The Self Aware Leader with Jason Rigby
Discover the transformative power of Evolving Leadership with the Self Aware Leader Podcast, hosted by Jason Rigby. Embark on a life-changing journey and empower yourself with cutting-edge insights, strategies, and wisdom from the world's most influential and forward-thinking leaders. Learn how to cultivate self-awareness, foster growth, and unlock your full potential with thought-provoking discussions and actionable advice. Tune in to the Self-Aware Leader Podcast and take the first step towards becoming the exceptional leader you were destined to be.
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Your Higher Self Isn't a Goal. It's a Direction.
05/09/2026
Your Higher Self Isn't a Goal. It's a Direction.
You've already met the version of yourself you're trying to become. The conversation where you stopped managing yourself and just told the truth. The decision that cost you something but felt clean all the way down. The morning where nobody needed anything from you and for an hour you were completely, unmistakably yourself. That wasn't a fluke. That was the signal. In this episode, Jason digs into one of the most misunderstood concepts in personal development — the higher self — and strips away the woo-woo to get to what it actually means and how to practically use it. What you'll hear: What ten thousand years of spiritual tradition — from Sufi mystics to Egyptian priests to medieval Christian mystics — actually agree on about the higher self (and why it changes everything about how you approach growth) The real reason the best version of you feels buried — and why it has nothing to do with effort or information A four-domain self-assessment that forces honesty without the spiral (and why there are no 7s allowed) Four questions that cut through the performance and point you back toward yourself The one ten-minute practice that every tradition and every piece of behavioral research points toward — and why most people never actually do it The line from this episode: "The higher self is not a destination. It's a direction. You orient toward it one honest moment at a time." Timestamps: 0:00 — The signal you've already had 1:30 — What ten thousand years of tradition agree on 3:45 — Meister Eckhart, the Gospel of Thomas, and the Sufi mirror 6:00 — Meet Sarah — and the armor we all built 8:00 — The four-domain assessment (no 7s) 12:30 — Four questions that cut through 15:30 — The ten-minute practice 17:30 — The close Resources mentioned: The quiz: selfawarepodcast.com/quiz — "What's Running You?" Full essay version of this episode: jasonrigby.substack.com Paid subscription (go deeper every week): jasonrigby.substack.com The Self Aware Leader with Jason Rigby — the inner game of leadership for people tired of surface-level advice.
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What Is a Self-Aware Leader? How to Stop Reacting and Lead Clearly
04/24/2026
What Is a Self-Aware Leader? How to Stop Reacting and Lead Clearly
Self-awareness is not thinking about yourself all day. It is the ability to notice what is happening inside you before it leaks into your leadership. In this episode of The Self Aware Leader, Jason Rigby breaks down what self-aware leadership actually means in real life: the meeting where your tone changes, the feedback you do not want to hear, the hard conversation you keep avoiding, the moment your ego gets hit, and the pattern your team has quietly learned to manage around. This episode explores why self-awareness is one of the most practical leadership skills you can build. Not as theory. Not as vague emotional intelligence. As a daily practice for leading with more clarity, honesty, humility, and strength under pressure. You’ll learn: What a self-aware leader actually is Why your intention and your impact are not the same thing How defensiveness, people-pleasing, control, and avoidance leak into leadership Why “why am I like this?” often keeps leaders stuck The better question to ask when you get triggered A simple daily practice: catch the signal, name the pattern, choose the cleaner move If you lead people, your inner life does not stay private. It becomes culture. It becomes tone. It becomes trust or tension. The question is not whether you have patterns. The question is whether you can see them before everyone else has to manage them. Subscribe to for weekly episodes on self-awareness, emotional intelligence, leadership development, shadow work, and leading with practical clarity under pressure.
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You're Not Leading, You're People-Pleasing: What Every New Manager Gets Wrong
04/02/2026
You're Not Leading, You're People-Pleasing: What Every New Manager Gets Wrong
You got promoted. You promised yourself you'd be different — the approachable boss, the one people actually want to work for. But six months in, your team likes you and doesn't respect you. You can feel it. You just don't want to say it out loud yet. This episode breaks down the people-pleasing trap that quietly destroys new managers. Jason Rigby explains why what feels like empathy is actually conflict avoidance — and why your "niceness" is costing you your best people. You'll learn: • The difference between being kind and avoiding conflict as a first-time manager • Why your highest performers lose motivation when you won't hold standards • The one question that shifts people-pleasing leadership into real clarity • Exactly what to say when someone misses a deadline, turns in weak work, or challenges you publicly • Why the discomfort you feel after setting a boundary is growth — not a mistake If you're a new manager, a millennial manager, or any leader who secretly knows their standards are fuzzy — this one's for you. Go deeper: jasonrigby.substack.com — free essays on the inner game of leadership, self-awareness, and the struggles no one talks about in management. The Self Aware Leader is hosted by Jason Rigby — Marine, Trader, Philosopher. New episodes weekly on leadership, conflict avoidance, setting boundaries, self-awareness, and the inner work that makes everything else work. Subscribe free at
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Harvard Research Found That AI Made Leaders More Confident — And More Wrong
03/26/2026
Harvard Research Found That AI Made Leaders More Confident — And More Wrong
Harvard Business Review ran a study where executives used ChatGPT to make predictions. They came out more confident, more optimistic — and significantly more wrong than the group that just talked to each other. That's the problem this episode is about. Most leaders are using AI as a validation machine — not a thinking tool. And there's a reason for it. Research shows that over 58% of AI interactions are sycophantic. The model is trained to agree with you, validate your framing, and give your existing conclusion better vocabulary. The more convinced you are that you're right, the more AI confirms it. That's not a second opinion. That's an echo chamber with a PhD. In this episode, I break down two real leadership scenarios every executive faces — the toxic high performer you keep not firing, and the major opportunity with bad timing — and show you exactly how most leaders use AI on those decisions versus how to use it to actually think. You'll walk away with four prompt postures that change everything: — How to use inversion to surface what you're filtering out — How to steel man the position you're about to reject — How to trace second-order consequences before you commit — How to use the Socratic method to interrogate your own assumptions This isn't about AI tools or workflows. It's about the posture you bring to the conversation — and why the leaders who use AI well treat it like a sparring partner, not an advisor. The goal isn't certainty. It's clarity. Those are different things. 🔗 For deeper frameworks on decision-making, self-awareness, and the inner game of leadership — subscribe to The Self Aware Leader newsletter: New essays every Thursday. Free to subscribe.
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Why Leaders Can't Think Anymore (And What's Actually Causing It)
03/17/2026
Why Leaders Can't Think Anymore (And What's Actually Causing It)
You already know you're too reactive. You just haven't named what's causing it. The average leader gets hit with a notification every two minutes during core work hours. That's 275 interruptions a day. Each one fires a cortisol stress response that takes 23 minutes to fully recover from. And the reflex to check — the phone grab, the inbox flip, the Slack tab — is driven by the same dopamine loop that keeps teenagers scrolling TikTok for hours. Different content. Identical mechanism. Identical cost to your leadership. In this episode, Jason Rigby breaks down what chronic digital noise is actually doing to your brain, your attention, and your ability to lead — and why it's turning most leaders from strategic thinkers into full-time firefighters. Reactive, in the weeds, handling what's urgent while what's actually important quietly slides. This isn't about productivity hacks or a digital detox. It's about understanding the biological mechanism that's running you — and three specific moves you can make this week to start taking your thinking back. In this episode: — Why your inbox and Slack are neurologically identical to TikTok — and what that's doing to your prefrontal cortex — The firefighter identity: why busyness starts to feel like purpose, and what it's costing you — The attention numbers that should stop you cold (and why most leaders have never actually looked at them) — Three practical moves — an audit, a deep work block, and a 10-second gap — that you can start today The question this episode asks: How much of your last two weeks was reactive — and how much was deliberate? If the ratio is ugly, this episode is for you. Connect with Jason: Substack: If this hit home, share it with one leader in your life who's drowning in the reactive loop. They'll know exactly what you mean.
