not only clinically best practice but also essential for sustaining parent engagement, maintaining buy-in throughout the 30–40-session treatment arc, and ensuring parents feel informed despite not having access to client records. I walk through how these meetings are built into your overall fee structure, how to calculate your rate so the consult hours are accounted for, and why charging separately for them can undermine trust and create ethical tension. I also clarify the real workload involved, noting that once a caseload stabilizes, consults naturally stagger rather than cluster—typically only a few per month. Finally, I share how free consults strengthen the therapeutic relationship, enhance the parent’s perception of value, and counter cultural misconceptions about therapists being financially motivated. When parents feel supported, informed, and valued, they stay committed to the CCPT process, which directly impacts child outcomes. CCPT: The Field of Dreams! - Live CCPT Training in Tampa, FL Go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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360 | CCPT Gamechangers: “Mom Said I’m Supposed To…” What You Do Next Matters
12/09/2025
360 | CCPT Gamechangers: “Mom Said I’m Supposed To…” What You Do Next Matters
In this Game Changers episode, I tackle a common but tricky moment in the playroom—when a child walks in and says, “Mom said I’m supposed to…” or repeats a parent’s explanation for why they’re in therapy. I explain why this creates an immediate rupture in child-centeredness and how it threatens the therapist–child relationship by signaling that the therapist and parent are aligned in an agenda. I walk through exactly what to say in the moment, how to reflect content while reaffirming the child’s freedom, and how to redirect the session back to CCPT principles without shaming or correcting the parent. I also break down the broader prevention strategy: giving parents a specific script before therapy begins so they don’t unintentionally introduce pressure, expectations, or agenda into the process. When parents go off-script—which they will—I explain how to address it gently with the child and directly with the parent, and how to provide the deeper “why” behind CCPT so parents feel reassured rather than dismissed. This is a subtle but powerful game changer: learning to protect the therapeutic relationship, maintain child-centeredness, and support parents’ fears all at once. CCPT: The Field of Dreams! Go to . For more information and to register for this LIVE training event in Tampa, FL on Saturday Jan 31, 2026. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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359 | Mobile Play Therapy Challenges: Keeping Kids in the Play Space
12/04/2025
359 | Mobile Play Therapy Challenges: Keeping Kids in the Play Space
In this episode, I answer Andrea’s question about providing CCPT in a client’s home and navigating the challenges that arise when the play space isn’t a traditional playroom. In mobile or in-home CCPT, the environment itself can make limit-setting and structure harder, especially when there are no doors, clear boundaries, or physical containment. I walk through how to intentionally choose the best possible play space, create visual boundaries, and preserve the integrity of the model even in a home setting. I also discuss how to understand the “why” behind a child leaving the play area—whether it's resistance, anxiety, avoidance, or power and control—and how to respond in a way that maintains therapeutic consistency. I also share guidance on communicating with parents ahead of time to ensure they support the process without entering the playroom, rescuing, negotiating, or unintentionally reinforcing resistance. When parents understand what to expect, children experience clearer limits and greater emotional safety. Ultimately, mobile CCPT can be just as effective as in-office work when we intentionally set up the environment, maintain consistent boundaries, and stay grounded in the relationship-driven heart of the model. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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358 | CCPT Gamechangers: How a Language Shift Changes Everything in Feeling Reflections
12/02/2025
358 | CCPT Gamechangers: How a Language Shift Changes Everything in Feeling Reflections
In this first episode of the CCPT Game Changers series, I break down one of the smallest—but most transformative—shifts you can make in the playroom: how you phrase your feeling reflections. Many therapists unknowingly default to phrases like “that felt…” or “it seems like…” which subtly shift the focus away from the child and onto the circumstance. I explain why these versions dilute the power of the feeling reflection skill and why adhering to the simple, direct “You are…” structure preserves the child-centered nature of the model and strengthens long-term outcomes such as emotional vocabulary, emotional regulation, and self-awareness. I also highlight how this tiny language pivot is actually a marker of high-level CCPT mastery. When you move beyond the basics and start recognizing the subtle phrases that creep in without awareness, you unlock a deeper level of attunement, clarity, and presence with the child. This episode challenges you to examine the nuance of your language, eliminate the “fluff,” and return every emotional reflection back to the child—exactly where CCPT is designed to keep the focus. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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357 | No Parents Allowed! - The Ripple Effect of a Parent Entering Session
