Closing The 18 Inch Gap Podcast

This is a podcast based on the book titled Closing the 18-Inch Gap by Edwin Soler. This is a book that helps you discover the bloodspots in your mindset so that you can close your 18-inch gap which is the distance between your mind and your heart. Your heart desires to accomplish big dreams and lofty goals but your mind says you cannot do it for whatever reasons there may be. I help you close the gap so you can achieve your dreams and goals.

EP 102: The Crucible of Unfulfilled Dreams 01/27/2026

EP 102: The Crucible of Unfulfilled Dreams What is a crucible? It’s a ceramic or metal container in which metals or other substances may be melted or subjected to very high temperatures. But for purposes of this episode it's a situation of severe trial, or in which different elements interact, leading to the creation of something new. Let me start with a truth most people never hear: Just because no one sees your potential… does not mean it’s not inside you. Some of the most dangerous potential in the world is the kind that’s still the kind that is tending sheep—shepherds that are quiet, faithful, unseen. Today, we’re talking about untapped potential, and there may be no clearer blueprint than a boy who faced challenges of many kinds before he ever became king. That would be David, the shepherd boy that faced Goliath. We will be modeling today’s episode after him using his story as a background. Not after the palace. Not after the crown. But in the process—long before, when no one was clapping. Today we bust the myth of overnight success. Yes, overnight success does exist but the timing is measured in years not hours. You are not overlooked— you are in preparation. Your obscurity is developing strength you will need later. You don’t need recognition to remain faithful. Your private victories are preparing you for public responsibility. You will not measure Your calling by Your current position. What frustrates You is pointing You toward Your purpose. Refuse to wear armor that was not designed for You. Trust the process even when You don’t understand the timing. Your past struggles were rehearsals, not setbacks. When Your moment comes, You will be ready—not lucky. If you’ve ever felt overlooked… If you’ve ever felt like you’re capable of more but stuck where you are… If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this really preparing me for anything?” This episode is for you. I want to help you make your dreams come true. Are you ready to truly leave 2025 behind and just take the lessons learned from it and step into this new year? You need more than just a plan, you need a partner that can walk along side of you and make this happen. I don’t want to see you stuck. I want to see you go from thinking to doing. If this resonated with you then please reach out to me for a complementary . It only takes about 30 minutes to get through and start diving into what may be holding you back. ! This episode was sponsored by my book Closing the 18-inch Gap and is available on Amazon. To find it faster, simply go to . That will take you to the book page where you can click on the Amazon logo and order your copy right away. It’s available in paperback, Kindle, and Audible. Thank you for listening, in the meantime, keep closing that 18- inch gap! /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39900715

EP101: Breaking Old Thinking Patterns 01/21/2026

EP101: Breaking Old Thinking Patterns Three weeks into the new year already. Does it feel heavy already? Are you like many others already losing steam and momentum? Is this year starting to already feel like the last one? Are you seeing a pattern develop? I can assure you that you are not alone. Many, many people feel this way. The difference between you and them is that you are listening to a podcast that will help you navigate out of this problem. They try to fit themselves in a mold outside of their own, the patterns that this develops is something that makes it hard to break out of. If you want to close your 18-inch gap and start making those long locked up dreams come true, you will need to change the way you have been approaching your way of thinking. Your thinking patters determine your movements in life, how you approach and more important how you react to what is going on around you and more important within you. Get your gift at edwinsoler.com/gift You will get to download: 3 Ways to Know You Are Ready To Start Achieving Your Dreams Points covered: 20 Time-Tested Ways to Break Old Thinking Patterns and Close the 18-Inch Gap 1. Stop asking “What’s wrong with me?” and start asking “What is this training me for?” 2. Build identity before building habits. 3. Replace motivation with structure. 4. Tell the truth—without softening it. 5. Stop collecting information and start applying one principle at a time. 6. Detach your worth from your current results. 7. Practice finishing—especially when it’s imperfect. 8. Interrupt negative self-talk immediately—do not negotiate with it. 9. Design your environment to support your future self. 10. Schedule courage like an appointment. Listen to the full episode for all of the points I bring to help you discover 20 Time-Tested Ways to Break Old Thinking Patterns and Close the 18-Inch Gap Are you ready to truly leave 2025 behind and just take the lessons learned from it and step into this new year? You need more than just a plan, you need a partner that can walk along side of you and make this happen. If this resonated with you then please reach out to me for a complementary . It only takes about 30 minutes to get through and start diving into what may be holding you back. This episode was sponsored by my book Closing the 18-inch Gap and is available on Amazon. To find it faster, simply go to That will take you to the book page where you can click on the Amazon logo and order your copy right away. It’s available in paperback, Kindle, and Audible. Thank you for listening, in the meantime, keep closing that 18- inch gap /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39814620

EP 100: Celebrating Episode 100! 01/13/2026

EP 100: Celebrating Episode 100! Today’s episode is a long-awaited episode that I have been dreaming about since the first time I started podcast. For every podcaster the 100th episode is a really big deal. Statistically speaking, the majority of podcast stop being produced when they hit only seven episodes. When I first started I wanted to have at least eight to be able to overcome that statistic right out of the gate. But I only had five started and I launch those five. I was able to continue past the dreaded seventh episode in number eight was a big deal at the time. My biggest fear was being able to be consistent. So the hundredth episode is being published with just one month away from this podcast being two years in production. That’s right, it’s already been two years since I started this journey. It’s a huge accomplishment. But don’t worry I’m not going to go down the list of 100 things I’ve learned from podcasting, not even close. But I will be sharing what I’ve learned in this journey and more importantly you’ll be hearing from for other people that have been with me during this journey as well. Once you hear from them, I’ll be telling you more about them, how they fit my community, and how you can reach them if you’re interested for more information. Quote of the week: "inch by inch makes it a cinch, yard by yard is just too hard!” James Malinchak- The Secret Millionaire/Big Money Speaker.com People celebrating with me on this 100th episode: Linda Gullo: Erik K Johnson: Jennifer Dawn: Mike Michalowicz: I invite you to reach out to the people that I’ve mentioned here in the many more that I will be bringing on board either as a shout out or even doing interviews with them. So stay tuned for that. This episode was sponsored by my book Closing the 18-inch Gap and is available on Amazon. To find it faster, simply go to edwinsoler.com/book. That will take you to the book page where you can click on the Amazon logo and order your copy right away. It’s available in paperback, Kindle, and Audible. Thank you for listening, in the meantime, keep closing that 18- inch gap! /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39711505