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Why Your Trauma Is Your Leadership Superpower: Expert Reveals How
12/07/2025
Why Your Trauma Is Your Leadership Superpower: Expert Reveals How
How Childhood Trauma Secretly Fuels Your Success… and How to Turn It Into Real Power (with Michael Shaw) Most high-achieving leaders are running on hidden trauma. It drives them to win — but it also burns them out, leaves them empty, and creates a “hero complex” that keeps them addicted to saving everyone. In this raw episode, Michael Shaw (founder of Mastery Mindset Library) reveals how he survived a violent childhood and his father’s suicide, then spent 30 years turning that pain into a repeatable system that top entrepreneurs and executives now use to build unbreakable emotional fitness. You’ll discover: - Why “invincible leader” is the fastest path to burnout - The 4-Pillar Framework: Awareness → Rewiring → Alignment → Activation - How to know if your success is fear-based (most leaders have no idea) - The “What story am I telling myself?” technique to reframe any crisis in seconds - How to create “I Am Declarations” that permanently shift your leadership identity - Why emotional fitness > revenue when it comes to sustainable success If you’ve ever felt “successful on paper but broken inside,” this conversation will change everything. 🎁 Michael’s Free Gifts for Listeners: → Fear to Freedom Formula → 60-Minute Leadership Alignment Session (not a sales call) Get them instantly: DM “FREEDOM” to @michaelshaw.mindset on Instagram or go here → https://michaelshawmindset.com/mindset-master-coaching-challenge Connect with Michael: Instagram: @michaelshaw.mindset Website: michaelshawmindset.com The Self-Aware Leader Podcast – Turning your deepest wounds into your greatest leadership strength. #Leadership #TraumaHealing #EmotionalFitness #ConsciousLeadership #HeroComplex #Mindset #Entrepreneurship #PersonalDevelopment
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Why Economic Policy Destroys Leadership Wealth | $15B Bay Street Insider Reveals All
11/19/2025
Why Economic Policy Destroys Leadership Wealth | $15B Bay Street Insider Reveals All
Most leaders think they’re building wealth. Bay Street veteran Paul Musson says the system is quietly stealing it from them—and from future generations. After managing over $15 billion for one of Canada’s largest investment firms, Paul pulls back the curtain on how central banks, housing policy, and inflation create fake prosperity, immoral wealth transfers, and a rigged game for emerging leaders. In this episode, we unpack the core ideas from his book “Capital Offence: Why Some Benefit at Your Expense” and translate them into practical leadership and investment wisdom you can use right now. In this conversation, you’ll learn: How to spot the difference between real capital creation and fake wealth effects Why central bank policies quietly transfer wealth from the young to the old The crucial distinction between money vs. capital every leader must grasp How housing bubbles destroy opportunity for emerging leaders and entrepreneurs Why inflation acts as a hidden tax on savers, builders, and business owners How “something for nothing” economic myths trap even well-intentioned policymakers Why today’s monetary system fuels division, resentment, and social breakdown How to build antifragile leadership and business strategies in manipulated markets About Paul Musson Paul Musson spent three decades on Bay Street, managing more than $15B as head of the Ivy investment team and a former McKinsey Investments executive. His work focuses on exposing how modern economic policy creates artificial wealth, hidden transfers, and generational injustice. 👉 Book: 👉 Website: 👉 Weekly blog: “”
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How This Introvert Generated $600 Million in Sales | Leadership Secrets Every Entrepreneur Needs
11/16/2025
How This Introvert Generated $600 Million in Sales | Leadership Secrets Every Entrepreneur Needs
What if everything you’ve been told about sales and leadership is backwards? In this conversation, Jason sits down with Luis Baez – a quiet Puerto Rican introvert from the Bronx who generated over $600 million in sales at Google, LinkedIn, Uber, and Tesla… not by being the loudest person in the room, but by doing the opposite of what most sales gurus teach. Luis shares how he turned his “otherness” into a competitive advantage, built deep trust with clients by asking one simple question – “How badly does that hurt?” – and eventually designed a business that earns 7-figures while he works just four days a week. You’ll learn: Why introverts can outperform traditional “high-energy” sales styles The “whispering strategy” Luis uses to close complex deals How to turn discrimination and doubt into fuel for resilience The real mindset shift from employee to entrepreneur What “CEO Energy” looks like in your calendar, habits, and pricing Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a leader in a fast-paced company, or an introvert who secretly wonders if you’re “not cut out” for sales, this episode will challenge how you think about influence, revenue, and leadership. Connect with Luis Baez Website: BookedBusyPaid.com About Self Aware Leader Self Aware Leader helps entrepreneurs and leaders master self-awareness using ancient wisdom for modern challenges. Follow the show for weekly conversations that help you lead with clarity, courage, and authentic confidence.
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"I Climbed The Ladder On The Wrong Building": The Executive Who Lost His Soul (And How He Found It Again)
11/01/2025
"I Climbed The Ladder On The Wrong Building": The Executive Who Lost His Soul (And How He Found It Again)
Former top creative executive Rafael McMaster had everything the corporate world promised: A-list celebrity clients, global brand campaigns, and the pinnacle of success. Yet, he describes feeling "emotionally bankrupt." His journey from climbing the wrong ladder to building a mission to empower 1 million conscious youth is the ultimate lesson in turning pain into profound, purpose-driven leadership. In this deep conversation, we explore the inner alchemy required to bridge the gap between external achievement and internal fulfillment, offering a roadmap for any leader, entrepreneur, or trader who has felt disconnected from their deeper purpose. In this episode, you will learn the secrets of Conscious Leadership Transformation: The Defining Moment: How Rafael recognized he had achieved everything but felt absolutely nothing. Art as Alchemy: Why "art is the language of the soul" and how to reconnect with your creative essence to find flow and presence in high-stakes activities (like trading). The Inner Practice: The ancient wisdom tool of "Mind Watching" that acts as a practical, modern replacement for traditional meditation, giving leaders instant clarity and emotional regulation. The Wrong Ladder: How corporate creativity sacrifices soul for social psychology, and the process of transforming that professional wound into your greatest gift. Exponential Impact: The groundbreaking model Rafael built with Indivisible Arts to teach consciousness tools to teenagers, and his audacious goal of empowering a million conscious young people. This is a masterclass in leading from the soul, not just the spreadsheet. Resources & Connect: Guest Rafael McMaster's Website: Rafael's Book, Fundamental Life Tools: Self-Empowering Toolkit for Being Rafael's Nonprofit, Indivisible Arts:
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What 87% of Leaders Get Wrong About Self-Awareness | Cultural Humility & Emotional Intelligence with Dr. Joel Pérez | Leadership Development for Managers & Executives
10/24/2025
What 87% of Leaders Get Wrong About Self-Awareness | Cultural Humility & Emotional Intelligence with Dr. Joel Pérez | Leadership Development for Managers & Executives
Most leaders think they're self-aware—but 87% are missing the critical skill that separates good leaders from exceptional ones. Dr. Joel Pérez, leadership development expert and author of "Dear White Leader," reveals how cultural humility and true self-awareness transform your leadership effectiveness. 🎯 WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: - The listening test that immediately improves team dynamics and communication (11:00) - How to recognize unconscious biases without guilt or defensiveness (15:30) - Earned vs. unearned privilege: why every leader needs to understand this (32:00) - The authenticity balance: leading with your values while building inclusive teams (36:00) - Psychological safety secrets most leaders completely miss (42:50) - Why emotional intelligence matters more than technical skills in modern leadership This episode delivers practical leadership development tools for mid-to-senior level managers, executives, entrepreneurs, and team leaders who want to build high-performing, resilient teams through genuine human connection. ✨ LEADERSHIP SKILLS COVERED: Self-awareness training | Cultural humility practices | Emotional intelligence development | Unconscious bias recognition | Team management strategies | Psychological safety frameworks | Inclusive leadership techniques | Executive coaching insights | Workplace culture transformation | Empathetic leadership skills 📚 ABOUT DR. JOEL Pérez: With 30+ years studying leadership effectiveness, Dr. Joel Pérez helps executives and managers develop cultural humility through practical, evidence-based frameworks. His work focuses on what actually works—building resilient, high-performing teams through authentic connection and self-aware leadership. 