11/28/2025
357 | No Parents Allowed! - The Ripple Effect of a Parent Entering Session
In this episode, I respond to Dovi’s question about an older child whose session became dysregulated when his dad joined the playroom. I explain why parent presence fundamentally disrupts the CCPT process, breaks the therapeutic dyad, and immediately alters safety, consistency, and the child’s ability to do meaningful work. Even when a child demands that a parent come in, that demand is almost never about the parent’s actual presence — it’s a power grab driven by internal dysregulation, and it requires a reflective response paired with a clear limit. I walk through how the child’s behavior — making demands, using items without permission, disregarding boundaries, and eventually dumping water — all reflected a spiraling need for power and control once the playroom dynamic was fractured. I also highlight why maintaining strict adherence to the model is essential for preserving the therapeutic relationship, the environment, and the child’s sense of safety. This episode reinforces that it’s our responsibility to protect the integrity of CCPT, set limits with parents and children, and ensure that the playroom remains a sacred space where healing can actually take place. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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356 | Attrition: The Hidden Crisis in Play Therapy (Special Episode)
11/26/2025
356 | Attrition: The Hidden Crisis in Play Therapy (Special Episode)
In this special episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I address what I believe is one of the most unrecognized threats to effective play therapy: high attrition and the lack of natural termination. After years of speaking with therapists around the world, I’ve realized how few children actually complete the full therapeutic process, and how often families quietly pull their child long before meaningful change has taken place. I walk through why this is happening, why it is so damaging to children and to our field, and why the responsibility falls on us as child-centered play therapists to fix it. I explain the four clear termination criteria—two clinical and two environmental—that allow us to confidently determine when a child is truly ready to end therapy. I also highlight why tracking data, understanding averages, measuring longevity, and defining success matter so much, especially when most therapists have no system in place to understand their own attrition patterns. Without numbers, structure, and transparent communication, parents lose confidence long before progress becomes visible. Finally, I share the exact processes and communication strategies that keep parents engaged for the full arc of treatment. From clear articulation at the first meeting to five-week consultation rhythms, expectation-setting, and preparing parents for resistance, we can dramatically reduce premature termination. Natural termination should be the norm—not the exception—and when we commit to systems that support this, children complete their therapeutic journey, parents experience the true value of CCPT, and our model remains strong, respected, and effective. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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355 | Costumes, Playroom Essentials, and First-Person vs. Third-Person
11/20/2025
355 | Costumes, Playroom Essentials, and First-Person vs. Third-Person
In this episode, I answer two great listener questions from Mikaela in Illinois. First, we dive into costumes in the playroom—what’s essential, how to think creatively with limited space, and how to make costume play meaningful for kids without overloading your office. I explain why accessories and character-based props are more versatile than full costumes and share practical storage solutions and hygiene tips for dress-up items. Then, we tackle how to respond when children role-play or narrate using figurines or animals. I walk through how to track play based on whether the child uses first or third person and why following the child’s lead in dialogue perspective is key. This episode is full of practical, clinical insights to help you create a therapeutic space that supports expressive and symbolic play while staying true to the child-centered model. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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354 | The Resistance Phase No One Talks About — And Why YOU Must Go Through It
11/18/2025
354 | The Resistance Phase No One Talks About — And Why YOU Must Go Through It