EP099: Do This in 2026! 01/06/2026

EP099: Do This in 2026! First and foremost I want to wish you a happy new year and hope that this year is by far your best year ever yet. I’m looking forward to continuing to walk alongside his journey to encourage you, speak to you everywhere I can, speak into your life, revive those dreams, and anything else I can help you with. Don’t let this should be like last. Make it even better one. I am so excited with the new year, I’ll have my first coaching meeting with my coach tomorrow. Will be able to start hashing out what we were tying up from last year and focus on growing and going deeper than ever and this year and beyond. Today’s episode is titled do this in 2026 and this is a bit unusual of me but it’s something I want to be very bold in expressing to you starting right out of the gate. It’s very simple but yet profound, at least it is to me. This is the very first thing I want you to do after you listen to this podcast episode … it’s to punch fear right in the face! That’s right, just square up to it just punch it. Often people think that not having any fear is the first step to being able to succeed and feel confident. But let me tell you that that’s just not possible. The most successful people in the world, no matter who they are, carry a measure of fear in them. Fear is not something that will just disappear but will certainly hear you when you give it too much attention. • Quote of the week: "Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear" Mark Twain Points covered: 1. The Lie That You’re “Not Ready Yet” 2. Playing Small to Make Others Comfortable 3. Seeking Permission to Be Who You Already Are 4. The Fear of Being Seen 5. Waiting for the “Perfect” Moment 6. Carrying Old Failures Like Life Sentences 7. Overthinking Every Move 8. The Need to Be Liked by Everyone 9. Saying “I’ll Start When Life Slows Down” 10. Carrying Other People’s Doubts 11. Confusing Comfort with Safety 12. Talking Yourself Out of Bold Moves 13. Waiting to Feel Brave 14. Comparing Your Beginning to Someone Else’s journey that is further down the road 15. Ignoring the Quiet Voice That Won’t Let Go 16. Overvaluing Security Over Fulfillment 17. Letting Setbacks Define Your Identity 18. Waiting for Confidence to Show Up First 19. Self-Sabotaging When Things Get Real 20. Living According to Outdated Versions of Yourself 21. Believing You Have “Too Much to Lose” 22. Delaying the Work You Know You Must Do 23. Letting Fear Speak Louder Than Faith 24. Waiting for External Validation 25. Carrying 2025’s Hesitation Into 2026 I want to help you make your dreams come true. Are you ready to leave 2025 behind and just take the lessons learned form it and step into a new year? Are you ready to take bold action steps? I want to come alongside you and partner with you. I don’t want to see you stuck. I want to see you go from thinking to doing. If this resonated with you then please reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. It only takes about 30 minutes to get through and start diving into what may be holding you back. If you want to take me up on this special offer then simply go to edwinsoler.com and go to the right side of my site and click on the tab that says contact Edwin and fill that form out. It’s that easy. I’ll be in touch with you shortly afterwards. I can’t wait to hear from you! This episode was sponsored by my book Closing the 18-inch Gap and is available on Amazon. To find it faster, simply go to edwinsoler.com/book. That will take you to the book page where you can click on the Amazon logo and order your copy right away. It’s available in paperback, Kindle, and Audible. Thank you for listening, in the meantime, keep closing that 18- inch gap! /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39623030

EP098: All Beliefs Have Consequences- Part 2 12/30/2025

EP098: All Beliefs Have Consequences- Part 2 Today I continue with a review funny story about how I answered a belief in Santa from a bully from a neighborhood I was in while in one of my many foster homes. It ties into todays topic about what we still believe and the consequences that follow. But I want to speak to you today about a belief you also need to outgrow and no longer give it anymore attention. It’s the belief that you “should be further along” often has nothing to do with reality and everything to do with comparison. When you release the pressure to prove yourself, clarity returns. Progress built from self-trust is always more sustainable than progress driven by self-judgment. What beliefs are you carrying with you that no longer help you? What are you willing to let go of for the following year to be a better one? What does that look like? How will you measure this? Will you carry these into 2026? Points covered: 1. Your fear of failure has cost you more than failure ever could. 2. You are not responsible for staying the same so others feel secure. 3. Being busy has helped you avoid being bold. 4. Discipline without direction is just exhaustion with good intentions. 5. You don’t need to fix yourself before you move forward. 6. What didn’t work before doesn’t get to vote on what’s possible now. 7. Your past mistakes are lessons, not life sentences. 8. You are allowed to release goals that no longer reflect who you’ve become. 9. Patience is powerful—but when it becomes delay, it steals momentum. 10. You can’t step into a new future while defending an old self-image. 11. Humility doesn’t require you to shrink. 12. Your comfort zone has stopped being comfortable—it’s just familiar. 13. You don’t have to suffer longer to earn what you desire. 14. Clarity doesn’t come from overthinking—it comes from movement. 15. 2026 doesn’t require a better version of you—just a braver commitment to the truth of who you already are. Next steps: I want to help you make your dreams come true. I want to come alongside you and partner with you. I don’t want to see you stuck. I want to see you go from thinking to doing. If this resonated with you then please reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. It only takes about 30 minutes to get through and start diving into what may be holding you back. If you want to take me up on this special offer then simply go to edwinsoler.com and go to the right side of my site and click on the tab that says contact Edwin and fill that form out. It’s that easy. I’ll be in touch with you shortly afterwards. I can’t wait to hear from you! This episode was sponsored by my book Closing the 18-inch Gap and is available on Amazon. To find it faster, simply go to edwinsoler.com/book. That will take you to the book page where you can click on the Amazon logo and order your copy right away. It’s available in paperback, Kindle, and Audible. /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39563315