🔗 RESOURCES: 📖 Book: https://dearwhiteleader.com 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joelperezphd/ 🎯 Leadership Coaching: https://apoyocoaching.com/ 📧 Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/87447c061e61/mailing-list 📥 Free Chapter + Cultural Humility Assessment: https://dearwhiteleader.com ⏱️ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction: The Secret to Exceptional Leadership 02:00 Self-Awareness: What Leaders Get Wrong 07:25 The Power of Vulnerability in Leadership 11:00 The Listening Test That Changes Everything 15:30 Understanding Your Biases Without Guilt 22:00 Asian Driver Bias & Unconscious Patterns 27:00 The Catherine Story: Introvert vs Extrovert Bias 32:00 Earned vs Unearned Privilege Explained 36:00 Authenticity & Inclusion: Can They Coexist? 42:50 Psychological Safety: The 4 Critical Components 46:00 AI Can't Replace This: The Future of Leadership 🎙️ SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE: Weekly conversations on leadership development, emotional intelligence, team building, and creating human-centric organizations that thrive in today's complex workplace. Perfect for: Executive coaches, HR professionals, startup founders, corporate leaders, team managers, leadership
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Why Your 401k Won't Make You Rich | The Anti-Financial Advisor Reveals Real Wealth Strategies
10/13/2025
Why Your 401k Won't Make You Rich | The Anti-Financial Advisor Reveals Real Wealth Strategies
From Food Stamps to $50,000/Month: What Wall Street Doesn't Want You to Know About Building Real Wealth What if everything you've been taught about money, retirement planning, and wealth building is completely wrong? What if your 401k, the 4% rule, and traditional financial advice are actually keeping you trapped in financial mediocrity? In this eye-opening conversation, Chris Miles - "The Anti-Financial Advisor" and host of the Money Ripples Podcast - shares his incredible journey from millionaire financial advisor to food stamps with $1 million in debt, and how he discovered alternative investment strategies that now generate $50,000+ monthly in true passive income. 🔥 WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: Wall Street Myths Debunked: Why your 401k company match ISN'T actually free money (the real math will shock you) The 4% retirement rule EXPOSED - why it's dangerous for early retirement (it's actually 2-3%) How target date funds underperform the market by 2.1% - plus hidden fees Why financial advisors are legally restricted from telling you about the best investments Alternative Investment Strategies: Private lending to real estate investors (10-12% returns, monthly income) Cash-flowing rental properties that actually work Oil and gas investments for passive income Raw land wholesale strategy (3x returns with seller financing) Franchise pooling for hands-off business ownership How Chris turned $500,000 into $13,000 monthly income (would take $6-7M in stocks) Money Mindset Transformation: Breaking the scarcity mindset that keeps you poor The BE-DO-HAVE framework for abundance How to reframe financial struggles into opportunities Why net worth doesn't equal financial freedom Cash flow vs asset accumulation - the paradigm shift Practical Action Steps: The Cash Flow Index method for paying off debt fast (Balance ÷ Payment = Index) How to find $500+ monthly in hidden cash without sacrificing lifestyle Money tracking strategies that actually work Where to start with alternative investments (even with limited capital) The "Pumpkin Plan" for focusing on high-value activities 💰 CHRIS'S STORY: Chris Miles became a millionaire by age 28 as a traditional financial advisor, teaching others the very strategies Wall Street promotes. Then the 2008 financial crisis hit. He lost everything - accumulated over $1 million in debt, ended up on food stamps, and his wife was ready to leave with the kids. This rock-bottom moment led him to question everything he'd been teaching. When he analyzed his own father's finances - a man who had paid off his house, maxed out his 401k for decades, and lived frugally - he discovered a brutal truth: his dad had maybe 5-6 years of retirement money despite doing everything "right." That's when Chris quit being a financial advisor and discovered the world of alternative investments that wealthy people actually use - strategies traditional advisors are legally prohibited from discussing because they don't get paid on them. Today, Chris: Generates $50,000+ monthly in passive income Works only 20-30 hours per week Raises 8 children Hosts the Money Ripples Podcast (11+ years, 700+ episodes) Helps entrepreneurs and high earners escape the Wall Street trap Has achieved financial freedom twice - proving the system works 🎯 KEY TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Introduction: Everything You Know About Money is Wrong 02:45 - Wall Street's Biggest Lie Exposed 05:30 - The 401k Myth: Why "Free Money" Isn't Free 09:15 - Chris's Story: From Millionaire to $1M in Debt 15:45 - The Financial Crisis That Changed Everything 20:30 - Breaking the Scarcity Mindset 24:15 - The 4% Retirement Rule Debunked 27:40 - Cash Flow vs Net Worth: The Game Changer 31:20 - Real Alternative Investment Strategies 35:50 - Advice for Debt-Ridden Millennials 39:10 - Building $50k Monthly Passive Income 42:30 - Work-Life Balance with 8 Kids 💡 WHO THIS EPISODE IS FOR: Entrepreneurs and business owners seeking financial freedom High earners tired of mediocre 401k returns Anyone pursuing FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) People drowning in debt looking for a real strategy Millennials realizing traditional retirement planning doesn't work Leaders wanting to shift from scarcity to abundance mindset Anyone questioning if there's a better way than Wall Street 📈 RESOURCES MENTIONED: Chris Miles: Money Ripples Podcast - Listen on all platforms Website: MoneyRipples.com (free resources and calculators) YouTube: @moneyrippleswithchrismiles Instagram: @chriscmiles LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/chriscmiles Upcoming Book: "The Work Optional Blueprint" (September 2025) Tools Mentioned: Cash Flow Index Calculator (free at MoneyRipples.com) Rocket Money (expense tracking) Monarch Money (budgeting) 🔑 KEY TAKEAWAYS: ✅ The 401k company match only adds 2-3% annually to your returns, not 100% ✅ Safe withdrawal rate for early retirement is 2-3%, not the famous 4% rule ✅ $1 million in retirement savings only generates $20,000-30,000 annually ✅ Net worth doesn't create income - focus on cash flow instead ✅ Alternative investments can generate 10-12% returns with monthly income ✅ Financial advisors are legally restricted from discussing the best strategies ✅ You can achieve financial freedom without millions in the stock market ✅ Mindset shift: BE abundant first, then DO, then HAVE ✅ Most people have $500+ monthly in hidden cash they can redirect ✅ The Cash Flow Index beats traditional debt payoff methods ⚠️ THE BOTTOM LINE: Traditional financial advice is designed to make Wall Street rich, not you. The 401k system, mutual funds, and conventional retirement planning keep you trapped in a cycle of working until 65 and hoping your money lasts. But there's a better way. Alternative investments that generate real cash flow, combined with an abundance mindset, can create true financial freedom in years instead of decades. This conversation will challenge everything you thought you knew about money. Chris doesn't hold back - he exposes the mathematical flaws in traditional advice, reveals why financial advisors can't tell you the truth, and shares the exact strategies he uses to generate $50,000+ monthly. Whether you're just starting your wealth-building journey or you're a high earner looking for better returns, this episode will give you a completely different framework for thinking about money, investing, and financial freedom. 🎙️ ABOUT THE SELF AWARE LEADER PODCAST: Join host Jason Rigby for conversations that challenge conventional wisdom and help leaders build businesses and lives aligned with their deepest values. Subscribe for weekly episodes on leadership, entrepreneurship, personal development, and living with intention. 💬 LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode opened your eyes to what's possible with alternative investments and abundance thinking, please leave a 5-star review and share with someone who needs to hear this message. Your reviews help more people discover these life-changing conversations. SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode where we challenge the status quo and explore what it really takes to build wealth, freedom, and impact. #FinancialFreedom #PassiveIncome #WealthBuilding #AlternativeInvestments #RetirementPlanning #MoneyMindset #FIRE #FinancialIndependence #RealEstateInvesting #DebtFree #Entrepreneurship #Leadership #MoneyRipples #ChrisMiles #401k #CashFlow #AbundanceMindset DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational purposes only and should not be considered financial advice. Please consult with qualified financial professionals before making investment decisions.