In this episode, I talk honestly about the struggles we all face as child-centered play therapists — not as problems to be avoided, but as essential parts of our own therapeutic journey. After two meaningful conversations this week, and in the context of my own recent grief, I’ve been reflecting on how CCPT doesn’t just grow our clients; it grows us. I share how every CCPT clinician eventually hits a wall of resistance, self-doubt, and frustration, and why that moment is actually the turning point toward mastery if we stay the course. I draw parallels between the phases children move through in the playroom and the phases we go through as clinicians — initiation, resistance, work, and ultimately a long, steady season of competence and grounded confidence. This episode is a reminder that resistance is not a sign you’re doing something wrong. It’s a sign that you’re becoming who you’re meant to be as a CCPT therapist. When we trust the process for ourselves the same way we trust it for our kids, we emerge stronger, clearer, and more connected to the work than ever. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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353 | Selective Mutism and CCPT: Trusting the Process
11/12/2025
353 | Selective Mutism and CCPT: Trusting the Process
In this episode, I respond to Erin’s question about working with a selectively mute child. I explain that selective mutism isn’t a separate diagnosis—it’s rooted in paralyzing anxiety. Once we understand that, we can approach it with CCPT through safety, trust, and pacing. I share how progress often begins with small steps like laughter, gestures, or simple sounds, and why those moments signal meaningful movement toward emotional freedom. I also discuss two common missteps: allowing parents in the playroom and directing play. Both undermine the child’s autonomy and reinforce anxiety rather than helping the child overcome it. Instead, I outline how to set boundaries gently, sit in the discomfort of waiting, and use reflective language to communicate trust and acceptance. By trusting the process, we give anxious children exactly what they need—time, safety, and the opportunity to heal at their own pace. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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352 | Power, Control, and Anxiety: Unpacking the Child’s Need for Dominance
11/06/2025
352 | Power, Control, and Anxiety: Unpacking the Child’s Need for Dominance
In this episode, I respond to Heather’s question about a client who returned to therapy after a higher level of care. This child’s play is dominated by themes of money, power, and control — and I explain how these themes often reflect underlying anxiety and a need to avoid vulnerability. I discuss how aggression frequently serves as a mask for powerlessness and how self-aggrandizing behaviors, like declaring oneself the “favorite,” reveal deeper struggles with insecurity. I also share guidance on handling personal items children bring into the playroom and why these items often carry emotional or thematic significance. Rather than setting limits, I explain how to view these objects as meaningful tools for expression and connection. Finally, I emphasize the importance of helping parents establish clear, consistent limits at home through CPRT principles, since true safety, security, and regulation for children can only develop within the structure of boundaries. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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351 | Ending Well: How to Structure the Final Session in CCPT
11/04/2025
351 | Ending Well: How to Structure the Final Session in CCPT
In this episode, I walk through the final phase of Child-Centered Play Therapy—the countdown and last session. Once a child is ready to terminate, our focus shifts to helping them process and celebrate the end of therapy in a healthy, meaningful way. I explain how to introduce the countdown, invite reflection, and give the child space to share memories of your time together without any pressure or expectation. This process allows the child to internalize their growth while preserving the connection and relationship that CCPT values. I also describe how to structure the final session, including practical ways to celebrate the child’s work through small mementos and choices that reinforce empowerment and lasting connection. From personalized certificates to thoughtful take-home items, every element is designed to honor the child’s progress while communicating that your relationship remains intact. Ending well is not just about closure; it’s about celebrating the journey and ensuring the child leaves feeling capable and confident. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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350 | Two Common Challenges: Self-Esteem Work and Separation Anxiety
10/30/2025
350 | Two Common Challenges: Self-Esteem Work and Separation Anxiety
In this episode, I respond to two questions from Megan in D.C.—one about navigating self-esteem work and another about handling separation anxiety in school settings. I explain how to respond when a child asks for praise or directs you to say something specific, such as “Say yes.” Rather than refusing or complying without context, I share how to reflect the request first (“You want me to say that I like your drawing”) before complying. This approach maintains the focus on the child while allowing the work on self-worth and validation to unfold naturally over time. Then I address a complex separation anxiety scenario in a school-based setting. I outline how to advocate for the child by becoming the single point person to eliminate confusion and inconsistency among staff. I also explain how to respond to the child’s distress using reflection, patience, and containment—without rescuing or distracting—so the child can develop coping and self-regulation. Finally, I offer practical language parents and teachers can use, including choice-giving and neutral limit-setting, to support the child’s adjustment while maintaining boundaries. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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349 | When to End: Evaluating Client Readiness for Termination