EP: 097 Merry Christmas! 12/23/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP096: All Beliefs Have Consequences! 12/16/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP096: All Beliefs Have Consequences! Today I start with a funny story about how I answered a belief in Santa from a bully from a neighborhood I was in while in one of my many foster homes. It ties into todays topic about what we still believe and the consequences that follow. But I want to speak to you today about a belief you also need to outgrow and no longer give it anymore attention. It’s the belief that you “should be further along” often has nothing to do with reality and everything to do with comparison. When you release the pressure to prove yourself, clarity returns. Progress built from self-trust is always more sustainable than progress driven by self-judgment. What beliefs are you carrying with you that no longer help you? What are you willing to let go of for the following year to be a better one? What does that look like? How will you measure this? Points covered: 1. You don’t need to become someone new in 2026 2. Just because a dream took longer than expected doesn’t mean it’s expired. 3. The version of you that survived hard seasons doesn’t get to decide the limits of your future. 4. You’ve confused being cautious with being prepared. 5. Your past outcomes are not predictions. 6. You don’t need more motivation—you need to stop negotiating with fear. 7. What once kept you safe is now keeping you small. 8. Staying where you are because it’s familiar is not loyalty—it’s avoidance. 9. You are not behind; you are just being called forward. 10. You’ve mistaken endurance for progress. 11. The story you keep telling about “how things usually go” is a script—not the truth. 12. You are allowed to outgrow the identity that helped you get through your last chapter. 13. Comfort is not the same thing as peace. 14. Waiting until you feel ready has quietly delayed your becoming. 15. You don’t need certainty to begin—you need courage to take the next honest step. Next step: I want to help you make your dreams come true. I want to come alongside you and partner with you. I don’t want to see you stuck. I want to see you go from thinking to doing. If this resonated with you then please reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. It only takes about 30 minutes to get through and start diving into what may be holding you back. If you want to take me up on this special offer then simply go to and go to the right side of my site and click on the tab that says contact Edwin and fill that form out. It’s that easy. I’ll be in touch with you shortly afterwards. I can’t wait to hear from you! This episode was sponsored by my book Closing the 18-inch Gap and is available on Amazon. To find it faster, simply go to . That will take you to the book page where you can click on the Amazon logo and order your copy right away. It’s available in paperback, Kindle, and Audible. /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39429530

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP095: Stop Chasing Rabbits! 12/09/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP095: Stop Chasing Rabbits! Most people don’t know this, but a story is told that once at a greyhound race, the whole pack once took off sprinting… and the mechanical rabbit exploded. Gone. Vanished. The dogs froze. One sat down. One crashed through the fence, hurting itself. Some barked at the crowd. BUT Not a single one finished the race. They had speed. They had strength. They had stamina. They had training. They just didn’t have anything left to chase. That feels like real life for a lot of people. When you lose sight of purpose, you stall. You chase distractions, numb yourself with noise, or run in circles until you burn out. You end up exhausted, not fulfilled. A significant life comes from chasing something bigger than the next paycheck, the next promotion, the next compliment, the next relationship, or the next opportunity. If your purpose is only what’s right in front of you, you’ll eventually be disappointed. If your purpose is anchored in what God placed inside you, you’ll run with clarity and strength. Your life wasn’t designed to be random. God wired you for a calling. There is something He has already deposited in you that unlocks your direction, your confidence, your joy. You already have what you need to run well. You have all you need to do what God has called you to do. You just have to unlock it. Stop chasing dead rabbits. Run after the calling God put in you. Points covered: Points covered: 1. Losing your target will always lead to losing your momentum. 2. Speed, talent, and training mean nothing if you’re chasing the wrong thing. 3. A life without purpose will eventually stall, no matter how strong or motivated you are. 4. When your “rabbit” disappears, your direction disappears with it. 5. Chasing distractions leads to exhaustion, not fulfillment. 6. Numbing yourself with noise or busyness is a sign your purpose has gone missing. 7. Running in circles is the natural outcome of living without deeper meaning. 8. A significant life requires a purpose bigger than temporary achievements. 9. The next paycheck, promotion, or compliment cannot carry the weight of your calling. 10. Short-term pursuits will always leave you disappointed in the long run. Plus 10 more points. Listen to the full episode for all of them! If this resonated with you then please reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. It only takes about 30 minutes to get through and start diving into what may be holding you back. Click here to schedule a call with me: My Book Closing The 18-Inch Gap- /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39344275

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP094: Do You Have What It Takes For An Amazing 2026? 12/02/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP094: Do You Have What It Takes For An Amazing 2026? This started with the three planners I have this year plus the two print outs as well as a wheel of life This is what I’m striving for as well and today, a better year in 2026. I will be covering three main points that you will need as we approach the new year in less than 30 days: Traits, strengths and habits. Here is a short list, much more covered in this episode- Traits Traits are enduring qualities that shape an individual's patterns of thought, feeling, and behavior. They are relatively stable over time and across different situations, though they can evolve through experience. Traits are a combination of inherited predispositions and socialization. • Examples: Open-mindedness, introversion, creativity, honesty, anxiety, or agreeableness. • Openness shapes how you imagine possibilities, innovate, and think beyond the obvious. • Conscientiousness determines how you plan, stay disciplined, and follow through. For dreamers, understanding your traits isn’t an academic exercise — it’s a mirror. The better you understand how you’re wired, the better you can navigate your dreams. A dream isn’t just achieved through action — it’s achieved through self-awareness. Traits tell you what comes naturally, where you might struggle, and where you’ll need strategies, support, or structure to keep moving forward. Strengths Character strengths are positive traits, rooted in morals and ethics, that empower individuals to overcome challenges, build relationships, and find fulfillment. Unlike skills (which are learned abilities), strengths are inherent qualities that reflect who a person is at their core. • Examples: Bravery, integrity, kindness, perseverance, social intelligence, and gratitude. • Significance: Utilizing personal strengths is associated with greater happiness, resilience, and overall well-being. • Balance: Strengths used without balance can become weaknesses (e.g., too much honesty can become bluntness; too much courage can become recklessness). But strengths also require balance. Too much of a good thing can turn into a challenge. Honesty becomes bluntness when it lacks empathy. Courage becomes recklessness when it lacks wisdom. Kindness becomes people-pleasing when it lacks boundaries. Perseverance becomes burnout when it lacks rest. Strengths need direction — they need to be used at the right time, in the right amount, and for the right purpose. For dreamers, strengths are the compass. When you know what your inner gifts are, you stop trying to become someone else and start building a life that aligns with who you truly are. Habits Habits are routine behaviors that are performed regularly and often unconsciously. They are the consistent and daily expressions of a person's character and values in action. Habits are learned and can be changed, providing a direct way to influence and develop character traits and strengths. • Examples: Waking up early, exercising daily, active listening, biting nails, or expressing gratitude. • Significance: Habits are a major factor in personal development; changing a habit can gradually reshape one's character and lifestyle over time. They are the visible proof of the traits you want to develop. If openness is a trait, curiosity practices become the habit. If courage is a strength, speaking up becomes the habit. If discipline is a trait, consistency becomes the habit. Habits are how you take the invisible work of becoming and make it visible, measurable, and real. For dreamers, habits are the quiet teammates helping you build momentum — even on the days when you don’t feel like showing up. They’re the small decisions that collectively build a life aligned with your deepest dreams. You will need all three for your best year yet coming up and I provide this for you in this episode! /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39237905