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The Leadership Skills AI Can't Replace with Angie Lyon
09/29/2025
The Leadership Skills AI Can't Replace with Angie Lyon
Leadership isn't about being right—it's about being real. Angie Lyon, Chief Soul Officer at Black River Performance Management and host of the Leader U Podcast, went from high-stakes operating rooms to transforming leadership teams. In this raw conversation, she reveals why 87% of leaders struggle with imposter syndrome and what to do about it. What You'll Learn: Transitional Intelligence (TQ) - The critical skill that helps leaders navigate change with intention instead of chaos, and why it's different from emotional intelligence The root cause of leadership struggles - Why most challenges trace back to feeling "not enough" or "not safe," and how to break free from these limiting beliefs Creating micro-cultures of excellence - How one self-aware leader can build a thriving team even inside toxic organizations AI-proof leadership skills - The human capabilities (empathy, communication, self-awareness) that will make you irreplaceable in an AI-driven world The unlearning paradox - Why authentic leadership requires shedding the habits that got you here From proving to improving - How to shift from external validation to internal growth and confidence Key Insights: Angie shares her journey from surgical technologist to leadership expert, revealing what she learned watching leaders in life-or-death situations. "One good leader can create a culture where people thrive," she explains. "But leaders stuck in fear mode create environments where people make more mistakes." She introduces the concept of Transitional Intelligence—your ability to move through change without losing yourself. While Emotional Intelligence helps you feel your way through moments, Transitional Intelligence helps you move through them, especially in the messy middle of transition. The conversation gets real about vulnerability, ego, and the courage to ask: "Do I want to be right, or do I want this relationship?" Perfect for: Mid-to-senior level managers, entrepreneurs, executives, team leads, HR professionals, and anyone committed to becoming a more self-aware, resilient, and human-centric leader. About Angie Lyon: Angie is a certified surgical technologist turned leadership development expert, recognized as Woman of Influence in Entrepreneurship (2021). Her upcoming book "Emerge: Charting Waters to Discover Your Best Self" releases September 2025. Connect: BlackRiverPM.com | https://blackriverpm.com/leadership/angie-lion/ About The Self Aware Leader: Jason Rigby guides entrepreneurs and leaders to master self-awareness by integrating ancient wisdom with modern leadership strategies. Subscribe for weekly conversations on resilient, empathetic, and conscious leadership.
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Why Willpower is a Lie: The 2,500-Year-Old Technique for Ultimate Self-Discipline with Jay Heinrichs
09/18/2025
Why Willpower is a Lie: The 2,500-Year-Old Technique for Ultimate Self-Discipline with Jay Heinrichs
What if everything you've been taught about self-discipline is backwards? In this transformative episode, we sit down with Jay Heinrichs, New York Times bestselling author of "Thank You for Arguing" and "Aristotle's Guide to Self-Persuasion," to uncover the ancient art that makes willpower obsolete. Jay shares his remarkable journey from debilitating hip pain and depression to running his age up a 2,800-foot mountain in under 58 minutes—not through brute force, but through Aristotle's revolutionary technique of self-persuasion. Discover how to treat your soul as an internal audience you need to convince, not overpower. We explore the psychology behind cognitive dissonance, the power of "kairos" moments when chaos becomes opportunity, and why ancient Greek warrior chants can rewire your brain for success. Key Topics: The "Soul vs Daily Self" concept that changes everything Why cognitive dissonance is your secret weapon for growth The Three C's framework: Caring, Craft, and Cause How to set "impossible" goals that transform your identity Ancient rhythmic techniques that bypass mental resistance The "vacation test" for discovering your authentic purpose This isn't another productivity hack—it's practical philosophy backed by 2,500 years of human wisdom and modern neuroscience. Perfect for leaders, entrepreneurs, and anyone tired of fighting themselves instead of working with themselves. Jay Heinrichs has worked with clients from NASA to Southwest Airlines and is a master of classical rhetoric. His latest book, "Aristotle's Guide to Self-Persuasion," reveals how ancient wisdom can solve modern problems. Resources mentioned: "" by Jay Heinrichs, available wherever books are sold. Find Jay's newsletter "Aristotle's Guide to Soul Bending" on Substack. This episode is part of The Self Aware Leadership Podcast, where we explore the intersection of ancient wisdom and modern leadership challenges.
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The Greatest Human Illusion That's Keeping You Stuck
09/06/2025
The Greatest Human Illusion That's Keeping You Stuck
The Illusion of Success: Why We Feel Unfulfilled Even When We Have It All What if your greatest achievement was a trap? What if the success you've worked your entire life to achieve left you feeling more miserable than when you started? This isn't a hypothetical question. It's the shocking reality for countless high-achievers, entrepreneurs, and leaders. It's the central theme of a powerful conversation I had with Keala Kanae, who went from $20,000 in debt and a life of numbing out to building a multi-million-dollar empire. But as he revealed, the real breakthrough wasn't about the money; it was about "unlearning the lies he'd been telling himself". This is a new perspective that will shatter everything you think you know about success, discipline, and leadership. Procrastination is Not a Flaw, It's Feedback We've all been told that procrastination, self-sabotage, and imposter syndrome are signs of a lack of discipline or a character flaw. But Keala offers a radically different view: these are not problems to overcome, but symptoms that serve as feedback. He explains that every human being has a set of unconscious values that governs their life. When our conscious goals are in conflict with these unconscious values, we experience these symptoms. The 11-year-old boy who plays video games until 2 a.m. is not undisciplined; he is highly disciplined in something he values. The mind's purpose is to help us fulfill what we perceive to be most valuable. Therefore, our procrastination isn't a sign that we're broken—it’s a signal telling us when we're venturing away from what we truly value. The True Meaning of Your Bank Account and Calendar To understand our own values, we have to stop listening to the "noisy society" that tells us who we are supposed to be. Keala echoes the wisdom of business guru Peter Drucker, who said, “Tell me what you value, and I might believe you, but show me your bank account and your calendar, and I'll show you what you value”. If you're a leader who says you value your family, but your calendar is packed with work and your energy is spent on business podcasts while your kids and spouse are at the bottom of your priority list, your life is perfectly demonstrating what you actually value. When we are pursuing things we truly value, we have inspiration—an internal, self-sustaining drive. When we're pursuing something low on our value list, we need motivation—an external force that is never self-sustaining. The Trap of the "Greatest Human Illusion" Keala believes the greatest human illusion is thinking we can have one side of life without the other. We are taught to label things as "good" or "bad". When we label something as "good," we're conscious of the benefits but unconscious of the drawbacks. When we label something as "bad," we're conscious of the drawbacks but unconscious of the benefits. The reality is that equanimity, or balance, is the language of the universe. Keala shares a powerful example: the Black Plague of the 14th century killed tens of millions, but a mutation that stemmed from its survivors made millions of people immune to the AIDS virus centuries later. Was the plague good or bad? "It was both," he says, because both sides exist. From Forgiveness to Gratitude This understanding is the key to true healing and fulfillment. We often hold onto resentment. The next step is forgiveness, which is better than resentment, but still comes from the perspective that "I'm right, you're wrong". The place beyond forgiveness is gratitude. It is the profound realization that "I see how this benefited me". When Keala went back and re-examined the traumatic memories of his childhood, he realized that the very arguments about money that caused him pain were what honed his communication skills and helped him become a great marketer. When you realize your greatest challenge was also your greatest gift, "what the fuck can stop you then?". Your Secret Weapon: Know Thyself, Lead Thyself This entire journey is about becoming an "authentic leader". Keala defines this as someone who "knows their calling and has the courage to answer the call". This requires shedding the personas and false beliefs we've inherited from a noisy world. Want to start this journey of profound self-discovery? Keala has a free self-assessment that will help you identify your actual, unconscious values. He calls it The Power Code. Take the free self-assessment here: thepowercode.com.