10/28/2025
349 | When to End: Evaluating Client Readiness for Termination
In this episode, I discuss how to determine when a child is truly ready to terminate therapy. While we often focus on the beginning and middle of the CCPT process, understanding when and how to end is equally important. I walk through the four key questions that guide termination readiness — two clinical and two environmental — to help you evaluate both the child’s internal progress and external regulation across all environments. I also emphasize that termination should never be abrupt. It’s an intentional process that allows the child to emotionally and psychologically prepare for the end of therapy. I share how to use your five-week parent consultations to assess readiness collaboratively, ensuring that both the clinical and environmental criteria are met before beginning the termination phase. Finally, I explain how clear articulation from the very first parent meeting sets the stage for a successful and natural ending to therapy, without premature withdrawal or high attrition. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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348 | When Families Stop Coming: Understanding Attrition in CCPT
10/23/2025
348 | When Families Stop Coming: Understanding Attrition in CCPT
In this episode, I respond to Sally’s question about attendance and attrition in Child-Centered Play Therapy. Many therapists are noticing families stop coming around the fifth or sixth session, and I explain why this usually reflects a breakdown in articulation. When parents don’t fully understand what’s happening in CCPT, they lose confidence, make excuses, or believe they’ve seen enough progress and can stop. Our job is to communicate clearly, build trust, and ensure parents are genuinely bought into the process. I also clarify other key practice points: parent consultations should never replace a child’s session. Playrooms should be reset for every child with toys visible, accessible, and inviting. Rather than expecting parents to commit to 30–40 sessions upfront, it’s better to structure treatment in rounds of five sessions with re-evaluation at each parent consultation. Finally, I address misconceptions about progress timelines and emphasize that strong parent relationships are just as vital as our therapeutic relationships with children. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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347 | Sibling & Group Work in CCPT: Bringing More Than One Child Into the Playroom
10/21/2025
347 | Sibling & Group Work in CCPT: Bringing More Than One Child Into the Playroom
In this episode, I explore the dynamics of sibling and group play therapy sessions in Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT). I walk through why and when it makes sense to pair siblings together in the playroom—especially when there's a shared experience like divorce or trauma, or a relational issue like constant conflict. I also share considerations for pairing unrelated children in group sessions, including ideal age ranges, complementary personalities, and shared goals. You’ll hear about practical strategies for managing the extra complexity in these sessions, including the importance of using children’s names consistently, documenting carefully, and maintaining attunement to each child as well as their relationship. I also talk about how group dynamics naturally encourage kids toward emotional balance and regulation. Whether you’ve been hesitant to try sibling or group sessions, or you’re already offering them and want to be more intentional, this episode offers insights to help you feel more confident and prepared. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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346 | What to Do When the Child Dictates the Session and Controls the Dialogue
10/16/2025
346 | What to Do When the Child Dictates the Session and Controls the Dialogue
In this episode, I respond to a question from Lungile, a clinician in South Africa working with a 9-year-old girl who engages in highly directive role play—assigning roles, limiting dialogue, and scripting the session. When sessions become this structured, how do we remain faithful to the CCPT model, especially when reflective responses are limited? I talk through what it looks like to stay within the model even when you feel like you're not "doing enough." I also share some practical ideas for subtly integrating reflective responses into role play scenarios—even when you're given a script—so that the child still experiences attunement and emotional presence. If you've ever wondered how to navigate sessions where you're limited in what you can say, this episode will give you clarity and reassurance. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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345 | When a Child Won’t Go Back to the Playroom: Navigating the “Lobby” Session with the Child and Parents
10/14/2025
345 | When a Child Won’t Go Back to the Playroom: Navigating the “Lobby” Session with the Child and Parents