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP093: Thanksgiving Message 11/25/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP092: It's not too late- Part 2. Don't Miss Out, Dreams Await Decisions. 11/19/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP092: It's not too late- Part 2. Don't Miss Out, Dreams Await Decisions. My birthday just passed last week. It has become a more special day than in years past because of the late Dan Miller. He was the author of 48 Days to the Work and Life you Love. He based everything around the number 48. It was his signature in all he did. I was a member of his 48 Days Eagles group until his passing. One of the things he was big on was the last 48 days of the year. And it so happens that the day of my birthday is when the year also has the last 48 days left before the year ends. And as we are coming up on the holidays and the year closing on us, I want to ask you how you plan on ending the last part of this year. How would you judge your year so far? Are you happy with what you have accomplished? How have you changed? What has changed? In this episode, I will go over 10 more ways to look forward by reflecting back on this year so far knowing it’s not over yet. You still have time to make 2025 your best year yet as you prepare for the next one. With the holidays around the corner it’s too easy to forget about your dreams and goals. Don’t let that happen. You can have both a great holiday season while still working on moving forward with what is in your heart and mind. Some of the points covered: 1. The Story You’re Still Telling Every dreamer narrates their own journey — consciously or unconsciously. 2. The Importance of Emotional Housekeeping Before entering a new year, clean up emotional clutter — resentments, comparisons, self-doubt. 3. Vision Requires Revision Sometimes your original dream isn’t wrong, it’s just outdated. 4. The Power of Recommitment There’s a sacred strength in saying, “I’m not done yet.” Recommit to your why. 5. Accountability Over Excuses Who have you allowed to hold you accountable this year — or who did you avoid because they would? 6. The Battle Between Fear and Faith Every dream lives between what scares you and what calls you. 7. The Art of Forgiveness Forgive yourself for not knowing what you know now. 8. Presence Over Pressure You don’t need to finish the year “proving” you’re doing enough. 9. Remembering Your Why Amid the noise of deadlines and disappointments, have you stayed connected to your purpose? 10. Preparing the Soil for Next Season Before planting new dreams, till the soil of your mindset. Reflect, release, and reset. And much, much more! Make sure you listen to the full episode for all of the points brought in this episode, your future self will thank you when you realize those dreams. My Book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/39097755

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP091: It's not too late: Part 1 11/11/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP090: Having The Mindset for Success 11/04/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP090: Having The Mindset for Success It takes the right mindset to deal with both. Yes, even when everything is going right, you need the mindset to stay focused and avoid getting distracted. The good news is that mindset is something that can be worked on and improved over time. There’s a moment in every dreamer’s journey where every step forward sounds like an echo in an empty hallway. You’ve done the work. You’ve waited. You’ve believed — and yet, here you stand… stuck. Perhaps you need someone to help you, and they are not moving as fast as your vision is.But what if this isn’t a stop sign? You see, stuck isn’t the opposite of progress — it’s the cocoon before wings. You can hear more about this in episode #87 The Butterfly Effect of a Dream Coming True It’s the universe whispering, “Pause. You’re becoming.” You’re not behind; you’re being built.You’re not losing time; time is preparing you for alignment. Some of the points covered: Progress Isn’t Always Movement — It’s Alignment You’re Not Broken, You’re Becoming Clarity Comes Through Action, Not Thought Doubt Is the Doorway to Discover Perfection Is a Prison — Progress Is Freedom Fear Is a Compass, Not a Cage Stuck Energy Means It’s Time to Let Go And much, much more! Every seed had to break before it grew. Every dawn had to battle the night before light could spill over the horizon. And you, my friend — you are that horizon. Your dream is not lost; it’s waiting for your permission to breathe again. So, while you give your dream that permission, give it to yourself as well and breathe. Relax, let time work in your favor. So walk forward — even if your steps are shaky.Speak forward — even if your voice trembles.Dream forward — even when doubt sits beside you.Because you were never meant to stay where you are.You were meant to rise from it. Even if it takes some time. You have already come a long way and you will get there! Make sure you listen to the full episode for all of the points brought in this episode, your future self will thank you when you realize those dreams. My Book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/38909030

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP089: The Many Masks of the Mind 10/28/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP088: The Midnight of the Mind 10/21/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP087: The Butterfly Effect of a Dream Coming True 10/14/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP087: The Butterfly Effect of a Dream Coming True Today I want to take you on a journey of how a butterfly resembles a dream coming true. Starting with an idea, a vision, a burning desire you have discovered in you that will not go away. It then develops and grows until the dream is realized. We will dive into the 4 stages you must go through in order for that dream in you to find its way to full realization. These stages are: 1. The Egg-The Blueprint of Potential 2. The Caterpillar – The Stage of Growth and Consumption 3. The Cocoon – The Stage of Transformation 4. The Adult Butterfly – Emergence and Expansion Are you ready to be inspired to make your dreams come true? I’m here to guide you through the ups and downs as you navigate your way through the long journey that lies ahead. You are not alone, I’m here to walk alongside you and be your trusted guide through this process. Are you ready? Let’s find out! Quote of the week: "You do not just wake up and become the butterfly. Growth is a process" by Rupi Kaur Stage 1: The Egg – The Blueprint of Potential: The Journey of Becoming • Birth of vision or idea. The dream or purpose begins invisibly — something inside whispers, “I’m meant for more.” Stage 2: The Caterpillar – The Stage of Growth and Consumption • Consume: It can eat several times its body weight in leaves each day. Stage 3: The Cocoon – The Stage of Transformation • The caterpillar’s body literally dissolves — enzymes break down most tissues into a nutrient-rich mix. Stage 4: The Adult Butterfly – Emergence and Expansion • Butterfly: You emerge lighter, transformed, and ready to serve with purpose and beauty. You no longer crawl; you fly. — not to escape, but to express And much more! Listen to the full episode for all of the points brought in this episode along with three powerful questions I ask after each point. Your future self will thank you when you realize those dreams. My Book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/38579330