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How to Lead Through Economic Chaos: CFO's 5-Star Strategy for Business Resilience
08/09/2025
How to Lead Through Economic Chaos: CFO's 5-Star Strategy for Business Resilience
APPLE PODCASTS EPISODE DESCRIPTION: Episode Title: How to Lead Through Economic Chaos: CFO's 5-Star Strategy for Business Resilience Episode Description: Discover the proven framework that helped one CFO double revenue at five companies while others struggle with economic uncertainty. In this episode of The Self Aware Leader, host Jason Rigby interviews Karl Maier, seasoned CFO, business advisor, and author of " What You'll Learn: The revolutionary 5-Star Model for evaluating business resilience and market positioning Why demographic shifts are creating unprecedented leadership challenges and hidden opportunities How to identify and eliminate unprofitable customers that drain resources and morale The strategic planning framework that transforms crisis into competitive advantage Why traditional globalization assumptions no longer apply to modern business strategy How to implement weekly management systems that drive consistent growth and accountability The critical mindset shift from reactive "chess piece" to proactive "chess player" leadership How to challenge dangerous assumptions that keep businesses stuck in mediocrity Why return on capital analysis is now essential for business survival and growth When and how to bring fractional leadership expertise into your organization Key Insights: Karl reveals why the average age of skilled workers is 58 years old and what this demographic shift means for wages, hiring, and business strategy over the next decade. He shares the shocking story of a chemical company president who discovered his entire understanding of which division was profitable was completely wrong—a $2 million blind spot that transformed the business once corrected. Perfect For: CEOs and business owners navigating economic uncertainty Entrepreneurs seeking strategic frameworks for sustainable growth Leaders struggling with cash flow, payroll, and profitability challenges Executives wanting to transform reactive management into proactive leadership Anyone interested in applying ancient wisdom principles to modern business strategy About Karl Maier: Karl Maier has over 25 years of experience starting, managing, and advising lower middle-market companies. He facilitates CEO peer advisory roundtable groups and speaks to companies about seizing opportunities in economic chaos. Karl holds a B.A. in Economics and MBA from Rice University and is the founder of Abundant. About The Self Aware Leader: Hosted by Jason Rigby, The Self Aware Leader combines ancient wisdom with modern leadership challenges to help entrepreneurs and executives develop authentic, resilient leadership skills. Each episode provides practical frameworks for conscious leadership, emotional intelligence development, and strategic business transformation. Connect: Karl Maier: LinkedIn @karlkmaier | Jason Rigby: All platforms @TJasonRigby | Join our Circle community for deeper leadership discussions Tags: leadership development, business strategy, economic leadership, conscious leadership, strategic planning, business transformation, executive coaching, financial leadership, crisis management, resilient leadership, self awareness, organizational culture, team building, authentic leadership, mindfulness leadership, CEO advice, entrepreneurship, business growth, management systems, capital allocation
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Why Every Leader Needs a Book (Not Another Marketing Funnel)
08/02/2025
Why Every Leader Needs a Book (Not Another Marketing Funnel)
Leaders spend $5-10K monthly on ads that disappear overnight. But what if there was a single asset that could instantly elevate your authority, attract ideal clients, and open doors to unparalleled speaking opportunities for YEARS to come? In this episode, Jason sits down with Everett O'Keefe, "The Book Whisper," who's behind over 200 bestselling launches. They dive deep into why authorship isn't just about writing—it's about igniting your legacy and multiplying your impact. 🎯 Key Takeaways: Why bestselling authors are rarer than doctors and lawyers The FAQ + SAQ method: Turn your expertise into chapters in days (not years) How one client increased speaking fees by 600% post-launch Print-on-demand secrets: Get books for $3.25 vs paying $10K+ for inventory The "editorial board" process that replaces expensive book coaches Why owning your ISBN = owning your future revenue 💡 Powerful Insights: "Time for your business card to get a spine" "You want to be the one who wrote the book, not the one who read the book" "There's nothing like a book to move a brand or an idea" What You'll Learn: ✅ Traditional vs Hybrid vs DIY publishing (pros/cons of each) ✅ How to turn 20 FAQs into a bestselling business book ✅ The "unread book" power (why it works even sitting on a shelf) ✅ Speaking fee strategies using your book as leverage ✅ The biggest post-launch mistake that kills momentum About the Guest: Everett O'Keefe has helped launch over 200 bestsellers and specializes in hybrid publishing that gives authors complete ownership while handling the complex logistics. He's the founder of Ignite Press and believes every leader has a book inside them waiting to transform their business. Resources Mentioned: Everett's book: "The Power of the Published" https://www.amazon.com/Power-Published-Rapidly-Authoring-Business/dp/1950710033 Free consultation: ignitepress.us Free PDF download: mypodcastperk.com Why This Matters for Self-Aware Leaders: Your expertise deserves a spine. In an AI-driven world, your unique human story, wisdom, and insights become MORE valuable, not less. A book isn't just marketing—it's your legacy in print. This episode could be the catalyst that transforms your expertise into lasting authority. Your move, leader. Subscribe to Self Aware Leadership for more no-BS insights that combine ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help you lead from clarity, not chaos.
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The Successful CEO Who Secretly Hoped His Plane Would Crash | Oli Johnson on Preventing Leadership Burnout
07/25/2025
The Successful CEO Who Secretly Hoped His Plane Would Crash | Oli Johnson on Preventing Leadership Burnout
🚨 WARNING: This conversation could fundamentally change how you think about success and leadership. Oli Johnson had everything most executives dream of: a multi-million dollar tech business, a beautiful home in Ibiza, a young family, and the respect of his peers. From every external measure, he was winning at life. So why was he sitting on a plane hoping it would crash? This raw, unfiltered conversation exposes the hidden epidemic destroying high-performing leaders worldwide and reveals the revolutionary prevention system that's changing everything. In this episode, you'll discover: 🎯 The Shocking Reality of Leadership Burnout Why 87% of executives report feeling like imposters The $1 trillion annual cost to the global economy How external success can become your internal prison Why "fake it till you make it" is literally killing leaders 💡 The Culture Infection Nobody Talks About How unconscious leader behavior spreads through organizations Why your late-night emails are poisoning your team The co-founder dynamics that destroy promising startups How to build anti-burnout cultures that actually thrive 🚀 The Prevention Revolution AI + biomarker technology that predicts burnout weeks in advance Why prevention beats recovery 100% of the time Heart rate variability as an early warning system Personalized supplementation based on genetic markers 🧠 Strategic Sustainability vs. Hustle Culture The marathon mindset that creates lasting success How to work strategically instead of just harder Building systems that prevent breakdown before it happens The technology breakthrough changing executive wellness Most Powerful Moments: "Everything looked like it should be perfect. The reality of living that was very different indeed." "Culture is not about writing values on a board and walking away. It's about how you're showing up." "Prevention is 100% better than trying to restore your health." "If you're behaving like that as a leader, you're defining the culture of your business." Guest Bio: Oli Johnson is a serial entrepreneur, former investment banker, and founder of PrescribedLife.AI, a revolutionary platform using artificial intelligence and biomarker data to prevent executive burnout. Background: Former investment banker at major institutions including Bank of England Built and scaled multiple successful tech ventures Experienced severe burnout despite external success Now pioneering preventative wellness technology for high performers Relocated from London's corporate towers to Ibiza (and learned location doesn't solve internal patterns) Current Focus: Oli is revolutionizing executive wellness through PrescribedLife.AI, which combines cutting-edge AI technology with biomarker analysis to predict and prevent burnout before it destroys careers and companies. Key Topics Covered: 🏢 The Corporate to Startup Transition Investment banking pressure cooker culture Why startup founders face even more intense stress The myth of entrepreneurial freedom ⚠️ Burnout Warning Signs Leaders Miss The dangerous "I'm fine" mentality How external success masks internal struggle Why high performers are 3x more likely to burn out 🌴 The Location Independence Myth Moving to Ibiza: paradise that became prison Why changing environment doesn't change patterns The loneliness of remote leadership 💰 The Economics of Burnout $1 trillion global economic impact How leader burnout cascades through organizations The ROI of prevention vs. recovery 🤖 Technology as Self-Awareness Tool AI-powered early warning systems Biomarker tracking for executives Heart rate variability as stress indicator Genetic testing for personalized wellness 👥 Culture Creation Through Leader Behavior How your stress becomes your team's stress The 24/7 availability trap Building psychologically safe environments Co-founder relationship dynamics 🔬 The Science of Prevention Why willpower fails and systems succeed Biomarker data interpretation Personalized supplementation protocols Executive coaching enhanced by technology Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction: The hidden burnout epidemic 3:45 - Oli's background: From London banking to Ibiza 7:20 - The external success vs. internal reality paradox 12:15 - The plane ride moment that changed everything 18:30 - Why location changes don't fix internal patterns 23:45 - The culture infection: How leader behavior spreads 28:10 - Co-founder dynamics and startup relationship challenges 34:20 - The $1 trillion cost of leadership burnout 38:50 - Technology solutions: AI + biomarkers for prevention 43:15 - Building anti-burnout organizational cultures 47:30 - The future of executive wellness Resources Mentioned: 🔗 Guest Resources: PrescribedLife.AI - Executive wellness platform: Oli Johnson LinkedIn - Connect with the guest:
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From $200K to $50M: Warren Buffett's Money-While-You-Sleep Secret with Bronson Hill
07/19/2025
From $200K to $50M: Warren Buffett's Money-While-You-Sleep Secret with Bronson Hill
"Unless you learn how to make money while you sleep, you'll work until you die." - Warren Buffett In this transformative episode, Bronson Hill reveals how he went from a $200K medical sales professional to raising over $50 million in real estate capital - and the mindset shifts that made it all possible. 🎯 WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER: - Why 90% of "passive income" strategies actually create more work - The difference between financial freedom and TIME freedom - How to reduce your taxes by 80-90% through strategic investments - The "wealth worthiness" breakthrough that unlocks abundance - Ancient wisdom principles for modern wealth building - How to structure your week for maximum freedom (145 days off!) KEY INSIGHTS: - The real test of passive investing (10X scalability without becoming a job) - Why rental properties aren't actually passive income - Tax strategies for high earners that most CPAs don't know - The psychology behind wealth building (80% mindset, 20% strategy) - How to develop "whisperings" that rewire your money beliefs Bronson shares his exact frameworks for building truly passive income streams and developing the psychology of wealth that separates millionaires from everyone else. GUEST: Bronson Hill - Managing Member of Bronson Equity, Author of "Fire Yourself," $45M+ in Real Estate Capital Get Bronson's free "Mailbox Money Blueprint" - text CASHFLOW to 33777 Connect with Bronson: - Website: bronsonequity.com - Instagram: @bronsondavidhill - LinkedIn: Bronson Hill - YouTube: @bronsonequity --- The Self Aware Leader Podcast guides modern entrepreneurs and leaders to deeper self-awareness and impactful action through ancient wisdom for contemporary challenges. Host Jason Rigby explores the intersection of consciousness, leadership, and practical success - helping you build wealth while building character. Subscribe for weekly episodes on leadership development, passive income strategies, and building thriving communities. KEYWORDS: passive income, real estate investing, financial freedom, wealth building, leadership development, tax strategies, mindset, entrepreneurship, self awareness, ancient wisdom
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The Million-Dollar Blueprint: How David Price Built a 7-Figure Agency in 1 Year
07/10/2025
The Million-Dollar Blueprint: How David Price Built a 7-Figure Agency in 1 Year
What's the real difference between working 80 hours a week and building a 7-figure business? According to David Price, who went from industry newcomer to insurance millionaire in just 36 months, it comes down to one critical mindset shift. In this episode, Jason Rigby sits down with David for a masterclass in resilient leadership and the power of simplicity. David shares the brutally honest story of nearly giving up and the pivotal decision that transformed his business from a grueling grind into a scalable success story. This is a universal lesson for any leader who feels they are on the verge of burnout and is ready to turn intention into income. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The critical mindset shift from "going through the motions" to "intentional action" that separates busy work from high-impact results. How to resist complexity by mastering one simple, scalable product or service to build a strong foundation for your business. The non-negotiable leadership principle of brutal honesty and how it builds the unwavering trust required to lead a high-performing team. Why the most successful leaders are willing to do anything they ask of their team, leading by example from the front lines. The foundational importance of a consistent lead generation system as the engine for any successful business. Timestamped Highlights: [01:48] The Decision to Persevere: The turning point six months in when David chose to fully commit. [04:35] Intentional Action vs. Going Through the Motions: Realizing long hours don't equal results without being a "student" of your craft. [06:32] From Salesperson to System Builder: The transition from being a "lone wolf" to a true business owner. [13:15] Resisting Complexity: How to maintain simplicity by mastering one thing and doing more of it. [15:30] The Power of Brutal Honesty: Why trust is the ultimate currency in leadership. [26:20] The Foundation of Success: Learning the critical importance of lead generation. Connect with David Price: Website: Instagram: Facebook: Subscribe to The Self Aware Leader and leave a review if you found this episode valuable. For deeper growth and to connect with other conscious leaders, join Jason's Inner Circle.
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The Phoenix Leader: Turn Your Pain into Power & Inspire Unstoppable Teams
06/29/2025
The Phoenix Leader: Turn Your Pain into Power & Inspire Unstoppable Teams
In this powerful episode of The Self-Aware Leader, Jason Rigby welcomes Ingrid Hu Dahl, author of "Sun Shining on the Morning Snow" and a renowned leadership coach. Ingrid bravely shares her raw story of navigating crushing racism and an identity crisis as a mixed-race "Hapa" child, growing up between white New Jersey suburbs and Taipei. This conversation delves into how her unique upbringing shaped her understanding of belonging and resilience, offering profound insights for self-aware leadership. Ingrid illuminates the critical need for leaders to cultivate self-awareness and curiosity, especially when addressing issues of diversity, inclusion, and unconscious bias in the workplace. She discusses how her parents' interracial love story defied societal norms, influencing her own boldness and commitment to authenticity. The episode provides practical frameworks for leaders to unlearn ingrained behaviors, foster truly inclusive environments, and lead with empathy and heart rather than fear or ego. Listeners will discover how embracing one's full story, vulnerabilities and all, is not only a path to personal healing but also a powerful foundation for building trust and inspiring innovation within teams. Ingrid's "Phoenix" metaphor for transformation and her grandmother's fierce, heart-driven leadership serve as guiding lights, encouraging every leader to live boldly, connect authentically, and create spaces where everyone feels they belong. Detailed Episode Overview Have you ever felt like an outsider, even in your own community? In this compelling episode, "The Self-Aware Leader" dives deep into the heart of identity and resilient leadership with special guest Ingrid Hu Dahl. Ingrid, a trailblazing leadership coach and author, shares her journey as a mixed-race individual, revealing how contrasting cultural experiences—from navigating predominantly white New Jersey suburbs to embracing her Taiwanese heritage—profoundly shaped her self-aware leadership philosophy. This conversation unpacks the subtle, often unaddressed, forms of racism and bias that leaders must confront head-on to foster truly inclusive environments. Ingrid offers a practical framework for developing emotional intelligence for leaders, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and challenging assumptions. Drawing from her own experiences, she provides actionable strategies for communicating across diverse styles, ensuring every team member feels heard and valued. Discover how to interrupt unconscious biases and slow down decision-making to cultivate a growth mindset. Jason and Ingrid also explore the power of vulnerability in leadership, highlighting how acknowledging imperfections and asking for help can transform team dynamics and accelerate business success. This episode is a must-listen for any leader seeking to enhance their empathetic leadership skills and build a culture of belonging. Key Learning Outcomes Discover how to lead with curiosity and empathy to build truly inclusive teams and challenge unconscious biases that hinder diversity. Learn the importance of self-awareness for leaders to understand how their own experiences and communication styles impact team dynamics. Master practical frameworks for breaking out of leadership "ruts" by actively listening and asking exploratory questions. Apply ancient wisdom principles to modern leadership challenges by cultivating "boldness with heart" and embracing vulnerability for stronger connections. Understand how to create environments where everyone feels they belong, regardless of background, by checking biases and fostering psychological safety. Resources Mentioned: Ingrid Hu Dahl's Official Website: Learn more about Ingrid's work and leadership coaching. Sun Shining on the Morning Snow: Purchase Ingrid Hu Dahl's powerful memoir. Ingrid Hu Dahl on Instagram: Connect with Ingrid on social media. Episode Duration: 54:02 Publish Date: June 29, 2025 Host Information: Jason Rigby, The Self-Aware Leader Topic Categories: Self-Awareness Foundation, Resilient Leadership, Ancient Wisdom, Empathetic Leadership, Diversity & Inclusion, Emotional Intelligence Tags: Ingrid Hu Dahl, self-aware leadership, emotional intelligence, resilience, mixed-race identity, Hapa, leadership coaching, diversity, inclusion, unconscious bias, authentic leadership, ancient wisdom, empathetic leadership, crisis management, personal transformation, memoir, Sun Shining on the Morning Snow, Jason Rigby, conscious leadership, human-centered leadership, unlearning, vulnerability, belonging, Phoenix, family heritage. Transcript Availability: Full transcript available on the podcast website. Related Content Connections: Links to related episodes and Jason Rigby's community for deeper engagement.