In this episode, I walk you through one of the most challenging—but entirely normal—scenarios in child-centered play therapy: when a child refuses to go back to the playroom. Whether it's the lobby, hallway, or even the car, I share how we can handle these moments with confidence, clarity, and congruence. I outline how to prepare yourself, prepare parents, and uphold the model without bribes, coercion, or negotiating—while still gently guiding the child toward the playroom over time. We cover key strategies like pairing reflective statements with gentle invitations to the playroom, keeping parents from interfering (even with good intentions), using ultimate limits after excessive repeated refusals, and the importance of follow-up emails to parents. This episode is packed with real-world insight to help you stay anchored and effective when a child’s process looks different than expected. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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344 | Neutral Truth, Big Impact: Communicating with Children and Advocating for Them
10/09/2025
344 | Neutral Truth, Big Impact: Communicating with Children and Advocating for Them
In this episode, I answer two questions from Chloe in Georgia. First, I talk about how to navigate physical limitations or health issues—like pregnancy, illness, or injury—in the playroom without disrupting the child’s experience or compromising the therapeutic relationship. I share how we can use age-appropriate truth and neutral language to explain changes in our engagement while still meeting the child’s emotional needs. Then, I unpack Chloe’s second question about the overwhelming environments many children face—particularly in daycares, preschools, and schools that are not developmentally appropriate. I offer encouragement and direction for how we, as CCPTs, can support overwhelmed parents and advocate for children when diagnoses are flying and schools are pushing labels. Our role is to trust the process, slow things down for families, and be unwavering in our presence and commitment to each child. This one’s full of encouragement and clarity for anyone feeling frustrated or alone in this work. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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343 | Art of the Session: A Complete Framework for Confident Practice
10/07/2025
343 | Art of the Session: A Complete Framework for Confident Practice
In this final episode of the Art of the Session series, I walk through a full recap of everything we’ve covered over the past 16 episodes. This has been one of the most in-depth series I’ve ever done, and it’s all about grounding ourselves in the foundational structure of CCPT sessions — from how we set up our playrooms, to how we greet children and parents, to how we execute the core responses and maintain a child-led presence throughout. My hope is that this episode brings it all together in a simple, clear framework that supports your confidence and adherence to the model. While CCPT is not always easy to execute, it is simple — and when you internalize the pillars, the reflective responses, and the essential mindset of being rather than doing, it becomes second nature. Thank you for walking through this series with me. I’m so grateful for your commitment to the model, and the kids you serve. PODCAST MEETUP @ APT Conference Oct. 11th, 7pm Houston, TX time. RSVP by clicking the link below. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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342 | Answer or Redirect? Preserving Connection Without Shifting the Focus
10/03/2025
342 | Answer or Redirect? Preserving Connection Without Shifting the Focus
In this Q&A episode, I answer three questions from Emily. First, I share how I guide parents to respond when a child—or their sibling—asks why they’re going to therapy. I offer simple, CCPT-aligned language that keeps the explanation safe, supportive, and child-appropriate. Next, I address a common situation in sessions with older children: when they want you to participate in games like “Would You Rather?” I explain how to stay true to the model while still maintaining connection and rapport. Lastly, I talk through how to handle personal questions from kids—especially pre-teens—who may be seeking relationship or connection. I offer mindset guidance and practical phrasing for staying centered and maintaining therapeutic boundaries while still honoring the child’s need for connection. PlayTherapyNow.com is my HUB for everything I do! . Sign up for my email newsletter, stay ahead with the latest CCPT CEU courses, personalized coaching opportunities and other opportunities you need to thrive in your CCPT practice. If you click one link in these show notes, this is the one to click! Topical Playlists! All of the podcasts are now grouped into topical playlists on YouTube. Please go to to view them. If you would like to ask me questions directly, check out , where I host two weekly Zoom calls filled with advanced CCPT case studies and session reviews, as well as member Q&A. You can take advantage of the two-week free trial to see if the CCPT Collective is right for you. Ask Me Questions: Call (813) 812-5525, or email: Brenna's CCPT Hub: CCPT Collective (online community exclusively for CCPTs): Podcast HQ: APT Approved Play Therapy CE courses: Facebook: Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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