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP086: When the student is ready, the teacher arrives! 10/07/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP085: Get The Funk Out! 09/30/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP084: How To Recharge Your Batteries 09/23/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP084: How To Recharge Your Batteries We are definitely in a season where we are getting drained more and more every day. Many are giving up on their dreams. Distractions are everywhere. There is no boundaries to access everywhere. The hustle culture is everywhere. I was telling my son earlier today when there was a time where TV stations would be off the air from midnight to about six in the morning. The channels are very limited, and had two dials: one for UHF and the other for VHF. News didn’t get reported nearly as fast as it is today. Newspapers were the rage to see the latest information what was going on. It took time for things to catch up and be discovered. Being more connected than ever also demands more time from you and me and this is leading to burnout. It leaves little space in between for rest or other things that we need to complete. We are letting our energy and minds have more demand put on them and not doing enough to recharge. Today I bring you a quick analogy that came to my inbox that inspired the topic for this podcast episode. Quote of the week: "You can't build your dreams on an empty tank. Rest isn't indulgent—it's essential for your success" — Felecia Etienne Some of the points covered in today's episode titled: "How To Recharge Your Batteries" The analogy of the flashlight Action news cycle Social media The need to have an answer for everything Pleasing everyone Chasing Productivity Over Purpose And more... a whole lot more I want to help you make your dreams come true. Reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. It only takes about 30 minutes to get through and start diving into what may be holding you back. If you want to take me up on this special offer then simply send me an email at edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect. This episode was sponsored by my book Closing the 18-inch Gap and is available on Amazon. To find it faster, simply go to my book link here: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/38326670

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP083: Succeed without feeling the guilt starting now! 09/16/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP082: Inspiration for Your Journey 09/09/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP081: 18 Signs You Should Start Now! 09/02/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast EP081: 18 Signs You Should Start Now! Have you ever reached a point where waiting becomes heavier than moving forward or at least just taking that first step? Have you reached the point when the excuses you’ve repeated to yourself no longer satisfy you or have the same meaning anymore? The moment you realize that standing still costs more than failure ever could, that’s the moment you know you’re ready. Today, I want to walk you through 18 undeniable signs that you’re not only capable of starting — but that you are actually to start right now. These are not clichés, not sugar-coated affirmations. These are real, time-tested truths that reveal when a dream is ready to be born through you. If you’ve been wondering if it’s time, by the end of this episode, you’ll know. And you may discover — the answer has been inside you all along. Quote of the week: Don't wait for the perfect moment. Take the moment and make it perfect." – Zoey Sayward Points covered on 18 Signs You Should Start Now: 1. You’re More Afraid of Standing Still Than of Failing • Fear shifts from “what if it doesn’t work” to “what if nothing ever changes.” • This signals growth hunger — readiness is when inaction hurts more than risk. • Time-tested truth: people rarely regret trying, but often regret waiting. ________________________________________ 2. Your Excuses Sound Hollow, Even to You • The same reasons that once justified waiting now feel thin. • You catch yourself saying “I’ll start when…” and feeling embarrassed. • When excuses no longer satisfy your own mind, your readiness is undeniable. ________________________________________ 3. You’ve Outgrown Comfort More Than You’ve Outgrown Fear • Comfort zones feel suffocating, not secure. • Stagnation feels heavier than uncertainty. • You’re not “pushed” by circumstances; you’re “pulled” by vision. ________________________________________ 4. You Can Envision the Cost of Not Starting • You’ve run the future script: “What will life look like in 1, 3, 5 years if I don’t act?” • That vision is unbearable, which becomes your new fuel. • The pain of lost potential is more vivid than the fear of setbacks. ________________________________________ 5. You’re No Longer Waiting for Permission • Readiness shows when external validation isn’t required. • You realize: No one is coming to crown you. You crown yourself. • The unconventional twist: true leaders begin before they’re called leaders. ________________________________________ 6. You’re Willing to Invest — Time, Energy, or Money • Readiness is proven when you put skin in the game. • Even small sacrifices signal commitment. • People who “say” they’re ready but won’t invest aren’t ready. ________________________________________ 7. You Can Handle Not Having All the Answers • You don’t need every detail figured out anymore. • You’re okay with the fog, because clarity comes in motion. • Unconventional truth: progress rewards movement, not perfection. ________________________________________ 8. The Dream Keeps Interrupting You • You can’t shake it — in the shower, while driving, even when resting. • The pull is constant, like it’s chasing you. • When your dream becomes an intruder of thought, it’s demanding to be born. ________________________________________ 9. Your Circle Isn’t Enough Anymore • Conversations feel small compared to your vision. • You crave new mentors, peers, or environments that match your next level. • Growth shows up when current surroundings no longer stretch you. ________________________________________ 10. You’re At Peace With Imperfect Timing • You realize there’s no “perfect moment.” • Readiness is acceptance: now is messy, but waiting won’t clean it up. • Those who act in “imperfect time” often shape the future. ________________________________________ 11. Your Identity Has Shifted Before Your Actions • You start calling yourself the thing — “I’m a writer,” “I’m a coach,” “I’m an entrepreneur.” • The inner identity changes before external results catch up. • That shift is readiness declaring itself. ________________________________________ 12. You’ve Already Started in Small, Secret Ways • Notes scribbled down, late-night research, hidden attempts. • Readiness often shows in whispers before it roars. • What you call “dabbling” is actually the first step. ________________________________________ 13. You See Failure as Data, Not Defeat • Every “no” becomes a map, not a dead end. • You look forward to mistakes because they reveal the next move. • This is a mental revolution: failure transforms into fuel. ________________________________________ 14. Your Body Reacts When You Talk About It • Your energy spikes, heart races, or your voice changes when you describe it. • That physiological reaction is proof you’re wired for it. • The body often knows before the mind admits. ________________________________________ 15. You’re Tired of Consuming — You’re Ready to Contribute • You stop bingeing advice, books, podcasts just to feel busy. • You realize: creation beats endless consumption. • Shifting from taker to giver = readiness. ________________________________________ 16. You’re Thinking More About Legacy Than Lifestyle • Lifestyle chases comfort, legacy chases impact. • When you care more about what remains than what entertains, you’re ready. • It’s a higher-level shift: from surviving to significance. ________________________________________ 17. You No Longer Feel the Need to Wait for Confidence • You understand confidence is built by doing, not waiting. • The “I’ll start when I feel confident” excuse no longer tricks you. • Readiness = willing to step out shaking, sweating, and still moving. ________________________________________ 18. You’ve Stopped Asking If You’re Ready • The very question fades. • Instead, your mind says: How do I start? • When doubt turns into logistics, the decision is already made. “Here’s the truth: no one ever feels completely ready. “Readiness isn’t a feeling — it’s a decision. Readiness isn’t about having every answer, every dollar, every supporter lined up. Readiness is about recognizing that the spark is already inside you — and trusting that the path will reveal itself as you move. You don’t need a map for every mile, only the courage to take the first step. Because clarity doesn’t come before action — clarity is earned by action. So if these signs have stirred something in you, that’s not coincidence. That’s your life tapping you on the shoulder, whispering, ‘It’s time.’” So, consider this your confirmation: you are ready to start. Not tomorrow. Not when the timing is perfect. Not when everything makes sense. Today. The question is no longer, ‘Am I ready?’ The question is, ‘Am I willing?’ The moment you say yes, momentum meets you halfway. So take your first step — because the dream waiting inside you isn’t waiting for someday. It’s waiting for you — right now.” I want help you make your dreams come true as you reach your goals and desires. If you want to take your my offer, then reach out to me for a complementary Next Level Dream Chat. It only takes about 30 minutes to get through. That way we can start diving into what your dreams are and what's holding you back. Simply send an email to edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect. My book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/38059060