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Why You’re Chasing the Wrong Life—and How to Stop NOW with Max Stephens | Purpose-Driven Leadership for High Performers
06/20/2025
Why You’re Chasing the Wrong Life—and How to Stop NOW with Max Stephens | Purpose-Driven Leadership for High Performers
In this high-impact episode of The Self Aware Leader, host Jason Rigby sits down with elite executive coach Max Stephens—trusted advisor to top CEOs, pro athletes, and Hollywood creators. Max dismantles the myths behind traditional success and shares how high performers can finally find real fulfillment. Whether you're a founder, corporate leader, or entrepreneur on the edge of burnout, Max’s Contribution Alignment Model and radical truth-telling will help you stop chasing the wrong goals—and build a life of purpose, peace, and leadership impact. What You’ll Learn: Why success without inner healing is a trap The hidden cost of ambition no one talks about Why most leadership coaching fails—and how to fix it How to realign your leadership around purpose, not pressure Max’s 3-part framework: Forgiveness, Mortality, Radical Honesty Guest Bio: Max Stephens is a world-class performance coach and author of What the Fck Do You Actually Want?*. With over 1,500 sessions per year and clients across C-suite, sports, and film, Max helps leaders eliminate emotional blind spots and live with unshakable clarity. Episode Highlights: [00:00] Why high performers feel empty at the top [08:00] The neuroscience of contribution vs. isolation [13:00] Max’s truth bomb: You’re not doing it “for your family” [24:00] The Purpose Framework: Forgiveness, Mortality, Honesty [36:00] Coaching culture is broken—here’s what works [45:00] How to reset your leadership thermostat Subscribe for more on: Leadership development Executive coaching Emotional intelligence Strategic thinking Purposeful performance Resources Mentioned: 📘 What the Fck Do You Actually Want?* by Max Stephens 🌐 Visit:
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The Stoic Woman Who Beat Bulimia and Leads NFL Teams
06/15/2025
The Stoic Woman Who Beat Bulimia and Leads NFL Teams
What happens when a 20-year battle with bulimia meets ancient Stoic philosophy? In this episode, leadership coach shares how emotional intelligence, radical honesty, and core values helped her overcome addiction—and now empower elite NFL teams. Becky reveals her journey from anorexia at 13 to founding a mindful leadership practice that transforms chaos into clarity. You’ll learn: The true meaning of humble leadership How to apply Stoicism to daily stress and emotional triggers Why bulimia operates like a behavioral addiction Becky's powerful SAFE framework (Self-awareness, Action, Fortitude, Engagement) How to lead with integrity—even when it hurts Perfect for anyone seeking deeper self-awareness, emotional mastery, and values-based leadership. Whether you're a CEO, coach, or just stuck in survival mode—this conversation will help you lead with strength and purpose. 🎯 Keywords: humble leadership, emotional intelligence, mental resilience, addiction recovery, values-based leadership, NFL coaching, stoicism, recovery stories 🔗 More at:
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New Manager Mistakes: How to Master Delegation, Feedback, and Avoid Burnout
06/12/2025
New Manager Mistakes: How to Master Delegation, Feedback, and Avoid Burnout
Are you a new manager struggling to find your footing? The transition from top performer to leader is the most challenging in any career. This episode is your roadmap to success. Jason Rigby and leadership expert Bobby Powers dive deep into the essential leadership skills you need to thrive. Forget theory—this is practical advice you can use today. In this episode, you will learn to: Master Delegation: Use the simple but powerful "80% Rule" to empower your team and free up your time. Give Effective Feedback: Implement the SBI (Situation, Behavior, Impact) Model to make feedback clear, kind, and actionable. Overcome Imposter Syndrome: Learn why you feel like a fraud and how to build genuine confidence in your role. Build Unshakeable Trust: Discover the keys to creating a transparent and supportive team culture. This episode is a must-listen for any aspiring or newly appointed leader who wants to avoid common pitfalls and fast-track their journey to becoming a respected, self-aware leader. Resources: Bobby Powers' Substack: Connect with Bobby on LinkedIn: Explore more insights at Listen to other episodes of the Self Aware Leader Podcast: Keywords: Self-aware leader, leadership mastery, leadership skills, new manager, delegation, feedback, imposter syndrome, trust in leadership, team management, avoiding burnout, career growth.
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Employees Are Clocked In—but Checked Out: Here’s Why
06/03/2025
Employees Are Clocked In—but Checked Out: Here’s Why
Are your people quietly quitting without ever handing in a resignation? In this powerhouse episode of The Self Aware Leader, host Jason Rigby dives deep with top leadership coach and strategist Dave Garrison, author of the highly anticipated book The Buy-In Advantage (June 3, 2025). Together, they expose the hidden disengagement epidemic costing companies billions—and unveil a clear path forward through humble leadership, emotional intelligence, and co-creation. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The real reason employees stop caring—it’s not what you think 7 signs your team is disengaging while still on the payroll Why free lunches and ping pong tables won’t fix culture How to use co-creation to build unstoppable teams Why vulnerability is the secret to high-trust leadership Memorable Moments: “Judgment and curiosity cannot coexist.” “If you don’t have time to invest in people, get ready to spend it interviewing.” “Leaders go last—except when it comes to vulnerability.” This isn’t theory—it’s a practical masterclass for CEOs, founders, and emerging leaders ready to rebuild trust, unlock team potential, and lead with purpose in 2025. Resources Mentioned: The Buy-In Advantage by Dave Garrison (Launched TODAY!): Leadership tools & workshops: Connect with Dave on LinkedIn: Subscribe and Review If this episode sparked new ideas for you, hit Subscribe and leave a 5-star review. It helps more heart-centered leaders like you discover the show. Join the movement at #Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfAwareLeader #HumbleLeadership #BuyInAdvantage #EmployeeEngagement
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Why Hard Workers Never Get Promoted (And the 3-Step Fix)
05/31/2025
Why Hard Workers Never Get Promoted (And the 3-Step Fix)
What if I told you that your career success isn't really in your hands? Career advancement is often seen as a personal endeavor, but Nate Dinet reveals that 70-80% of your career growth is influenced by your direct manager. Drawing on over 15 years of experience, Nate explains how The Step Manager program empowers individuals to take control of their career trajectory, even when facing disengaged or unsupportive managers. He introduces the CARA method (Current Activities, Responsibilities, and Above and Beyond), a powerful framework for tracking accomplishments and negotiating promotions. Nate and Jason discuss: The surprising 80% rule: Why your manager is so critical to your career. How to build effective relationships with managers, even difficult ones. Understanding your value and advocating for a raise. The CARA method: A foolproof system for tracking and presenting your impact. Why most managers lack training and how you can become a great manager. The power of internal campaigns for promotion. This episode is a masterclass in career strategy and leadership, offering listeners the tools to take charge of their professional journey. ⏱ Timestamps: [00:00] – Introduction: Career control and Nate Dinet’s journey. [02:22] – The 80% Rule: How managers impact career growth. [05:37] – The problem with untrained managers and Nate’s solution. [10:53] – Understanding your manager’s motivation with the Manager Compass. [14:25] – The CARA Method: A practical framework for tracking success. [20:31] – Building an internal campaign for promotion. [26:43] – Scaling without burnout: The Solid Manager Program. [30:42] – Leading up: How to manage up effectively. 💬 Top Quotes: "70-80% of your career growth is determined by your direct manager." – Nate Dinet "The CARA Method is your career blueprint—track your impact, present your value." – Nate Dinet "Your career is not just a ladder—it's a campaign. Strategize, advocate, and own your path." – Nate Dinet 🔗 Resources Mentioned: Visit The Step Manager Website: Book a 1-on-1 with Nate Dinet: Connect with Nate Dinet on LinkedIn: 🔍 Keywords: Career growth, leadership skills, manager relationships, career development, self-awareness, emotional intelligence, promotion strategy, Nate Dinet, The Step Manager. 📢 Call-to-Action (CTA): Ready to take control of your career? Don’t leave your growth to chance. Visit The Step Manager and start your journey to leadership mastery. Subscribe to The Self Aware Leader Podcast and never miss an episode full of actionable insights.
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Leadership Clarity: How Discomfort Fuels Growth & Innovation | Feat. Arielle Lechner
05/24/2025
Leadership Clarity: How Discomfort Fuels Growth & Innovation | Feat. Arielle Lechner
Are you a leader grappling with startup burnout, decision fatigue, or feeling stuck despite your drive? This transformative episode reveals the counter-intuitive secret to leadership clarity and accelerated growth: discomfort. Join Jason Rigby and Arielle Lechner, an acclaimed executive coach to leaders at Google, GitHub, and Peloton. They shatter the myth of the flawless founder and dive deep into how embracing resistance isn't a barrier, but your most accurate signal for progress and innovation. 🔑 In this essential leadership episode, you will discover: The Power of Discomfort: Learn how to lean into resistance and transform it into your competitive advantage for leader development. "Think Like a Scientist" Mindset: A radical approach to leadership that redefines failure as essential data, driving rapid learning and growth. Beyond Data Overload: How to harmonize your intuition with metrics for truly informed and strategic decision-making. The Lift & Thrust Model: A practical tool for diagnosing and energizing your team culture, fostering psychological safety. High-Leverage Communication: Master the direct, clear, and explicit strategies that separate effective leaders from those struggling with leadership gaps. Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: Practical insights for navigating identity challenges and leading with genuine authenticity. Whether you're a seasoned startup CEO, an aspiring self-aware leader, or an executive seeking to deepen your emotional intelligence and drive organizational growth, this conversation offers practical tools and a profound leadership mindset shift. It's a masterclass in humble leadership that will reframe your entire leadership journey. Timestamps for Easy Navigation: – Intro to Arielle Lechner: Disrupting the status quo – What founders really mean by frustration – You can’t think your way to clarity – Using discomfort as your competitive signal – What does “velocity of learning” mean? – Why your intuition is your most undervalued asset – Think like a scientist: Embracing failure as feedback – Lift and Thrust Model: A culture-check diagnostic – High-leverage communication: Clear. Explicit. Direct. – Impostor syndrome and identity gaps in leadership Notable Quotes: “You can’t think your way to clarity—you experiment your way there.” “Discomfort isn’t a barrier—it’s a signal.” “Leadership is a learning loop; velocity matters more than perfection.” Connect with Arielle Lechner: LinkedIn: Website: Subscribe to The Self-Aware Leader for ongoing insights into conscious leadership, personal growth, and strategies for sustained organizational success. Your leadership evolution starts here. Primary Keywords: leadership, executive coaching, leadership development, self-aware leader, humble leadership Secondary Keywords: startup burnout, emotional intelligence, discomfort, clarity, leadership mindset, founder growth, psychological safety, innovation, authentic leadership, team performance, decision making, C-suite, strategic leadership.