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP080: Overcoming Dream Blocking Habits 08/26/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP080: Overcoming Dream Blocking Habits The other day I heard something that stopped me in my tracks: "You may not rise to the level of your intentions, but you will certainly fall to the level of your habits." Here's the truth: success isn't built in giant leaps. It's built in tiny, often boring, daily choices ( yes, I said boring) also known as, your habits. Your habits are like an autopilot system for your life and your business. They just run. Here's the kicker- everything you doin a day comes down to your habits. You're either in the habit of doing something… Or the habit of not doing it. it's no different in your life. You're either in the habit of taking the right action that moves the needle forward every day to make your dreams come true, on the habit of talking yourself out of it with excuses and distractions ( yes, you can have a habit of making excuses too). Instead, think of your habits is your silent business partner. They are working 24/7 either for you or against you. So on today's episode I'll be exploring 15 dream blocking habits and how to overcome them. Quote of the week: "every day you're either building your dream or building your distraction. Habits decide which one wins" Unknown Here is the list of the dream blocking habits that can come up and in this episode I go over how to overcome them: Vague, fuzzy goals All or nothing perfectionism Procrasti-Planning Shiny object syndrome Hidden loyalty to an old identity Inconsistent routines Decision fatigue Digital distraction Not measuring anything No feedback loop Self talk sabotage People pleasing and overcommitment Cluttered environment Waiting for motivation Endless consumption, the creation And a bonus point at the end I go into great detail into each one of these and offer solutions for every one of them as well. I want help you make your dreams come true as you reach your goals and desires. If you want to take your my offer, then reach out to me for a complementary Next Level Dream Chat. It only takes about 30 minutes to get through. That way we can start diving into what your dreams are and what's holding you back. Simply send an email to edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect. My book: Get on my email list and get a free gift. Just go to: and get claim it! /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/37966550

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP079: Overcoming The Messy Middle 08/18/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP079: Overcoming The Messy Middle You would think starting something new is exciting... and it is. But nobody talked enough about the messy middle. The messy middle where your vision collides with reality. Or your simple product suddenly reveals a thousand hidden layers, each one demanding more from you than you plan to give. I know because I'm in it right now. I set out to create a website- something to reflect my work, my purpose, my voice. But somewhere along the way, I had to strip it all back to the foundation and rebuild it from scratch. It's been frustrating, time-consuming, and at times tempting to quit. But here's the truth: the obstacles aren't there to stop you. They are there to shape into the kind of person who you can carry your dream all the way. So today, I'm going to walk you through a real list of setbacks my face was starting something new and why they don't have to stop you. And let me tell you, it hasn't been easy but it sure is worth it. I want to take you into that process, sets back by setback, so you see exactly wha Here are the stages of the messy middle. I explained them in greater detail in the podcast episode: In between Waiting in uncertainty Growth and transformation Embrace the pause I go into detail these points in the podcast episode itself so give it a listen. from there I go into a long list of setbacks you will encounter. Here's a partial list, again listen to the full episode for the entire list. You don't want to miss this one: Underestimating the workload Unexpected technical hurdles Overwhelm from too many choices Losing momentum Budget overruns Creative blocks Negative feedback Perfection paralysis Skill gaps Time crunches ...and a whole lot more, many more. So, every point that's covered today will be part of your story. Some will challenge you. Others will champion you. But all of them- when understood- can and will shake you. Your dream isn't just possible. It's waiting on the version of you who is ready to get started. Until next time- keep tearing, keep developing, and most of all keep dreaming. This episode was sponsored by book Closing the 18-inch gap and is available in this link. I want to help you make your dreams come true and see you reach your goals and desires. if you want to take your my offer than reach out to me via email at edwin@edwinsoler.com to schedule our Next Level Dream Chat. I can't wait to help you get started with your dreams. My Book: Closing the 18-Inch Gap /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/37834860

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP078: When? 08/11/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP078: When? When did you stop believing in who you could become? When did you realize that you are the person buried beneath the roles, the fears, and the expectations? When will you realize that it is YOU who holds the keys to the dreams you’ve locked away while the world kept spinning? "When?" The answer is closer than you think. How close? It’s within 18 inches. The 18 inches that lie between your mind and your heart. I’m Edwin Soler, more than a life coach. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. Together, we’re not just asking When?—we’re uncovering the truth of who you are meant to be. We’ll peel back the layers, confront the lies, and revive the dreams you thought were lost forever or just keep pushing back again and again. Because the moment you dare to ask When?—you begin to remember, you start to believe again and you start taking the first step to make those dreams a reality. So lean in. Open your heart and mind and let’s discover… When? The last episode in the one word title series… at least for now. So, let’s dive in… Quote of the week: “When life is hard, remember it’s often in these moments that strength grows the deepest”- Unknown Points covered: When did you first feel your dream begin to fade — and why didn’t you fight for it? When will you finally decide that waiting has cost you enough? When did fear become more familiar than hope? When did you stop believing that your dream was worth the risk? When did someone else’s timeline become more important than your own? When will “someday” stop being an excuse? When will the pain of not trying outweigh the fear of failing? When did you start confusing being busy with being fulfilled? When did you become okay with survival instead of pursuit? When will you stop rehearsing and start becoming? When did your dream become a memory instead of a mission? When did your calendar stop including you? When will you stop convincing yourself that it’s too late? When did you start labeling your dream as selfish instead of sacred? When was the last time you said yes to what really mattered to you? Listen to the full episode for the other ten points brought to you today… "You’ve just asked yourself the hardest questions you’ve probably avoided for a long time. When did your dream begin? When did you start blaming others for letting it slip away? When did you start believing the lies that said you weren’t enough? You’ve faced the voices of doubt, the weight of fear, and the comfort of waiting for perfect conditions. But now, the waiting is over. The critics don’t get the last word, you do!The doubts don’t get to decide your future, you do! So, ask yourself, when? Not tomorrow, not someday — but right now: So stop asking when and start acting now! Because the truth is this: your dream has been calling you all along. And today… you finally have the chance to answer it". Action step: Did something resonate with you today? Let’s explore how we can work together. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply reply to this email and let me know how we can connect. Thanks for reading this. Until next week with another amazing podcast episode as I have a few more already lined up and I'm preparing them just for you! Inspiring you to live your dreams. This podcast is based on my book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/37687425

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP077: Who? 08/05/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP077: Who? Who have you become—and who have you left behind? Who is the person buried beneath the roles, the fears, and the expectations? Who holds the key to the dreams you’ve locked away while the world kept spinning? The answer is closer than you think. How close? It’s within 18 inches. The 18 inches that lie between your mind and your heart. I’m Edwin Soler, more than a life coach. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. Together, we’re not just asking Who?—we’re uncovering the truth of who you were meant to be. We’ll peel back the layers, confront the lies, and revive the dreams you thought were lost forever or keep pushing back again and again. Because the moment you dare to ask Who?—you begin to remember, you start to believe again and you start taking the first steps to make those dreams a reality. So lean in. Open your heart and mind and let’s discover… Who? Quote of the week: "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken," to which he also famously said: "Most people are other people.” - Oscar Wilde Points covered: 1. Who told you that you weren’t enough to live your dream — and why did you believe them? 2. Who were you before the world told you to play small? 3. Who benefits from you not chasing your dream? 4. Who did you stop becoming in order to make others comfortable? 5. Who do you pretend to be when the dreamer inside you is screaming to be seen? 6. Who are you trying to impress — and who are you actually becoming? 7. Who abandoned you in the moment you needed support to keep dreaming? 8. Who do you blame when it’s really your own permission you’re waiting on? 9. Who convinced you that practicality mattered more than purpose? 10. Who told you that dreams are childish — and when did you agree? 11. Who hurt you so deeply that you buried your gift just to feel safe? 12. Who are you allowing to decide what you’re capable of? 13. Who is waiting for you to rise so they can follow? 14. Who would you be today if you had chased that dream without hesitation? 15. Who do you see living your dream — and what does that trigger inside you? Plus 10 more all in this episode... listen for the full list. "You’ve just asked yourself the hardest questions you’ve probably avoided for years. Who did your dream begin with? Who do you blame for letting it slip away? Whose lies have you believed that said you weren’t enough? You’ve faced the voices of doubt, the weight of fear, and the comfort of waiting for perfect conditions. But now, the waiting is over. The critics don’t get the last word, you do! The doubts don’t get to decide your future, you do! So, ask yourself, not tomorrow, not someday — but right now: Who must I become to reclaim what was lost? Who can help me take the first step Because the truth is this: your dream has been calling you all along. And today… you finally have the chance to answer it" What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to and let me know how we can connect. This podcast is based on my book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/37685550

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP076: How? 07/29/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP076: How? This is the question that echoes in the quiet moments when your heart aches for something more.... How? It’s the whisper that asks why your dreams have stayed locked away, waiting, while life moved on. How did you get here—staring at the gap between who you are and who you know you could be? How wide is that gap? 18-inches wide. It’s those 18 inches that you need to travel to break free from the lies, the fears, and the beliefs that have kept your dreams buried. How do you take what feels impossible... and make it real? I’m Edwin Soler, your Dream Realization Partner. Together, we’re not just asking How?—we’re uncovering the answers. We’re digging deep, unlocking what’s been hidden, and breathing life back into the dreams you thought were gone forever. Because the moment you dare to ask How?—you’ve already started the journey. So lean in. Open your heart. And let’s discover… How. Quote of the week: "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all." - Oscar Wilde Some of the points covered: How did your dream begin — and how did it start slipping away? How do you keep showing up for everything else, but not for your dream? How many times have you silenced the voice that tells you to try again? How did fear convince you that you're not good enough? How did they — the critics, the doubters, the “realists” — gain more power than your own hope? How long will you keep waiting for perfect conditions before you just begin? How did someone else's opinion become more valuable than your own desire? More points covered in this episode.... listen to get all of them. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you. If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable. Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up. "You’ve just asked yourself the hardest questions you’ve probably avoided for years. Your dream is still alive — but it’s waiting for you to choose it. So, ask yourself, not tomorrow, not someday — but right now: How do I reclaim what was lost? How do I take the first step? How do I breathe life back into what you thought was gone? Because the truth is this: your dream has been calling you all along. And today… you finally have the chance to answer." What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to and let me know how we can connect. I can’t wait to be here with you next week but until then keep closing that 18- inch gap! My book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/37595265

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP075: Autopsy of a Dead Dream 07/22/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP075: Autopsy of a Dead Dream Have you ever wondered what a dead dream looks like? What causes it? This isn't just a conversation… it’s an examination. Somewhere, deep within you—or someone you love—there was a dream. A dream once alive, vibrant, breathing with purpose. But today… it’s gone. Was it killed by fear? Starved by delay? Drowned in someone else’s opinion? Or did it simply go unloved and unnoticed for too long? I’m your Dream Realization Partner, and in this episode, we perform the autopsy. Together we’ll examine the wounds and ask the hard questions. Not to linger in loss—but to learn… So that no other dream has to die the same silent death. If you've ever wondered what happened to the fire you once carried—this is your moment to uncover the truth. Let’s begin the autopsy." Quote of the week: When we give up on our dreams, we die while still alive. Robin Sharma Points covered: Autopsy Report: Case #D.R.E.A.M.-00018 Subject: Deceased Dream Pronounced Dead: date of abandonment forgotten Examiner: Edwin Soler Your Dream Realization Partner Cause of Death: Neglect, Fear, External Influence, Internal Conflict, and Systemic Starvation of Purpose 1. BRAIN — Ceased Dream Function Diagnosis: Terminal Stagnation, the dream died when the mind stopped believing it was possible. 2. HEART — Loss of Emotional Pulse Diagnosis: Excitement Arrest, the dream died when the heart no longer felt joy in the vision. 3. LUNGS — Respiratory Shutdown Diagnosis: Inspiration Asphyxiation, the dream died from lack of inspiration and exposure to uplifting environments. 4. SPINE — Collapse of Conviction Diagnosis: Backbone Breakdown, the dream died when it couldn’t stand up for itself. 5. HANDS — Function Lost Diagnosis: Creative Paralysis, the dream died because it was never built. 6. FEET — Directionless Wandering Diagnosis: Visionary Disorientation, the dream died because it stopped moving forward toward its original vision. 7. EYES — Blindness to Possibility Diagnosis: Dream Vision Obscurity, the dream died because it was never truly seen. 8. VOICE — Silence of Expression Diagnosis: Communicative Suppression, the dream died when it stopped being spoken into the world. 9. GUT — Intuition Starvation Diagnosis: Inner Knowing Rejection, the dream died when inner truth was silenced by outside noise. 10. SKIN — Identity Erosion Diagnosis: External Identity Corrosion, the dream died when it was no longer safe to be seen. FINAL CAUSE OF DEATH: Neglect due to Fear, Lack of Nurturing Environment, and Chronic Misalignment with Purpose. Manner of Death: Slow and Preventable Death occurred in stages, beginning with the silencing of inspiration, followed by the loss of vision, motivation, and finally, belief. "If we had opened this dream up sooner, given it breath, voice, heart, and movement — it might still be alive today." "But here’s the truth: the beauty of dreams is they can resurrect. If you’re hearing this and recognize these symptoms — your dream may not be dead… it may just be in a coma, waiting for you to revive it." I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you. If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable. Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up. What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to and let me know how we can connect. My Book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/37500885