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Why Every CEO Will Hire a Chief Consciousness Officer by 2026
05/20/2025
Why Every CEO Will Hire a Chief Consciousness Officer by 2026
Are you a leader seeking a truly transformative approach to leadership? In today's complex world, traditional leadership models often fall short, leaving many leaders feeling disconnected and seeking deeper impact. On this groundbreaking episode of The Self Aware Leader Podcast, host Jason Rigby speaks with Charley Johnson, a TEDx speaker, founder of Chief Consciousness Officer Training, and a visionary in conscious leadership. Charley Johnson, a former high-powered business president, shares his profound journey from conventional success to a strategic exploration of consciousness in leadership. This episode is a must-listen for any leader ready to evolve beyond the status quo. Charley unpacks how embracing core principles like clarity in leadership, neutrality, and presence can lead to a seismic shift from ego-driven actions to essence-driven impact. Discover why the role of a Chief Consciousness Officer is not "woo-woo," but a tactical necessity for modern organizations. Key Learnings for Leaders: The Leadership Shift: Understand the critical transition from ego-based decisions to essence-driven leadership. Consciousness for Leaders: Explore how personal consciousness dissolves bias, fuels innovation, and bridges divides within your team and corporate culture. Beyond Traditional Leadership: Challenge conventional wisdom on wellness and consulting to achieve true organizational transformation. Clarity for Leaders: Learn practical tools to foster inner stillness, navigate chaos, and make decisions from a place of profound clarity. Humble Leadership: Embrace the power of leading from a place of shared humanity, not competing ideologies. If you're an aspiring or established leader committed to self-aware leadership and elevating your organizational culture, this episode provides the strategic insights you need. Tune in to learn how to unlock your true potential as a leader and guide your team with authentic purpose. Message Charley here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cjconsciousness/ Keywords: Leadership, Leader, Conscious Leadership, Charley Johnson, Chief Consciousness Officer, Self-Aware Leader, Humble Leadership, Emotional Intelligence, Clarity in Leadership, Conscious Business, Organizational Culture, Corporate Culture, Leadership Transformation, Strategic Leadership, Leadership Development, Business Leadership, The Self Aware Leader Podcast.
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The Real Drivers of Success: Employee Empowerment with Dr. Luis Luarca
05/17/2025
The Real Drivers of Success: Employee Empowerment with Dr. Luis Luarca
Unlock your organization's full potential by discovering who the real drivers of success are. Veteran leadership consultant Dr. Luis Luarca sits down with Jason Rigby on The Self Aware Leader Podcast to reveal a truth many leaders miss: the power lies within your employees. Drawing from 25 years of experience, Dr. Luarca explains how shifting from control to empowerment leads to radical improvements in processes, innovation, and employee engagement. Hear compelling stories and gain practical strategies for leading with self-awareness, avoiding ego traps, and leveraging the invaluable insights of your team. If you want to build a resilient, innovative, and high-performing organization, this conversation on employee empowerment and humble leadership is a must-listen. Subscribe and listen to the full episode today! Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Learn more in Dr. Luis Luarca's book, "Do Employees Really Like Working Here?": Visit Dr. Luis Luarca's official website: Connect with Dr. Luis Luarca on LinkedIn: Keywords: Employee Empowerment, Leadership, Organizational Transformation, Self-Aware Leader, Leadership Psychology, Business Growth, Humble Leadership, Workplace Culture, Leadership Skills, Dr. Luis Luarca, Management Tips.
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Fixing Toxic Leadership & Building Trust in 2025 (with William Davis)
05/16/2025
Fixing Toxic Leadership & Building Trust in 2025 (with William Davis)
Are you tired of toxic leadership undermining your team's potential? Is a lack of credibility and authentic connection causing a leadership crisis in your workplace? In this powerful episode of The Self Aware Leader Podcast, host Jason Rigby interviews acclaimed leadership expert William Davis, who brings 38 years of experience transforming struggling teams into powerhouses. William reveals the core reasons behind today's toxic leadership challenges and provides actionable insights on how to build high-trust, high-performing teams. Learn about the critical difference between management and true ethical leadership, the importance of servant leadership, and how to cultivate essential leadership skills. Discover practical strategies for restoring trust, fostering genuine relationships, and leading with unwavering integrity. William shares lessons from his extensive career, offering a clear path for leaders ready to make a positive impact. If you're looking to improve team management and create a thriving workplace culture free from toxic leadership, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to lead with heart and purpose. William Davis Website: https://www.williamcdavis.net/ #Leadership #ToxicLeadership #EthicalLeadership #ServantLeadership #TeamManagement #LeadershipSkills #CredibilityInLeadership #LeadershipCrisis #Trust #Integrity #Podcast #Business #Management #SelfAwareLeader #WilliamDavis
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Leadership Focus Mastery: Bee-Inspired Strategies for Growth with Jones Loflin
05/13/2025
Leadership Focus Mastery: Bee-Inspired Strategies for Growth with Jones Loflin
n this episode of the Self-Aware Leader Podcast, host Jason Rigby sits down with Jones Loflin, author of Focus as a Bee, to uncover leadership strategies that transform chaos into clarity. Through Sydney’s bee-inspired journey, Loflin shares his 3P approach—powerful ideas, practical solutions, and personal touch—offering leaders actionable tools to prioritize, recharge, and celebrate wins. Learn how to shift from busyness to intentional focus, adopt a gardener’s growth mindset, and lead thriving teams with consistency and adaptability. Perfect for leaders seeking clarity and sustainable growth in a fast-paced world. Detailed Overview Jason Rigby hosts Jones Loflin, a globally recognized speaker with experience at FedEx and the U.S. military, to explore leadership through the lens of Loflin’s new book, Focus as a Bee. Using the narrative of Sydney and her friend Alicia, Loflin introduces the "hexagon of permissions"—a honeycomb-inspired framework with six steps to sharpen focus. Key insights include giving yourself permission to be unavailable, celebrating small wins, and adapting to change like bees. With practical strategies and metaphors, this episode equips leaders to move beyond survival mode into intentional growth. Timestamps with Key Points 00:38 – Introduction to Jones Loflin: Jason introduces Jones and his book Focus as a Bee. 01:26 – Sydney’s Story: How a chaotic bee encounter sparks transformation. 02:47 – Shifting the Leadership Mindset: Asking better questions and listening to teams. 04:21 – Permission to Prioritize: Discerning what’s most important. 07:08 – Gardener vs. Mechanic Mindset: Growing teams instead of fixing problems. 09:48 – Permission to Be Unavailable: Why stepping back is key for focus. 17:20 – Honey Flow State: Creating environments for optimal focus. 23:06 – Permission to Recharge: Bees rest more than they work—lessons for leaders. 26:55 – Adapting to Change: How bees and leaders thrive in new conditions. 33:56 – Consistency as a Superpower: Balancing structure with innovation. 39:28 – Permission to Celebrate: Recognizing small wins to build momentum. 43:44 – Thriving, Not Surviving: A key question for daily growth. Notable Quotes Jones Loflin (06:03): "Focused is the intentional direction of your time and energy toward what matters most." Jones Loflin (10:17): "What your team needs is for you to have the clarity of vision to resource them in ways that help them grow." Jones Loflin (40:35): "Celebrating small wins is about saying to that team member, ‘I see growth in you—let’s celebrate.’" Resources and Links Jones Loflin’s Website: Podcast Resources: Book - Focus as a Bee: https://jonesloflin.com/faab
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