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP074: What? 07/15/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP074: What? There’s a question that comes before all the others. A question that opens the door… or locks it shut. It’s not “Why me?” It’s not “How do I do it?” It’s not even “When will it happen?” It’s “What?” What is stopping you? What dream are you denying? What lie have you accepted as truth? What would happen if you finally said yes to the life that’s been waiting on you? In this episode, we go deeper than surface questions. We go into the raw, uncharted terrain of your locked away dreams— The “What” that most people are too afraid to ask, and too exhausted to answer. But not you. You’re here for more. You’re here to realize what others only fantasize about. I’m Edwin Soler, your Dream Realization Partner— And today, I’m going to ask you 25 life-altering questions that begin with just one word: “What?” And if you’re ready to answer honestly, Everything might change. And if you’ve ever felt like your dream is locked in a box… hidden behind excuses… or just buried under life… then this episode is for you. I want to let you know right away that I also offer a complimentary consultation called The Next Level Dream Chat to answer all of your coaching questions and see if we’re a good fit to work with each other. Quote of the week: "Ask for what you want and be prepared to get it!" - Maya Angelou Points covered: 1. What have you silenced within yourself that once screamed with possibility? 2. What dream is asking you for attention in quiet moments, but you keep pushing it away? 3. What version of yourself are you afraid the world might reject if you fully pursued your dream? 4. What lie have you disguised as logic, and let it block your dream? 5. What would your life feel like if you finally stopped negotiating with fear? 6. What identity have you accepted that was handed to you but never belonged to you? 7. What is the cost of your current comfort zone—and is it too high to keep paying? 8. What part of your dream feels dangerous, and why does that make it more necessary? 9. What calling keeps returning to you, no matter how often you bury it? 10. What story are you rehearsing that makes you believe you're unqualified? 11. What would happen if you gave yourself permission to go all in—today? 12. What evidence have you ignored that already proves you're ready? 13. What does your silence say about the dream you’ve been avoiding? 14. What moment in your past hinted at your greatness—and why did you dismiss it? 15. What if the pain you're experiencing is simply the cost of not choosing your dream? 16. What does your envy reveal about the dream you’ve neglected? 17. What fear are you pretending is wisdom? 18. What parts of your life need to be disrupted to give your dream a chance to live? 19. What if the very thing you’re ashamed of is the key to your impact? 20. What dream did you inherit—and is it still yours to carry? 21. What emotion do you feel when you imagine the dream fully alive—and how long will you ignore that fire? 22. What truth are you not telling yourself because it would require action? 23. What would your 10-year-from-now self-beg you to start doing today? 24. What if not chasing your dream is actually selfish? 25. What would you do differently if you believed the dream came to you for a reason? This episode wasn’t just about reflection. It was about clarification. The question is no longer What? It’s What next? I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you. If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable. Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up. What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to and let me know how we can connect. My book: /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/37409875

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP073: Why? Part II 07/08/2025

Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP073: Why? Part II Last week I was so into the episode that I lost track of time. So today I’m bringing you the last 14 points. I mistakenly thought I had brought 12 points but actually only brought 11. The word I am exploring is such a simple but powerful one: Why? Like I said last week. It’s such a simple word. One syllable. Three letters. But inside that word now that we’re all grown up… lives a storm. Today, I’m not here to give you steps, or tips, or strategies. I’m here to ask you questions. Because that’s what good coaches do. They ask real questions. The kind that doesn’t just live in your head—they echo in your soul. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And if you’ve ever felt like your dream is locked in a box… hidden behind excuses… or just buried under life… then this episode is for you. Today, we release locked-up dreams—not with motivation, but with truth. Let’s begin with one question... asked another 14 different ways. Each one designed to shake loose the lies. Each one with a small move you can make today. Quote of the week: “If we want to feel an undying passion for our work, if we want to feel we are contributing to something bigger than ourselves, we all need to know our WHY.” ― Simon Sinek Points covered: 12. Why do you keep waiting for the perfect moment? 13. Why haven’t you told anyone what you really want? 14. Why do you sabotage your progress? 15. Why do you call it “just a hobby”? 16. Why do you fear your own potential? 17. Why do you believe your story is boring? 18. Why are you afraid to be seen? 19. Why are you still calling it impossible? 20. Why do you play small in big rooms? 21. Why haven’t you defined success your way yet? 22. Why do you dismiss compliments? 23. Why do you keep asking for signs when you’ve already been called? 24. Why do you think your dream has an expiration date? 25. Why do you believe transformation is for other people? 14 more questions. A hundred lies we tell ourselves. But only one truth matters: You were born to realize your dream. And sometimes the only way to get there… is to start by asking, Why am I still holding it back? This episode wasn’t just about reflection. It was about release. The question is no longer Why? It’s Why not now? I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you. If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable. Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up. What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. If you want to take me up on my offer then, reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. You would be amazed at how much we can uncover together in a short time to get you started. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to and let me know how we can connect. If this was your first time, I’m glad you’re listening, and I hope you can come back for more podcast episodes. "Please give us a rating and review for us to read it in the podcast, I love sharing our listeners voices and comments on our podcast”. In the meantime, feel free to listen to all the previous ones I have. You can find them in your favorite podcast directory. And don’t forget, go to my email sign up page at edwinsoler.com to sign up for my weekly emails to get all the latest about how I can help you achieve your dreams. I can’t wait to be here with you next week but until then keep closing that 18- inch gap! /episode/index/show/b6870d7f-0f1e-478b-9051-a9bd9b578cba/id/37335915

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